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*francy
writes: i and my ex boyfriend still loves each other but the distance is keeping us apart we are both currently dating but we want each other back... he therefore suggested that we should just wait for next year when the distance issue will be resolved so that we can start afresh again for the third time . do you think it is right to wait or should we just leave things the way they are now? help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): Hey,,
its funny because the same things happened to me actually..
my ex cound never commit to me but told me that he loved me.
he told me soo many times that if i waited for him that he would change, that we would change and each time our relationship fell apart to easy..
i understand that you love him but if he was that desperate to start your relationship again he would do it straight away no matter how far the distance..
and waiting on someone you love can break your heart. especially if during the wait he changes his mind on what he wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2009): I think you should wait for eachother, I went through a similar situation with my wife about 7 years ago, we were long distance and almost gave up on eachtother.. we did date other people but it just wasnt the same.. we told eachother that we would not fall in love with anyone else while there was distance.. so we dated others or basicaly "used them" lol for 5 years, i think she only dated 3 or 4 guys and i dated a fare few girls but i never really loved them. So when the 5 years was up and she moved over to my city, we finally got the spark back and re acqainted ourselves and made up for all that lost time and finally got married. So it can work out.. you just have to communicate what you want, dont hold back saying what you want from him.. my wife told me everything.. how she felt and what problems etc.
GOODLUCK! it can work. believe in it.
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