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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Guys, what kind of presents do you like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - heyy i really need suggestions for my boyfriends birthday present! im 15 and hes turning 17. guys what kinds of presents would you like, or what was the best present you ever got? and girls what was the most appreciated present you ever gave? i need lots of answers please and ... (89 words)

I don't know who to choose, I like them both very much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Okay so there's two guys who like me and I like them both very much. Guy #1 I started seeing a month beforehand and we started hooking up. It's not clear it he wants to be boyfriend girlfriend with me because he introduces me as a friend to his friends but he always says how ... (200 words)

His texts went from "i love you x" to "night x" to nothing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

26 July 2009 (?) age 13-15 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 2 weeks, everything was going great we were spending loads of time together and texting 24/7. 10 days after we started goin out we were spendind our last day together before he went on holiday and we were textin each other ... (225 words)

My boyfriend has a lump but he wont go to the doctor!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello Everyone, My byfriend is 29 and he has a lump on his testicals (inside his scrotum not on the outside) and he tells me it has been there for a good few years. Its nothing you could feel froma general play but he showed me where it was the other month and he definitly... (188 words)

We both said we liked each other, now it's like he stopped the coach and threw me off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have had this friend for say over a year now and we used to talk often i always had a soft spot for him because he was sweet and caring although i never met him in RL. but this last month we have been talking more often i mean like sometimes we talk for hours a night before ... (272 words)

He has left me, but still wants to control what I do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Agony Aunt, I am having relationship difficulties with my boyfriend at the moment. I felt as though I wanted to be more committed to him and spoke about moving in together. This immediately caused arguments as my boyfriend does not want to move in together yet. He... (234 words)

What's the best way to tell my parents I want to be a footballer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - i really want to be a footballer. i believe that i should be trying to get scouted or play for a team. i have found a trial scheme where you can go and have a trial with other players at first team venues.there are scouts there from the team who plays at the ground and other ... (142 words)

I've got hair growing on my bottom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - ok this is quite embarrassing but im sure its normal. but i have har growing on my bottom and i saw my bottom in the mirror the other day when i got out of the shower and it really looked freaky. i was just wondering what should i do about it? should i shave it off or wax it or ... (66 words)

He's too thoughtful and considerate to his family! But it's not mutual!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't know where to start... I am married with kids. my husband is like a little puppet or puppy whenever things concern his family. he loves them too much he is too thoughtful and considerate when it comes to them. the thing is it is not MUTUAL!!! i mean they don't even ... (89 words)

I really feel that it is love! But the age difference....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Basically, i really love this guy, he tells me he likes me to, sometime i feel like hes leading me on, but hes afraid to let his feelings out because of the age gap between us, im 15 and hes 21, our birthdays are on the same month, mines before his, but i just dont know what to ... (164 words)

The new, the ex, or the bestie? Which one should I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - i don't know how to choose at all. i just recently met this guy and he's everything i want in a guy, positively. he's so sweet and he's just amazing. but i feel like it was too quick of a decision but i can't help but have feelings for him. And the only other problem is that ... (214 words)

Help, I need advice! Who is the father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem I am 24 weeks pregnant and I don't know who the father is. I had sex with my husband on jan 22 and my ex husband on jan 28th. I think i ovulation date was on jan 26th. I know scientist say girl sperm swim slower and live longer and boy sperm swim faster and ... (139 words)

Boyfriend doesn't like it that I'm still friends with my ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my boyfriend of almost a year in september have been going at it for a week because he still can't get over the fact that me and my ex still talk as friend i mean my ex was my first and we been friends since elementary school. so one day my boyfriend was going thru my ... (173 words)

Getting over engaged former lover

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (M)

age - I’ve been obsessed with a woman who I dated for several years. She had now returned to a former lover, that was a six year relationship. She is now engaged to be married to him. How do I help myself to get over her?... (44 words)

Sex and Love- but in what order??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok so here's three general questions opens to guys and gals: What's the sortest length of time you'd feel comfortable with been told that your partner loves you? What is the ideal length of time between starting a new relationship and having sex for the first time? ... (75 words)

We didn't have sex before marriage and now I discover husband isn't creative or that interested!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi All, Please advice. I have been married to my husband for a year and a half now. I love him. Ever since we have been dating and married I am the one who initiates sex or kissing cuddling etc . We never had sex before marriage. Even after marriage we just have sex ... (297 words)

She knew she had genital warts and didn't tell me. Forgive her? Or boot her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

26 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - I am in an hard spot, i have been with my girlfriend for 10 months and we are in love. We have sex on a daily basis, usually once or twice a day. For the most part i pull out instead of wearing a condom so its unproteted. We agree it feels better so we take the risk. Anyway, i ... (182 words)

Is he shy? Not interested? Or just now decided he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - when we first met he was really friendly, finding excuses to talk to me, asking personal questions. he then went a bit quiet and didnt seem so keen to talk to me - was a bit nervous. i asked him out and he never gave me an answer. he avoided me for a while but has now star... (110 words)

Could the symptoms of due - periods, actually be pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, I've been feeling like I'm going to get my period for three days now, but it hasn't come yet. I've had cramps in my legs and my lower stomach and a fever. I usually only get this the day it does come, so I'm confused on why it hasn't. Is this a sign of pregnancy?... (59 words)

How can I stop feeling jealous towards my boyfriends ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) age 18-21 - Hi, First of all, let me say I've always been quite the insecure/jealous girl. Like when I had a crush on a guy, I'd get jealous if he'd talk to my friends more. Or when my sister got prizes at school, and I got nothing, etc. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. He... (390 words)

Should my man be contributing more towards the house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Can you please help me: I have a boyfriend of 9 years, we have lived together for 7 years. I have three children who are now 17,18 and 19 years old. I have my own business for 6 years now; which has been very good but is getting harder. When my boyfriend moved in at fir... (771 words)

How can I prove to my boyfriend that I'm making an effort to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My b/f and I have a lot of problems lately. He said that he couldn't take it anymore because I supposily changed. I think I changed alittle but not a lot. But he don't see me trying. He said that he is only going to give me one last chance. For me to change. I am really trying ... (93 words)

Why do I bleed heavily during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 39 year old female. I love sex, but sometimes I start to bleed heavily during sex, Why does this happen. It is so embarrassing and I need to know if there is something I can do to stop it from happening? Any advise is appreciated. ... (48 words)

Hot guy from the office has changed his number - to block me or to test me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Got the hot guy at works work number and have text him several times, he never replies, his reason is that he doesnt use his work phone for personal things as the boss pays and he doesnt want to take the pee. His personal number is on the board in the office, so is easily f... (139 words)

He's going to try again with his ex, but still wants to talk to me! Should I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was seeing this man for 7 months who is divorced and younger than me..His ex has decided she wants to try to work things out..he has decided to go back to try. How can he say he loves me and want to try to work it out with her..Our age is 20 years different. he says he wants ... (82 words)

How do I reassure her that I'm trustworthy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in a new relationship of 2 months with my partner. (both female) She and I have started out very well and have said that we will be honest with each other even if it's not something the other person wants to hear. Last night I went out and got really drunk. She's not here, ... (199 words)

4 questions in one! Am I in love??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - (I'll say it now: I'm 17) I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now, and if anyone asks me how our relationship is going, I'll impulsively replay "Amazingly!" or some other word like it. But I know that something's just awkward with us. It's got nothing to do with ... (588 words)

I thought he liked me! I asked him out now hes avoiding me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Asked guy out at work about 4 months ago, he never gave me a reply. He avoided me for a while and it was awkward between us. In the last month, I have caught him looking at me, finding reasons to come to my office asking stupid questions (work related but ones he would kn... (177 words)

Does he like me? I've been waiting so long!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i was just wondering if this guy i know at my university really likes me cuz i gotta know i've waited to long so please help!ok this guys story is that he stares alot and once i played basketball with him and some other friends. so i was on his team so everyone one were ... (168 words)

I want to have sex with my girlfriends step sister without my girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

26 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Ok, first off i have been with my girlfriend for almost a year and i am in love with her. One night a while back my girlfriend, her stepsister, and i were at my apartment drinking... Now my girlfriends stepsister is VERY attractive might i ad, sexier than my girlfriend. bad i ... (206 words)

How do I cope alone with Involuntary celibacy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i know what wrong with me now i suffer Involuntary celibacy all my life.its no wondering i have being rejected all the time no matter how nice dress or did n,t it did n,t make difference, because i suffer Involuntary celibacy like i said i was born a rejected and i wasn,t wrong ... (149 words)

We had a messy break up but I want to rekindle him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex and I broke up almost a year ago. We were nasty in the break up (he refused to return calls, I couldn't stop calling). It ended with a "don't ever call me again" and "don't call me until you're an adult" rant fest. We were both in the wrong, and I apologized, but it ... (151 words)

I love him but is it worth him hurting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for two months today. We live at opposite sides of the US, so it's hard to keep track of each other, and we argue sort of often. We're completely in love, though, and have all of these elaborate plans for the future. The problem is... (169 words)

He never responded to my request to go out, could the lovebite on his neck be the reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started a new job back in the new year, and one of the guys seemed to be very friendly towards me, giving off the vibe he liked me. So after getting his work number, I text him and asked if he fancied going out for a drink sometime. He never replied. He didnt speak to me ... (159 words)

I can't get rid of my ugly self image!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi So me and my ex were broken up for a year now. NO contact at all. I loved him, and I knew he loved me, but there were family issues and I think me, being lile overly jealous at times (he was too tho) made him leave me. Problem is. I have completely changed my li... (504 words)

How can I make her believe I care for her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - ok so i met this girl on a trip. we spent the whole week talking and we got together. problem is she doesnt believe i care about her. i dont know how she doesnt because if she fell as i was asking how she was and all. she fainted and i nearly had a heart attack,everyone can see ... (90 words)

I suffer from involuntary celibacy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

Whenever we arrange to do something, b/f cancels!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i have a problem with my guy, whenever we arrange to do something he always cancels. hes used many excuses till i got the truth out of him that he doesn't think i will love him when i do. ive tried to be supportive but im worried that what happens if this will remain forever. ... (89 words)

I have expectations which my boyfriend doesn't fulfill but the other man does

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - i have a boyfriend who loves me a lot, and has sacrificed a lot for me too, like he quit his job which was 2500 kms away from me..but during that period, i met someone else who i was kind of attracted to..he bought me gifts (which my boyfriend never did), showered me with love ... (145 words)

I think his ex has some kind of hold on him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi There I have a problem. My boyfriend of 2 years has been telling me approximately every 2 months now for the year that he doesn't love me or we are not commpatible or he is confused about his feelings. We are in this stage right now where he doesn't know how he feels. I... (412 words)

How can I be playing him when he said he doesn't want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Right me and my ex was going to try again but due to things that have happened lately he has decided he no longer likes me and does not what to try again. It was hard to accept at first but i have accepted it now and began talking to an old friend, who is male. But my ex and ... (135 words)

Guys: What makes you realize you want to try again with your ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I know this has been posted and answered many times before but unfortunately I wasn't around yet to read it. My question is: Other than realizing that he is still in love with her, what makes a guy consider getting back with his ex? ... (50 words)

I want him to see that he needs me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello there , im new to this site and i cam across him because im in need of cupids help. The story goes like this ( short version ) we were a couple for 2 and a half years and 2 weekes ago we had a fight and he said to me that he had enough he can't stand this anylonger h... (331 words)

Sexual terminology help needed!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry for may be a little odd question. But it is really important to me right now. English is not my first language and I have never dated English-speaking man until now. Everything is going just great and we had sex for the first time yesterday. I am a little insecure in ... (148 words)

I regret so much the pain I have caused my wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunts, Hope somebody can give me advice.Married for 8 years with 3 kids.Last year I did something stupid and unforgiveable. A new girl started in our office.We became quite close as she did all my typing etc.She started asking me out at lunch time to a park nearby to eat o... (546 words)

"Go find someone else to treat bad!" ...that's what she said and it hurt me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend was in a bad mood after work which is understandable. I was being nice and asked my friend to leave so we could be alone. She started taking out something the dog did that was not my fault. She thought she heard me say something under my breath which i didnt and ... (151 words)

New girlfried doesn't contact me as much as I'd like. I don't want to seem needy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - i met a new girl recetly. we have a lot of fun together, we laugh and have good conversations and shes really good lookin in my opinion. the thing is shes a bit insecure, she doesnt txt as much. im always havin to txt her askin if she wants to meet up. its never the other way ... (120 words)

A spark between friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am confused by a current tricky situation. I am single after breaking up with a long- term ex . An old admirer from the past has helped me get over the break up ( I have a child ). He said initially " he would like to support me in a tough time for me , and be good friends ". ... (128 words)

How can I get closure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i met a guy on holiday, we got on brill although i could sense that he was possibly insecure and jealous by a couple of things that he did and said. 2 days before i was due to leave i had a talk with him, he said he would come on holiday to where i lived and wanted me to come ... (394 words)

What will happen when she finds out I'm pregnant with her brothers baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my best friend has polycycstic ovaries which makes it difficult for her to have children she isnt happy that i am engaged to her younger brother.shes always wanted children and said if she found out i have a child with her brother she wont see us because of the pain and she ... (81 words)

I'm afraid I'll regret it if I don't act on this feeling,,,!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If I don't act on my physical attraction w/my husbands friend how on earth will I get over the overwhelming aching attraction? Should I live my life always wondering what it would have been? I am talking about 1 night not a relationship. And yes he is married as well and ... (56 words)

Husband had affair came back, but I just feel like things will never be the same

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband has had an affair and though he left and has come back having made a huge mistake i am still re- living it all and cant seem to move on. we have been married 30 years and this other woman was his collegue, he was the boss. he resigned from his work and to be honest i... (457 words)

How do I tell my family I'm pregnant again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i had my first child at 19 and telling my family was a nightmare so im slightly concerned on how i can make it easier when i tell them this time.i have a new partner now who i have been with for 1 year we are engaged and iv just found out im pregnant again i can not abort the ... (138 words)

I get accused of being "desperate"! Should I just forget about any guy I want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Everytime I go for a guy that I NOTICE FIRST or that I WANT FIRST, it seems like I am either being (from what my family says) desperate. I had a talk with my father and he said that, but when I do not go for a guy that I WANT and NOTICE FIRST, he says that I need to stop ... (218 words)

For the Guys: At "that" moment, what do you want us to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Guys - when you are cumming, do you want the motion to continue or stop? e.g. when a girl is giving you head do you want her to continue while you cum or stop?... (34 words)

How can I strike up a conversation with the girl I like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i live a couple of houses away from a girl that i really like. i am the same age as her and she is a presenter on a news show. she doesn't have a boyfriend and i really do like her i would like to ask her out but what should i say? because i am not that good at talking to girls ... (70 words)

I read messages on my boyfriends phone and don't know if it's innocent or not. What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi. This kind of thing is always asked, but I just don't know what to do! Basically, I read my boyfriend of 6 months messages a few weeks ago because he is so protective of his cell, I know this is wrong and that I have betrayed his trust, and I am not even going to consi... (290 words)

Since having a new girlfriend my ex doesn't want to be friends anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey ... i have a question for everyone .. why do exes ignore u and avoid u at all costs after they have said we can be mates . .. my ex has recently got together with a chick it broke my heart knowing hes moved on but it hurts alot more tht hes outta my life ..after we ... (298 words)

I'm 15, he's 19, I have alot of insecurities & don't know how to approach our issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Right, this is a long one, so I apologise for it! The usual thing of "my boyfriend isn't really affectionate." but I'm actually willing to offer myself some answers for it, and see if anyone can help me out on them. I know his ex, he was with for a long time, and he did... (453 words)

Does this silence mean he's thinking about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my bf of over a year a few months ago. We tried to stay friends. I only did bc I was hoping things would respark. (kind of hard when this is long distance.) anyway, on his visit home I told him I cant stay friends with him anymore bc it's killing me. i to... (190 words)

Married for 3 years...What's going on? Need female perspective!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

26 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Well were to start. I was married for three years.. some of it was a happy time. We seemed to have our problems like every couple. Sometimes when it got to a point where it was a bad fight. She would say somthing about just leaving... and of course like a moron I would tell her ... (290 words)

He became ill and the relationship fell apart, almost a year on he wants to try again, I'm scared of being hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I dated this guy for 3 months a year ago, last summer. He became very ill after about 6 weeks of us being together and was hospitalised for near on a month. I know 3 months isn't very long in terms of relationships, and even though it's likely it was lust more than love,... (475 words)

We use condoms but she's missed her period

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (?) age 26-29 - My Girlfriend and I are both 15 and have been having sex for the past few months, we have always used a condom. The last time was approximately 2 weeks ago. Her period was due about a week ago and has still not come, i am concerned she may be pregnant? Although i have also ... (93 words)

We've been together over 4 years, but he says he's falling for someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have being dating my boyfriend 4 1 and half years,now he is falling in love with another girl but he claim he loves me and cannot leave me,since i discovered he is cheating on me:can i quit the relationship or still be patient with him... (47 words)

Does lack of sex kill a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend just told me that her husband had filed for divorce which I am really shocked by as they seemed to get on so well together. When she talked to me about the things that were happening that she didn't like in the relationship, it sounded like my current relationship ... (471 words)

She's really sending me mixed signals and I'm confused! Any advice on what she's thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - OK, so i met this girl a few months back, and I fell for for her very fast. She knew how i felt about her, and for a month and a half or so things were extremely perfect! we never fought, and always enjoyed being around each other. About a month ago she says to me that this ... (433 words)

My ex wants to be my "friend with benefits"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - me and my boyfriend broke up , now he wants to be friends with benifits ,, we broke up because i'm not ok with him talkin to a certain girl ,whom we once broke up because of her , it's not that i'm jealouse but we have sex and in the middle of it she keeps calling , she doesn't ... (157 words)

My boyfriend replies to other people's texts, so why not mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I just dont get this! Why is it like this? My mates a lad, hes 19...hes a really nice guy. But its weird, he says im a great friend to him and stuff but theres one little thing thats getting me down that i cant ask him about. Hes had a habbit like some lads of not alwyas ... (306 words)

Does my friend feel the same way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Well i have a friend who i have fallen in love with we've been talking for a month. well just the other day i told her i liked her not loved just liked...I told her how i felt for her well she said i don't get out much. I responded ouch im opening up to you and thats how you ... (142 words)

He's so verbally abusive

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm so confused, me and my boyfriend have a relationship of 5 years. When he gets angry he says really hurtful things like " you bitch, your deaf, you dumb slut" he tells me he has a short fuse and can't controll himself. Last night I had enough and explained I was sick and... (121 words)

My boyfriend says I am controlling and selfish

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i have a problem with my boyfriend ,, been dating for 3 years, the problem is that he says that i'm a controlling selfish girlfriend, because i asked op talkin to a friend whom we once broke of because , and also that friend of his keeps treating me in a bad way and always ... (149 words)

Do men get put off a girl who is too open?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - guys - do you get turned off when a girl is too open? ... (13 words)

I cry when I have sex with my husband

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my husband. He's a good man who looks after me and treats me like a princess. The problem is really odd. We rarely have sex and whenever we do I find myself crying. It's the weirdest thing and I'm scared he'll notice. It doesn't hurt, he doesn't make me do it - I just ... (70 words)

I like him but I'm scared

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay, I'm new to the whole asking for help thing. I usually help others and don't ask for help. But, There is this boy (I'll call him Bob), I know he likes me because he has told me and last year he had asked me to be his girlfriend. I told him No, since I didn't ... (350 words)

Should I stay with him for the sake of our son?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been w/ my "fiance" for 5 years, with our son 3 yrs, he wants to marry me but he has cheated several times,even while and after pregnant he'd continued I've left him, kicked him out but because of our son we kept trying to work it out, I feel stuck miserable and ... (218 words)

Is there a chance he will change his mind get back with me?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I broke up with my ex in May. By mid of June, he starts to contact me again. At first it was about some important things then later he started asking me personal questions like if I have a new boyfriend and other stuff about my family and friends. Then first week of July, ... (446 words)

We've broken up, he's sent me a cryptic email, what do I make of it?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i need to know how to respond to an email from my boyfriend of two years. we broke up last week. for the past few months we have been riding the breakup/cant live without you roller coster. this past week, i flipped out and completely went off on him because he went on one o... (373 words)

We've gotten close as friends, how do I know if he wants more too?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - okay soo theres this guy and we met through a friend once.. so later then he adds me on facebook.. soo we've chatting since the day he added me.. abt a week and a half ago for abt 4 hours each nite we talk abt everything ... life parents love and anything.. also we hve soooo ... (264 words)

We broke up, I told him I needed space, but now I want him back, how do I know how he feels?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I broke up with my bf a few months ago. We stayed friends in the interim. I just sent him a "would you consider getting back together" letter. I told him to take his time to think about it. I think I was so subtle in the letter that I never actually asked the question. Just ... (198 words)

He says horrible things to me because he doesn't like my past!

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend says he says things he doesn't mean when he is mad, and i should not take them personally. here is some examples : slut, whore, dirty, i am going to throw you off this balcony, you deserved to get raped no one is going to want you now, haha i fucked you in the ass ... (128 words)

I can't stay in a relationship where I'm not trusted!

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'll try and keep this short, but there is so much to the story. My boyfriend is extremely jealous, insecure and controlling. This is all getting better since he has been seeing a therapist, but one thing that has gotten worse it his trust problems. He tries to blame me, saying ... (240 words)

Tired of being the housekeeper!

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am sick of doing everything in my house. I am 19, i live with my mum dad and 4yo brother. I cook dinner EVERY night, while i dont mind cooking because i do live rent free, it would be nice for someone to at least help me out, or cook for one night, im trying to study at the ... (212 words)

My uncle died and now I'm scared of losing the people I love

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - ok...my uncle died 2 weeks ago. he died of lung cancer he was 65. ever since this event happened i've been scared of losing the ones i love like my family my grandma. i feel like crying when i imagine when that time happens. please help me.... (48 words)

He's always been the one "that got away" How do I express this to him?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - So just recently I ran into a familiar face. He was my childhood best friend up until i was 13 and i am now 19. My feelings for hi from back then still exist over the years and i had just realized i still felt that way for him when i ran into him. He's had a tough life and he ... (185 words)

Women only: Oral sex or intercourse?

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26 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This questions is for women only: This might sound like a weird question but just think about it for a minute. If you had to choose between really good oral sex or actual intercourse - Which would you prefer, a really good tongue licking you dry all over until you orgasm or ... (66 words)

She's distanced herself from me and I'm not sure why

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well,i am a girl..and i have this friend who is also a girl..we've been friends for a while now(close friends)she said i could tell her anything..in january i told that i thought i was bi,and she said it is just a phase.and then in march i said that i think i'm lesbian and she ... (132 words)

We fight alot out in public

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26 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 26 year old male who is dating an 18 year old female. We have fun when we hang our and have talked about a long term relationship. The problem is we fight alot out in publid bars/friends parties etc. we are seperated right now but i still have feelins for her. what do i ... (59 words)

His controlling behavior is tearing us apart

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I've been with my boyfriend for about eight months now. We haven't had a steady eight months, we have been on and off numerous times. Sometimes he can be the most loving boyfriend ever. Some days he will treat me good, and other days he won't. We constantly fight. He t... (320 words)

I thought we left too much unsaid; she doesn't want deep conversations; should I reach out?

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26 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My gf broke up with me after a fight. We kept talking as friends but she couldn't bring herself to see me. I had a feeling something else wasn't right and after 3 months she finally told me exactly why she was so aprehensive in seeing me. One of the reasons we fell,... (325 words)

I have tried EVERYTHING, I can't seem to lose weight...

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, this isn't a relationship question, but I don't know who else to talk to. I have been trying to lose weight for as long as I can remember. I have tried just about everything- From many different kind of diet pills, to laxitives, to starving myself, to making myself throw up... (221 words)

He's great except for the sex -- should I just move on?

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26 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2.5 years now and living together for just over a year of that time. I feel as though I really care for him but we, like every relationship, have our problems. The biggest problem is that he never wants to have sex, EVER!! We do it maybe ... (230 words)

I've always dated me who treated me badly -- this guy might be different. Have I messed it up?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi! I am a typical girl who has always dated men who treated me badly. For some reason, I found jerks attractive. I recently met a man who seems nothing like the jerks I previously have met, he is mature, direct, kind, secure within himself, and honest. At first I was unsure if ... (644 words)

I had my heart broken in the past and became cold-hearted. Then I opened my heart to this girl...but she is pulling away. Why is this happening?

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26 July 2009 (?) age 26-29 - So, I never in my life chased after women. Just a male ego. I had fun with girls here and there that came my way but never chased after one, because i've been heart broken in the past and i'm not ready for that again but it seems like its happening and i'm fallin for it. F... (1525 words)

How can I end this abusive relationship safely? And is there any way I can restore the self-esteem he has damaged?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey everybody. I don't know what to do. I have recognized that I'm in an abusive relationship. It's a mixture of extreme control/jealousy, verbal abuse, slight physical ("play hitting", has hit me 1 time, threatens to punch/hit me if I dont do something), and slight sexual (... (437 words)

I can't stand just being friends with my ex, I want more...should I send him an e-mail telling him my feelings?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - ok here is my situation. my ex and i broke up about two months ago. He broke up with me because he was so busy with work and uni that he never had any time for me and he felt like he was being unfair. He told me he will never stop loving me and that i was the best thing to... (307 words)

I love him so much, but I feel like I am single in this relationship

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My problem I don’t know how to approach or to deal with my boyfriend or to discuss this issue with him cuz its not very clear to explain it to him ? I feel that I love him loads more than he does, no no its not feeling its true , I keep missing him I feel the time is too ... (465 words)

My parents are leaving fore a few weeks, how am I supposed to cope with looking after my brother and sister?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - MOD NOTE: Age appears to be incorrect, the poster says she is 19. My cousin is getting married. Great, huh? Not for me. My 46 year old parents left (For a few weeks. They want to get to know the bride). I have to push of school for a few weeks, because I have to stay home... (153 words)

Help me get her back! I don't want to lose her to someone else!

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26 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi after 2 years with my girlfriend(who lives next door) we had a pathetic argument and she finished with me, ive told her how i feel and that i want her back , but she isnt having any of it she is 19 and im 26 , we are friends at the moment,she stays at mine quite alot i c... (213 words)

My new boyfriend has a very large penis, bigger than my ex. Will it hurt?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I am sexually active for more than one year with my ex and he is having a small penis (4.5") and very thin. Even he is small, sometime I still felt uncomfortable. My current bf is almost double his size (8.5") and the most scare me is his thickness. We plan to have sex soon... (76 words)

I am badly bullied!

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am badly bullied. I have a black eye because a boy punched me for disagreeing with an idea of his. I'm scared to sleep. Girls have threatend to do things... bad things. The throw stones at me. They, hit and kick me. I don't ride my bike anymore, or travel, shop, or even ... (151 words)

Are there other women out there that are like this?

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26 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - what's your take on this? my girlfriend doesn't like french kissing, giving oral, handjobs or anything else sexually towards me. When we have sex its all up to me. It's ok for me to touch her during foreplay. She just doesnt really get in to it. I tried many times to talk about ... (89 words)

Does this prove women want what they can't have?

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26 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - ok so I met this girl over the internet. I wasn't looking for anyone yet she found me. we've talked and have been texting and talkin for a couple months now. I would have never thought if meet a girl over the internet and fall in love. but I did. I've criticized my friends for ... (248 words)

Did she cheat on me? Emotionally? And with that kiss?

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26 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I am involved with a girl in a lond distance relationship and we've been together for the past 2 years. I was with her for the first year but I had to move abroad for work for a yaer on contract. I've been in touch with her onthe fone for literally every day. SHe's still... (688 words)

Girlfriend isn't getting a job. Should I get involved or stay out of it?

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26 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend and we've been together for 4 months. Everything is wonderful between us. We get along really great. We laugh all the time, the affection and sex is great, we love the same movies, and we're both are very light responsible drinkers the few times we do ... (303 words)

Should I act on my attraction?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has a friend I am extremely attracted to physically. I think he feels the same about me. My marriage over 23 years is OK not spectacular. Should I act on my attraction? Not looking for an emotional relationship just physical. ... (42 words)

How can I ask my guy friend if he hates me?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - How can I ask my guy friend if he hates me? He never talks to me and ignores me. I have this feeling that somethings wrong every day. I dont know the right way to text him! I've asked him before if hes mad at me or hates me and he said that he doesn't hate and he wasn't mad. I ... (109 words)

How do I let him know I'm here for him and how do I get him back?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been broken up w/ my bf for 2 wks or so. We broke up cos he was "no longer feeling it" although during are whole relationship up until the end - he called/saw me daily, told me i was better than everyone he's dated/had me meet his family, wanted to keep me.. but at the ... (400 words)

I'll never get a boyfriend or girlfriend and I'm ugly

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I'll never get a boyfriend or girlfriend. I am 15. I think I might be bisexual. Everyone else who is my age that I know has had a boyfriend or girlfriend. Everyone tells me that it will happen. I say that it will never happen. There is no guarantee. I have been asked out by 6 ... (202 words)

How do women prefer to be approached?

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26 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Yer this may sound stupid but i need some advice: I went to this rave the other day and literally as soon as i got there was this girl who was interested in me (without doing anything). All my mates tried to get with her and failed miserably, so as i was pretty wa... (142 words)

Bully in the work place!

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is not a relationship problem but I was wondering if anyone could help with a work issue in relationship to bullying. I experienced some bullying at work by my female manager. I feel she was a little envious of me as I am good at my job and she is crap. She w... (380 words)

I hate always being horny

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26 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - I am always horny and I hate it because, I must always masturbate to make it go away, I usually masturbate 5-6 times a day. Does any one else find themselves masturbating too many times a day? ... (37 words)

What does this girl really want? Should I back off?

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26 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - I've been broken up with my ex-girlfriend for about 4 months now. We were in love, but she couldn't deal with gossip and drama so she broke it off. Now, we're working at the same sleepaway camp so we see each other every day all the time. For awhlie she wasn't even talking to ... (154 words)

Help! He said he doesn't know if he wants to be in a relationship any more...

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and everything was going great untill he told me that he doesnt know if he wants to be in a relationship. he use to tell me that he loves me but he said that he really likes me. he said that he doesnt know what he wants ... (173 words)

I like this guy...where do I go from here?

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26 July 2009 (?) age 13-15 - So I like this guy (let's just call him jake). I don't really hang out with him much, but sometimes he tags along with my group of friends. We don't talk much, but if I talk to him he will talk to me and be perfectly nice. If i ask him for a hug (i love hugs ^_^) he will give ... (165 words)

Should I be friends with my ex still?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex who I finished with 6 years ago has sent me a facebook request for friendship - he got married 6 months ago. I really genuinely would like us to be friends - do you think this is ok ?... (41 words)

Opinions needed. Should we stay together?

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26 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - So me and my girlfriend have been living together for a while now and we just broke up. I screwed up in the past while out with my friends(not cheated or anything)and lied about it. So we came to an agreement that to gain her trust back I would stop hanging out with my best... (226 words)

Ex won't talk to me...

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26 July 2009 (?) age 13-15 - Ok, so recently I broke up with a boyfriend, because I think we are better as friends (i specifically told him I wanted to stay friends with him and everything to go back to normal). As soon as I did this, he suddenly starts hanging out with these people he never usually hangs ... (139 words)

Help! What can I do to get my mind off this girl?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - This is basicaly my last option to ask others out there who might have been in the same situation. I've completely fallen in love with this girl who I've known for almost 3 years. I am a girl too by the way. I am bisexual. When I actually talked to her for real one time I ... (307 words)

Does a guy know when a woman fakes an orgasm?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does a guy know when a woman fakes an orgasm? My lover and I have been together for 4 years and previous to this I was married for 15 years and I have never experienced an orgasm during sex but I cum so quickly with my toy. What do you think is the problem? ... (56 words)

My boyfriend's gambling problem...

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26 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and till now things have been pretty good, we've had our ups and downs like any other couple but we have been good together. The only thing that we tend to argue about if that he likes to gamble. This is causing a big rift between ... (194 words)

Which pregnancy test do I buy?

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26 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Well hey everyone, before you anwser I just want ADVICE, not your criticism. Thanks. I'm 14 and I have irregular periods, like sometimes its it is in the beginning of a month and then at the end or middle. I had sex for the very first time on June 8th. I did use a condom,... (165 words)

I need to lift myself up but can't see how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

26 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've posted quite a lot on here about the same subject. I feel very low and have lost a lot of self esteem due to bad relationships. I just don't know how to pick myself up - I am trying. I really dont want to see anyone - therapy wise but I'm scared, scared because I hav... (102 words)