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writes:I don't really know where to begin other than the fact that I am seeking advice,...help. I am married to man who is 23 years older than me, we have 1 child together. The reason I am writing is to get an outside look and maybe some good advice as to how I can possibly save our marriage. I feel like there is no desire on his end for intimacy with me, he tells me things like he is uncomfortable around me, he tells me to leave him alone, and a long list of other things which will just aggrivate me even more by mentioning. I don't know how our relationship ended up this way, and I wish it would change for the better, but it just doesn't seem to be going anywhere. Can you please give me some advice as to what to do, because I love him dearly, he "says" he loves me and I would hate to make a mistake that I would later regret.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHa ha! It's not that I am an overly sexual person, I just feel intimacy is a big part of our relationship. He himself is a therapist, so at times it is hard to sit down and talk to him and tell him how I feel. Go figure. But I do thank you for your advice, maybe I'll try blood pressure pills....lol!
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reader, JUSTBROWSING +, writes (14 October 2008):
 i have a few things to say, first off i have been like that a few times thinking my husband did not want me and i broke down but we got through by talking it out and seeing what the issue was, communication is the key to successful relationships in every topic, so talk to him the other thing is not being funny but i watched "House" this lady was having some kind of issue, the cause was because her husband was giving her his blood pressure meds in her oatmeal, i know, whats the point, the point is he was not trying to kill her but trying to get her to feel like him...symptoms of blood pressure pills are to lose sexual desire... check it out ...its worth a try, good luck
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