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Are these signs of immaturity that he'll grow out of?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been dating a 6 years younger guy. He is 25, a typical American cool guy who's life is about gym and clubbing on the weekends, very social, fun to hang out with but sometimes annoyingly immature! He is a good looking guy with a nice body and he is always telling me... (357 words

He forced me to do stuff, should I tell someone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - im 15 years of age and lost a baby 2months ago, my best friend david asked me out n i accepted things wre going ok then he forced me to do things and he made me suck him off n toss him off n made me let him poke me and he ragged my trousers down n stuff shud i tell someo... (68 words

How do I overcome the fear of him leaving me? It's always in the back of my mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi .. i have been seeing my boyfriend for nearly 4months . and i love himm soooo muchhh !! i have never felt this way over anyone ! but when he says he loves me and when we argue sometimes and when we are ok againn and he tells me he loves me sometimes i dont think he does . b... (96 words

We kissed in church.....so should I feel guilty?

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26 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - Alright. I have a boyfriend and I hadn't seen him in a while. We were in church and we happened to kiss. Is this wrong? My fake big sister broke it up each time we tried to kiss, but I just don't know. I feel guilty now. He also almost gave me a hickey at the same time. Is that ... (65 words

I've been too scared to approach her...is it too late to introduce myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - There's a new girl in the seventh grade in my school. Last year, i had a group of friends who i used 2 hang out wit but now their new group is themselves, the new girl, and the new girl's friends in her class- so now they are all friends together. Some time in September my ... (181 words

Does he still love his ex? He keeps comparing me to her, what do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm so heartbroken right now. I love my boyfriend so much and i know he loves me.. but why does he love me? He just brought up his ex and he always gets so mad at her and i asked him if he got mad at her because he hated her for hurting him or if he was mad at her because ... (226 words

My relationship is a "War Zone"- he refuses counseling- any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi All, I am looking for some advice and guidance because i feel as though my relationship is like a 'warzone'. I have been with my bf for almost 5 yrs and during that time he went through a stressful divorce which has left him bitter (he did not leave his wife for me, she... (397 words

I've had phone sex with 3 different guys....is that disgusting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hi I need some opinions on this . I'm 15 years old and I've had phone sex with 3 different guys in the last two years . ( not at the same time or around the same time....) Two of them it was text sex and the other one ( my boyfriend now)was actually talking on the phone. I ... (94 words

I recently found out she had a threesome last week with her best friend and a local DJ.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hello Cupid, There's this girl I really like. We have a strong internet friendship and have never met. The last few months we've started flirting a lot more, things have become a lot more serious and we talked about being together. She tells me she likes me, but I haven't to... (129 words

How do I get my friends to stop...?????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (? age 26-29 - My best friends have a problem. I know I should support them but I just can't... they have tried to stop it... but it kicks her in the ass because they want it more after they quit. I swear I'm not doing that little game where the friends I talk of is myself because they all... (112 words

How do you break up with someone that you like but realized you don't love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

26 March 2008 (? age 26-29 - How do you break up with someone that you like but realized you don't love? I kinda thought I loved him but I am getting really bored with this relationship and don't want him to get too attached to me if he isn't already if I don't think we will last. We have been dating... (159 words

How can I stay strong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years he cheated over ten times! I finally kicked him out. I don't wanna be stupid anymore I see now that he will never change. I thought I could help him change and now I know he can only change his self! So he's trying to call and he is ... (137 words

Worried about sex!

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26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I know how to have sex but how do you get into the situation were you're actually having sex. Do you slot your penis into the minky with your hand or will it go in natually. Is it hard? Does it hurt? PLEASE HELP ME. lots of love and I know I'm a complete idiot! AH... (67 words

Am I over-analyzing, or headed for heartbreak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 26 year young attractive male. I started dating a guy about 2 months ago. I really like him a lot, and think I may even have loving feelings for him. I think that he feels the same way too, we have open communication, and we talk about our feelings. Probobly after ... (382 words

I lied to him about my age and I'm scared to tell him now in case he dumps me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months, we are deeply in love, but there's a problem, I'm starting to feel guilty as I've been lying to him this whole time. Basicly he thinks I'm older than what I am, I'm starting to feel guilty for lying as I love him so much. He's 18 and I... (97 words

All of a sudden he avoids me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - There's this boy I liked and he knows I like him. And like I actually thought he was starting to like me because he would look at me alot, he would talk about me to his friends, and he would talk to my friends about me. Anyways recently I was walking down the hallway and i saw ... (343 words

How do I "come out of the closet" and have a chance with this guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

26 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi, my name is dan, i'm 16, i'm gay, i haven't come out of the closet yet and i keep my feelings bottled up inside and it hurts. i have two questions, first one i'm in love with this guy who lives about 70 miles away and i've bin in love wid him for a year or so and i c... (146 words

Although he's generally a friendly person I don't know if he's just being friendly or if he really likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm so confused!!! One minute I think this guy likes me and other times I don't. Sometimes I think there's signs and then other times I'm not sure. Right well there just been general stuff like he used to look at me a lot and stuff but then that all stopped and everything. I ... (507 words

Bleeding while on the pill after sex? Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16 and have recently started taking the pill, I have been having sex with my stable boyfriend for auite a few months now and have recently started to bleed during and after sex and sexual activities. At first i thought it was my period but it has happened at least 5 times ... (69 words

How do I get him back in my life? I met him on facebook and he's a model!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey well i met this guy on facebook..we started talkin and it was going really well..and he was really hot..he is an actor and model by profession..so i dint mind talkin to him..and later on he began talkin to me more and more and asked me for my phone number..although i wanted ... (377 words

I gave him my virginity and now he says he doesn't want to be with the same girl his whole life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a really long time. i'm in love with him. seriously in love with him. he told me that he didnt want to be with the same girl for the rest of his life, because we're still young. i dont know what to do. we've had so many good times, fun ... (108 words

Does his sudden change of behaviour towards me mean he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have this friend that I've known fairly well for 4 years now, but over the past 2 we've gradually become closer. I had little crushes through the first 2 years, but my feelings would fade back into just wanting a friendship. For the past year or so I've had non-stop feelings ... (263 words

I got really really drunk and annoyed the heck out of the guy I'm really into! How can I make it up to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Last night I went out with a guy that I'm really into right now. It was fun at first, but I got waaaaay too drunk, and he ended up having to "babysit" me till like 6 in the morning, cause I couldn't drive! I know he was really irritated with that fact alone, but I made it ... (138 words

I want to be with the boy I was with two years ago but my recent BF just told me he loved me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - 2 years ago I fell for a boy that lived a few citys down from me. things didnt work out. I held on to my feelings for a really long time. I met a new boy, he became my boyfriend and after i became his girlfriend. i paid for everything, dinenr lunch, breakfast, movies. he picked ... (143 words

I'm ready to have sex but he wants to wait until he's older! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, me and my BF have nown each other for about 1 year and 1 month we have been going out for about 6 months and we love each other sooo much... now just to get to the ponit i've felt ready with him for about 2 months and he's only just felt "sexual" feelings for ... (121 words

We got close on a school trip. Now how do I get closer to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

26 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi. I'm at college and saw a girl at the start of the year, and was sort of attracted to her. I had a class with her but she had her own friends and i didn't have the oppourtunity to talk to her. A week ago we went on a school trip and started talking. We spent most 2 ... (189 words

Two questions, is he looking at me or through me AND can Christians date others not of their faith?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok two questions here, saves me posting twice. 1) How can you tell if someone is looking at you or looking through you, whether its from a distance or close up because with this lad I like I really can't seem to tell. I've tired taking pictures of myself both looking straight... (163 words

How do I tell Mr. Crush that I don't want him? I don't want to hurt my new guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey =) finally got happy and all that, found a great guy but the guy who had a crush has just popped up again. Now he's saying he loves me and wants to be with me, I've never fancied him bear in mind. Another of my friends has said that I have before not now. How do I tell him... (92 words

Is my fiance gay??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I recently got engaged to a guy I've been dating for 2 years. When we first started dating, a friend of mine mentioned she thought he was gay. I dismissed her, however started paying close attention to his movements (upward little finger, occasional hip swaying, etc.) ... (128 words

One for the guys...what's your fantasy oral?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - This is one for the guys... Tell me, what's your fantasy oral? What's your favourite thing that your girl does to you when giving you oral? What is it that you've always secretly wanted your girlfriend to do during you oral? I'm just interested to see what you guys say, thinki... (61 words

Need help with restoring emotional connection...we have chemistry!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I was reunited with an old high school friend back in July. We hadn't spoken in ~10 years and we clicked almost instantly. She was living on the west coast (I'm on the east coast) and we would spend hours and hours on the phone, instant messaging, texting, etc. She decided ... (462 words

Clueless boyfriend, how can I educate him on female anatomy without damaging his confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend doesn't know the female anatomy very well... He's good at pleasuring me but i think he's a bit confused over what's what. He called my clit my 'g-spot' and i'm not sure how to correct him. lol. He's lovely but can be a bit clueless over certain things (mostly ... (108 words

Is it weird that I haven't offered him oral (yet), is it a problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Been with my boyfriend 6months although we been friends since we were in school. everything is goin great sex is great and hes a brilliant boyfriend.one problem, i havnt given him oral sex, he hasnt said anything about it so Im wonderin is this weird that i havent is it a ... (104 words

How can I help my friend see her BF is not worth it? I don't want to see her get hurt.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - my best friend has been with her boyfriend for 1 year and they have been through quite a lot of emotional stuff which was very serious. my friend's parents don't really let her have her independence and are not keen on her boyfriend. he doesn't make much of an effort and they... (115 words

I have genital warts! Does this mean my boyfriend has been unfaithful?!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

26 March 2008 (F - Hi everyone I have been with my boyfriend for six months and I have genital warts on my vagina does that mean he has been unfaithful or do you think I may have caught it from the past boyfriends? Because I read that it can lay dormant in your body for months or years and then ... (65 words

It just seems like there is something I don't know about her....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

26 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey everyone! Me and my gf have been together for nearly 2 yrs now, we broke up for 4 months and only got back together a couple months ago..She was the one to leave before and now it seems that i have the power, but im not greedy or i don't take things for granted..She is ... (176 words

He needs "space" after 4 dates!! Did we go too fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age - I've had 4 dates with this guy, and now he says he needs space and things have moved faster than he's comfortable with.... we haven't even kissed, but emotionally we are very attached; we had also chatted on msn or talked every night for the last 5 weeks. That was 6 days ago, ... (167 words

My teacher and I have drifted apart and now I think he misses me! What does his body language mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have this teacher who I am completely head over heels for. He has been my history teacher twice, including this year. Just in four months, we've seemed to drift apart. Which is my fault, actually. I loved him so much that I was willing to distance myself from him. We use... (238 words

Do I stay or go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

26 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I lied to her, I've tryed proving to her that she can trust me, but nothing has changed, infact its worsened, do I stay or go? I'm 11 months in, I've spent every day with her bar a few odd occasions. We barely ever argued however now it's everyday that something comes ... (214 words

He's doing everything to make my life hell! But I love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok.... so my and my boyfriend have been together 2 yrs. recently we ave been arguing a little about silly things like every couple does. a week friday... my boyfriend took me to the vets because my rabbits needed jabs. anyway... my boyfriend had to take me to the vets and the ... (342 words

Does it hurt to lose your virginity?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Does it hurt to lose your virginity? Ladies' opinions, please.... (10 words

Working with my ex, confusing behaviour...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, My ex and I had a very messy break-up almost a year ago. I'm struggling to get over it as I thought he was the One and he led me to believe that we had a future together, even telling me he loved me and saw a future for us three days before he left me! He was with som... (787 words

I'm falling apart! I need help with my family, my boyfriend, my independence

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26 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - My bf and I have been together for 5 years. We lived together at my parents house for 2 of those. My dad has a drinking problem and one night after coming home drunk, he got into it with my bf and told him he wasnt welcome in our house and if he ever got in his business again ... (717 words

My period is late, the tests were negative, could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I haven't started my period yet. I was supposed to start on the 11th. Well its the 26th and I'm so confused! Every pregnancy test at home says negative. could I be pregnant and it not show? Any advice. ... (40 words

He doesn't seem to listen to me...does this mean he doesn't respect me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for four months, he is a great guy actually but the only thing is, he doesn't seem to listen to me, whenever I am talking to him seriously, he would just say something to tell me I am wrong but he is right, and when I got frustrated, he will say he ... (110 words

I am so confused by my attraction to girls, I like guys too...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have not ever been gay but I have fantasies about having sex with 3 girls at one time. I have had 1 crush on a girl at school in the ninth grade I really liked her she was real pretty and still is. But we didnt work out very well so i am so sad about that. I dont know why I ... (121 words

I'm a girl and have this huge crush on another girl...how can I tell if she likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have this huge crush on a girl, but I'm also a girl. By her signs, I think she might of liked me too. I think about her like all the time. This might be kinda stupid but is their any way to find out if shes thinking about me too? I mean, i dont wont to waste all my time ... (83 words

We were only sleeping together, innocently, is her mother angry at me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - My new girlfriend got home from work early and her parents were both working, and it was 10pm and stormy/windy outside, so she called me kinda spooked and said "i wish you were here with me", and i told her i would come over as long as her parents said it was alright, so she ... (267 words

I went too far following a hoax, so I am single but still in love...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now and he cheated on me like in the 3rd month. He told me about it and was honest with me that's why I stayed with him. Unfortunately, his ex-girlfriend's friends decided to be immature and text me pretending to be my ... (141 words

Help! I'm feeling emotionally bruised, angry at the past, and guilty for what's happening in my marriage...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been married for over 13 years and have a 8 year old daughter. For the last 3 years I found myself being attracted to a coworker and I am still desperately in love with him. He on the other hand has indicated he likes me many times but at the same time asserts that he is ... (445 words

After having the baby, she shows signs of pain and discomfort during lovemaking...what is the reason?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - I got married 16 month ago and having a child of 5 month old. Every time at the time of lovemaking my wife resist me showing pain and uncomfort. Also she tried to keep her legs tight at the time of lovemaking. I have already asked if there is any infection or require medical ... (100 words

Found love then lost it? I'm trying to get back into the dating game and met this girl...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - I'm a recently divorced man of 42 and I'm trying to get back in the dating game. I'm not a pervert, sick, pedophile, etc. I have no problem meeting eligible and non-eligble women my age. I met this one particular girl in a store near my house. I was shopping and we just hap... (396 words

What is the best pheromone perfume to attract men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Do you use pheromone perfume? I am very shy and attracted to a guy in my class. I would really feel more comfortable with him making the first move. What is the best pheromone perfume to attract men?... (40 words

Our relationship is like a 'warzone' and I'm exhausted by it...any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi All, I am looking for some advice and guidance because i feel as though my relationship is like a 'warzone'. I have been with my bf for almost 5 yrs and during that time he went through a stressful divorce which has left him bitter (he did not leave his wife for me,... (408 words

My best friend is like my brother, but we both have feelings for the same girl...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - my best friend is lik my brother. we do everything together. One of the reasons we are so close is our philosiphy of what falling inlove is. we have both witnessed it and wen we shared our thoughts with each other we came to the same conclusion : pure, truthful, with out lust... (570 words

What's a 'mars bar' party?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Whats a mars bar party, someone mentioned it the the other day but I'm not sure what it is? ... (19 words

He has a child with his ex but what worries me is that he pays the ex much attention, jumps at her calls to carry out her wishes... any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - PLEASE HELP I've known my current bf since the tuesday before feb 14th and been going out with him for about 4 weeks, but one thing's bugging me, he has a 3 year old with his ex gf,he goes round to see the kid most nights and leaves when the child is asleep,i don't mind as ... (174 words

Picking up on the wrong vibes or do I actually like her? How do I know if I am gay/bi?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - how do i know if i am gay/bi? im engaged to be married next year but there is this girl at college i cannot stop thinking about. she'd be more of a supervisor or something i dunno. but i find her really intimidating when she comes near me or anything i just feel really ... (119 words

Fight for my feelings and stay here or move to another country and expect he waits for me?

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26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend so much.. but my brother and my parents want me to go to canada when i turn 18..i don't want to leave him..and he don't want me to go too..but i really need to..i said that if he loves me..he'll wait for me..but he said if i really love him..i'll fight fo... (71 words

I want to break up... for him not to feel my pain...and the strictness I have to obey?

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26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am fifteen years old and i have a boyfriend.. i really love him so much..we have many plans together for the future..but my parents don't like him..for some reasons..and it hurts me so much..because they don't want me to be with him..i know i'm too young for this kind of ... (111 words

Is it really better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all? I need some help.

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26 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Is it really better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all? I always thought it was, but now I’m losing that belief. I’ve only ever had the one relationship and it ended 2 days ago. I could really do with some help. I’ve never known pain like it, my min... (139 words

Will this be the end of our relation or will the time apart make us a stronger couple if we get back together? Was I too hasty and made a wrong decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (? - Hi everyone, I’ve just broken up with my boyf at the w/end and I think I mad a mistake in doing so. We were together over 2 years and everything was going really good with us, never had any bad rows and everything was going fine with us. Since Christmas though I felt like my ... (431 words

She's a nice girl but I sense she is not honest, besides her problem would be too big a responsibility for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F - Cupids, I have recently been introduced to a potential friend, i found her to be a nice girl but i couldn't quite figure her out and felt she was telling a lot of 'tall tales' She went on starting to twitch when i was talking to her and she said is was her epilepsy playing... (142 words

Remaining close friends after a break-up: how will I deal with seeing her with somebody else?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

26 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up about three months ago, we went a month without talking ot eachother, and finally ran into each other again. Since then we have hung out almost everyday, even dinner with her family one night. We both still love each other a lot and are still close friends, ... (166 words

My aunt and uncle forbid me to see my BF, shouldn't I learn from my own mistakes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've liked this lad for about 3 weeks and he's recently become single. He asked for my number and text me asking if I liked him more than a mate and I told him I did. He told me he liked me more than a mate, we kissed and later decided to start going out. My aunt and uncle ... (261 words

My ex calls me at night to tell me of her troubles, when I am preparing to go to bed...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

26 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - My ex-girlfriend who I am still friends calls me and asks me for advice about difficult issues at night right as I am preparing to go to bed. For instance, she was telling me a story about a bad doctor she has, that she needs to change. She did this during our relationship ... (142 words

She said she's still recovering from her divorce, to be fair with me, and that she enjoyed our date. What to do next??

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26 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi, i recently taken a girl out on a date, she's in the middle of a divorce.which went great. To the point of her askin do i want to see her again and do i want to kiss her. I responded with yes to both these questions and was looking forward to the next date. We arranged to ... (257 words

Should I do excercice 3 weeks after rhinoseptumplasty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My mum overreacted about me going to the gym today and i had surgery 3 weeks ago. She totally freaked out, so do i have to wait another two weeks as i totally forgot the dr's instructions and she's on holidays so i'm not able to contact and ask her. thanks in advance... (54 words

I'm afraid to leave my fiance alone because he may masturbate!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

26 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi i have this little problem that i cant get past its masturbation. my fiance says he doesnt masturbate because he knows that i have a problem with it and i want to believe that he doesn't but i can't. i dont like to leave him alone for fear that he might do it and he tel... (130 words

How do I handle my girlfriends rough past?

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26 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi there im new to this but i really need some advice from several caring people. my situation is my girlfriend comes from a long hard past and im the best thing that has happened to her. We are both nineteen but when she was 6 years old she lived in california and she had to ... (413 words

He told me "dating you would probably never happen"...so what does this really mean?

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26 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - One time this guy said to me that dating me would probably never happen and i said well i am not going to expect it but if it does well then it does what do you think he meant by saying probably never happen was he thinking that i wouldn't want to date someone like him or ... (67 words

How can I make "missionary style" more wild?

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26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - when i am having sex with my guy and he's on top, i feel like i am just laying there. what could i do to stir things up? i am new to this and im not sure about girl on top either .. do i move up and down on him or does he do it?... (57 words

Are his friends more important? He's acting like a dick!

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26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - When my boyfriend goes and hangs out with his friends he rarely calls and when he does he acts like a huge dick. Like he doesnt care about anything im telling him, and pays more attention to his friends, what do i do?... (43 words

He doesn't call as much since moving back to our home town!

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26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend never calls me back, this never seemed to be a problem when we were having a long distance relationship, but since he has moved to my home town after about 4 months now he never calls when he says he will?... (43 words

I don't have a boyfriend because I don't like to "party"! Will I be single until I'm 30yrs old?!!

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26 March 2008 (F - I feel like im a loser and no guy my age will ever like me. I feel like this because ive had two bf's who have had issues with me about being a non drinker and not into partying all weekend, every weekend. My last bf dumped me because of this, he said we were too different. ... (225 words

She lies to her dad and her ex that she is with me, why?

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26 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I have an ex-girlfriend. We dated for about 4 years. Been broken up, had so many fights and problems, thats all i seem to remember. but now we are i guess friends. When we hangout its just a little awkward bc its not like how it use to be. she used to love me you know, but now ... (178 words

When is it time to quit trying and just end a relationship completely?

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26 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - How do you know when to just quit trying with something that feels like it should work, but doesn't? I dated a guy for three years, and he was, without question, the love of my life. In all my life, I would never get bored of him, and we had a great friendship. But ... (700 words

How do I make my best friend back-off from my girlfriend?

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26 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months now, but my best friend seems unusually close to her. I met my girlfriend at the beginning of school, when her, my best friend, and I hung out a lot for about 6 months until her and I starting going out. She told me ... (221 words

He says we are not with each other anymore so why does he keep calling me?

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26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - he says we are not seeing each other anymore yet he still calls me and asks where i am and what I'm doing. he expects me not to get upset about all these mixed signals he's giving me. what do you think is going on? ... (45 words

Ladies, any idea why my girlfriend doesn't orgasm any more from oral sex?

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26 March 2008 (M age - My girlfriend has stopped having orgasms from cunnilingus. This is unusual because the first time I went down on her, she had an orgasm and was going on and on about how good I was at oral sex. In fact, she had several orgasms one right after the other, and would have ... (273 words

Cruel jibes in the past still make me feel so ugly ..I'm so insecure now with my boyfriend, help me!

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26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old. I was always ignored in high school. One guy actually called me ugly once (and added that I should consider plastic surgery). No one ever called me beautiful and no guys ever crushed on me. My friends told me I was pretty, but always felt sorry for me bec... (647 words

I get on great with this guy at school but mum says I've to back off because he is older. Any advice?

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26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i really like this older guy, he's four years older than me, and he likes me back. we talk every day on msn and sometimes hang out at school. he's super smart and i trust him with everything. we're both into the same things and when we're talking its like we're the same age. ... (131 words

I agreed to an open relationship but I'm not happy and need advice on how to handle it or break off?

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26 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now and we're in an open relationship. I'm his main girl but he is going around dating and sleeping with other girls. Although he hasn't slept with any other girls yet b/c if he did he'd have told me and he hasn't told me. I've... (364 words

I won't to leave hin again but this time for good. Any tips?

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26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay I know I am only 17 but I would really like some opinons. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years, he has cheated on me once and I ended it at that but a week later I found myself back in the same relationship. There has been other times I have tried to end it ... (323 words

My boyfriend of 7 years did not propose and I just ended the relationship over it. Help me.

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26 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi there, I have been in a serious relationship for 7 years. It has mostly been wonderful, our friends and families all approve, we deeply love eachother, and we get along great for the most part (silly problems here and there). I have had some pretty bad problems with ... (229 words

I'm 18 in three months, could things work out between me and my 26-year-old teacher?

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26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey... I am seventeen yrs old...(i turn 18 in 3 months), and i like a 26 year old who teaches at my school. I know this sounds so typical coming from what seems like a love stricken teenager...but the thing is i am falling i love with him and i dont know what to do...u can de... (156 words

She has never did it before, and I'm no expert either, so where and how do I make a move?

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26 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Ok, We have been dating for 2 months. My girlfriend has never made out before and I am her first boyfriend. She has recently told me that she would not mind making out a little. The problem with that is she has never done it before, and I dont claim to be an expert either. we ... (171 words

Three years with my boyfriend but I fancy his friend too!

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26 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hay everyone iam 18 I always ask my friends what to do but they don't give me anwers can someone help? I been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years but I really like his friend I mean like they grow up together I call his friend almost every night and say I miss u ... (154 words

What goes on at Bachelore parties?

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26 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hallo I have a guestion for guys mainly. Is there any sex or kissing or stuff going on at a Bachelore parties?? I heard from one of my friends haveing BP and the strippers were going down on them for $200 .. I find it not only overpriced but disgusting as well ... So ... (77 words

I dumped him but I love him and he's with my best friend. How do I get him back?

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26 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - i dumped this boy but hes now going out with my best mate and i still love him i told him but he loves my best mate how do i get him back?... (33 words

The guy I'm seeing makes me feel worse about my life than I already do, should I dump him? When will I be ready to date again?

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26 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm seeing this guy and he keeps telling me that I need to move out of my moms house and get a job. I just got out of a five year relationship a year ago and had to quit my job because my ex stalks me. I have been looking for another job but having a hard time I don't have very ... (192 words

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