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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like him, but is it inappropriate of me to contact him through work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, im 21 and been working around 3 years at my job I been training all our new staff and recently started talkin to some guy alot. I couldnt stop thinking about him cos he always makes me laugh n we hav fun, after him flirting with me a few times and getting to know ... (263 words)

Is she playin me or what?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - hi, I met this girl online...we exchanged numbers and started talking on the phone almost everyday for about a year and a half!we had intimate conversations.. she told me everything of her past relatioships..(she still talks to a lot of guys whom she says are just frds)....sh... (245 words)

Controlling or caring boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend is extremely jealous, and I told him I was talking to my guy friend. He was calm at first, but then he started getting angry and insisted that I've been lying and keeping secrets. Anyway, he made me call my guy friend, leave a message, and tell him we can't be ... (96 words)

New baby, young mom and he gets to look single in our home!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend and i have been together on and off for two years living together for about a year and a half more or less, we just had a son together in may and that brought new stress to our relationship. but in the meantime even after our son was born he would still continue to ... (270 words)

He never believed me and I liked him alot

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im fond of this guy hes the brother of a very close friend we kissed once or twice and i did chase him for awhile he never believed that i liked him as much as i said for sum reason hes back texting me now which is strange just wud like to know how to go about this cause i do ... (77 words)

If he's not interested he won't respond right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Silly question. I went out on a first date with someone I met online on Friday. We went to lunch and had a really fun, pleasant time. I'm usually really good at reading a guy and if he's interested in me but this one straight up confused me. One, usually when I offer to pay the ... (261 words)

When it comes to sex hes stuck in low gear any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm now 6 weeks into a new relationship with a great guy. He's fun and outgoing, and i had my hopes high for the bedroom department. But it turns out that he has a very low sex drive. In my experience of being with a new partner, i was more than happy for the regular sex ... (292 words)

What to wear!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) age 22-25 - I was wondering what you think would be suitable for me to wear to a signing and performance of my favourite band ?.Obviously because i admire them,i want to look good,lol, but the signing and performance is in the daytime.The thing is,alot of us have to sit outside all night ... (209 words)

Lost in depression and can't get out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - I don't know whats wrong with me. It's like there is this whole in my chest and everything about me is being sucked away, a huge vaccum cleaner just aching in my chest. Everyday is monotomous and I don't really feel like anyone cares about me or knows anything about me. ... (98 words)

Txt message breakup

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - hi people i need some advice on a love problem im being txtin this guy a couple of months now and im gettin to really like him and he said he really likes me to the thing is he lives in a different county not to far but far enough, he asked me to meet up but i was to scarlet... (148 words)

I'm only 22, but feel like I'm living the life of a 60 year old!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a bad social life. There are so man reasons for this, No money, flaky unsincere friends, my no-bf situation, spending the last year of my life in th books studying for my degree that now that I am finished and want to go out and have fun, I can't seem to find any of m... (264 words)

I feel silly for falling for it all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just come out of a 15 year relationship I am 33 years old and met a wonderful man 3 months ago. He has recently split up from his wife 6 months ago and has 2 children. We met through work and I spent the night with him not thinking anything else of it then he contacted ... (360 words)

The secret cell phone...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'd like some opinions on what to do with my out-of-control relationship. I've been with my bf for 8 years and love him sooo much. We lived together for 7, then he split up with me for 6 months and moved out...said he needed time to work out what he wants from life, ... (585 words)

Is it ended? Will he ever talk to me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Alright so me and my boyfriend of 7 months ended our relationship due to him wanting time and space. We were a very loving and affectionate couple and it was almost too good to be true sometimes. Other times, he would act like someone I didn't know. Like when he wanted to leave ... (264 words)

In love with another girl.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - I have quite a few problems I'd like to sort out. I'll try to present them cohernetly, but they may get a bit muddled as they are sort of joined... To start with, I fell in love with this female teacher. I know it wasn't a crush or obsession, but it's not like the love I've bee... (660 words)

Is it possible for ex's to see each other again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Is it possible for ex's to see eachother again? My ex boyfriend has suddenly started speaking to me regularly after nearly 2 years since we were in a relationship and he's very flirtatious and keeps trying to arrange for us to meet out and go on a date. But is this realisti... (243 words)

Can you change a "commitment phobic" man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can you change a commitment phobic man? He keeps coming in and out of my life. He has not had a g/f since me just retreats to his cave or goes out to dinner with his older friends. I know he loves me but his fear is so great He had been deeply hurt once. Is there anything I ... (118 words)

How do I get him to leave his wife for me?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - How can i get him to leave his wife for me? im 17 and hes 40 and really need ideas? he sees me whenever he can get away from his wife, and promises to take me shopping, and he calls me princess and beautiful, we have sex alot in his car, he has 2 children of 7 and 3, and obvi... (68 words)

I'm falling for my first cousin and knowledge of this would tear our families apart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi all, I am wondering if you can help me? Recently, I have found myself falling for my first cousin,he is ideally everything I could ask for in a man. Im sure he likes me also, as he is just asked me out on a dinner date. Nobody knows about this, especially not our families... (86 words)

I'm so disgusted with him that I don't want him to touch me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with a guy for nine years. we just had a house fire and my grandpa died. But hes more worried about himself so i told him to move out. He moved out than I find out from his best friends girlfriend that he slept with another women a married women. I dont think i can ... (116 words)

Any products or ideas to tighten vaginal walls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello, I am 20 years old and I am very experienced when it comes to sex, lately I've been noticing that my vagiana is looser than ususal, usually it doesn't matter how much I have sex and my walls will still be very tight, I don't know what's happening to me. i was wondering ... (90 words)

My wife isnt horny enough for me...Any suggestions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife isn't horny enough for me. She beautiful and has a great bod for 50. But she's a tom boy. She's not affectionate or feminine. I am just a fat overweight husband that looks at my wife and fantisizes. We are intimate about once every three weeks. Any suggestions ... (62 words)

Neither of us are happy that we broke up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I posted a Q previously bout my bf and I - we broke up a wk ago *Sat 11th*. We had a good relationship and then when his financial/work life didnt seem to be goin good - it seemed he knit picked at our relationship despite the fact his fam liked me/ told me I was ... (327 words)

I'm not sure which guy to go with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Het[: I'm tara, and i went out with this guy [ill call him #12] #12 was very sweet and always making me happy, i always gto into trouble though cause iwould have to sneak out to see him and my parents didnt like him, so i was grounded a lot, but then on day after school i... (430 words)

He thinks he's too old for me and I hate that he feels that way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - This summer I got a job working in an office on my college campus. The great thing about it is that my college offers camps for kids and I get sent out to them to help as a teachers aide since i want to become a teacher. This past week has been the most exciting week of the ... (528 words)

I told her how I felt but I feel like I rushed her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Hey all I just wanted to ask for advice on what to do on my situation. So I've been seeing this girl for more than three years now and we've talked ever since we've met. We've met online on an mmorpg and we're been communicating since we've met such as messenger, phone... (414 words)

I think I'm in love with my bestfriends husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey. I have a real problem. I think I am falling in love with my best friends husband. I have known my best friend, lets call her Sarah, for 17 years. She has been with her husband for 4 years and has been married for 5 weeks. When they came back from their honeymoon i picked ... (133 words)

Don't want to screw the friendship up but should I tell the online girl that I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - okay so met this girl Online shes 16 gonna turn 17 in a couple of days and im already 17 ne who we have been talking for little over a year now and have become real close friends. And I have fallen in love with her... she lives in minnesota and i live in ohio so we are not to ... (135 words)

Should I let my parents in on this relationship to help me see him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - For over a year, me and this guy have tryed to have a relationship but it hasnt worked out. He lives in a different town then me and only comes out here with his best friend,which is my best friends boyfriend,and so on. We really like eachother and he is in my mind all the time ... (114 words)

I don't like the feel and smell of his anatomy. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Started a relationship almost 4 months ago with my b/f We've started messing around. I try my best not to get covered in anything. Don't like the smell and feel. He puts my hand on the tip of his anatamy. The feel of it makes me feel horrible. I don't want to tell h... (116 words)

How do you find ways to go about not feeling sexual desire?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) age 41-50 - It is a bit complicated question.So I'm in my late 40 es and I used to be a modell. I don't want to go on about myself, but I'm attractive ,and sort of smart . Now my husband ,stoped showing any desire a few years ago, and I feel I'm wasting my beauty on him. But I don... (187 words)

Should I just call him and ask about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I have had contact again for one month mostly on the phone. We saw each other twice and were intimate. the last time 3 days ago and have not heard from him since then My question is this. I know he goes out w/ friends and is dating. But I want to know if he is ... (235 words)

Help...I'm torn between two guys.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - ive been with my bf for 5 months now and my first love has been in touch! he says he loves me and wants me back says we were always the perfect couple i do still really love him so i just dont know what to do weve got so much history and were more suited but i feel so bad about ... (117 words)

Does this man fancy me or just see me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Does this man fancy me or just see me as a friend? We worked together - only for 6 months but just clicked and got on really well and had to spend a lot of time just the 2 of us - both single (me divorced 5 yrs - him never married),both similar age (early 40s.Some people f... (363 words)

Loneliness is a drag. Will I ever stop feeling like this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so desperately lonely that I just can't bear it anymore, and my heart is broken because I feel like my life is passing me by. I am in tears as I write this. I wish and wish I had someone to call or tlak to, but I feel like everyone has forsaken me. I'm scared that the ... (1542 words)

Should I tell my parents I could be bisexual?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - i don't know if im a lesbian or not. i like men, i love men infact they are hot and i am very sexually attracted to them and i dream about marrying my prince charming and being his Queen. but when i masturbate i watch porn and i prefer watching lesbian porn. im really confus... (111 words)

I have a burning sensation in my vagina! It interferes with my life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - ever since i was like 12 years old i used to get this burning uncomfortable sensation in my vagina , not insede i guess i dont know where just my vagina , it stopped happening for a while but now it comes and goes , it just comes out of the nowhere and stays for 30 mins or 3 ... (93 words)

Do you play hard to get to get treated better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - wat do you do when your in love with a guy u work with who is with sum1 7 years and you have been the other woman 4 2 years and he has moved in with her .. she knows who u are and he ignored you 4 six months.. is back talking to you now and you have heard hes having problems ... (103 words)

He's younger, I ran after him, then gave up, now he's texting me, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - right theres this guy that is known to be a player and is all about fun yet wen i wanted to have fun he wasnt into it.. he knows i like him alot and ive been told he likes me.. so afther chasing him 4 months and been to needy and desperate basically i gave up i wasnt getting ... (114 words)

Pregnancy gone wrong? I've been trying for a baby....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok i'm 21 and trying for a baby. But I hope dates don't confuse you. My last menstruation was june 8, 2009. I was expected to have my next period july 7. But I had unprotected sex july 2, july 5, july 7, (i'm trying the every other day thing) I found out that I was expected to ... (136 words)

He sent me flowers, talked to me daily long distance, saw him, he only hugged me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i met a man who sent me flowers and talked to me daily for a month. he lives in another state. we saw each other recently and he did not kiss me, he just hugged me what should i do?... (40 words)

Am I going to end up a sad, lonely old woman with regrets?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - How the hell do i get over someone! Im so inlove with a man we were together 2 yrs on off. Im besotted with him. We had something so special but he wont commit to me hes not the settling down type at all! I love him so much and if he could just open his eyes and see he could ... (203 words)

Are there any medications to improve our sex life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, i got married 2 years before.After my marraige my sexual relationship with my husband is good.but now-a-days, we are not involving in any sex relationship.we both are sleeping separately since from 6 months.if he has that sex feeling also he is not allowing me to touch ... (89 words)

I really messed things up a lot so how to I make it better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I messed up with my fiance so bad .. She said she has been Unhappy For months since a lil after the baby was born ..that she doesn't love me like she used to .. I work 6days a week 10hrs a day and we recently moved a hour away from work for both of us .. Which seemed to ... (617 words)

Is what I'm intending to do OK?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend of 2 years just started drinking more than usual...because all of his friends are now at the age of 21, so...they all go out and drink all the time. It never bothered me, and I trusted him. But...last night was my last straw. He has missed my birthday, b/c... (330 words)

I am 15, like my friend's brother, who is 19, how do I behave around him, we text each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey. Basically I'm 15 years old and have known my (female) best friend since the start of this school year, so we're quite close. Over the past few months I've been going round to her house more and more, and started noticing her older brother more and more. To start with he ... (276 words)

Should I go back to my ex-girlfriend, or stay with my fiancee who lied to me, and has a shady past, I do love her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - This is a mess of a problem... and after reading this, you won't like me. Partially because I'm discussing cheating on my fiancee, and further because I end up passing sweeping judgment on people who've slept around. Ironic, right? That said, if you could provide a helpful ... (1287 words)

This guy used me. Am I crazy for still loving him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my boyfriend on and off for 4 years, he wasnt what you'd call a decent bloke, i was on income surport bringing up 2 girls, he was working and at the begenning he bled me dry, he was a rite womaniser, really bad wandering eyes, but although ive said that i loved ... (381 words)

How can she tell me she loves me and be with another person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - This is a complicated situation… and this might be long because in order to understand the situation many details must be given out. This is the warning. My Gf and I have been together in a relationship for 7 years. We had many good times and many bad times. Started going ou... (1149 words)

My indiscretion caused my gay partner pain, he said he forgave me, but randomly gets angry, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - we're a gay male couple (18 and 19) and we've been dating nearly 8 months, recently i had a sexual thing with another guy who i'd been friends with for a while, we didn't have sex, we didn't even kiss, we were sleeping in the same bed, i was absolutely exhausted and this guy... (249 words)

How can I finish with him when I'm so in love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Right im in love with this guy,, weve been together on and off for 2 months now,, but he always says he feels weird about the relationship because i am 14 and he is 17 and all of his mates always take the mick. i tell him to ignore it but he says he cant. but whenever i ask him ... (124 words)

After 16 years I kicked him out, now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - if a husband cheated in the past, would he still cheat in the future? he also lies a lot to cover up , and also he dosen't show love or caring. he loves to talk about others problems never want to face his, he also like to blame everything on me it is never his fault it is ... (200 words)

My husband says I try to ruin even the best of times!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband, married gong on 3 years; my 3rd and his 2nd marriage; says I try to ruin even the best of times, this was hurtful and I don't even realize how I do this. He is Not a communicator so I am stuck. Any advise? ... (47 words)

What do you do when everyone else has luck?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - So what do you do if you feel like everyone is having all the luck in the relationship deparment meaning people getting back together ect. Do you give up hope or move on?... (33 words)

I don't know if he was using me or just taking things slow

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I am back again. Had a great b/f everything was fun but when an ex of 5 months saw us together he went crazy and became a stalker. Bottom line b/f didn't beleive me that it had ended. We split up but we got back together but I had too many insecurities due to what ... (319 words)

If I love my boyfriend I wouldn't be confused by this other guy right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - OK so for five years I've known this guy he's not amazing looking but theres just something about him and i've always loved him and wanted to be with him. He was scared of commitment and always tried just to be friends with me even though we both know we've always been more. ... (319 words)

He thinks he hurt me during sex but it wasn't his fault!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - help help how do i address this with my boyfriend,he thinks he hurt me during sex but it was not his fault as i have a hernia and it popped out during sex and i had to stop as it was hurting me. he now thinks he is the cause of it and won't stop saying sorry and telling me he ... (123 words)

Boyfriend sitll communicating with ex from another country

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend still communicates with his exgirlfriend who is living in other country... i am not happy with his situation, tried to stop him, but it cause us a lot of problems at the end... is there anybody would help me for this and give me some idea how to do ? many thanks... (54 words)

How to make myself more loose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am really tight in my vagina. I really need to loosen up before sex but i don't want the other guy to know how tight i am. How do i make myself more loose? ... (35 words)

I left my hubby but the other guy doesn't want me unless he is drunk, what can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi guys, I would really appreciate some help with a relationship problem. I recently left my husband after getting drunk and hooking up with my best friend. Basically, I couldn't stand the thought of lying to my husband every day, and feel like total scum. But wait, it... (192 words)

Is my friend being brainwashed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend since childhood got married while we were in college. We slowly drifted apart since then. Recently we got back in touch. I found out she has six kids. And she's pregnant with one more! Now I'm not one to judge lifestyle, but this disturbs me a lot for som... (166 words)

Dad won't approve of boyfriend because of his age I know I should end things but I can't imagine life without him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Please help. For the last 4 years i have been going out with the love of my life - without my parents knowing. My dad is quite controlling about my boyfriends and career, this has resulted in my being too afraid and embarrased to take any boy home. when i took my friend home - ... (276 words)

I didn't feel 'that' spark, what shall I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hiia x i got told that if your really like some one , then you feel a "spark" when you kiss your boyfriend and well i felt nothing ! what shall i do ?? is this true ?? do you really feel a spark ?? thanks x laura :)... (61 words)

I have been stealing cigs and smoking at night because it makes me feel better

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - hello, well i am 13 years old and lately ALOT ALOT of people have been walking out of my life and been treating me like worthless peice of trash. im very depressed i try to act happy when i am by my sister or mom, but lately i have been stealing ciggaretes from my sister, and ... (142 words)

How do I make distance between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My boy friend is not nice to me anymore and I think he is ignoring me in way or another , just making himself busy in anything and that annoying me and makes me sad , one time, I asked him what’s wrong , he said nothing and he said if you ask this question again there woul... (203 words)

Am I right telling him not to cross the line?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i have a problem with my boyfriend recently and i cant just get over it by myself, so im seeking help here. I have noticed my boyfriend keeps checking on another girl's page on a networking website, whcih shows the list of recent visitors. Right after checking my page, my ... (477 words)

He didn't stop his drunk friends from pulling my top down because he didn't want to ruin the fun!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and me to a party together. He wanted me to wear a tube top cause he thought I show off my body more often. I wore it to make him happy even I don't like to feel expose (I just wear his clothes or shirts that are 3 sizes to for me). Anyway his really wasted friends ... (181 words)

How do I tell him to bugger off - nicely?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi all...I am stuck in a sticky tangled mess :( I met this guy once last year and talked to him twice or so, but a few months ago he invited me over to his place. We got along really well even though i didn't really know him. We started watching a movie, but ended out making... (559 words)

Is there still a chance that we can be friends again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - ok, well like new ppl im not sure how to start off. But im 17 and bi, recently i jus told one of my closest male friend that i liked him, i felt that he was that way because we were pretty much close and would tell me personal things and that he would grab my waist, put his ... (209 words)

Could he be making a fool out of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - A guy who i love and who i have had an off thing with is really starting to confusing. It hs been 5 years now. A few months back he said we needed to stop sleep together as god didnt like it. Then we started again. He has been going through a difficult time and i have tried to ... (356 words)

How do I find a free online doctor?

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18 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - hi this might seem like a bit of a silly question, but... Do any of you know what is the best site for talking to a doctor online??? and i really need it to be free too. thanks Oh and i can't use healthcaremagic.com because you have to be 18 or over to use it, and... (73 words)

Jason or John?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I have liked this guy named Jason*(who is also my older brother's best friend) for about 6 months now...once I met him I instantly felt this really strong feeling...like I'd known him forever and that in a sense...I felt some belonging. His situation is kind of complicated ... (402 words)

How do I get over her and move on with my life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - My ex and I were together for 4 years, I had the best time in my life with her she was my everything, the only person i trusted completely without a doubt. 27/11/08 she text me while I was at work to say that she had been thinking about our future and that we needed to tal... (803 words)

We broke up and I think I want her back, I'm confused, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - i broke off with this girl because i wasnt sure abt my feelings...i dont see her or love her in romantic way but as a bestest friend or buddy with whom i love to be all the time..i am so heartsick after dumping her and her memories take my breathe away ..im not sure abt my ... (239 words)

How do I handle my mom and her knowing about my sex life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - so me and my mom used to be really close and open with eachother but for some reason we have been fighting alot more and ive lost alot of trust in her. But anyway she snooped through my phone and found out that me and my boyfriend are having sex and she got mad at me and him ... (162 words)

Do women look at teenage boys as eye-candy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 95 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - Do women look at teenage boys as eye candy?... (9 words)

Need a few tips on how to give a good hand-job?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay so today I was with my bf and we were hangin out with his friends and stuff and when they all left we were getting into it and iwe couldn't hav sex cause monthly shit ya know? And so he wanted a hj and I just had my hand on his tummy and he put my hand lower and I pulled ... (149 words)

Is it normal for milk to come out of a girl's breast, if it is sucked?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a girl am dating but anytime i suck her breast during love making,milk comes out.please i want to know if it is normal.or what could be the cause? ... (30 words)

Do breasts get bigger when they are sucked on?

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18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and we've been sexual lately since its summer.. I have 34A breasts and lately it seems like my bras have been "shrinking" and getting tighter.. he likes to suck on my boobs and I heard they get larger when they're sucked on. Is this ... (60 words)

Found someone I really cared for, drove him away, should I try to get him back or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

18 July 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 30 years old and finally met someone I cannot get over no matter how hard I try. It's been half a year since he left me and we had only dated for half a year. He was everything I have every dreamt of and more -- from our similar dreams, unique interests and wa... (461 words)

What am I to think when my ex talks to me almost every day, does he want me back?

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18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - i have been going out with this boy for two months we have known each other now for more then 6 months. anyway he was lovely at the beginning arent they all? i was careful so i played a bit hard to get. its been a while since we broke up. over msn he talks to me everyday, its ... (416 words)

My parents found a joke he sent me and they are unhappy with the two of us, what do I do?

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18 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - What should i do? After they found out some bad joke texts from him.. they got really angry at me and very disappointed.. I tried explaining to them that he's not really what they think he is and he's just fond in making jokes.. but they don't seem to believe me and now, they ... (134 words)

Mom of four virgin sons, how common is this, can parents cause this, can I help?

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18 July 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I have 4 sons ,all of them over 20 years old, 3 moved out from the house,one is living with us. I'm absultley stunned by the fact , that none of them ever had a girlfriend,and they are all virgin,they are also very self distractive on different ways. I can't believe how coul... (179 words)

Real love? How do you know?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - How do you know if you are in love?... (9 words)

Does every girl bleed, when she loses her virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - When u lose ur virginity, do u bleed?... (8 words)

Does first time sex...hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - Does sex hurt when you lose your virginity?... (8 words)

Without oral sex, how does a girl satisfy a boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - How does a female satisfy a male without sex or performing oral sex?... (13 words)

His parents don't want to get to know someone unless she is going to be a permanent fixture in his life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok...so..I've been dating this man for 8 months. I've only met his parents twice, and his whole family (6 brothers and sisters)once. This is really tricky situation, but...his parents told him a while ago that they don't want to get to know someone in his life, unless it's ... (258 words)

Should we wait for better facilities, before having first time sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 16-17 - right i myself am a virgin and i really like rhis girl who isnt a virgin. she also likes me back and she knows im a virgin. next week we r both going on an army cadet camp for 2 weeks and we are both thinkng the same thing, getting together on camp. however in nt so sure now ... (111 words)

Husband keeps pushing at me for threesome and I don't want it! Does that make me a bad wife?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband had been trying to get me to have a 3 some for some time. long story short... i said i would try but only if it was with a certain guy...my husband started e-mailing me as if he were said guy...he even went to the library to e-mail me when he was "at work"...well he ... (233 words)

I don't need to be told he doesn't want me anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - today is my birthday, yay! but my guy didn't call me to wish me happy birthday. the thing is i traveled for the holidays. when i called him to say goodbye he didn't pick up. even when i called him to tell him i had arrived i could hear something in his voice, like i was both... (198 words)

Is my girlfriend worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I at the crossroads where I try to decide whether my girlfriend is marriage material. I have issues with her past and I don't know whether I get over it. She used to go to orgies and swingers parties with her ex-boyfriend and have threesomes with random men from internet. ... (278 words)

I still care for my ex, though my current girfriend is perfect, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Right, so I'm dating this amazing girl; she is utter perfection to me but I am on and off about having serious feelings for her. Recently, I met up with an ex of mine and I realised that I still have the deepest feelings for her but I know she's not half the girlfriend m... (139 words)

Should I tell anyone she was raped? Or just stay silent?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - My friend told me yesterday that she had been raped two weeks ago, i was in complete shock and didnt really know what to say, i promised her i wouldnt say anything to anyone, but she says she crys her self to sleep every night since then, in worry incase she is pregnant, her ... (93 words)

Period getting worse every month what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 104 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 16-17 - This is really horrible, but i need opions. Right well im 16 and i started my periods when i was 11, i have had them every single month (sometimes twice) unlike my friends whos are still ilregullar. Recently like over the last six months iv not been coping well with my periods, ... (146 words)

Now when I call he won't pick up the phone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, i met a friend on the internet for like 3 yeras we was very close he was sweet too but he only wanted to be just long time friends, but i felt inlove with him and the only thing he use toido is flirt with other girls but he never flirted with me but if he do it be where... (172 words)

I think I was messed with while sleeping

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - i think i was messed with though my sleep.. And i was woundering if your hole down there gets bigger? So you can tell. Mine can like fit a finger tip in. Does that sound like i could have acually been messed with? Or not.? Im confussed! PLEASE HELP!... (62 words)

Period cramps and no medicine

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18 July 2009 (F)

age 13-15 - period cramps.. any ideas on how to help? other than medecine because i have none. thanks... (16 words)

I am having a problem communicating with her, how can I improve?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - It's me, again. It's like I can't stop. I just has sex with her, taking into consideration everything you all have said. I made her come twice and then asked her why I can not make her come like I've made every other woman (48) come (internally). She starts to shout ... (153 words)

How do I find out if my partner is cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I find out if my partner is cheating? My partner and i have been together for 2 years. Lately, he has spoken of moving in together yet emotionally we have become very distant from one another. I have problems trusting him, which became even worse when his Mum said I ... (337 words)

22 & never had a girlfriend..how do I get things started?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey everyone, I'm a 22 year old male, about to graduate university and have never had a girlfriend. I normally don't want to do things if I don't think they'll last, but each time I find a girl that I do want to go out with, I just can't seem to get the nerve to say anything... (200 words)

Should we be friends again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 127 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey, Recently ive started to be much more upfront to people. I liked this girl from my neighbourhood for a long time, she messed me around abit and i got annoyed with her quite alot. She got a boyfriend and stuff..which annoyed me more.And Weve been having this on/off friend t... (135 words)

I don't understand why he became distant and changed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 124 days ago

18 July 2009 (F)

age 18-21 - I met this guy and I liked him from the moment I saw him. He was a friend of my best friend's boyfriend, and her close friend too. When I told her I liked him, she was glad and she started telling me about him, about how nice he is and that he is really, really shy, so If I ... (666 words)

Why did she blow me a kiss after flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

18 July 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Last night after I went to my local pub for a drink with one of my woman friends, we kinda joked/flirted throughout the evening (I'm male by the way!) Then on the way out, we hugged each other tightly for a few moments (I don't know why - she instigated it!), but when I was g... (101 words)