A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now, and we are both over 16 + virgins. we done nearly everything, like hand jobs and blowjobs ect, but im scared to have sex.. i feel im ready to and im not being pressurised into it, but im worried that if im not very good and he will cheat on me, so i need to be really really good in bed.does anyone have any tips for me?how do u do girl on top and make it feel amazing for both of us?anyway adviced will b apreciated!
View related questions:
blow-job, hand-job Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (14 October 2008):
 Just by your post I can tell you aren't ready to part with your virginity. Hold onto it awhile longer. Any guy 16-17 who isn't happy just getting blow-jobs is nuts.
A
female
reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 October 2008):
 You say you're not being pressured, but you are certainly feeling an awful lot of pressure right now if you feel like he will cheat on you if you're not good.
Believe me, any guy who cheats on you because you're not spectacular in the sack is a scumbag and you shouldn't be honoring him by giving him your virginity. The sex will be best between you when you are so comfortable that you know you don't need to be "perfect" when you are together. You should know that he is crazy about you and would never dream of cheating on you.
As for tips - take things slow, really explore each others bodies. Start out slow and build the pleasure. Girl on top takes a little getting used to, but once you get it - there's no way it WON'T feel amazing for both of you!
...............................
A
female
reader, tayalouise +, writes (14 October 2008):
 First of all, if your boyfriends cheats on you or breaks up with you because you're not "good at sex" then he is a complete dickhead either way and deserves nothing.
If you and your botfriend are that close then no matter what you do during sex it will be good, it will intimate and if you have strong feelings for each other you will enjoy the closeness and connection.
If you still really want some tips, watch Porn and see how its done.
...............................
|
