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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My wife just can't see past herself and she's jealous of the bond I have with my son.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

12 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been married to my wife for not quite 8 years. We have a wonderful 5 year old son who means everything to us. My wife used to be a designer in a large town. about 6 years ago, we decided to pick up and move north 3 hours to a small town to be closer to her family. ... (420 words)

Help! My husband doesn't know what he wants.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband of 3 years recently told me that he does not know what he wants. He wants his old single life back but yet he wants his family life, me, his daughter and 2 step children. I don't know why he is acting like this? What do I do. He only started this roller coaster ... (105 words)

Broken trust... please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boy friend and i have been dating for almost 2 years and are almost alwasy together. To avoid doing anything stupid we always only drink when were together. Last night my boy friend and i were hanging out with some people from his new job. I had to go home early and told him ... (252 words)

Did she just use me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Hello im 14 and i have a dilemma. Well my really good freind.. lets call her christina, just broke up with her boyfriend..so she's been really down lately. and she's been hanging around e for a while, we're always together but alot more now. well anyways a few days ago we w... (229 words)

Could he be cheating on me this soon... after all the stuff we did?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok, First off i know i am young so please don't judge. I went and stayed the night at my bf house, i gave him a handjob he loved it. We had a great time. After i got home i tried to text him... He never texted back, i texted him again. he said-- im on the phone, I was lik... (317 words)

Vomiting phobia.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - i am so terrified of being sick or seeing someone else sick. i have such a phobia of vomiting i cant take it anymore! out of everyone i know, im the one whos always feeling sick. helpppp! what can i do?? i need as many answers as possible. thanks.... (49 words)

Married, cheating and pregnant...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for the past 7 years. My husband cheated on me and left me briefly for another women. While he was off cheating i started a relationship with an old friend that i've alway had feelings for. Then my husband came back into the picture and wanted to work our ... (158 words)

How can I get him to last longer and bring back his sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have a lover which I have had for 25 years, he is married to another woman, and has 3 boys with her, I have 1 son with him. I moved away from him many years ago when my son was 3, he is now 20. We have had a relationship on and off for about that amount of time.... (150 words)

Should I walk away or should I hold a torch for him till he knows what he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been seeing this guy for nearly a year now, we tried to keep it casual and not be serious and seem to finish things every few weeks, yet each time we finish, we can't help but get back to where we were. He recently finished things with me and said it was becasue he felt ... (99 words)

Snoozy sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Last night me and my boyfriend were really drunk, we went to bed and had sex (we always use condoms) then we fell asleep in each others arms. I can vaguely remember waking up in the middle of the night still half asleep to pull the quilts over us, then my boyfriend woke u... (161 words)

Big marriage problems due to my husband being a workaholic!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) age 41-50 - My husband is a workaholic. He puts his work before me and his children, long years ago. He does not seem to be interested in anything else, other than his work. I just realized that he probably made a lot's of damage on me and the children. They are grown ups, but have... (229 words)

What is your experience of love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Just some general thoughts and wondering how other people see things. I'm 28 years old, had a few relationships but seemingly haven't found the 'one' yet. This makes me ask myself whether i'm too demanding of what a relationship should be. The thing is I believe l was in... (193 words)

Is there anything left between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy, I've known him 4 years and think I love him. We work together and I was with him for a couple of months knowing well we both had long time partners. He got caught and I didn't but left my fiance. He stayed with his girlfriend and they finished once or twice ... (95 words)

I really need your advice on this one! How can I get her to open up about her feelings towards me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

12 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I apologize for the long post, but I feel that I’m experiencing a dilemma that requires some sort of a resolution. About three years ago I became the supervisor of a woman whom I found to be full of contradictions. (Currently I’m 43 and she is 39.) She was easy to deal wit... (1043 words)

Did these guys like me... and other questions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok, so where I work I am a cashier. So I run into different types of people. But I was curious with these two customers. Do they like me? Please answer all my questions! Here is what happened: Guy # 1: I actually see this guy come through the front door, we see each other a... (411 words)

Been with him 6 years but he says I'm not ready to be his wife yet!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - We have been together for 6 years I'm 24 now almost 25 and I'm ready to get married and have a baby. He wants a baby too but says I'm not ready to be a wife yet. He says I don't keep the house clean all the time and I'm supposed to be his best friend and he can't tell me ... (154 words)

White female attracted to black guys...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am a white female and i am really attracted to black guys. Its not just a physical thing, its their confidence. It's just my preference. Everyone has preferences right? The only problem, is there where i live, black guys like white girls for casual relationships an... (195 words)

What are the chances I could be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok so I have an implant but I had sex 2 times of times with my boyfriend rougly a couple of weeks ago.. (we usually do it with a condom just to be safe but we didnt have any at that time) so I thought it would be ok since I'm on the implant but I think I might be pregnant.. my ... (116 words)

Is it possible to start again after your husband has an affair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - 3 Months ago my husband slept with someone at his work, I found out and kicked him out we have a 8 year old son. It took about 6 weeks for us to start talking again I went through what every broken hearted women goes through. I loved him a lot. He started dating the girl he ... (505 words)

He was my first love but now my ex won't talk to me... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - ok here goes!! just before easter my best friend introduced me to this absolutely amazing guy who was into exactly the same things as me. she was going out with his best friend who i knew from auditions at drama schools, and coincidently, the guy she introduced me to was in t... (886 words)

Help with SADS.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I suffer from a mental disorder called Reverse SADS, which basically means that during the summer I become rather depressed, withdrawn and have trouble eating or sleeping. I hate going out during this time but don't like being left behind by my friends, what shall I do?... (47 words)

Underappreciated and undervalued, she treated her exes better than me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'm new to posting on this website, but i have come here for advice before dealing with my relationship. my girlfriend and i have been going out for almost 8 months now. things were amazing in the beginning. she would do anything to please me and we were completely smitten ... (464 words)

I've fallen for him over the internet...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Actually, I met an English boy 2 months ago on the Internet, and I think all the time about him, I've become addicted to him, to talk to him. I think i'm falling in love. He makes my day... But, i think he doesn't really care about me...'Cause, he's never the first to talk. I... (107 words)

I fancy my best mate's brother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear cupid, I’ve got a problem and need some advice. There’s more than meets the eye to the problem, it’s not as simple as just, I fancy my best mate's brother. There’s more but I’ll try to keep it short. Basically like everyone in their first year university, I made a gro... (984 words)

How can I control my anger problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My anger problem is getting worse and ive started to have random outbursts towards my boyfriend, like hitting him, biting and like squeezing his face and diggin my nails into him, i cant help it or stop myself. i say sorry millions of times. it really upsets me and i cry about ... (81 words)

Help, my sex drive's too high!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) age 18-21 - Hello there, I am almost 21 years old male, and i am unhappy with my sex drive. It's too high, it is one step behind to perversion. It almost makes me unable to concentrate anything whole day. I'm asking a way to lower my sex drive, if there is any. Or a way to ignore... (66 words)

When does teenage life start to get better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm sure no-ones had a perfect life as a teenager and I've heard it is one of the most difficult times in life, but I'm always getting told that it does eventually get better, but when? Ever since being around 11 or 12 I've just hated life in general, I've never felt I fit in ... (241 words)

Help! Have I ruined my chances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) age 13-15 - I like this guy, lets call him ben, i met him a few years back and met up with him recently, when we went into town before a friends concert it started raining so we hid in a shelter. we started playfighting, poking and tapping and i pushed him against a wall with my back ... (151 words)

I'm unsure...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and I feel I am really wasting my time. Although he is good company and I can talk to him about most things, there is no romance or passion in the relationship. He has never said he loves me and when I asked him why, ... (113 words)

I really do believe he's my soulmate...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - There is a guy who i believe is my soulmate. Here is the history... We were in primary school and high school together. We spoke 4the 1st time in matric..finally! He said he has always liked me but too shy to talk to me. Anyway, it was great. We got along well. Then, his ... (399 words)

He said "we can begin as good friends with no hidden agenda" what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused. I have split with a long term partner. An old admirer has neen in touch, texting every day, bringing lunch over and flirting by hugging touching my hair etc. I felt a little overwhelmed by his attention and said I needed to take things slowly. Then he said ... (68 words)

Is he really ready for marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Looking for some advice please. I have been going out with a guy for about 1 year. We are very close and moved in together about 5 months ago. It was the best thing we could have done and it was his suggestion as we'd been spending most nights together. He went back home (his ... (1103 words)

Is he really Straight?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

12 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Would a straight guy ever let a gay man give him head? I have a friend that I grew up with, we have known each other for over 15 years. We don't see each other very often but every time we do I give him head. He says he likes girls. Is he really straight?... (58 words)

Should I be worried that he'll cheat on me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - my boyfrind went to south carolina for work. He called me one day and told me that his ex was coming so he could see his daughter that he hasnt seen in 3 yrs. But the problem is she is stayin with him at his brothers house. She wont let him talk to me or any other girls. ... (274 words)

Baby names... Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My friend just wrote too on this account so dont get confused! Hi im Ellie :) I'm 7 months pregnant and I was just wondering on opinions for my childs name And im open to suggestions here!! Girl: Eralyn Grace Neal Ashlyn Louise Neal Mara Elizabeth Neal (Or suggestio... (85 words)

He can't make up his mind whether I should keep my baby or abort it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - This Is my mates account ok the thing is basically im pregnant (im 16) and when i told my boyfriend he wanted it and so did i. Then he changed his mind and said have an abortion and we'll try in a few years. This seemed sensible so i agreed. Then he changed his mind AGAIN! ... (175 words)

I need to get closure on this mess.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really do need help. 6 years ago i split with my fiance because i felt he didnt care about me or love me very much. at the same time i was friends with another guy who i developed feelings for. i didnt do it intentionally so eventually i left my fiance who i had a house... (344 words)

I need your help. What do I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi all, Mine isnt really a problem, but more advice what to do next. I have been very close to a girl for a number of months, however she has a boyfriend. The other day she came out she was going to dump her boyfriend because it just wasnt right because she admitted to havi... (140 words)

How can I change her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I've been best friends with my best friend for 5 years now. I love her and she has always been a great best friend. Except for this past year or so. We've never faught or anything. But this year she's changed dramatically! I can barely even trust her anymore. We got in a fight ... (126 words)

When in a relationship with an older woman how should the younger man approach the topic of sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) age 18-21 - When in a relationship with an older woman how should the younger man approach the topic of sex? Should the older woman take the lead in the topic? Should the younger man communicate an interest? How so? Any tips for enjoying sex with an older woman? ... (50 words)

How important is it for you to see your partners face during intercourse

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) age 18-21 - Body language and expression tells a lot. How important is it for you to see your partners face during intercourse? Do you like seeing the expression of pleasure on partners face during sex? Is that good for you? ... (38 words)

Is this a good fitness regime?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - so I'm trying to lose weight and I go to the gym twice every day. I do resistance training with my trainer 3 times a week for a half hour and then I do 45 minutes of cardio after and 45 minutes at night and then 4 days twice a day I go in for 45 minutes doing cardio. Is that ... (75 words)

Are past grudges a good reason to break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - So I fear the time has come to break up with my boyfriend. He treated me like crap in the 10th grade. So I dumped him after being naive and unable to do so for almost a year. He tried to get me back in the 11th and he did score... But all he did in the 10th is now surfacing ... (122 words)

I told him "I'm not a one day girl".

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, I met this guy, my godfathers' nephew a few years back. Recently i hung out with him for like a day and we kissed and cuddled. I told him i wasn't going to go any further with him because i wasn't a one day girl. he told me he wasn't a one day guy and i wasnt sure whether ... (83 words)

If I don't make a move I'll always wonder "what if..."

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I have been going out with my current girlfriend for a little over 2 years. She is cute and very sweet but, there is a problem. You see my best friend and hers are also dating and the four of us always hangout together. Now I've always had a bit of a crush on my friend's ... (142 words)

Frustrated and heart sick

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have had a crush on the same guy since high school. As soon as I met him I found him charming, intelligent, hilarious, and really nice. He always set my heart aflutter when I saw him. I figured he was way out of my league as he was a grade above me (even though he's a few ... (644 words)

I don't want to leave him, I really don't, so how else can I sort this out?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello everyone! Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half, and his attitude is getting to the point where I don't know what to do. He has a childish way of dealing with things when hes upset, he never wants to talk about it, he'll just get angry and punch wa... (419 words)

What to do about Bob...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (?) age 13-15 - A boy (bob)i went out with last year likes me again and was getting my friends to find out if i liked him, I had been going through a rough time and said i don't know i'll tell you when I'm ready, but my friends kept bugging me because bob was bugging them. So i just told my ... (313 words)

I've just broken up with the love of my life :(.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I broke up with my girlfriend of 21 months last night and I'm not quite sure what to do now. She said she doesn't love me anymore and when she first told me she loved me she didn't mean it, and I don't know if I believe that she doesn't because we've had so many good times ... (243 words)

Am I being jealous and silly or do I have valid reasons for feeling like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I have been engaged for 3 months but have known each other for many years. He is really nice, rational and calm and sees both sides of arguments and both feelings when we argue. Recently we have started arguing all the time due to a number of factors. He is very ... (334 words)

He's with another girl, how can I beat her and win his heart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - He is with another girl and I'm in love with him. How can I beat her and get his heart?... (20 words)

Two guys, one decision, but I can't pick both.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok, so one of my guy friends asked me out a couple of weeks ago on myspace, i said yes, and then he says we should wait until school starts to be together, so the next day, I'm chatting with him, and I find out that he got a girlfriend the very next day. Well that night, I had ... (470 words)

My ex fiancé is married, but I really want to send him an e-mail to get forgiveness and closure...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what can i do ? ive recently come out of a very bad relationship with a guy who has bled me dry and made me feel like a sack of crap. before this i was engaged to my fiance had a house with him everything but in the back of my mind i didnt feel loved - stupidly my friend ... (317 words)

Is it true that players don't like to be dumped?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - A guy I love only contacts me when he wants to. He asked me if I have a boyfriend and I replied no. When he did not contact me I wrote to him "Hi, How is it going?". He did not answer me so the same day I broke up with him telling him that "you are a player and you are playing ... (138 words)

Does anyone have any clues as to what was going on with him because I feel totally lost and just want some closure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just ended a my 2 year relationship with my 36 year old boyfriend and feel very confused right now. We were in a long distance relationship. I felt he was the love of my life - he was so attentive, generous and welcomed me into his family with open arms which I had... (572 words)

My ex slept with someone else while we were broken up, how can I forgive now that we're together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi all, well here is my problem, I have been recently seeing my ex..just meeting up in the day time and talking nothing physical. We have both decided to give the relationship another try after 4 months apart as we both never stopped loving or caring for each other. It ended ... (299 words)

My first time, how do I move during sex??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a long time (well over a year now) and we've only just decided to have sex (we're both in our 20s but decided to wait until the time is right, which it is now!). However, I've never had sex and although he has he isn't all that experienced... (142 words)

Men want porn but have to settle for us

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I just have a quick question about porn watching please... It seems to me, that porn is what men want, but us (real women-their wives with stretchmarks from their children) is what they have to settle for... Is that true? Thanks for your answers.... (56 words)

Can I have proper sex with a 4 incher???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - I have kind of a problem ish. i can pre cum but i wanted to know is there any indication to when i will properly be able to cum. I am 14 and thats what i wanted to know and i have a 4 inch when erect and was wondering would i be able to break a hymen, i know the hymen is like 2 ... (135 words)

He told me "bye" via text..does that mean we're over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and this guy have been hangin out for a month but we were talkin for 2 months.Well yesterday we had an argument via text messages.He thinks i went on a date with another guy but ever since we started to hang out i havent been on a date.Idk why he got so angry bcuz were takin ... (94 words)

She asked for a photo of my penis, I sent it and then find out she was humiliating me in front of her friends!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I started online dating a couple of weeks ago. I have never done anything like this before - and found it really fun. I started it because I wanted to find a nice girl to date. Anyway, I started talking to this 24 year old girl. We were going to go on a date but she cancelled ... (345 words)

Is it wrong to go on dates with people that you don't fancy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) age 18-21 - is it wrong to go on dates with people that you don't fancy? Recently, i have been building my confidence and i find that going on dates with guys i know i'm not attracted to really gives me a boost as its getting me more comfortable around guys (something i never was before... (165 words)

Boyfriend doesn't want to live with me anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok so im 19 and my bf is 20. We've been dating for a year and a half and for the past 6 months we've been living together. Now he's bought his own place and doesn't want me to move in with him he's told me to find my own place but we can still be together. Our relationship ... (109 words)

How do I respond to this kind of situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'v been doing online dating for about 5 months now and let's just say it's been quite interesting. A few hits and a few misses, the usual. I'm just a little puzzled as to what I should do in the following situations. Guy emails me indicating interest, asks me a f... (272 words)

My current boyfriend or Seth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 132 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over seven months and he's been everything to me, he's been the only boyfriend i can be weird and myself around and do silly things to and with. A month ago i moved back to a city 45 minutes and we have seen each other 3 times ... (153 words)

He can't get hard for me because he's chatting sexually online

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am married for 29 years my husband often had afairs but stopped almost 20 years now he has now join a chat line and speaks to a girl often where he contacts her but that has stopped she now contacts him regulary he was about to leave with her he even went to the airport to ... (141 words)

How can I remain dignified and strong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Hi all, can someone please tell me how to keep dignified and strong. I was seeing a guy I have known for years for the past 3 months, stupid I know, he is going through a divorce (has 2 children with his wife) has bought a house and lives separately from his family, and shares ... (319 words)

I'm starting to hate his daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Well its a really long story so im guna cut it short! well as short as i can. Been with boyfriend 3 1/2 years he has a kid to another woman (1 night stand!!! a big mistake) I have took on his child as if she was my own, i looked after her while my boyfriend would work etc. ... (433 words)

Why do I keep thinking back about this incident from my past...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hey, i dont really know how to put this, ill try to keep it short. I was talking to my boyfriend the other day about embarressing things we did when we were younger and one thing popped up that i remembered when i was little, in year 3. I went to a new years eve party at my ... (179 words)

Is he playing with my head or is he really taking time to think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hello :D Okay, so I have liked my closest guy friend for a few months now. I told another friend, and he told him that I liked him. I was okay with that, I was actually really relieved and happy. So me and him were talking about it, I offered to answer any questions he had. I h... (163 words)

Why does he keep asking about my past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - on the way to dinner tonight my bf kept asking me questions about the last guy i was with 2 yrs ago like did u think he was hot? Blah blah anyway i answered but he has asked these questions many times before and i didnt want to talk about it so i asked can we stop talking about ... (165 words)

Dyed orange or pop goes the weasel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay, bare with me on this one. So, I've been afraid to buy any real sex toys, so sometimes I use a hairbrush. Well, i found a new one in my aunt's house, and it had a loooong handle. it's orange, btw. so, i went deeper than I've ever gone before. My usual brush is 3... (136 words)

Am I being cold or does he just not want to discipline her?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my bf has a 2yo daughter. Its hard for me b/c he makes me feel like i dont belong (never informing me if she is coming over etc) but i try my hardest. I read her stories, dress her sometimes, help with making her food and bathing her but he says i dont try at all. All he see is ... (168 words)

I'm totally in love and want to be with her!

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello Everyone. I'm really confused and hurt over a situation that has literally taken over the past 5 years of my life. In a way I feel angry, because this has taken over and I'm afraid I'll wake up some day and realize that my young life has passed me by.. Here's t... (249 words)

She only sees me as a friend but I really, really like her

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12 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Well, I've liked this girl for a few months now and we've become good friends. She's always acted awkwardly around me in person but she's always talkative and social when I text her or we talk on msn. Recently I told her my feelings and she said that she only saw me as a ... (134 words)

I cannot forgive myself for my past mistakes

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - theres something wrong with me. i cant ever seem to feel good about myself. recently i heard my ex got married and i was very upset by this news-so much so ive been in tears o and off the last 3 months-i know im sad at the same time ive just come out of a relationshi... (330 words)

What makes a guy suddenly want a break from sex?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I just want to know from guys, but not just mainly... What would actually make a guy decide that they suddenly wanna take a break from sex? I'm just wondering.... (30 words)

We want to get married, but she's still married..and there are many other factors causing trouble in this relationship!

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12 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 38 yrs old and have two children, 13 and 11 and I live with my dad. I have been divorced for 6 ½ years. My girlfriend of 10 years is 46 yrs old and is still married. She has two children, 21 and 17. She recently moved out after only 2 ½ weeks of living together. After ... (1554 words)

Boyfriend can't get hard enough to have sex

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i need help when im with my boyfriend he cant get hard enough to make love to me weve been together off and on for 5 years now and we havent been able to make propper love making please hel ... (40 words)

How can I get over my boyfriend betraying my trust?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - First off. I love my boyfriend and I will not break up with him so please do not encourage me to do so, your efforts would be in vain. Throughout our relationship , alcohol has never been an option. He would never let me drink and he made me swear on his life that I woul... (390 words)

We had oral sex and then he started talking like nothing had ever happened!

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please someone , tell me what this all means - Met up with this guy who i have been having a fling with for a couple of weeks , i get in his car and he says he wasnt sure if he wanted to see me again , but still agreed to meet me on this day . He had chased me for a couple o... (134 words)

Why is my friend never available for me unless it suits her?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, This isn't a romantic question, just a general one that I'd like opinions on. It was my birthday on Friday, and as part of my birthday present to myself I had bought very expensive tickets to a show which I would never get another chance to see. My boyfriend couldn... (270 words)

I'm 18, he's 16 and my parents will not be happy about me dating him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been single and content for a while now, and so has a guy friend of mine. He came over my house the other day for a haircut and to hang out afterwards, but what is usually friendly poking, hugging, and tickling (we are silly...and ticklish) turned into something more. ... (249 words)

My boyfriend is playing games with my head!

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I need help! Okay my boyfriend he's amazing everytime I lay in his arms I feel like I have the world and I love him to pieces but..he calls me beautiful and says that I love you...but the next couple of days later he says he's annoyed of me when I didn't do anything and then... (296 words)

No sex! Make it work? Or end it?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my BF for almost 2 years. He's the type of guy that every girl dreams of being with: committed, monogamous, great personality and sense of humor, interesting, fun to be with, very handsome, financially secure, charming, great heart, and is supporting me while I'm ... (526 words)

A one sided love affair

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi Aunts, I have a friend.I was in one sided love with him. He is confused about his feelings for me. He says he just like talking to me. He says that initially he had lust for me but now his feelings has changed. He doesn't want to do any harm to me.Yesterday i asked him but ... (81 words)

He wants us to get married but he never spends any time with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok I am so confused and don't know what to do. To start off I'm almost 7 months pregnant and am having issues with my bf. Our relationship has changed since we have been together first off we bearly ever have sex. When I say something about this to my bf he just says that its ... (297 words)

How do I break up with my fiance?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my fiance have been together for almost 3 yrs and engaged for 2 1/2 of the 3 years. we met on a sat. and started dating that sun. we only knew each other for 2 days and well at first everything was perfect. but the past year and a half has been very rocky...we would get ... (275 words)

My GF has a lot of male friends and it makes me uncomfortable

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12 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello every one, I have been going out with a girl for a few months. We love each other and are very passionate and she tells me I am the love of her life. We spend as much time together as possible and I believe her that she loves me. However, the only cause of arg... (367 words)

My bf is annoyed I wont talk to my father about birth control, who's right?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I hope someone can help me out. I'm so confused. Sorry its so long, but you have to understand the whole story to answer the questions. I'm almost sixteen years old, and me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year. I never really followed the bible on sex, the w... (649 words)

Why does a guy mean when he tells others he wants to make me happy?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What does a guy mean when he ask me if I am happy and when he tells others that he wants to make me happy? ... (27 words)

He's my own personal drug and I'm addicted

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I fell in love with a guy who doesnt love me back. I spend the night at his house and we have sex cuddle and hang out and have fun but a couple weeks later he has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend and were all good. Until I see him and I suddenly fall in love with him agai... (97 words)

Will she think I'm fat?

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12 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - So, im kinda average size (six foot tall, 180 lbs) but a little fat. Im pretty outgoing with a great peronality and every thing. My girlfriends amazing ( i dont know how im going out with her) and we have both mentioned having sex for the first time. Do you think she will think ... (87 words)

Where is my boyfriend's money going?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm a little concern on where my boyfriend's money is going. I know it isn't my business, and that...it doesn't matter what he uses his money for. But..sometimes...i sit and wonder... He is the meat department manager at walmart, and makes about....maybe $450 ever... (350 words)

Is she just being herself? Or could her flirting be more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

12 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Ok... well... maybe someone could clear this up for me. Im going to try to cut this to the chase because im infamous for writing 1000+ word questions. Never could figure out when a girl was flirting with me, especially this one. She's very flirty and flirts with everyone,... (973 words)

He thinks sex hurts because I don't have a G spot

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 12 months now. We have been having sex for 10 of those months but when we do it hurts me, when its going in, when its in but not when he pulls out. He is the only guy i have ever been with. He has been with others before me and thinks ... (103 words)

Anal activity questions

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a few questions. First off...is it weird or...gross for a man to "finish" inside of a girl's butt? I just started experiencing anal sex, and...I kinda wanted to see what it was all about, and...I asked my boyfriend about his opinion on finishing inside, and he s... (385 words)

Why am I suddenly the enemy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

- Ok so...I have been with a man for nearly 6 years now, and we've had our share of problems. But recently his mother passed away. She was nearly 80 so..this was not unexpected. He has never had a good relationship with his parents, but after his mother died I encourag... (334 words)

I got irresponsibly drunk, had sex and my parents want to sue him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - i kinda got raped. i cant explain but i can try. i was drunk. i passed out , was consantly throwing up, but continued drinking. he carried me into his room. i was awake, i didntr say no but i didnt say yes either. im 16 and he is 22. my parents found oout, just like everyone ... (75 words)

Ok to have sex? We're not related by blood

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12 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - ok well i have a HALF brother (we have the same dad but not the same mom)and i hang out with a lot of his family on his MOM's side (so they have no relation to me at ALL) and he has a cousin on his mom's side that i am attracted to. i am just wondering if it would be wrong for ... (98 words)

Could I have a healthy platonic relationship with my ex?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I was in a relationship with a man ten years older than me for about 4 months. Everything was going well and we were great friends but the age difference was causing issues and ultimately ended our relationship. Now I am in a relationship with another man who is closer in age ... (127 words)

What does he want from me? Getting mixed signals

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Well, I dunno how to start but I really need help. I'm 21 and the one I like is 22. We are from the same city. His house is close to mine, but we barely can meet as it is against the traditions in our country. Moreover, he studies in the states, so there is a big timing d... (366 words)

I'm paranoid about my next intimate relationship

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am very confused by the actions of a guy I'm trying to hook up with. He is a friend of mine and we have already slept together once, about a year ago. Things didn't work out between us at the time because I was looking for a serious relationship and he wasn't (and clearly ... (459 words)

How can I ask her out with her friend being there?

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12 July 2009 (M)

age 13-15 - Ok so I'm 13 and I don't know what to do. I know have decided to hang out with this girl I've started to like and i though We'd go to like a movie, but we're going to my house so I was like OK then she said her friend(girl) was coming. How can I ask her out or something with ... (84 words)

Its been four years and I can't get over him. Why is he so mean?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, im 22 years old. and i first met this guy back in school and we dated then. we had not seen each other for years so we met again. and when we did it was love at first sight. it felt so perfect! he was my soulmate. he would always tell me how he knew i was the one he wanted ... (387 words)

Mature for my age, but too immature for a relationship?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - starting maybe january this year, i started getting really lonely, what with my friends and i moving in different directions. consequently, i started going into chat rooms. at first, it was just for fun, but then i started having cyber and phone sex. after a while, i started... (121 words)

My boyfriend is a strange guy

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12 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is so strange guy, I cant understand him , I don’t know what is he really want , we have been together for 8 months and it was so great relationship between us , I used to love my love for him , being with him was the first priority more than any thing else , but ... (378 words)

I don't like anal sex and my boyfriend is being an ass about it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i have a problem with my boyfriend, he stated that i don't agree we have anal sex then this proves i don't love him that much ,,, but i tried it and i hate it hurts alot and i don't get it it's not like we can't have sex other wise , now i don't think that when i refuse having ... (74 words)

Life is overwhelming, this lady's got the blues...

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12 July 2009 (F)

- Hey Cupids, I'm finally turning to you for advice, or maybe I'm just looking for some warmth and tips from those who have been in the same position. I'm 22 (nearly 23) and I'm bumming. It's been a really hard summer. My Grandma (who I'm very close to) passed, it was ju... (744 words)

Should I still worry if I'm pregnant?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - We almost did it last June 1, the tip of his penis sort of entered the tip of my vagina, the upper tip part. I got my period on that month, it wasn't late or whatsoever. But i can't help but worry. I need help, advice. Should i still worry? I'm waiting for my next period for ... (61 words)

I think he messed with me in my sleep!

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - so i was staying the night at my bf house, and me and him was playing around and he went to play with me and i refused just cause i didnt feel like it. well i finally fell asleep. And the next moring when i woke up.... i felt funny down there i had big stomach pains i p... (124 words)

Why do guys wanna get in young girls pants!?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Im almost 15, and i have ton of guys saying they love me and wanna date me. But i don't get it everytime i trust and let someone in, they try to have sex with me and crap. and i don't like that. So why do guys wanna have sex so much? ... (60 words)

Whose libido is out of whack? His or mine?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for almost 3 months. we have been around each other 24/7 for the past 3 weeks. We have sex maybe once every couple of days. in other relationships I am used to having sex two to four times a day. When we get done, I want to go again. no matter if ... (201 words)

I like her but I'm not sure if I want to be in a relationship with her

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12 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi, I started talking to a girl who's a few months younger than me (I'm almost 17) a couple of months ago. At first, I was very excited to get to know her. We've hung out a handful of times and she seems to be very interested in me (and her friends have hinted towards it). I've ... (317 words)

I get excited too quickly

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey. I'm a girl and I'm 18. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year, and we've had sex. I cum really early, and it's even while we're making out. I hate it. He can go on forever, but I cum within 10 minutes. Advice?... (48 words)

Feelings for my ex-husband's uncle

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I am a 24yr old female with 2 children 10mos and 25mos. I am newly divorced but have been seperated for 3 years. The prooblem is I have always had feelings for my ex-husbands uncle. We have always been friends before my husband and I met. My ex was verbally and physically ... (216 words)

I love her and want to help her emotionally and financially

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12 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I really need some advice. I have been dating a wonderful woman for the last 6 months and things were progressing wonderfully between us until recently. She is a divorced single mom with young children and has recently lost her job and could potentially lose her home if her ... (240 words)

My troubled life and I'm not sure what to do about it

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I've remained anonymous because it is for the sake of my family, not me. I think I have a very unbalanced view on men. I have not had the happiest of childhoods. My dad (I don't usually call him that) was a woman beater. Plates, fists, anything. He always blamed it on his... (974 words)

Why would he kick me out of his life like that?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - This guy has been my friend for a year and we havn't been as close anymore which I respect. I havn't seen him in two weeks or more because of summer! I thought me and him were friends, I accepted the fact that were going to be nothing more than that! But when I try to ask him ... (218 words)

Why do women dislike me?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My dad and I have a great father-daughter relationship. When he remarried, I was more than happy to finally see him with someone who could love him as a partner. She, I suppose out of jealousy (?), misconstrued our relationship. Though he is a young father, her insinuat... (174 words)

Boys look at me but say nothing, is it because I am fat?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I feel really fat and like no one wants to go out with me. I weigh 150 but I am 5'8" and all of my friends say I am not fat and it's just muscle. I play a lot of sports but I still feel like I am fat and ugly. i have a lot of guy friends but I want to go out. i see a lot of ... (90 words)

He never answered my question, then sent me a crazy message, should I ask for an explanation?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I were texting at a normal rate. After a text I sent him asking if I can call him, he never replied. It was around one thirty in the morning. I thought about it some more, he probably didn't want me to call him so I wouldn't find out where he is. He didn't even ... (158 words)

I a desperately in love with a 42 year old woman, I am 15, how do I get over this condition?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Hello Basic stuff yeah? I'm in love, its not a crush, I don't want to bang her. She's very important to me. No abuse please. Some open minded and nice answers Since I was.. 11 I've been deeply in love with a female teacher at my school. I'm 15 now, my feelings ha... (506 words)

My gay boyfriend and I broke up, he verbally abused and hurt me, I still love him, don't know what to do, please help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

12 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey guys, I have a story to tell, im a gay guy and my boyfriend dumped me like 3 weeks ago after a long and ugly fight, at the beginning of our relationship everything was perfect we both seemed to love each other, I visited him all the time mostly the weekends because I work. ... (276 words)

Do I want him back just because I don't have him now?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - So I dated guy #1 for a few months and I really fell for him. We loved each other very much, and we had an amazing time together, but as time passed by, he became very absorbent and overbearing. He was very jealous, wouldn't let me see my friends, stayed at my flat almost ... (320 words)

I have feelings for him but set him up on a date and now I feel badly

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a successful 39 year old married Business woman that developed a strong friendship with one of my single male contractors. When I was going through a rough patch in my marriage he was there for me and we would talk a lot about our feelings in general. I have felt that he ... (206 words)

I've thought about this woman constantly since we met, but how would I let her know?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - About a year ago I went to register with a job recruitment agency. The woman I met there was the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, I completely fell in love with her, with such intensity, I've never experienced such a strong attraction to anyone else. We only ever met that ... (202 words)

How do I make him do sweet things for me?

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - So I have been in a serious relationship for a year and four months. I live with my boyfriend and he is my first serious relationship. I always talk about wanting to be together for a long committed relationship but i am unsure if he wants to be. I feel like i invest money in ... (161 words)

Guys know a girl is interested because the girl shows some interest right?

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12 July 2009 (F) - Hi there, I'm 21 years old and have not had a proper relationship since I was 18 - before then I'd been on two, one of which ended badly. It took me a long time to get my confidence back after this and feel that only now has it really started to come back and, strang... (316 words)

I love him but he stinks!

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12 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a bit weird but wot it is is my bf who i have been with for 2 yrs whome i have a daughter with has bad body odour! Now i have tried everythin 2 tell him, iv been nice, iv been straight up with him, and even told him its a turn off but he still dont change! He says he ... (123 words)