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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel like our family together is second best to his "other" family...

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure how to feel when it comes to my husband what I mean we have a daughter and a son on the way. But anyways he has two other kids that don't live with him but he has visits with his older son he takes him to the beach park museum and he won't do that with our 14 month ... (85 words)

This random communication is hard to understand. I need your advice..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man a few years ago. We had instant, magnetic chemistry and it seemed very special. Since then, I have heard from him several times to check on the status of my independent research and find out how I am doing. Our communication has always been friendly and a little ... (242 words)

How do I make him forget about the lovers in my past?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when me and my boyfriend started going out he asked me how many people id had sex with before him and i lied and said it was only 4 when its really 9. (he was a virgin before me) recently he found out the truth and said he still loves me but he finds it harder to now. i've told ... (109 words)

Dealing with major failure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I thought I would write a post about failure. I know failure is a part of life but realizing it exists and dealing with your own personal failures is very different, and the latter is sometimes impossible to get over. These past four years I have had nothing but fail... (341 words)

Is there a certain age when women find sex more satisfying?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Is there a certain age that woman find sex more satisfying or appealing? Is there a certain age that woman have more sex? Woman any advice? ... (26 words)

I think my boyfriend talks about his ex too much... Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - At the beginning of our relationship, he mentioned his ex a couple times, and I sort of took it as a compliment because he was so willing to open up to me. He said she put him through a lot, blah blah blah, and basically I'm pretty sure she broke his heart. It's been 3 years ... (197 words)

He's going to be sentenced to 2 years, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! About 6 months ago, i got talkin to a guy who i used to have a crush on! we got on really well and we had such a laugh together! he kept tellin me he liked me but he had a court case coming up and so he thought it would be unfair to ask me out. hes innocent in th c... (202 words)

We agreed to date other people, now I'm obsessing about what he does on the nights he's out of touch!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship now for 9 months now. Lived on and off w each other for 6 years before this. When he moved for employment we agreed to see each other once a month and date other people(his idea)he does not want to commit to just me. I said ... (227 words)

He tells me he loves me, we text all the time, but he never makes a effort to come see me!

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My exboyfriend txt me every day. We txt talk for hours at a time. He tells me he still loves me and he made a big mistake leaving. He says he wants to get back together but yet he never makes an effort to come and see me. He lives only 35 miles away. He tells me he wants to ... (108 words)

I don't know how to get out of this relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for four and a half years now. Since we first had sex (a month into our relationship), he started calling me bad names and telling me I'm worthless. He's my first love (first boyfriend really) and at first, I seriously thought that that was ... (197 words)

I'm pregnant and he doesn't meet my sexual needs

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I live with my boyfriend and we have been dating for 5 months now. He is 36 years old and I am 25 years old and I am 4 months pregnant with his baby. When we first meet we had sex a few times a day, everyday. When I found out I was pregnant we would only have sex once every ... (192 words)

Nine days late and extremely worried!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 9 days late for my period. I had unprotected sex which i know is stupid! I don't know what it is, but i really don't think i am pregnant! I had something extremely stressfull happen in my life roughly 4 days before i was due my period, could this be why i am late? My ... (77 words)

When is it a good time to explore our sexuality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (M) age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together a while and have a committed and loving relationship. We have talked about having sex. My question is when is a good age to start exploring sex and a sexual relationship? When is a good age for my girlfriend? We both believe that sex is ... (120 words)

Is my turkish man true or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i met this really nice turkish man!, he truely nice but i dont know if its true or not!? i met him about 2 years ago and ever since then we have talked alot a couple of months ago he said he likes me alot and always had, he also said hes never had a gf before and hes a... (154 words)

He hasn't called me for one day. Does that mean we're over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Since my boyfriend moved back to my hometown he has called me everyday, and we have seen eachother almost everyday. Yesterday he didn't call, and it was his first time not calling me in a LONG time. I know its hard when he doesnt have a phone, but he could very well use so... (101 words)

My boyfriend loves his computer more than I

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend seems to be more in love with his computer than me. this has only been a recent thing but im really getting angry and frustrated over it. when i try and make plans with him its like im bothering him and he cant even talk on the phone with me without me hearing his ... (111 words)

Why do I feel so ugly all the time?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Why do I feel so ugly all the time? It's not like I'm disfigured or anything, I'm normal, but nothing special. My friends have always been prettier than me though, got all the attention, etc. Sometimes I feel OK, but the minute I'll watch TV and see a prettier girl th... (229 words)

How do I start dating again after 15 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i am 40 yrs old and i haven't dated in 15 years. i recelently lost weight and now i feel better about my self and i want to date. i looked up an old friend that use to be interested in me when i was big so i know he would love to see me now. i never dated him because i was big ... (182 words)

Can I get pregnant while wearing a condom that didn't break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had sex during my period while I was not on birth control. We used a condom and it didn't break. Could that get me pregnant?... (29 words)

I am tempted by another girl while being with another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I love this girl right... But i'm already in a relationship and I don't want to cheat... ever. I mean they're both amazing and even my current lover notices me eying her off occasionally but doesn't tell me off, she knows i'm loyal but i'm getting tempted HELP!... (50 words)

How do I tell my girlfriend I don't think I'm ready yet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend who I have been going out with for over a year and a half. I love her so much and would do anything for her. Now lately, we have been messing around saying sex stuff. But obviously cos we r both gay. (im bi and she is a lesbian), but she has been talking about ... (180 words)

Move on or wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 've known my best friend since I was 13 (he was 14) and he has always been in love with me. I wasn't attracted to him initially and I would tell him that I wanted to just stay friends. As I grew older, I became curious about why I wasn't attracted to him because he is such a ... (733 words)

One of my daughters lies constantly

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age - I have two daughters who work together. one is a compulsive liar. lies about herself, family and is constantly telling everyone what the other one is up to. the problem is the lies and everyone knows she exagerates and is lying and they make fun of her behind her back. she ... (102 words)

My ex is very interested, as am I, but I am clueless

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9 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex, and I broke up after a few years a couple of months ago. We both made some mistakes, and miscommunication on both of our parts caused it. We both have told each other that we wished it hadn't had happened. I tried to pursue her, soon after we broke up. I told her ... (378 words)

She's telling me sexual things, but I'm mates with her boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

9 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - (Male 14) Hey, I'm having trouble with a girl at the moment... She says very sexual stuff to me but it's not that i don't like it it's just that I know her boyfriend as a personal mate. I couldn't dream on going up to my mate and telling him... He'll probably dump her and neve... (78 words)

Has anyone ever lived with a schizophrenic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My aunt suffers from schizophrenia, she is on medication and has been for over three decades. i recently spoke with her psychiatrist who is requesting that we seek alternative approaches to her illness. she refuses, and that's putting it mildly to do the exercises set up for he ... (294 words)

How do I start masturbating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi. im 14 and i have never masturbated before. I know that it is completely normal, but i also know that some people my age look at it as gross or disgusting. I often find myself very horny and wanting sex so badly. but i made a promise to myself to stay a virgin til marriage. ... (78 words)

He's in a dilemma with his ex-wife, daughter and myself

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been dating this man for about 2 months but we have known each other for about 7 months. When I initially asked him out he said yes but then said he was already seeing someone but it wasn't serious. He said he didn't know what to do because he didn't want to ... (205 words)

This teeter totter relationship is driving me insane!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi -I just wanted an opinion from some one that does not know me or my husband. I am sorry how long this will be.. About 6 months ago my husband left me for a week and moved in with his parents. He told me he was not in love with me anymore, but he would always love me.... (1389 words)

Should my baby be circumsized?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 8 months pregnant and I am having a baby boy.. I don't know what to do about circumsizing??? His father was not circumsized and is currently not in our lives due to being controlling and abusive.. I have read the pros and cons of either way but I still can't make a ... (58 words)

I prefer to sit and cry for hours, is this some kind of depression or split personality disorder?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm just having a hard time to smile these past few days. Though I found this site to be very worthwhile I still feel like there's something I lack of. Something I need. It's been months since I've started living alone. My life had been one of the most tragic and ... (194 words)

I made a big fat stupid mistake and I'm scared my boyfriend will end things with me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

9 July 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Hi there Could really use some advice here. I was seeing a guy for a few weeks after Christmas but it was only casual. He left to work abroad for a few months and i met another guy who happened to be in the same crowd as the first guy (i.e they all socialise around the same ... (278 words)

Starting to develop feelings for my ex again, but I don't want to end up hurt again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently just started seeing an ex of mine.. We dated when we were 18 for about 3 months, so nothing major or to serious.. At the time I was head over heels for him.. He was amazingly good looking and had all the perfect things to say.. being 18 I was quite nieve. He ... (397 words)

Late night texts.....does it mean anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, Three days ago, a guy texted to me at 3 am if I have a boyfriend. I answered later No.The guy who texted me did not text me or phone me till now. What shall I do? Is he interested or not? I can't forget him. Please help me, what shall I do? ... (55 words)

He said 'oops' after the sex ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, im a 16 year old girl needing help. i had sex with a friend of the family and after having sex he said oops. could that mean anything bad? because im scared that he might have gotten me pregnant but its to early to tell.... (46 words)

She kissed me then, now she ignores me -- I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi :) Before two weeks i went with my classmates to a meeting of the class in a restaurant.But i went there one hour late and a girl from my class came to me and kissed me.She is very shy and this was unusual for her,exept that she was drunk a little (i smelled the scent of ... (169 words)

What to do when I run into the ex that I want back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So my ex and I were together for 6 months. Its been 3 months since the breakup. She said she needed to figure out what she wanted. For the first month and a half i kept in contact with her everyday. We even hung out a few times. One of the times we hung out i told her how much ... (670 words)

I have been told my b/f met another girl while I was away, what to do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey im 15 and ive being with my boyfriend for 3 months i went on holidays about two weeks ago ...when i got back one of me mates told me he had met someone else ..it had to be the girl i hate most ..because she done this to me and my last boyfriend too ... ive being talking ... (87 words)

How to get my abusive fiance to leave me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i got engaged 4 months ago to a guy 5 years older than me who neither my family nor i knew. His family were friends with some of my parents relatives. It wasn't quite arranged - my family arent quite the typical muslim family - I grew up in australia, I dont wear the head ... (1607 words)

Should I give up my married lover? He says he wants to break up with his wife... again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I know this is the same old scenario and I have only myself to blame, but I really am at my wits end. I have been involved in a relationship with a married man for over 12 months now. His wife knows about us and has done since day one pretty much. I probably know what the ... (357 words)

Second thoughts in my relationship

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - having second thoughts in my realonship i can not get him intrested inme for nothing not even while we're in sex ... (23 words)

He keeps going back to his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Earlier this year this guy and i started talking. He is an amazing guy and i fell for him hard. About a month into evrything he decided that he needed to go back to his ex that he was dating earlier that yr..they had a long realtionship and he said he was still in love with ... (271 words)

I'm insecure and I wish he wouldn't talk to her anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hi i've been in a relationship for over 3 yrs with a guy i really really love. He loves me as well. We live in different cities and cant meet on a daily basis but talk for over 3 hrs a day..... I do not have any past-he's the first guy in my life. He had a girlfriend before m... (181 words)

Running out of patience!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im running out of patience with my boyfriend of 2 years. we are on holidays so i have been at his house for a week straight. While i was there i felt like all he wanted to do was play computer games and was bored with me so i said this to him that i felt like he was pulling ... (181 words)

He told me he loved me and I couldn't say it back and now I miss him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My (ex?)friend is extremely made, or hurt, or something by me. He told me he loves me, and I just couldn't say it back at the time. I think of him that way, yes, but I'd never really thought I was in love with him, as he says he is (or was) with me. He was mad and hurt and ... (146 words)

We broke up and now she's finally over me but I'm alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello people, i broke off with this girl 3 months ago because it had no future...she loved me from her true heart and cribbed and cried over me for many weeks ...she couldnt believe that i was gone and we went back and forth ....my mental illness took over me and i was very ... (377 words)

Why the sudden distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I met this guy through my sister of all people. She worked with him for about 9 months and always told me we would get along. we started talking and hanging out about 3 weeks ago and everything was really cool. He's a great guy and we have a lot in common. However, ... (170 words)

Paranoid and always thinking I should let her go...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I really love my girlfriend and she really loves me.For some reason I think something is going to happen all the time and I keep thinking I have to let her go to keep her safe im paranoid i no but i want to deal with it. And the thought of it really eats me up because I love h... (85 words)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well there is this popular boy in my homeform and i realy like him but he found out. one day a couple of weeks after he found out my friend was talking to him and asked if he liked me and he didnt say anything for a while then changed the subject. i realy like him but he is one ... (116 words)

My wife admits that she's addicted to viagra but I don't understand.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I found Viagra tablets (about 10 bottles, 5 consumed!) when cleaning the house the other day on a day off from work. My wife was out at work that day. When she came in, I told her what I'd found, and asked her sensitively and calmly if there was anyone else involved, but sh... (159 words)

Am I overreacting? Was it the alcohol making her behave this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Question: Am I over-reacting? I know is that I have been in a period where I have cut myself off from friends and family. I think I've been trying to sheild them from how I have been feeling - or maybe I feel embarrassed. In any case I haven't felt great. Also, like many ... (1447 words)

Confused and torn between two guys. Any advice on this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi again, the other day, i asked for help for the situation between me and the 28 year old chef at work. When i went to work, i acted like nothing had happened, and it seemed to be ok. Towards the end of the night, however, i noticed him staring at me from in the kitchen, ... (278 words)

He doesn't seem to love me as much and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 and a bit months now, but we've always had a thing for about 3 years before this and he's always been absoloutley inlove with me! for the past week i've been getting this weird feeling from him that he doesn't feel the same way as h... (434 words)

Gaga for Lady Gaga!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has become completely obsessed with Lady GaGa. I mean obsessed!! On the computer are hundreds of pictures and files about her, and even emails arranging to meet with her! We barely have sex anymore, because he feels I'm not enough like Lady GaGa for him. ... (145 words)

How can I be sexually active again with these blisters?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (?) - hi i recently had blisters on my vagina and i got tested for std's and all tests were negative, these were really painful, the doctor can't test for anything else unless they show up again and though they have healed now i have scars and i find that i can't have sex with my ... (82 words)

He used to call me everynight but not anymore...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, a while ago, I would say around the beginning of April, I met this amazing guy. At the time, I thought he was just a guy trying to "get some" so I didn't pay any mind to him. But then I really started talking to him and getting to know him, and we started dating May 9th. ... (338 words)

Help on Sex Positions please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was wondering about when riding a guy during sex what do you do? because me and my bf want to try new positions, and me on top of him was what he suggested so how do i move? what do i do? thanks x... (50 words)

How can I help my best friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok my Best friend in the whole wide world i knew her since 2nd grade she is 2 months odlder than me and he is into drugs and sex she has pretty big boobs(double d) and that is why alot of the guys she dates (wich most of them are 17-20)like her and i don't know what to do to ... (146 words)

Why wont my husband come to my meetings even though he is supportive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an amazing loving bf that I've been with for a year and a half. Recently I joined a new business that sells womens and a small line of mens weight loss garments. Like girdles. When were at home my bf gives me great ideas about advertising he helps with business card and ... (182 words)

I need advice with my kissing technique!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have some questions about kissing i mean i have kissed boys before etc but when they put there tongue in my mouth i just dont know what to do do i move my tongue? just leave it not moving? any other kissing techniques i could use that my new boyfriend may like? thank... (63 words)

Six months of dating and he wants us to get married. But I think it's too soon!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend (21) and I (19) have been dating for six months. He's in the army and in two and a half years he'll probably get shipped elsewhere, which is problematic for where I live, but not an immediate issue. He signed on for this station again because he wanted to ... (246 words)

How can I feel closer to him and show my love in our long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. We are engaged. He has been away for a couple of months now and I wont be able to see him until December. How can I feel more closer to him in your LDR? I want to show my love to him and I need suggestions. Any sweet, fun ... (73 words)

My friends make fun of me and call me fat...but I'M NOT FAT!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so. Pretty much all of my friends are non stop making fun of me for being fat. BUT IM NOT FAT! When im not there they talk about how fat i am and draw pictures of how fat i am. dont say theyre jealous cus theyre all skinnier than me. but im still not fat. im 5ft3 and 113lb. ... (107 words)

Long distance woes and the meaning of love

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months. We met in college, both first years, and we were in a relationship pretty quickly. She's my first girlfriend, and I'm her second boyfriend. We are really compatible, as we have the same sense of humor, so we get along ... (826 words)

I'm scared but I want to give myself to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and I've kept him waiting sexually this long, hes starting to anxious but he says he'll wait as long as I need. I know he really cares for me and would wait but part of me too is getting anxious and wanting to give it ... (177 words)

I dream about kissing a girl which end up getting food in my mouth

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - everytime i have a dream that involves me kissing a girl, i kiss her and then i end up getting a bunch of material like food from her mouth into mine. why is that? i've never kissed a girl (unfortunately) if that matters. any thoughts or similar dreams?... (48 words)

We both should divorce our spouses and work on our relationship with each other, but I'm not sure what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay here goes. I am seperated and I have a friend of the opposite sex who is also sepereated so we have a lot in common. We have some of the same friends and he is really good friends with my older brother. Well we have hooked up while seperated and it was awesome. We are ... (160 words)

I want to be more than her friend, but she likes women and doesn't want to hurt me. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a very attractive neighbor and she moved in about 4 months ago. Shortly after she moved in I noticed that she had a girlfriend. Recently, they broke up and we have been talking a lot. She is very cool and easy to talk to and we just hit it off. Well, we ended up ... (332 words)

I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend whom I left.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

9 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. I left my ex-boyfriend in early August last year. He hadnt spoke to me much the last month we were together...I feel stupid for leaving him too. I left because i didnt feel loved anymore. Now i feel like i need to be loved and that im needy. He was so sweet to me, but ... (129 words)

Sometimes she calls me lots of times a day, and sometimes not at all. Is she taking a break from me on those times?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5398 days ago

9 July 2009 (M)

- My girl makes me worry so much about us. We are a bit of an LDR. I see her on weekends, sometimes more, for over 3 years now. We are very serious and intend to marry. Plans are set to move in together into a place real soon. But like right now I don't get to see her until next ... (276 words)

Any advice for dealing with depression and anxiety?

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a bit complicated, I think. I am seeing a psychiatrist, but he is four hours away (I was living in a different state when I first started seeing him). He diagnosed me with depression and anxiety. My mom has both so I suppose there's a link? Anyway, I've become a very ... (276 words)

My guy hesitates to take it further with me

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone u could called me chibi, so here the deal i meet this boy on june 13 on a simple boat ride, we get along quite well. but we jump into the relationship to soon. but i thought it was ok because we both like each other so much and we where confortable about an... (273 words)

We fell in love with each other through Facebook, without meeting

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9 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met her on Facebook two weeks ago we became friends. She lives in another state we haven't seen each other apart from pictures. I fell in love with her she says she loves me as well. I noticed she doesn't want people to know especially her friends. Three day ago i sent her a ... (145 words)

He has fallen out of love for me. How should I proceed?

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9 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my bf says he has falling out love with me but he loves me and still want to work things out by taking things slow, should i panic or relax and what should i do about that?... (37 words)

An Open Letter to All My Friends and Loved Ones....

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9 July 2009 (?) age - To All My Friends and Loved Ones.... It is time to say goodbye. My usefulness here is depleted. I have enjoyed every minute of it and have been so fortunate to meet the people I have! I may be back someday...I don't know for sure. But right now, it is time to take ca... (89 words)

When is it a good time to try to conceive again?

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just gave birth to a baby girl 2 and a half months ago and my husband and I are trying to concieve again. the problem is its hard to pinpoint my fertile days because i have had 2 periods in one month. What does this mean for me and when will it be a good time to try and get ... (62 words)

How do I do a good hand job or blow job?

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dont make fun of me anyone please!!! But I really need some advice on how to give a good handjob/blowjob. I feel really bad for my boyfriend and me because he goes down on me and hes really good at it, but whenever I try to go down on him he's just never really satisfied. I ... (79 words)

Can I ask her out or is she 'off-limits'?

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9 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I asked not too long ago about a good gift for a female co-worker for her b-day. Well I got something for her, and she really liked it. Like her expression showed it the whole day. A few days ago, I heard some bad news that implied she was seeing someone. Well today I ... (156 words)

How should I say no to my friend who wants to sleep with me?

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend wants to sleep with me, but i dont want to. he sent me a txt saying so, should i ignore it or should i tell my mom?... (29 words)

What could be causing this vaginal odor?

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I'm new here and hope that maybe this will help. Within the last few months, I've started having almost a fishy smell coming from my vagina. It started out smelling like protein and was very faint. There wasn't any unusual discharge or anything like that but as the ... (276 words)

Basically, he's Indian and I'm Black and he's afraid of how we look together

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would really like your help, sorry about it being so long. Okay so there's this guy who I had 2 classes with last year, we never really spoke to each other, and he was just another class mate. In late April of 2008, I would notice that he would stare at me all the time and I ... (1226 words)

I'm much older than him and he's interested and I want to make his first time memorable

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9 July 2009 (F)

age - I live alone, and there's a boy in my neighborhood who helps me out with odd jobs. He turned 18 two months ago. He's leaving for college in September and has been nervous about the whole thing. We were talking about it recently. I told him not to worry. He's smart and ... (324 words)

Do I need to tell him I am bi or does this even matter?

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9 July 2009 (?) age 26-29 - Ok I'm 20 yo and bi..no one knows not even my best friends So anyway I'm at the mall with a friend I work with and I see a guy who was around 18 and couldn't help but to stare at him He was wearing flip flops which was a plus lol..anyway I guess my friend saw me checking him ... (99 words)

I love sex and it's something I love doing every day, but my partner isn't nearly as yielding

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9 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Am I oversexed and compulsive for wanting to have sex every day? After a number of days of my partner not wanting sex I start to get stressed. Basically I can't cope very well going through the week without sex. I could releive myself twice in the day and still want sex a... (104 words)

How do I hose him down?

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi..umm. i've been trieg to squirt for about 2 years now and recently my bf told me he wanted to have sex and said that he loves girls who squirt...so can you please help me i've rubbed my clit until i felt like a had to pee..then i pushed out..and nothing. so i kept rubbing my ... (101 words)

Does he love her more than me?

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been a while since I diminshed contact with my ex husband. However, we were seeing each other for some time on and off. I still had feelings for him. I'm unsure if he had feelings for me. The story is that I confronted his new girl friend about him and I having sex behind ... (160 words)

I want to get out of this relationship, yet I am terribly scared!

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am way to attached to my boyfriend for my own good. We hang out almost everyday, I automatically clear my schedule for him, and I don't make forsure plans with anybody incase he calls. When he doesn't call me, I get really paranoid and I worry constantly about where he i... (263 words)

I used the pull-out method, which doesn't really work, but it's possible she's pregnant?

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9 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - please help me... my girlfriend and i have had sex.... and i always pull out...but a couple times we didnt use a condom.... i pulls out and she is on birth conrol.... but she says that she has to pee a lot(like every 2-4 hours) and i know htat i can be a sign of pregnency and... (96 words)

My manager has been verbally inappropriate with me

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello! In a nutshell. I had to report my boss for screaming at me on the sales floor using the f word and having an emotional tiraid in front of me, making me cry on the floor. There was a different instance prior to this so I reported both cause, what's next?? The Manager su... (386 words)

I'm intimate with my mom's fiance's daughter

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9 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - well this is a very complicated situation for me. hear me out tho before you judge me. my mom met her current boyfriend/fiancé about two years ago and I didn't meet his family til about a year later. I'm 22 at the time and his daughter was 16...it was at a birthday party and I ... (117 words)

Should I feel guilty? Can my friend and I remain friends? I'm trying to save my marriage!

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for over 12 years. During this time, my husband has been unfaithful, or has tried to be unfaithful, numerous times. He has a lot of fidelity issues and the person I once considered my best friend is not the same. During all his infidelity I have stood by ... (785 words)

I feel robbed of my first kiss!

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was robbed of my first kiss , this happened like 8 months ago ,at the time i never had a bf and never kissed a guy , i was with this guy i was -seeing- and we were a little drunk and in his car when he kissed me , not jsut on the lips a full french kiss i was surprised by it ... (160 words)

I'm just scared to death he's going to rip me apart again like he did just seven months ago!

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my ex and I broke up seven months ago for the second and final time after a two-year relationship. We broke up because he was a douche who emotionally abused me and I just couldn't take it anymore. But at the same time, we had some really nice boyfriend/girlfriend moments. ... (581 words)

I'm pregnant, want to marry, but he's unsure!

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so 3 days ago i found out im pregnant with my ex boyfriends baby and we dont really know what to do! i think we should get married and so do many of my family members. my gramma says she will drive and pay for the whole thing but we are scared and he is still unsure! i ... (407 words)

Am I right in being loyal or is it time to move on?

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9 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, going on 20. I met my boyfriend nearly 4 years ago now, and we've been going out for just over 2 years now. He is 17 going on 18, which made him 15 when we started going out. This being relevant because his family are very homophobic and upon finding out we were seeing ... (470 words)

Implant side effect, is this one normal?

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok just to ask, i recently had the contraceptive implant and ive noticed a lot of reviews sayin woman have gained weight. however i seem to have the reverse to this, i havent lost any weight yet as ive only had it in around 3weeks, but ive TOTALLY lost my appetite, i used to ... (161 words)

How do I confront a guy thats trying to get my attention?

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so every girl loves when guys check them out right? Yeah, so today, I went to this place with some family, and I was sitting alone for a while, and this really amazingly hot guy was sitting across from me. I was playing with my phone thinking it would get his attention, ... (161 words)

Should I tell him I cheated

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heyyy i'm 19 and I have a boyfriend of a year who I absolutely LOVEE!! I couldnt imagine my life with out him... but something happened about a week ago that I just can't get off of my conscience. I was at a party and I accidentally hooked up with a guy because me and my ... (102 words)

How do I get a six pack?

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i'm a 15 year old girl. im 5'5" and 109 lbs. im thin but i want a 6 pack. so my question is: how do i get fast results? what do i do? crunches? sit ups? i dont have money for any equipment. i just want results FAST! please helpppp!!!... (51 words)

Her stories aren't adding up and I think there's alot going on that I don't know about

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9 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am in a 3 month relationship that was going good till a few weeks ago. Recently my girl has stopped anwering calls and texts. She does get back to me after awhile but its weird. She was supposed to work one day and she left my house for work. About 30 mins later I ... (250 words)

I feel so guilty, but should I be?!

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9 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I are constantly arguing. Lately, we have been arguing infront of all of our friends. This is very unusual for us, because usually if we have something to say to one another - we take it somewhere else, but lately I have been blowing up infront of all o... (214 words)

She's only 15 and I have feelings for her, is it wrong?

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9 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really need someone elses imput on this situation.I have feelings for a girl I know. The problem is Im 18 and she is only 15. Most people would probably wonder why an 18 year old would want anything to do with a 15 year old. Im not a pedophile or a creep, and I have no ... (113 words)