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I feel like I'm not part of my boyfriend's long term plans

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Question - (30 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2009)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

after a talk about about the 'future' saving money and so... my boyfriend said that his going to New Zealand for 3 months for business, its not ever but it feels like forever... i asked him why i wont be going with and he said the last time i checked we were not married besides i cant even afford myself i wont be able to afford you too 3 months is not that long after all... then i asked him what will ever happen to me if he had to permanently go, he said just what you want... so i said to him, it sounds like i'm not part of his long term plans... he said that i should not be so negative and maybe if i'm positive it will end up much different.... what on earth does he mean by that??? thx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009):

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A year and a half.... So basically you are telling me i'm not just wasting my time but my emotion side too?... Oh its actually starting to all make sense now....

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