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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Shes avoiding me now I told her I had a boyfriend

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a girl and i told my friend that i had a boyfriend..but like four months ago i told her i was lesbian..i just want to be concidered normal..but i am lesbian ..i just want her and others to accept me(i havnt told her) but now she is avoiding me after i told her i had a ... (69 words)

He put his penis inside me. Am I a virgin?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was on my summer vacation and I was fooling around with the cutest guy and we got naked and all. He fingered me and one thing led to another and umm he put his penis in my vagina (his penis was maybe 9 cm long, I dunno and I'm a virgin, or at least I was...). Now I was a bit ... (211 words)

Falling for my best friend.. Do I risk telling her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend is female. We always joke around that one day we will eventually end up together. But lately I've been taking these comments more seriously, and it hurts when she tells me about other guys and her attraction towards them. I want to tell her my feelings and hope ... (127 words)

Should I let her name our son ayden even if I don't want it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i just got married and me and my wife r having a baby at first i was scared but now im up for the task but now we r fighting over names if it was a girl we had a name we both liked but we just found out we r having a boy and i like the names tristan, colin, conner, keith and ... (205 words)

Should I send another text or just hold my breath?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - For background, my first question was in March. It's called "We've been through more than anyone can imagine..." Thank you! Hi guys, i want to thank you again for all your help and kindness. I wish i had a happier update on the situation but i may be contorting the truth to... (687 words)

Love Triangle.. how can I forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend he said he loves me and i love him but he now he does not and he love some one else what i can do now and i am still in love him?... (35 words)

I've been avoiding sex because I'm afraid of being compared to her other 30 partner!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a girlfriend and we have been official for just over a month now. I've known her for 3 years prior to getting involved with her. She is a lovely person, and I'm so glad we are together, but she recently confided in me that she has slept with around 30 men (mostly one ... (284 words)

He's not texting so is he not interested? Do I forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i started talking to a guy i meant on a online site, and we exchange emails, and soon numbers. we texted everyday, with him texting me every day, and we would text alot throughout the day. we fell out a few times, but it was all forgotten, and started liking each other.we ... (117 words)

How can I make this not hurt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - heyy. my name is C******, and i am 15. okay here's my question. -i like to masterbate the same as everone else does. i only like rubbing my clit though. well everone else can go inside the hole, i cant. well i can but it hurts, why? help me ... ... (50 words)

I thought he was a player, so why is he obsessing over me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for almost 2 months, on and off. it seemed like it was going nowhere, so I slept with this other guy I had just met not that long ago. He knew I was already seeing someone and He's kind of a player so I assumed he knew it would be just sex. I was ... (193 words)

He hasn't approached me for sex in a year, what's the problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really concerned about the lack of a sex life between my partner and I. We have been together for 2 years and are both in our early/mid thirties. We've only managed to have full penetrative sex twice since the start of the relationship as I was finding it extremely ... (261 words)

I broke up with the guy I had for the guy I wanted but he dosen't want me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i am phoebe and i am 17 years old. i was recently in a horrible love triangle and i haven't recovered yet. my friend set me up with this guy and he absolutely fell head-over-heals for me. but i didn't like him back. he was too sexual when he talked to me. but i absolutely ... (147 words)

How can I convince my fiance to perform on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiance has always told me " If it bleeds for 7 days and doesn't die, I'm not eatin' it!". Oral sex is something I personally have never experienced, and would like to. How can I convince my man of 20 years to try this with me, for it is a bad experience with another girl ... (65 words)

Cheating, Love, and Hate.. I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and this girl have been friends for a while and her boyfriend and I have been friends for even longer. I am talking many years and I would consider him my best friend. Anyway one day she starts to touch my arm so I start to do it back. This escalates over the next while a... (1351 words)

Do I risk the friendship by pushing him into romance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a single mother of two children, never married full time student and full time employee and he is a single father of a handicap child stay at home dad with a side job/hobby of window treatments. We meet on a internet dating site which was set up as a prank by my friends. ... (396 words)

Please help me cope with this shame..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (M) age 30-35 - i have a great girlfriend, i love her to the point of dying, though i have done something stupid, as i sit here i wonder what all of you will think of this but i really use feed back as a way to cope with everything. so me, my girlfriend who i am going to call angela and ... (481 words)

Please help me not to concentrate on sex so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 22yr old guy and my problem is i just feel very horny all the time there is sex in my mind all the time coz of witch i just cant concentrate on any other work. i have a girlfriend and i have sex with her every time we meet but still i feel the thrust for sex many times i ... (95 words)

Could this be causing my premature ejaculation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I suffer from frenulum breve and phimosis. My foreskin can just about be pulled down past my penis head and then my frenulum starts to pull my penis head downwards. Could this be why i suffer from premature ejaculation?... (42 words)

He deleted his Facebook because of me!?!?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey thanks so much for this im really struggling with something... alright, I met this guy on facebook a few months back commenting on my friends status and we added eachother and we hit it off as good friends you know? He is a famous pro wrestling and kick boxing champion... (1617 words)

I know that I can never have her but how the heck do I get over her???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this girl and we've been frends for like 6 years but lately I've realized how totally in love with her I am! Theres only one problem, she's straight. We've kissed on dares and every time we kiss everythinng feels perfect and I never want it to end I know that I can ne... (67 words)

I truly love this guy and I cannot believe it has come to this. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh God, someone help me. So me and my boyfriend of 6 months broke up a month ago and I was devastated. In the month though we have been in constant contact, initiated by him. He even told people we were back together. This guy told me I was his soulmate, I was the first girl he ... (360 words)

Would you let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have been in a relationship for 5 years, he was my first everything and now i just dont know what to do, he doesnt seem to care anymore, this past week when i didnt call him it was 4 days till we talked, apparently according to him thats normal and there is nothing wrong ... (223 words)

Should I send her an apology?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey I am kinda of a loner and I have been known to creep girls I knew out last year because I would send them messages on myspace-or at least most of them. I went on facebook and added this girl that I used to know in one of my classes. I said hi to her when she was on chat ... (189 words)

Are my nan's tarot predictions correct???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) - Im 16 and had my period about a week ago, but now im worried im PREGNANT! I keep getting brown discharge in my underwear and feel quite bloated and keep farting a lot. My boobs are sore sometimes, on and off. Im on the contriceptive pill however and me and boyfriend didn't... (185 words)

Who should initiate things again when we are both afraid of the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - He was deeply hurt by something he thought I caused. Time has passed and now he knows I did not cause the action. We talked about it and he has overcome this and sees he was wrong. But his reaction caused me extreme hurt and I mean extreme and he knows that. I still love ... (253 words)

Is there any way to make the ex-factor go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is still friends with his ex and I feel uncomfortable about it although I do trust that their relationship is platonic. They were schoolmates and 5 of them (4 guys including my bf plus her) were like really really good friends for a period of time, especially when ... (531 words)

Should I stay with my bf in this circle of revenge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. So I've been going out with my boyfriend for just a little over 10 months now. We have had two major problems throughout our relationship, otherwise everything has been great. In about the third month of our relationship he started to talking to his old high school ... (821 words)

I've done everything so why does my husband keep cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age - i have been with my husband 23 years and married for 18 years, in the past ten years he has had three affairs and he has always come back to me, but this last one has really got to me. he has been staying at his mums as she has mental health issues and his dad died a year ago ... (282 words)

I am pondering an affair because my husband won't initiate intercourse!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

31 July 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Thanks for reading my question... My husband has over the last few months lost interest in me sexually. At first i didnt notice, we are busy and all. But suddenly realised that it had been 4 months... I spoke to him and said hon, whats happening? And said , boy, has i... (303 words)

My husband told me he has feelings for my Dad! How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night I was shocked by my husband's revelation. He said "Sit down. We need to talk, it's important." I asked him what it was, and he said "I've got sexual feelings for your dad. I hate myself for having them, I mean, I've never felt this way towards any other guy." H... (126 words)

How long will it take for me to start enjoying sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had 1st time sex with my boyfriend last weekend and we plan to have sex again after a night out this weekend. I knew to expect a bit of pain and discharge 1st time so we used a towel to keep any mess off the bed (my boyfriend also wore a condom properly). Since we'll b... (96 words)

I'm dying with guilt! I feel like I cheated...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this is kind pf complicated but ill try my best to put it in writing ….I was in a long distance relationship and we were totally in love .We meet and after a past abusive relationship I never thought id ever feel for some1 like I did now. His family and friends loved me. ... (874 words)

Will I ever be ready for BIG commitments?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Most of my boyfriends have been really nice, my current bofriend is no exception. He's the best by far and wouldn't ever hurt me. When we first got together, we had conversations about our future; moving in together, children and marriage. When discussing these in the beginning ... (191 words)

How do I speed things up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been goin out with this girl for about 4 months. But we have not kissed yet. They say let time take its pace but i wish time would go a little faster. what do i do in a situation like this?... (43 words)

He has a girlfriend but is there any way to get him to like me more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay ... i like this guy , but theres quite a few problems , hes 3 years older than me , my friends have already reacted and called me a slut , but i like him too much to care , he has a girlfriend , but hes had a sort of 'crush' on me. He was always looking at me , his frie... (139 words)

What should I do to just relax and be able to have sex with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well. Its been sometime since i had sex. Counting now i thinks its 4 years. And i want to have sex with my boyfriend but I'm afraid it would hurt and besides the fact im much bigger than i was before meaning weight size what should i do to relax and have sexual intercourse with ... (57 words)

I feel like our sex life is drying up. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i don't know if i have a problem or if it's just me, it's that i have been married to my wife now for 27 months and although i love her with all my heart, and i know she loves me, i feel like our sex life is already drying up. Before we had our baby our sex life was great ... (210 words)

How do I start over with a new life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Im 19 yrs old. I want to start a new life,with no controversies basically a peaceful life. Uptil now my life has been like a big circus. Sexual abuse by cousin, Boyfriends, bad friends, good friends, crushes,family issues,college issues. Basically all the problem ... (160 words)

Why is "No Contact" good for break ups?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

31 July 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Yeah I know I am smart and intelligent and mature enough for my age to know the answer to this but my heart is contradicting it. I have been 3 months apart from my ex, obviously, I still love him as this gives me the reason to write here. I have been told to cut contact with... (284 words)

Lonely and longing for friends but I run away when they try to get close!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

31 July 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I don't have any friends, and I tend to get quite lonely. However, I find it really difficult to meet people, and nobody seems to want to get to know me, even when I try to be friendly to them. I find it easier to connect with people on the internet. The problem is, ever... (324 words)

I love him amd know he can be a better man, but his past demons creep into our lives

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31 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for just over two years. The man I am dating has had financial problems from the very beginning. Of course I have helped him out but this has put a strain on our relationship. IN addition to this he has also lied to me on several occasions about ... (247 words)

What words do I use to not hurt her feelings, but to say that it's best that I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex asked me to write to her and I did, but now I regret it because I still have feelings for her, which I thought I was over and I had moved on in my life. She's been in a long term relationship and I've been alone for many years. I don't know what to say in an email that I ... (224 words)

I want my ex back, but I don't know if he wants me. Should I wait and see if he calls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age - I can't understand this. In the past with my ex I was always the one to go running back and get him to talk about what happened and it worked. But this time I am waiting on him. We had a great time the other night but it has been a few days and he hasn't called. Was he just ... (255 words)

I try to break up with him when he's mean, but then he goes back to normal again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why can't I make up my mind? I've been with my boyfriend for two years. Lately he's been acting weird- he's acting rude and careless towards me. So when he's like this I get so mad and I prepare myself to break it off. When I go to do this though, it's like he can read my mind ... (213 words)

Did my husband text her acknowledging a lunchtime blowjob?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age - Hi again everyone. Just an update about the 'situation' and more need for help. I am the wife trying to come to terms with the texting husband and discovered more texts on his old phone, one calling her a 'dirty little minx' but none of her texts saying anything as ... (452 words)

I have no confidence and I really like this girl! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and am friends with a girl in my year who is also 14. We are really good friends, and can laugh about absolutely anything and everything. We never seem to stop texting each other, to chat as we live in different towns. The problem is, I think I've fallen for ... (151 words)

How can I cheer my cousin up?

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so one of my best friends was dating my cousin who is like my brother. I was against it from the start but I they're grown and I felt it wasn't my business to get involved. They've recently broken up and now there both being weird with me. My best friend won't talk to me or ... (85 words)

Will I have the same problem with my partner as I did with my ex when I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 20 just found out that im pregnant by my bf who is in love with me completely.i have a child by my ex boyfriend but whilst pregnant with my first child he cheated on me alot so after my child got over the age of 1 yrs i ended the relationship and moved on to my current ... (212 words)

Betrayed by the one I love most in this world! I need some advice :(

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I feel used and betrayed ;_; I met this girl at work about a month ago and we got on like a house on fire; we have soooo many similarities it's like we're made for each other! Anyway, it's only been recently that I have started really chatting to ... (248 words)

I am fed up with being hung up on him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im 15 and new to this so please help. i was going out with this guy for about a year. but then he dumped me a year ago today. he didnt give a reason. im still in love with him. how do i get over him? please help:)... (49 words)

He keeps on running away from me but I know he still loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im a 18 yrs old girl..i have problems with my bf.okay....here's the story....my bf was being trapped by his own cousin, his cousin smashed his car windows and until now i don't even know what is the exact reason. This happens in a sudden and he don't know how so he went to the ... (683 words)

Help! I think my dad is having an affair!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Am suspecting my dad is having an affair with a lady, about 2 months ago he had to go to another town for a contract that was awarded to him and comes home on weekend. I've not really been around though but last week when i came back from school he received a call well i, my ... (250 words)

My boyfriend is forcing me into something I don't believe in!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a bisexual female in an open relationship with a man. He is currently dating another woman and myself. We are all aware of each other and have even become friends, but not intimate at the same time. I went away to college, and the two decided to get an apartment together ... (200 words)

How do I tell guys I'm not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm finding out there is a couple other guys who like me, but I know I am not attracted mentally or physically. I'm thinking this is because, I like Bob (code name) and I know he likes me so, I'm kind of putting other guys on hold for him. But I kind of also like where we ar... (116 words)

Am I being unreasonable and does this guy deserve another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Here's the story. Eight months ago, I met a guy online. We were instantly attracted to each other, met up and quickly fell in love. We met during the Christmas holidays, but I was working abroad at the time. I eventually had to go back to work, but he insisted on wanting a ... (989 words)

He did not reply to my last text and am now very worried, but I don't want to loose him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5376 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my three months boyfriend has started to make me wonder, i text him asking if there was a problem coz the last time we chatted he acted strange in the sense that usually he used to call me baby, honey , sweetheart and stuff like that but that last time approximately three or ... (320 words)

I told my friend how I felt and now he has ended the friendship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i had a male friend of six years and fell in love with him and i told him this, he has now ended the friendship. What should i do?... (29 words)

I'm scared to leave in fear of living alone in a tiny rented flat for the rest of my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 35 and in a bit of an emotional mess. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend/partner for 10 years and while she seems happy, I'm not. She is 10 years older than I and this has never been a problem (and suits me as I don't want children). We have not had sex... (326 words)

Confused and need closure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My query is in relation to a girl i met a couple of months ago. She is over 4 years older than me and i am 26. I know that she was married a few years ago but her then husband left her for another woman, this does not bother me in the slightest, however i believe she has a ... (148 words)

Does he still like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi,im 14 and iv really liked this guy since 6th grade.He's a year senior to me.Were in the same school and he happened to add me on msn and thats how we became good friends.After getting to know each other..he asked me out...but his friends who are girls didn't quite like the ... (371 words)

My girlfriend and I would like to have a threesome. Is this healthy for our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my gf and i were discussing our sexual fantacies and we both realised that we both would like to have a threesome but with each of us present when it goes down i would like to know if this is healthy for our relationship... (44 words)

Everytime I hook up with my girlfriend I feel sick and I hurt "down there"!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I have a girlfriend right? And we hook up or cuddle or whatever you want to call it, and when we do it gets really intense but, I havent had sex with her yet. Shes had it before but Im still a virgin. Now the thing is a couple of hours after we've hooked up I feel sick! I ... (127 words)

She's up late at night doing who knows what? Is this a sign she is cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf says am not payin her any attention and that one day i would regret it...now ever since we met i have been there for her emotinally and all the rest of it and lately i've realised that she 's up late at nights doing god knows what. dear readers i would like to know if ... (86 words)

When will I fall for my husband again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When will I fall for my husband again??? I got married to my husband 7 yrs ago and Im still not in love? I only got married cause I was profiside to marry him very stupid reason thats cause he knew the whole truth and didn't care. Actually when I was pregnant with my second d... (195 words)

How can I make my girlfriend fall in live with me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

31 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - out relationship is just three months old and she is scared because she thinks i dont love her and i would dump her when i finished my schooling. i have tryed to make her to understand that i wouldnt leave her, but she just made up her mind on the 1st of july to let go of me. ... (258 words)

How do I get past this block and break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay. i have been with this guy for a little more then a year now, and i have wanted to break up with him for a while now. i havent liked him for months, but i can't break up with him for some strange reason. now i have asked some of my friends about this and have gotten two ... (131 words)

Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been seening each other now for a year and two months. this whole month of july him and i just argue, fight, not speak to each other and all that, and its starting to become a daily thing. why is that? am i doinq something wrong or not giving him what he ... (58 words)

I'm afraid to confess my feelings in case I lose him as a friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Well i posted my situation before. Well for the one's who dont know my situation, its the following: I have a situation. I have been liking this boy for over 3 years but I have never gotten the guts to tell him how i felt. When he graduated from middle school ... (541 words)

I'm giving him some space to figure out what he wants; do you think there's still some hope?

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really miss the guy that I was seeing. We saw each other for 2 months. Something was there- he saw something in me and I saw something in him. It seemed like I was the whole package in his eyes (after dating him, he would always talk to his friends about me and my ... (269 words)

It's his first time getting a blowjob, can I get a std?

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for months now, and we are absolutely crazy about each other. I know him well, and know for a fact that he has never been sexually active with anyone. He is super shy, and has told me he hasn't, and I can honestly say I trust and believe this boy ... (103 words)

I'm so frustrated I think I want out of my marriage!

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so me and my husband have been married for 3 years going on 4 next month. We have our ups n downs but lately we have been fussin just bout anything and I got to the point where I want out of the marriage.he keeps trying to control me (at least that how I feel) u see I don't ... (536 words)

Did my girlfiend cheat, or was she raped?

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31 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel so silly for even asking this on the Internet, but I just need to get some opinions. First of all, I'm 18, and this is my first girlfriend. She is 15. We've been dating for 10 months now. In the 2nd month of dating, we broke up for 2 days, because our parents hated each ... (348 words)

Have I made the right choice?

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, I need some advice to know whether I have made the right choice. If you only have negative things to say, dont bother, I am not here for a bashing, I just want to know if I have done the right thing. I have been married 13 years, and have two children. My marriage has... (957 words)

We were so close and helping each other with our problems, but then our feelings for each other got in the way!

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so long story. and yes i have problems.. feels like i cant do anything right lately.. i had a close friend who just got out of a 2 year relationship and then i just got out of my 2 month relationship.. and before that my 1 eyar relationship.. and we got talking and ... (176 words)

Now I have changed my lifestyle I seem to have got more stretchmarks!

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi everyone, i'm 15 and my BMI is normal but i feel like i need to tone up. i don't have any stretchmarks, only on the upper part of my thighs, but ever since i started eating healthier, exercising more, and drinking more water, i've been getting stretchmarks all over my thigh... (79 words)

Dry humping....

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey there, whenever me and my boyfriend are dry humping, semen never comes out, and i was wondering why that is ??? thanks a lot, i really appreciate it =]... (30 words)

My boyfriend always seems to drop his plans with me to see his friends!

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had made plans to hang out with my boyfriend and a day later he made plans to go golfing with his friends instead. when i asked him about it, he says he forgot. he's done this before. and both ended with him dropping our plans and hanging out with his friends. when i want to ... (89 words)

Relationship stuck in neutral!

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years,and i feel like he is still in love with his ex.They were just going threw the divorce when we began dating but still he keeps their wedding photo in the drawer next to the bed,he's kept all their letters between each other and ... (134 words)

My wife had filed divorce because of my internet addiction, how can I get her back?

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31 July 2009 (M)

age - My wife and I have been married for almost six years. It is a second marriage for the both of us. When we first started dating the passion and love making was amazing. As we continued dating and became engaged, things stayed fantastic. As we approached our marriage her ... (1185 words)

Should I shave my arms?

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there so i suffer from PCOS which increases my wrong levels of hormone anyways, my prob is that I have hairy arms and the whole rest of my bod. I shave my stomach and yadi yada but I don't know if to shave my arms. My problem is that where i live I am the only one who doe... (128 words)

What can I do to make us grow closer, and maybe even start a relationship together?

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was 9 years old, and I went camping with my parents. We went to a lake we had never been to before, and by the time we got there and got set up it was almost midnight. There was a camper beside us, and a guy came out and introduced himself, his wife, and his 3 children. The ... (243 words)

Suddenly I hate everyone and everything! I feel very empty and sad..

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Well I used to always be loving and caring but now all of a sudden I seriously dont love anyone or anything and I used to care for my mom the most and stuff now I dont feel any love for her, my dad, or sister, Is something wrong with me? My mom noticed im being very distant ... (142 words)

I love him and want to be with him, but I'm tired of waiting around for him!

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my ex bf a couple months ago because of a stupid argument. I wanted to talk things out a couple days later only to find out (from myspace) that he already got back with his ex-girlfriend 2 days after we broke up! We didnt talk for a month, but now we talk ... (210 words)

Do I say yes and be his girlfriend? Or listen to my dad and keep away from him?

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There was this boy that i like, and he likes me too. He's already told me he likes me and i told him i like him too, but when i told my dad if i can have a Bf, he went all crazy and said that i can't have one Until i'm 18, and i'm barely 15. Then he told me that i shouldn't... (111 words)

So confused, sick and tired of my relationship!

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm really starting to get sick and tired of my relationship. I have been involved with this guy for three yrs. I love him dearly , but I have a trust issue with him and I am trying hard to get over the fact that he has lied to me in the past. When I ask him questions he always ... (165 words)

Is it okay for me to text her how I feel?

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31 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl that I talk to every day and I love her but I don’t know how to tell her and when I finally decide to tell her I get scared of what she might say to me so I don’t tell her. Is it ok to like text her how I feel? I get scared because I think she might like ... (73 words)

I don't know whether to carry on and to hope that I'll feel like I did, or to let him go.

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, to try and cut a long story short.. I was in an abusive relationship for 11 months, i got cheated on and there were kids behind my back etc.. And at 16, getting knocked out by your 'loving boyfriend' was pretty horrible :( as i finally managed to get out of the ... (213 words)

Just want him in my life...

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We started seeing each other a year and a half ago. We have never been committed, and we have done a lot of terrible things to each other. I love him. I was finally moving on (because he started being really horrible to me) and seeing another guy. I cheated on new guy with the... (120 words)

If two fingers hurt a penis is going to horrible!

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - the other week i was at a party and ended up making out with a guy i like, he fingered me but he only used one finger and when he tried to use two it hurt alot, how can i make it looser? cz i'm 17 and wanna have sex but if two fingers hurt a penis is gonna be horrible :( help!x... (63 words)

One friend thinks we'd make a cute couple, the other one thinks I was stupid!

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, i met this boy, and i really really like him but he's sixteen and i'm thirteen. We're really close though and he tells me everything because we can trust eachother with our lives. So earlier this week we met up town to just talk and stuff, and he asked me to go back to ... (371 words)

I'm in love with an 18 year old I met on the internet. He told me he wants sex, and I do too.

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14, and have fallen in love with an 18 year old over the internet, we have been on webcam, shared pictures, text and call eachover. he is already in a relashionship with a 16 year old but i love him andd he feels the same, he wants to come and see me in his car soon, im ... (143 words)

I feel hopeless... Is he ever going to stand up for me? Should I leave and try to find a new life without him?

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel hopeless, violated and disrespected I have been with the same man for over 7 years, also we love each other very much, of late it seems like nothing is happening. We have some problems, but three of the most prominent are the constant interference from his family, the ... (859 words)

Is honesty really the best policy??

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay my situation..is I've been talking to this guy lets call him john well we met and everything it went well at first I was nervous but then i got comfortable.It felt like there was chemistry between us..okay so a couple days later we wanted to see each other again so we ... (227 words)

Living through a nightmare with her family! I'm scared for her and for my family!

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31 July 2009 (M)

- Until October last year I was living with my fiancé and our 2 little boys aged 3 and 1 but the oldest child has special needs and also he isn't my biological son but I treat him no different, love him as if he was my own and there isn't a day that doesn't go by were I don’t ... (1654 words)

How do I show her I really like her, we only chat on msn now?

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31 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i just need some simple steps to letting a girl that i've known since i was five that i like her, please, always becuase we've finished school i only talk to her on msn *-)atm... (35 words)

I'm just not comfortable with her going out and drinking with a bunch of single guys!

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31 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girl friend have been together for almost 3 years. Everything was great til about 2 months ago when she said she wanted to go out and party and get drunk and go downtown with her friend. We have never been the couple to do all that. So it was a change for me. What ... (186 words)

Should I tell him how I feel? Sooner or later, I'm going to explode!

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31 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok here is my problem, I met this guy, he was no ordinary guy. He was sweet and handsome. I really loved him. We were only friends, yes, I know but I never told him about this because I was soo sure that some day he would realize that I love him and he loves me. But one day I ... (126 words)