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writes: Hi everyone, I’ve just broken up with my boyf at the w/end and I think I mad a mistake in doing so. We were together over 2 years and everything was going really good with us, never had any bad rows and everything was going fine with us. Since Christmas though I felt like my boyfriend was getting really distant with me and that he didn’t want to be with me any more. We hardly went out together, or went anywhere. I know he had a lot on with work as well and we also live over an hour’s drive away from each other so it was mostly weekends that I saw him anyway. Anyway I text him on Saturday to see what he was doin that night, he text back nothing much. I didn’t reply back for ages and then he rang saying he wasn’t going out and might go out on Sunday night. I said ok, and that I wouldn’t be up to him. I didn’t want to sit around in the house again all night doin nothing. After an hour I sent him an email telling how I felt, wasting another bank holiday weekend doin nothing etc and that he would go out with everyone else but me lately, and that I had enough and we were over. I him sent him a text later that night to tell him to read this email. He did read it and he replied back “ok” the next morning. We didn’t really talk on Sunday but Monday we agreed to talk and sort out a few things. With his job he does do an awful lot of driving and long hours, then he goes to see his child during the week and takes the child up to his house and home again on Fridays as well as coming down to see me, which doesn’t give him any time for himself. I can understand that and I just said to him why couldn’t he have told me all this before? It would have saved so much worry and this stupid break up if he had. We’ve agreed on a break for a few weeks – I don’t want to lose him and I’m not happy with this break but I agreed as I can see now how miserable my guy is… Will this be the end of us or will the time apart make us stronger and better if we get back together?Thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks ladies for your advice. I'll take it all on board and see what happens...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): Hi Hunny
He has probably had so much on his plate with work and picking up his little one and all this has come to ahead, You dont want to loose him and Im sure he feels the same..Maybe once you have both had sometime apart you can work on getting things good again, Its horrible when this happens, Your not happy with the situation but you dont want it to end just change a little spend more quality time together and you write the e-mail expecting a little more than just ok...As you needed some sort of sign that he wanted you...Give it time hunny and he will miss your company I wish you much luck and love sweetheart and hope and pray everything works out just fine for you WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 It is the dawn of a new era if you are able to get back together.
You will have more understandings and be more resilient in your relationship.
A sailor cannot be a good sailor if he has not gone through a storm.....
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