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41-50,
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writes:I had a high school reunion a few years ago and while there one of my former guy classmates (who always flirted with me in school) chatted it up with me and gave me a friendly goodbye. I started emailing him to talk and a few months into it I asked him if he would want to hang out with me one evening for fun and I gave him my phone number. Needless to say he didn't call the next day. I've tried emailing him a few times since then and now he's not talking (or communicating) back. Why would a guy do this?
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reader, Seguradenada +, writes (30 July 2009):
Look, sweetie...have you seen the movie "He's Just Not That Into You?" It's a cheesy answer to what I KNOW is a serious question, but trust me--it's exactly what you need right now.
The truth? This man probably finds you cute, nice, funny...all of the above. However, for whatever reason, he's just not that into you.
I quote, "If a man wants to be with you, he WILL make it happen." So on that note, let the bloke himself make it happen, or truly forget about him...
Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): A few years ago is a very long time versus a few months ago that you contacted him. His circumstances have changed.
He is in a committed relationship and doesn't want to cause himself any problems as he thinks you want more companionship than he is prepared to provide.
He isn't attracted to you now.
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reader, imnotinlove +, writes (30 July 2009):
Men love the chase. Once they get to that they are bored. I know from experience.
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