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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My fear of rejection makes me too shy. I can never make a move!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey all. I have a situation, and being the hopeless romantic I am I need advice. Ive recently met a guy I really like. It takes alot in a man to make me like him so quick and so much but I really do. Trouble is, when I have feelings for a man I tend to go shy and am so scared... (152 words)

I can't afford to send my daughter to collee, how can I get help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help to figure out university situation in Canada. How can you get around this law, that your child is not an adult, and you are obligated paying for their university? We wanted if he could get student loan, but refused, because of our income, what is actually not ... (231 words)

The head of my penis is very sensitive to touch

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - right the head of my penis is very sensitive to touch. in fact it is quite uncomfortable. i am just wondering is this normal and will i grow out of it?......... (31 words)

I went away on busines for 2 month and came back to find out my Girlfrend was engaged to another man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am really going through a disturbing situation now days. Six months back I went out of country for 2 months business training. When I came back found my girlfriend behavior a little mischievous it was like she is hiding something from me. After one month I got her email ... (173 words)

I thought we were so happy, but niwshe's treating me so badly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year things had been amazing, obviously we had our ups and downs. The past 3 weeks had been great.... Well I thought so. I took her out for a meal and a movie we had a really enjoyable night. The following day she dumped... (176 words)

How do I cope with my feelings about my teacher during the summer?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey everyone.....so got a problem with a teacher, he's not mean to me or anyhting like that but since I've had him as I teacher we've got closer and I've developed feelings for him. It all started the first day I had him for class. We didn't really talk at the start.At the... (265 words)

Why do I miss him more in the mornings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - My boyfriend and I recently called it quits. These last couple days have been a struggle, but I'm slowly getting by. I want to know why I only miss him in the mornings, I mean I will wake up and I will long for him and I will want to call him and tell him I love him but during ... (77 words)

Talking to my ex is making it hard, should I stop talking to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Heyyy all :) My boyfriend and I split up just over 2 weeks ago now and at the time i was on holiday, it was a long distance relationship and we finished over the distance. At the time i was a bit sad but i just continued with my holiday. However now that i am home, i feel tha... (323 words)

For the Ladies: What do you mean when you say, "Hey, you're cute!"

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Ladies and Girls, Would you please enlighten me, and many other men no doubt, as to what you ACTUALLY mean when you say to a guy the following:- "Hey you're cute". Thanks. ... (45 words)

I don't want to be a trophy or a toy to him. How do I know if he feels the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm kind of stuck in such a classic situation: really like a guy but I don't know if he's feeling the same! It all started when I met Stefan last winter at a job fair organised by the uni he goes to. We flirted a bit but that was it as I was still with another boyfrien... (352 words)

What does it mean when a man keeps going back to his manipulative ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, What does it mean when a man keeps getting back together with his ex even though they have a very strained relationship. She is very manipulative and makes him feel guilty for leaving her and bad because she says she has no one else ... (51 words)

Is she open to the possibility of us being together? I would risk the friendship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Basically the story is that I'm a guy, and I've fallen in love with one of my best friend who is a girl. It's been a long time in the making, and recently it's become overwhelming. It's not just a crush, it's not just attraction, it's the real thing. I have very strong feelings ... (475 words)

Is she a prostitute?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hello.Im writing about one girl that i know.She is very beautyfull-tall with straight black hair and green eyes and she is strange i think that she is shy a little.One night she said to me that two friends of hers will come to take her home with a mini van.She invited me to ... (139 words)

How can I stop believing he is my one true love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I've known a guy since we were 11 - we were classmates - and we are now almost 20. I gave him my first kiss. He liked me in 7th grade but it was a kids' thing and we dated for 3 days, however, I know I hurt him. I always felt attracted but I was after other guys. All these... (345 words)

How do I help him and stay friends without hurting my current relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - ok so where to begin, i have been dating my boyfriend for a little over three years now. We began dating when i was in high school, but at that time i was not really allowed to date so i would only see once a week. It was like that for about a year. When i began my freshman ... (575 words)

Does my husband have the Madonna/Whore complex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband of over a decade avoids looking at me when I am undressed and when we have sex. Lately I have let him continue his conversations with me while I change clothes right in front of him just to see how he reacts. I wait in the nude for a while before I put on clothes. ... (226 words)

Would this be considered mentally cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been with an ex co-worker of mine for three months now. I do care about him but I'm pretty sure I don't love him... Anyhow, about two months ago, my ex from when I was 15 to 19 somehow got a hold of my new email address and, well, he emailed me. Prior to this, I hadn't s... (467 words)

Could I be in love with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - So i've known this guy (let's call him Sam) for about 3 years now and he's my best friend, i'm closer to him than anyone else. We're like brother and sister. Unfortunately, he's going out with someone who i'm good friends with (let's call her Sarah). Very recently, however, we ... (377 words)

Should I move on or beg him not to leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for a almost two months and jumped into things fast. We're in love with each other but live three thousand miles apart. I need help, because he keeps breaking up with me for little reasons, but I love him. This time he says it's final, but ... (81 words)

Do I miss my ex or just the routine and familiarity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I was with someone for 9months when he started pressuaring me for sex, I panicked and didn't know what to do. I had been friends with this other boy for years and we got on really well, at about the same time I found out he liked me, he made me laugh so I used this as an excus... (163 words)

How do I know if my boyfriend will want to settle down? We have a son...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my partner for 5 years who is samoan I have put up with alot and actully thought he would want to get married. We hyave a one year old son who we both love to bits that he never wants me to leave if i feel things arent working. But i have been thinking lattley ... (110 words)

Should I have an affair just to get sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some help. My husband and I have been together for 7 years (married for 2). My husband doesn't want to have sex. I always try but he is never interested. I rarely have the courage to talk to him but when I do he either says he doesn't want to talk about it because ... (143 words)

She tricked me into thinking she's a freak so I'd go out with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - My girlfriend refuses to be intimate with me. Like when we met she was being all freaky with me and stuff sending me nasty text messages about how she was gonna suck me up and stuff. But as soon as we got together for a serious relationship it was game over. Half the stuff she ... (197 words)

Will he take me back? Would you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. The thing is that i sent an email to my ex saying that im sorry for what happened in the past and i hope he doesnt see me as a bad person ever (our relationship lasted almost 4 years and i broke his heart cheating on him twic... (243 words)

Is it really ED or does he just find me repulsive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my partner suffers from errectyle dysfuction and for the last 12 months he has not only totally gone of any sexual contact he has also stopped holding or cuddling me and kissing me if i try to get a cuddle or a kiss he pushes me away,he refuses to discuss this with me and when ... (182 words)

What do you do when your man prefers porn over you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in my 40's and still get compliments from 20yr. old guys!..but my man prefers porn over me? ive tried everything i'm willing to do for him..but he still does this..we have a child together.. and i want to be a family..but it hurts to know..that he's not attracted to ... (55 words)

My husband is hiding text messages to other women!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married for 6 months now. I haven't caught him cheating persay but I have caught him texting several females. The first one said she wanted a relationship from him not something on the side. that stopped. Then I found text about a month later ... (230 words)

Should I have a baby or just wait a few years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - : )i really want a babyi mean really want one i concider my self quite mature and think i would be able to handle it i have 3 neices and a nephew all under the age of 5 and i have a great time looking after them even when the are stressing me out.the only problem is that i am ... (102 words)

Anyone out there on anti-depressants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - So my therapists thinks I should be on anti depressants pills because of my x boyfriend? Is there anyone out there that is on them and can tell me about me? I usually do not result to medication but at this time and period of my life Id be willing to do anything to get him out ... (60 words)

My husband can't stand my two children! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband can not stand my 2 children, his step children. He wants nothing to do with them, cause he can not stand their dad. My kids are 11 and 8, they are just kids. My husband and I have one child together and he is a great dad to her, but he ignores my other 2 kids. ... (84 words)

Help! I'm falling for Older People!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i was wondering if anybody could help me? i seem to fall for people alot older than me, no im not talking 3 years or 5, im saying 10,15,20. im 17 myself and i consider myself to be mature for my age, i like adult conversation over my peers i have always felt more comfortable ... (202 words)

I just want to sleep all day and none of my friends like me....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I feel crap all the time. My friends don't like me, I'm lonely, bored and pretty miserable. I don't do anything all day, except text this girl I met on a Pro-Ana website and isit Pro-Ana sites. And I feel like a fraud becuase I'm not even thin. Noone understands me, ... (96 words)

We have amazing chemistry so why does he disappear on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and this guy have been talking for a little over a month now. We meet through mutual friends and hit it off right away. At first he initiated everything such as texting me asking me to come over and being pretty talkative. Then about two weeks ago he just got quiet. So after ... (272 words)

He hasn't yet asked to meet me in person? We met online.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have met a guy from online. I have been talking to him for about a month and two weeks. He would always ask specific questions about the subjects we talk about. We are open minded with each other. Although, one thing that i dont get is why did he call me back like an hour ... (157 words)

Update: Thanks for all the advice and she said "yes" to my proposal!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I just wanted to update what I wrote in here last week. I don't know how many of you will recognize this, but I'm the guy who wanted to propose to his girlfriend "Harry Potter-style". I took her to the HP Expo in Chicago Tuesday night and right after we sat down at our seat... (136 words)

4 Drinks, 2 Cougars, 1 Pole, and a Baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend is significantly older than myself. We go to bars together and women significantly older than both of our ages added together usually gravitate to us and begin random conversations. In these conversations, they tend to be overly flirtatious with him, which in no ... (112 words)

My boyfriend is an ass, a jerk, inconsiderate and makes me cry

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay, same guy if you've read my questions before. Last night me and my boyfriend were doing things sexually, and i couldnt get him off...this has happend a couple times before and hes drunk...its been an hour or more and he still wants me to keep going and i cant, and so i ... (200 words)

Is my husband still talking to other women on the internet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - is my husband still talking to other women on the internet? heres the deal atleast once a year lately i find that my husband has been having internet cheating opens up new email account to through me off. when he does this he lies to me says its somebody elses he te... (136 words)

I think I am a giant breasted ogre

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - my friends always told i was pretty and i believed them. A few other people also told me i was pretty, most people say i'm okay.On the pretty scale i was rated a 3 but i didn't care. But then people were laughing at my face and my friends have admitted i'm quite ugly. i mean ... (70 words)

Can someone tell me what's going on in his head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

- Firstly I'd like to thank everyone who's helped me in the past, your help is much appreciated. I've been seeing a guy not exclusively for a while now (almost 4 months), but for the past month he's been contacting me less and less, although he's told me he's got feelings for... (184 words)

I can't let him go, even though it felt like he was using me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My x boyfriend from 8 months went to south carolina, he lived with me for 5 months then decided to go back to south carolina. his ex girl friend came so he could see his daughter. she wasnt plaining on geting back together with him. she told me that he had slept with her the ... (551 words)

How can I make contact with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I know my boyfriend's going to break up with me, and depressed as I am about it, I can't help thinking about his friend. I was thinking about getting with him if my boyfriend did break up with me, but I don't know how. I have only met him once, but I want to get to know him ... (127 words)

I am afraid for him. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have recently reconnected with an ex-boyfriend who has been in an on and off again relationship. He says he loves me but he continues to try to make the other relationship work because she has a child that he feels he needs to be there for. He has now resorted... (92 words)

I know he is selfish...how can I get that to change without ruining his self-esteem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have had an unsatisfying sex life when it comes to having the act with a male. I have pleasured myself successfully most times and have no problems having an orgasm then within 15 minutes or less. When I am with someone of the opposite sex I find I am very worried about ... (270 words)

How do I build my trust in him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I was best friends with this guy a little over four years. We have so much in common, we have a good time together, he makes me happy and treats me great. We have most recently been hanging out much more and our friendship has become a little more than a friendship. He always ... (207 words)

Should I get out now or wait until the whole family is imprisoned?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - For the last 6 months I have been in love with a wonderful man who I had every intention of marrying. Recently his past relationships have come to the fore a lot esp regarding his young son who is always getting into trouble. This child has recently started making up stories to ... (366 words)

How can I break this cycle of breaking up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

- Well, i was with my ex for a year and a half and we broke up a year ago.. but since him everytime im in a relationship i break up with them after a month or two and i dont know why! i love bein in a relationship and they'v always treated me good.. i just dont know why i cant ... (142 words)

I don't know if I can walk away. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I know my boyfriend loves me, he does tell me this and we would could potentially have a good life together in the future. We complement each other quite well. He's helped me with a lot of things in my life and helped me try to accept who I am. The thing is I always feel as ... (204 words)

What it is that he wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I met up with this guy twice. We ended up having sex both times. Due to distance and busy lives we haven't seen each other in a while. He didn't say it, but it was obvious that he just wanted sex, nothing more. Which is completely fine with me, too! But today he wanted ... (145 words)

How can I stop him being bored with the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hellooo I have been with my new boyfriend for nearly 2 weeks noww and i was with him before but it only lasted for like a week. people keep telling me he doesnt last in relationships and that he doesnt treat girls right. sometimes he does my head in a bit and cant all boys? ho... (75 words)

How will I avoid losing her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am desperate for some help and feel like I am stuck in a rut and I cant get myself out. Here goes.... I have been seeing my girlfriend for around a a year and 2 months the first couple of months were fantastic and we had so much fun together she is rally the girl of my d... (330 words)

Could someone please give me some words of support here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a mid 40s woman who has been involved with a married (now separated) woman for over a year. We have lived together all the time we've known each other. Her estranged husband knows about our relationship. She and I had been talking for some time of eventually getting ... (280 words)

How do I stop thinking of all the sweet things he did?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - good day, i've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. and i love him alot, but we just cant be togather, he is 45 and i 25 and he has a 8 years old child, i do really love him but sometimes actually most of the time we fight coz he has to spend his time with his child an... (233 words)

She blew me off twice do I call her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - dear cupid, im in need of advice or some help here. i was talking to this girl whom iv begun to develop feelings for. here is a little background. she was 3 months out of a bad relationship with someone shed been seeing for about 3 years. and i was 2 months out of a 4 year ... (331 words)

Wife talking to ex about possible affair..lies about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently wrote that I caught my wife instant messaging her ex-boyfriend. She left her messenger on and at some point he im'd her while she was not there. I was the next to get at the computer so she missed it. I clicked "show recent messages" and their previous conversation ... (461 words)

Am I reading more into the situation than he is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and this guy, lets call him 'Richard' have sort of been flirting and stuff for a while. I've known him for about 5 years, but he's not that much of a good friend, just someone I know. At my friends party we were alone for about half an hour and talked about laods of st... (286 words)

Morning after first time sex and I'm sick! what could it be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - okay so you dont need details so i wont make this too long!.. but yesterday my parents went away and because im an only child, i didnt want to be alone for the first night, so my boyfriend (of almost a year) stayed over. we got a film, pizza etc.. and at like 10 o clock we ... (301 words)

She says she wants to be with me yet wants to lose her virginity to a guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months. I too am a girl n for her this is her first lesbian relationship yet it is my third. However it is my first sexual lesbian relationship. Were both 17 and I have fell in really deeply and it seems she has too. Yet were both really j... (462 words)

How do I make the break final instead of running away from our problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm looking for help regarding my marriage and would be grateful for advice from people who may have gone through a similar situation. My husband and I have been together 12 years, but only married for 3.5 years. Less than a week before we married he had a fling with my ... (295 words)

Should I tell my friend how I feel about her or just keep hoping that the feelings will go away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey all, I'm an 18 year old male, and I'm having feelings for my female friend. We've been friends for over a year now, and I've been having these feelings for about half a year. She's the only girl I've been thinking about these past months. She probably doesn't know how... (239 words)

He's been seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am in a relationship with a well known Scottish Football player. When I started the relationship I knew that he had a girlfriend but he said that he was going to split up with her which he did. I found it in October that he was seeing her again. Then a few weeks ago I found ... (75 words)

Why do women place such importance on the emotional side of sex?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay, I have a question for both men and women. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. When it comes to sex, she claims to love it with me and tells me that I make her feel better than anyone has before - physically but then she starts to nag about the ... (332 words)

I don't love my husband but I'm worried about my children

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi need some advice. I've been with my husband since I was 17 years old and we have been married 8 years and have 2 lovely sons. I am now 31 but for the last year i have been unhappy and feel like me and my partner have drifted apart and my feelings for him are not the same ... (341 words)

The first time....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, i'm a virgin and i was just wondering how much blood there is when you have sex for the first time and does it come out during or after the event. ... (32 words)

Was I right to end things with my boyfriend? And what should I do about my 'new' boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I was going out with this guy ('dale') for over a year, but like every relationship we had out ups and downs, but the best thing was is that, not only was he my boyfriend he was my bestfriend too, we got along perfectly, i felt so comfortable around him, but sometimes i did ... (1639 words)

Help me plz, my husband is possessive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi,am a lady aged 22,and i got married last year to a guy who is so possesive. It was a hurried wedding because he had to travel to south africa for further studies so he didnt want to leave me and his two year old son bak hom in kenya without formalising things. I was happy ... (202 words)

Confused about this situation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I became friends with a woman through work, so initially we saw each other only in the workplace. After a couple of months, I noticed that she would come up to me on the way out of work and ask if I was working the next day - we worked rotating shifts, and not necessarily the ... (499 words)

I think I rushed into a relationship to quickly, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Perhaps I've rushed into a relationship too soon since my last one. My new boyfriend has become very clingy, and long-term oriented, but in essence, we've been together a week, and it's scaring me. We got to talking today and I realized that I may have agreed to date too soon... (143 words)

What do men do when they realise their game doesn't work with you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - What do men do when they realize their game doesn't work with you? In other words, you can pretty much see right through their bull. Do they try harder, freak out, or become tame? ... (34 words)

I always fall for older men, is that wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I Fall For Grown Men! Is There Something Wrong With Me? I'm 16 and I ALWAYS (repeat: ALWAYS) go for older guys (Men), they're usually in their mid-late 20's. Why am I like this? When I was fourteen I was crazy about my teacher who was 27 years old...he's going on 30 now and I ... (149 words)

How to tell if he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - There is a boy at the school he keeps looking at me and looking away when I look back does he like me? But when I walk past him he doesn't look at me she only looks at me from a distance. Does he like me? and another thing is that he is okay when he is with other girls he t... (74 words)

My parents dislike my partner due to his age

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm 24, and gay, and my family don't have a problem with it. However, they do have a problem with my partner purely because he's 13 years older than me. He hasn't done anything questionable and doesn't live an odd lifestyle nor do drugs/crime etc., he has a good ... (195 words)

Strange symptoms....could I be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - ok my qustion is about pregnancy and i wanted to know something i have'nt had a period in two months i been throwing up cant keep no kind of food down and i just been sleeping and urinating alot please help me im too young to be a mother right know.... (51 words)

Mixed signals from my guy friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - this guy is sending mixed signals. he says we are friends but he said that i am hot and for a while he was begging me for normal pics of myself to look at, he says he has a big secret he wants to tell me that i would like but he won't tell me yet, when i did see him he wouldn't ... (90 words)

The first date was great but he hasn't called to me ask me out for a second, what's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I work at a rehersal studio and this guy comes un once a week... For a few months he would come and buy a soda and flirt with me... One night he started asking me questions about myself and I ended up giving him my business card... He had it for 3 weeks and out of the blue ... (268 words)

Pregnancy scares!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 16 and i have had sex twice, i have used protection both times but im scared i could be pregnant. My period is only 2 days late, i have had cramp and sore breasts but i dont know if thats just my periods. My mum said to me you look like you have gained weight i was scared ... (143 words)

My boyfriend watches a lot of porn and it makes me feel insecure about my own body!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i just turned 17 and im a cup A :( i have a boyfriend. he is my first ever boyfriend and i am also his first. last month i told him my bra size. he told me it's fine and he doesnt mind small breasts as long as there's something to touch. lately, he watches porn a lot.... (202 words)

Should I have a relationship with the boy I have been raising even though he is another man's son?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been married for ten years. We have two sons. My wife recently told me she was having an affair with a coworker for five of those years. According to her, that man is the father of our youngest. Supposedly she broke it off six months ago and asked me to forgive her. ... (202 words)

I feel guilty about my past and I'm afraid I wont find anyone in the future who will accept me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I am a 16 year gal...I'm really finding it difficult to forget my past..here goes the story { In brief} I was in this relationship for about 13 months..After a long emotional drama..Fights..misunderstandings..Problems of insecurity.. We've called it an end..Its been a ... (209 words)

I compare all the guys I date to a man who I cant even be with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I seem to be comparing the guys I date to one guy who is very special to me, but for various reasons I can't be with. He's a great guy and we stay in close email contact and sometimes meet up. To me he is perfect (apart from being over 1000 km away and not quite ready for a ... (127 words)

I am 15 with a diaper fetsh, and a mom that wants me to get rid of it! Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - ok im 15 and i have a diaper fetish. i told my mom, and she keeps trying to break me out of this like its some sorta phase. i dont wanna try to get rid of it, but i dont know how to tell her. whats your oppinion on it? should i try to break my fetish, or should i keep it? and ... (75 words)

Should I get in touch with my ex even though I said I never wanted to hear from him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Should i write to my ex fling even after I told him I dont want to hear from him again? I used to date a guy for a couple months 5 months ago, we were perfect together and i was very happy but we were never official so i cut off all contact with him because he was scared of... (227 words)

Why did he put in so much effort for the first 3 months, only to now act like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - alright guys i am confused. so this is going to be long. please give me some opinions though. so i have been sorta kinda been with this guy for 5 months so i met this guy who works at the airport in my hometown, when i had a really long layover. we flirt i bought something... (1196 words)

Plus size woman finding it hard to feel comfortable with my new man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone! I am a plus size women and i am finding it very hard to find a man that loves me the way i am and wants me for more than sex. Anyhow i have met a guy and he likes me alot and now im very insecure of my body in front of him. Please help i am very pretty i... (98 words)

I want to do something creative to suprise my ex so he will accept me as a friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have broke up about 3 months ago, because my ex was cheating on me, i had known that he was doing that and i forgave him and we decided to be good friends. just 2days before the break up, till i had a call a girl that he was cheating with and drive me crazy beside we were ... (338 words)

We are only dating and never have serious moments together, but I know I should tell him about my mother passing away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. He's attractive, very funny, and he has made me happy. I love being around him and the other night when he was very drunk he asked me why I liked him and that he wanted to start treating me like a girlfriend. (I told him he was ... (208 words)

Worried about my new life in Oz....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi - I am due to move out to Oz to be with my boyfriend (he's 33 I'm 37) soon but he is cricket obsessed. I know he has always been really into playing it and there is no way I would get in the way of that in essence (he played since an early age in the UK) but we are supposed ... (446 words)

Did he take advantage of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Almost a month ago I had a one night fling with this guy we will call him "M", well we talked over the phone about our "fling" we both agreed that things would go back to the way they were between us. Well, last Saturday he just calls me out of the blue needing my help, he ... (346 words)

Why is my ex always making me jealous and when I tell him to stop he gets mad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok, me and my bf dated about 3 weeks. I did somethings with him im not proud of. No sex though. but a lot of other stuff. Well anyways he broke up with me, he said he didnt see things working out with us. and stuff. i was like ok. it hurt but i moved on and i got a bf no... (153 words)

Questions about masturbating....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Don't judge me cuz I'm young I haven't done anything yet and I was wonder bout fingering Ive been feeling werid in the croch area and want to maybe start fingering is it normal which finger do I use I'm young and have no idea wat I'd be doing or is there anything else I can do ... (69 words)

Why do men go around staring at other women when their girlfriends/wives are with them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Why do guys have to be so ignorant! im sure there are guys out there who wont stare at other women but most do and it makes their wives/gfs really degraded! then they sit and complain when we tell them that it hurts us! thats a bunch of BS. women dont deserve that and if ur a... (119 words)

Taking it slow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My GF of 3.5 years recently broke up with me. She was hurt that she didn't feel I loved her anymore and that I no longer made her feel special. I felt the same way, I feared she no longer loved me which caused me to pull back and stop making her feel special/loved. We've ... (323 words)

He didnt want to kiss me when we played spin the bottle, but he was happy to kiss the other girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and 2 friends of mine hung out in an abandoned old house today. We got bored so we played spin-the-bottle.When it came time for me and Matt(not his real name) to go in the other room he didn't seem to wanna make out with me and when I kissed him he didn't even move his ... (106 words)

Any tips to make me more comfortable during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I know a lot about sex and im been sexually active just havent had intercourse i came close a few times.But im just worried about my body being exposed and my friends think im the bravest and the wildest but its like when it come to focusing on just my body i get kinda ... (63 words)

Why is he letting our friends control his decisions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - About the 22nd of June, my boyfriend left with his family to go to Flordia to visit some other family. I was a little worried because I know that two of his exs live there and the one I despise lives closest to where he was staying. When he got back, he said he didn't see ... (232 words)

New at getting blowjobs....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Hey.. Me and my gf are both new to sex and stuff. She wanted to gve me a bj. She did. It felt amazing but I think it could be better. But I don't know what to tell her to do. She swallowed on our first time tho! Which shocked me. But I'm not going to cum all over her. I'm not a ... (102 words)

I really want to make things work but he wont make any effort!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - ive been in a relationship for over 4yrs. with my boyfriend and we have one kid together. we dont live together and i feel like he has no responsibilities to me or my daughter. i go to school and work yet he can't even go back for his GED or find a job. he has no goals, all he ... (115 words)

Tricks for flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Now im a confident person around guys and talking to guys is easy. But i feel like i need some new tricks to when a new guy over.Also trying to get over my ex and i think getting some tricks on flirting can relly help me get over him =] so does anyody have any tricks??... (58 words)

I'm so lost ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - my BEST friend, we'll call him tyler. we've had off and on feelings for each other since fifth grade. well last year he got a new girlfriend, while my feelings were off. and she really changed him. she ended up not allowing us to talk..and so the only time we do is when they're ... (166 words)

Why do I no longer love my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do I no longer love my wife? My wife and I have been married for 5 years, we have no children. She is 31 and I am 32. I feel no longer love my wife. She is a wonderful person, the kind that does everything to make you feel better. People have always told me that she ... (194 words)

Should I wait, or should I forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - this guy i started seeing like a weeek before summer has gotten a job and he plays baseball we were perfect for the first few weeks of summer but hes stopped calling/texting me if i wanna talk to him i have to call and text but hes usually working, sleeping, or at practic... (155 words)

Am I being selfish, or is he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - This winter my boyfriend decided to take a 2 month trip to europe. We had only been dating 5months, so obviously our relationship wasn't going to "stop" him from travelling, but we were both in love, and the distance apart for so long was hard on both of us, especially me. ... (233 words)

Should I keep my promise to see my ex again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

- When we broke up, I promised my ex that we would meet up a year later for coffee or something. It was a long way away (I figured time would be the best thing) and she really make me promise. Well a year is coming up and I was planning on keeping the promise I made but I'm h... (151 words)

Should I go or stay here and seek another degree?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I'll tell you a little about my situation as it comes into my mind. I'm 34 years of age. I have a master's degree in "I/O psychology" but it has not done anything for me. I've been years without employment and having to tolerate my dysfunctional family for too much time. I'm ... (996 words)

I don't want to be with a man who is always trying to catch another womans eye!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I would like to knoow what to do about my husband flirting with other women. Getting upset and arguing doesn't help. Trying to tell him that it hurts me doesn't help. I am about to give up on the marriage. I don't want to be with a man who is always trying to catch another ... (63 words)

Wife feels ignored, cause of my business

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My wife has been really piss at me for not paying enough attention to her due to my job, I've insanely with business trips, meetings etc so I haven't been blowing off her a lot lately. I missed her birthday and our anniversary (they're quite close together) plus I forget get ... (102 words)

I am no longer attracted to my husband because he's not asian

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Within the past few months I have developed a preference towards Asian men only. It started when I began listening to Korean boy bands and watching Korean dramas. I have always been interested in asian cultures and I have always been attracted to asian men but now I am ONLY ... (174 words)

Afraid to let my Dad see me smoke ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 18 years old, and I am a smoker. I understand its bad, and i know all the bad stuff that comes with it. (so, please save yourself the lecture.) anyway, I'm going off and visiting my dad and his side of the family. Which i haven't seen in about 4 years. (my parents got ... (212 words)

Gay guy wondering about a date with a girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Well I am a 23 year gay guy. I have never been with a women. I still suffer with self acceptence, im working on it. But I have wanted to try it with a girl, but never really pursue it. This afternoon my boss was talking with me (no one knows im gay at my work) and he told me ... (194 words)

Getting married and don't know a THING about planning it! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - im getting married in a year and i dont know anything about weddings. so i was wondering if anyone knows of any good websites to help me out or any good advise to share. and please dont try to tell me that planning the wedding is the womens job. it drives me crazy.... (53 words)

I have been faking an orgasm for 2 years -- now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been faking an orgasm for 2 years now! My boyfriend is VERY unexperienced. I was his first everything. For the first 3 months of having sex with my boyfriend, it only lasted 2 minutes (on a good day!), so...it was expected that i didn't get much out of it. But now he can ... (317 words)

Confused about whether to find a new girl.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - At the end of last year I ended an 18 month relationship because it wasn't working out, and I was having family problems at the same time which didn't help. The relationship had been great for the majority of the 18 months but had been degenerating slowly, to the point where I ... (348 words)

I said I didn't want kids; she said no problem; now she says she's pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i'm a 52 y/o and i met this young lady who is 31. we hit it off from the start. i told her that i've been married for quite some time and divorced ten yrs, have three grown childrens and whatnot and that i'm not interested in having anymore. she told me that her doctor said ... (215 words)

Is he just using me and I should end this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I met this guy a month in a half ago, and we have been hanging out since then. At first it was a really nice date, we did things together and then at the end we made out. We have been going to this park and hooking up, and he told me he liked me. So i started coming over to his ... (346 words)

If you guys don't know each other, how can you tell if he's interested or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hmm I was just wondering cause of this particular incident. i'm at university and there's this guy in my faculty that i used to see around once in a very long while. Anyway we are both in the same camps this time around and well, I noticed him noticing me at a previous camp. It ... (230 words)

Ideas for bedroom fun that doesn't involve intercourse?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Recently when my man and I are messing around, he asks "what do you want me to do to you?"... I've come up with a couple replies but I need more!!! * Sidenote were trying to postpone intercourse until later on in the relationship so thats kinda off limits... (53 words)

Falling for my son's coach, even though he's married ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a fling with my sons baseball coach, here recently and he was married, im a widow, he came onto me and i cant stop thinken about him, we had alot of fun together, and we had sex 4 times, and we really connected together also, but i know i did wrong, in this because i dont ... (108 words)

I told him to wait, then I freaked out ....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I told my boyfriend that I was going gave him virginity on his birthday. He isn't a virgin and waited for me since I wasn't ready yet. He started pressuring me unintentionally, he kept telling me he wait until his b-day and I sort of felt like I had to do it to keep him happy. ... (91 words)

Why would a man stay in a marriage like this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - ......i need help finding someone to talk to about my problems! question?..why would a man want to stay married to a woman he has no sex with, does everything for...but is never around or spend time with his wife..of 20..years?... (40 words)

Am I a slut for continuing to have sex with my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (?) age 13-15 - My ex and i broke up about 5 months ago. Although we broke up were still having sex. I feel used but i dont really mind it because he is great in bed. Is it slutty of me to think that?... (43 words)

I need to take her off my mind ....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - It first began as a crush 5 years ago. I mean, its stupid enough as is for someone that young to experience 'love at first sight', yet she made me feel that way. The feeling has never ending, nor stopped. Even after supposedly being 'rejected' by her 3 years ago. She's gone ... (222 words)

I'm worried my friend will scare this guy off and I happen to like him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - My friend saw me get hurt and messed around in a bad relationship which I finally ended about 9 months ago. I'm completely over it - it really should have ended almost 2 years ago. But my friend seems to think I need another year or 2 of being single. So I haven't actually ... (162 words)

I've been pushed aside AGAIN! Any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship for five years. It has been really hard, because I have been put to the side so many times. I have been stood up, and I expressed how I felt. He promised to change, showed up at work with roses, and told me he loved me, and things would change. ... (206 words)

I just want to have sex and have fun, is it wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok so i went to school with this guy i realy liked then he turned out to be a bit of a perv. he trasfered schools and after him i havnt had a relationship or had sex and honestly i kinda liked that he realy wnted to have sex w/ me and next year we will be in the same class ... (109 words)

He kept a secret, lied about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i started dating my boyfriend right after high school.he cheated on me with a girl named "tam". we broke up. seven years ago, we got back together. moved in together and had a son 2 years later. my son is now 5. last year, i found out that he was secretly keeping in touch with ... (311 words)

Feeling left out and thinking of having a one night stand...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

16 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - I am fed up that I am the only one im my group of friends that has not been laid yet. Does anyone have any tips on how to have a one night stand or find girls that are willing to do it with me? Its sad and pathetic at my age that I have not kissed yet and im tired of it. ... (63 words)

There is not point to what they are doing and it doesn't help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

16 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hey, i was just wondering, how you can love someone enough to let them go, hurt them so they wont get hurt later on to protect them and try to save them. can this happen. also if a person is doing it how can you make them stop and see that without them there is no point and ... (69 words)