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40, confused and wondering...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

12 March 2008 (F - Hello to all my very encouraging readers Here's an update...and a question! 7 months ago I moved to london like I said I would and have been lucky enough to find enough work.I have been applying for MA's in painting.I got an interview at a very posh college...they said th... (517 words

I still cry over all the hurt my ex caused me...any tips how to get through this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - I don't know what to do anymore. I still can't completely get over my ex. I am much better than I used to be, but I still think about him everyday. Sometimes I still cry when I think of him or how he broke my heart. I don't know if I still love him or not anymore. Now I cry mo... (93 words


   

Should I go for this girl even if my friends call me a freak?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 10-12 - ok im bi but if i say it the girl i like will she will think im copying her and i really like her but she is going out with a diffrent girl but if i tell my other friends they call my a freak and never talk to me again please help... (53 words

How do I stop boys from making advances at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - This isn't a major problem, but to me it is, so any advice would be great thankyou. well the thing is, when i'm at school i don't know why but lads feel they can take advantage of me, they touch me everywhere constantly, its not like it's just the odd occasion, its all of the ... (150 words

On the pill, but could I still be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - 3 weeks ago i had sex with my boyfriend. It wasnt the first time it was after a party and we were both slightly drunk. He didnt have any protection but i know he doesnt have any std's and im on the pill so i thought it would be fine. It wasnt until 2 days later i noticed ... (122 words

   

My friends think I am a slut for loving porn...am I normal??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - Right, iam a girl and some of my friends thinks its weird to watch porn! I watch it like everyday and i always masturbate!! I think i should be a boy. My boyfriend doesnt think its weird; he loves it that i am open about myself but its the girls that think i am a slut. Am i ... (59 words

Not a question...just a big Thank You.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

12 March 2008 (? age 16-17 - HEY EVERYONE!! This isn't a question!! its just a message to you all... I've asked a few questions on here recently and i have been helped out A LOT!! by all the agony aunts, uncles and anons. they have being amazin!! all the help has being so helpfull and this is just a l... (170 words

Should I ask this girl out at work, even with the age difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 18-21 - My problem is that there is a girl who I work with that I want to ask out. You see I've started a new part time job at this place in november, a month before I started a girl joined part time as well. We are always talking a lot during our shifts and are quite friendly with ... (238 words

In a serious relationship, but should I go back to an abusive ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Ok....so I have been in a serious relationship for 2 1/2 years with a good guy I met when I was a sophomore in highschool (about6 years ago)...but I cannot stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend. He is a little over a year younger than me but pretty mature..his family loves me and ... (177 words

Still flirting with ex, should I give up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 10-12 - help i slept with this boy who recently broke up with his girlfriend. he says that he would do it again but he keeps on flirting with his ex what shall i do i really love this guy ... (49 words

Signs of a narcissist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - What exactly is Narcissitic Personality Disorder? What are the signs? ... (15 words

We have broken up and I cant stand her flirting with others...i need time for us to be friends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 26-29 - Ok I broke up with my girlfriend, the issue is: I've not told a girl before I loved her, and I did to her and meant it. She told me she loved me. However, following valentines day and my birthday she told me and wrote to me telling me she loved me, and then a week after my bi... (156 words

In love with another lad, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - I really need help. I am going out with a boy who i really do like a lot, but i feel like our relationship isnt going anywhere at all, and i need to break it off, but i dont want to hurt him. The other thing is, i am actually in love with another lad. I really truly am. I ha... (126 words

Why am I dreaming of my boss, will something happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi, a bit of advice please? Im 20 this year and Im in a happy 2 year relationship but recently I had a dream that I was kissing my sort of boss at work! And now I cant get him out of my head, I've always found him attractive but havent really thought of fancying him because ... (157 words

How do I have a proper relationship with my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - hey, i'm sure this is like the main question that you get, but oh well :) i'm 15 and have been in love with the same boy for 3 years. the problem is, i am shy anyway but go even more so whenever im around him and go bright red if i just hear his voice. its reallyyy annoying... (153 words

Should I pursue a relationship or just quit while I'm ahead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 18-21 - So about a week ago I hooked up with a girl at a party, I'm not going to lie, at the time I was just interested in a piece of ass. And from the things I'd heard from alot of my friends she's very easy, but we never ended up having sex or anything like that. And since then ... (279 words

Does young love last?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - hiya =] I'm 14 and i was just wondering, if i fell in love at this age, do you think i may be able to spend the rest of my life with someone? I know its unlikely. But it's a complicated story..... If you need more info just ask...but my quetion is has anyone of y... (89 words

Is the guy I'm dating acting odd?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Was dating a guy for past 9 months. Everyone once in a while, he would send me these bizarre text messages (I believe he is drunk when he sends them) and accuses me of things that were ridiculous...like why did the gardener have my garage code and he didn't.......that I ... (117 words

I don't know if this boy really likes me? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - well i m sorta confused ok. this boy hus been my friend for like a long time as like started sending me signals that i m not sure bout!! every like time we ave lessons together hes like alwaiis near me and sorta flirtin wiv me. he does it to other girls but not as much as me ... (139 words

I have trouble making new friends because I'm shy. Please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - Hey! Im in a new school and im finding it very hard to open up. Everyone always tells me im so quiet or shy. Id rlly like to open up, but i cant. I try to build up my confidence, or picture myself talking with ease, but that never seems to work. Whenever i stand next to a ... (81 words

I'm pregnant and alone. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - hi, i'm 20 and i've been sleeping with my ex boyfriend, who i love, hoping he would want to go out with me again. i've only just found out i'm pregnant, and told him but he says he doesn't want me or the baby and not to contact him. i unfortunatly don't have any friends as i... (128 words

If I don't tell my teacher how I feel by this Friday my friends will...what can I do??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - Help! I am in love with my maths teacher and I don't know what 2 do. I want to tell him but then I will not be able to do my work. My friends are making me tell him by this Friday (14/03/08) or they will tell him, what do I do? I really really love him. I am 13 and he is well ... (144 words

I feel like my friend betrayed me by talking to the boy I like and starting to develop feelings.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - I really like this boy and i have for years. We tried being boyfriend and girlfriend once but we stopped seeing each other because we both moved schools. We have started seeing each other again now and we chat regulary and i want to start dating with him again. He says he likes ... (197 words

Why is he always in my dreams and what does it mean??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - I'm a 13yr old girl and I need people's opinions. This boy in my class(13), he's my friend and he likes me alot. Like he has feelings for me. We're not going out but I think I might even like him the same way too. Every night when I go to sleep, he's in my dreams. Like I always ... (77 words

Why does my boyfriend feel the need to lie or cover up the fact that he looks at porn when I know he does?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Why does my boyfriend feel the need to lie or cover up the fact that he looks at porn? I was gone for 4 hours one day and when I came home he was gone and I know that I shouldn't do this and it's wrong of me to look at his computer but under his history it says he had gone ont... (157 words

I don't want to go through the dating stage...I just want a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 18-21 - My girlfriend of 14 months just broke up with me. She is 15 and a sophmore in High school, while I'm 19 and a freshmen in college. I know that sounds crazy, but its not as bad as it seems she's not going to college after high school (hair cutting). She told me she just wan... (163 words

Do I give him attention and make him like me again, or play hard to get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - Hey guys, so the kid that i wrote about before, he said how he was never talking to me ever again but clearly that was a lie because now we talk again. B Basically he is still together with this girl, but he is being VERY flirtacious with me. This weekend i am hanging out with... (114 words

He is helpful and understanding but not very caring when I am ill.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I met this man 18 years my senior while I was going through my divorce. He is helpful and understanding. But when I am not well he doesnt show much care. I was brought up by a loving mother. I know if you love then you care especially when the love one is not well. H... (133 words

My teacher is always staring at me....is he a pervert??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - There's a teacher at my school who won't stop staring at me! And no, I don't have a crush on him at all! But he is just so freaky. Today he came over and stood right next to me in assembly just staring at me and then I was on my way to the maths block and I think... he was ... (183 words

Why am I feeling so confused, I'm falling for my new bf but my ex messes with my head.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - My ex and I broke up the end of December 2007, after being together 9 months. Basically, he broke up with me due to insecurity, he was more into me than I was into him, and it was obviously a big problem to him. I began dating someone else the end of January. It's the comp... (324 words

I am scared something will go wrong wearing tampons while swimming.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - helloo. This may sound like a really wierd question but oh well. Basically i am 15 and having been using tampons for about 6 months properly but i have this fear of wearing them swimming. I am scared something will go wrong. Please put my mind at rest and give me any tips....... (55 words

I've decided to go travelling...but how do I tell my partner??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 22-25 - hello, I have recently decided to go travelling with a friend early next year, for a year, it is something i've really really wanted to do for a while. The only problem is i'm currently in a 2 and a half year relationship and my partner is settled here with a good job where as... (156 words

We got through the tough times and rebuilt trust...until last week.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - I am hoping someone can give me some advice as I am so confused and don't know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. We got off to a pretty rocky start as he still had connections with his ex and I found out about 4 months into our relationship that he ... (346 words

What do you think about going to a medium for advice on your love life?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - What do you think about going to a medium for advice on your love life? I am very open minded about stuff like that and im going through such a hard time with a break up that i think this might help. What do you guys think? Anyone had any good experiences with them? Thanks!... (58 words

Why won't he tell his friends list and his ex he is no longer single...even after 8 months??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi, Ive been dating a guy for the past 8 months and i adore him as he does me. I was with a guy for nearly 4 years before him, which was my first love but gradualy became my best friend and more like a brother and i started to look else where mainly for freedom and because ... (489 words

I can't seem to get the signals right...so should I tell her how I feel??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 16-17 - I beecame good friends with this girl last September as she was new to our school. We became really good friends, but we didn't talk all that much at scool. We still don't. We always (and still do) go round to each other's house and meet up to go to the cinema in small groups ... (407 words

Itching down below after unprotected sex...will it go away??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 16-17 - I had sex a couple days ago and i didnt use a condom :( and now ever since then im vary itching down below. I don't think i have crabs but what should i do. Will it go away?... (40 words

Should we try to repair the relationship or are we prolonging the hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age - I am disgusted at myself for what I am about to tell say. A few months ago, i cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years. He found out after I left texts on my phone when I got drunk at a work function and he found them. We fought for ages but eventually he agreed just to see each oth... (308 words

We broke up but she sees us together in the future, what does she mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hi, i have a question that keeps bothering me, I dated this girl for about 7 months till she broke up with me, the reason was that things didnt go really smooth between us. After the break up we somehow didnt lose touch and grew back together, but we never really came back... (228 words

He's in two major relationships, could he still like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I am really interested in this guy but he now wants nothing to do with me. It all started when we were getting to know one another. Everything was going fine...we did get intimate with one another but we didn't have sex. Anyways it was about two months when ... (237 words

Boy in class says he loves me, is he joking?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 10-12 - hi people some one in my class keeps saying he loves me and i kinda like him to but i dont know wether he is joking or wether he means it what shall i do please help me love kim... (47 words

Is masturbation a turn-off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 18-21 - is masturabation a turnoff to a girl i do it regularly will it effect my sex life?... (19 words

I'm scared of falling in love, should I tell him to back-off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - This guy has been flirting with me for a little while now but i haven't thought much of it. He makes me laugh and has a really sweet personality but i'm scared of falling for him as he is 25 and i am in love with someone else more my age (although i am single.) I'm not sure ... (85 words

Older students are calling us names, why can't they leave us alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - Me and my m8s have a lot of fun together...we muck around and make stupid comments on generaly just be idiots! We all enjoy being so idiotic because it's fun just to let yourself be you...But we are the youngest in the school and,because all the older year 8s and 9s and so on ... (216 words

Long distance love, will I lose him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been in this relationship for 9 months now but since he lives in Australia and I am in the Philippines, we only communicate through the phone at least an hour everyday. We also send each other text msgs some time during the day. We only met in an ... (475 words

My teacher is ignoring me, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - I have this teacher and somtimes i think he ignores me. When i asked him a question he wasn't looking at me when answering it he was looking at my friend next to me and i did ask loud enough becuase he was right in front of me and he looked at me when i asked then looked at my ... (130 words

My heart is broken, what went wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (? age 16-17 - At the moment, I'm feeling so low as I seem to have so many problems and so much stress, and to make it worse I've just split from my boyfriend. I can't express how much I loved him, but somewhere something went wrong, and we couldnt carry on being in a relationship together... (82 words

Ex-girlfriend won't give me an anwer, so what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 18-21 - dear cupid i was going with this girl for 18 months and she broke up with me there about 2weeks ago she said she broke up with me cause i was being a asshole and i was cause i was going throw a bit if money probs and i was taking it out on her but i have said im sorry by ... (244 words

Can't stop thinking about him but he goes out with my friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 113 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - ok... well ive known this guy for about 4 years now. at first he liked me but i didnt like him.. so to make me jealous he went out with my best friend. as time went by me and him got closer as friends and talked aalootttt. and i really started liking him. after him and my ... (343 words

Age gaps, how much is too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 18-21 - Hi, i'm in a relationship with a 15 year age gap, i'm 19 and she's 34, we are very happy but, sometimes we both feel anxious over the age gap, is this gap too big to be realistic... (38 words

I don't live with my partener - is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've started a new relationship right after my divorce. This man is 18 years my senior. He makes me feel loved and wanted. We get on well and been together for 2 years now. He's got his house and I've got mine. I stay overnight at his house 3 time a week since we started ... (120 words

What is an on/off relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Can someone explain what an on/off relationship is? My friend is in one but I really don't get the point of it. Is it like dating someone for a week and then breaking up and then getting back together? I don't understand how it works. Anyone know? ... (47 words

Can I date a guy in an off period of an on/off relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - I've liked this guy, we'll call him Ryan, on and off for about... four years now. I recently got his number and we've been texting a lot but I can't figure out if he likes me or not. I also have a problem because he has an on again off again girlfriend(they're currently off) ... (126 words

She doesn't admit our relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - Can someone help me?How do you deal with having a flirty girlfriend?When guys hit on her she smiles instead of just telling them she's taken.I'm not saying be mean,I'm just saying politely say I'm sorry I'm taken.I'm really starting to think she's ashamed of me.3 people tried ... (296 words

Abused by my friend's father

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - i have been sexually abused by my friends father, and i found out that he did it to many other young girls, should i tell somebody about this as he is already going to court over the other abuses, my friend wont see his father and i feel really tight on him, i cant stop ... (76 words

Shall I just carry on my life or get in touch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 26-29 - Hi there, I'm really lost and seriously do not know what should i do? I'm in a relationship with a girl. Both of us were deeply in love. Even though we do not really know each other very well before start of this relationship, but we knew deep down inside we are the righ... (660 words

Behaved 'out of character' and now she doubts us

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M - Hi I have been seeing a beautiful caring girl for a year. We love each other and see says i'm kind, caring etc However, recently I lost my temper with her when i was drunk and was verbally abusive. I didn't hit her or anything, just shouted whilst arguing. This was totally... (185 words

Isn't two months long enough to decide if you like someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F - I've been seeing a guy for just over 2 months now and have recently started to feel more for him. When we are together everything is cool but outside of that i'm not sure how he feels about me. We talk on the phone and text quite often but he has never actually said he l... (151 words

When is it okay to sleep with someone you are dating without giving it up too easy or playing too hard to get?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - When is it okay to sleep with a guy you are "seeing" without giving it up too quickly OR playing too hard to get? So...I met this guy a couple of years ago. We were just really good friends(I actually met him thru my ex). When my ex and I broke up we admitted to having feelings... (413 words

Is there a chance of a serious committed relationship in our future??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been enjoying my time with my new guy and now insecurities are slowly coming up here and there with me. We do work together and have been warned heavily by our employer last year to not get involved or face consequences. I am going to a interview tomorrow as I have bee... (497 words

How do I let go of the past??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have been on this site before, as I have been going through a traumatic time in personal life. It was all to do with a relationship that i came out of which has affected severly I split up with this girl last year, and i have been finding it very difficult to let go. Everythi... (199 words

Any tips for my mum in dealing with my little brothers immature gf??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F - Hi aunts, My mom has a bit of a problem with my little brother's girlfriend. She is 16 but a very imature 16 and when she's out she keeps flushing sanitary towels down the toilet resulting in it getting blocked and the pipes blocked also. She wants to know how can she say ... (86 words

He reeled me back in, I've lost my best friend and family and now I don't want our child growing up around this??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my partner for 5 years; we met in a chat room online. We were both married at the time he was seeing lots of other women didnt realise how much until now 24 in the first year we were together and i was one of them. I divorced my husband and my partner and i wo... (620 words

Does she want out or still love me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - If my wife (when she has been drinking) says "we have grown apart" when in fact nothing has changed, or uses the "we should split now so that we can stay friends". But also staunchly maintains that she loves you. Which is more likely?... (44 words

My fiance doesn't want to spend time alone with me...is he even into me at all??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - My fiance and i live seperately. i live with my parents with an intime of 10-which is normal in our country. My fiance spends time with me every day ... about two hours on weekdays and half a day every alternate weekend.at the beginning of our relationship he didn;t think it... (290 words

Is my husband up to something??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Ask Cupid, I've been married for 21 years. I was my husband's first lover. I had other experiences prior to marriage and have remained faithful. Our marriage has had its ups and downs-but we always find our way back to each other. Lately, he's been keeping secret things l... (223 words

I've felt intense waves of pleasure...did I have an orgasm?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - I'm 17 years old and female and my girlfriend is currently living interstate. Recently I've been experimenting with masturbation whilst text messaging her, but up until a few days ago I felt barely any pleasure. However the last few times after a couple minutes I've felt int... (133 words

Why did she make so much effort in the club when we met...what do you think she is thinking??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M - I broke up with my ex girlfriend four months ago. She got to uni and wanted freedom. I was putting her under pressure and made her feel smothered. By the end, I was insecure and paranoid. I don't blame her for breaking up with me. Since we split, I've really learnt my lesson a... (402 words

I jokingly said he was gay and he lost his erection instantly. Any advice??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - Last weekend when my boyfriend and I were having sex we were talking and joking, and out of the blue I asked him 'for how long have you been gay" and he lost the erection instantly. We usually have no problem in this area. Also that weekend I saw a magazine in his closet, ... (99 words

I want to be the person I was before I had my daughter. Any advice??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - I just had my daughter four months ago and ever since I got pregnant my entire personality has changed...for the worse!!! I used to be a happy go lucky get along with everyone kinda of person and now i am depressed and angry and rude an sarcastic and all those things. I dont w... (105 words

What are the signs of a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Would like to know how you can tell if a guy is playing you. What are some of the signs that he might be doing this?... (26 words

I'm afraid we're drifting apart because of his studies!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - I need advice, i miss my boyfriend heaps hes year 11 and has been studying heaps i havent been seeing him at all i may see him at school for about a min or something!! lately i have been crying heaps lately coz i miss him. i think we have drifted apart a bit like we hardly talk ... (69 words

His phone porn clips make me want to give my number to other men!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Please help, i'm not sure if i'm acting the right way. well my bf is 'obsessed' with porn videos or that's what i think. Because he has a whole lot of porn clips on his phone. about 2 months ago I told him to delete these things on his phone and he refused and said "there's ... (241 words

I'm scared my boyfriend will beat me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 111 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - Ive been going out with my boyfriend Steve for a year now. The thing is, he has troule erecting. He is always watching porn, and I am anorexic, which he finds extremely sexy. Also last year, Dan his friend raped me. I didn't tell Steve as I know he would never go near me again... (88 words

Should I insist on being included in the social events he attends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - The man i'm dating sometimes goes to social events alone. He usually mentions that to me and sometimes he mentions that may be i could go with him. But he rarely is definite and makes arrangements. Should i insist to go with him when he mentions that to me or let him alone to ... (87 words

How do I lose weight quickly? My boyfriend complains and finding clothes is hard!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - I am 5ft 1, i weigh 167 pounds and am 27yrs, my b/f complains i am fat, how do i shed a lot of weight in a short time, the worst part is that i feel very fat and i can hardly finds clothes to wear. I heard about the cayenne pepper diet, has anyone the confirmation that it ... (63 words

Should I worry that my girlfriend stays in contact with her ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 22-25 - I met my girlfriend about 6 months ago. She just got out of a realtionship then about 2 months. She left the guy because of a disease. Ever since then she is been in contact with him. He calls her all the time and she likes talking to him. If she doesn't hear from him she gets... (274 words

She's scared to have an orgasm--how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I've been going out with this girl for a few months. She's really great and I think we're falling in love. We are sexually active and we enjoy having sex with each other alot. I've been with several partners before as has she. It's been a super positive and ope... (233 words

How can I get my boyfriend to have sex with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - I am concerned about my sexual relationship with my boyfriend of over 2 years. For about the past year my boyfriend hardly ever in the mood to have sex with me and we only have sex when I initiate it and it makes me feel incredibly unattractive. I know that most people would ... (191 words

I'm in love with my best friend's younger brother!

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12 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have had the same best friend for 10 years, and she is one of 8 kids. Her youngest brother (of 6 years) and I have always been really close friends. Finally last summer we were drunk one night and ended up together. It happened a few times after that and then I didn't see him ... (203 words

How do I keep a long distance girlfriend when we're both too young to drive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 16-17 - theres this girl that i really like. she one of my friends cousins. she attractive as hell, shes nice sweet and everything you could ever want to find in a girl. i talk to her online every night and we txt each other alot. she knows how much i like her, she thinks im a little ... (195 words

We haven't had sex yet because I'm self-conscious about my body!

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12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Can someone give me some advice on how to get over my body issues? I have met the most amazing guy and I'm in love with him. He's my best friend and always tells me I'm beautiful and he likes me the way I am. We have not had sex yet, mostly because I'm so self conscious. I'm ... (146 words

I'm impatient to date her, how do I convince her the ex isn't a problem?

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12 March 2008 (M age 18-21 - Ive been hanging out with a new girl for the past 2 weeks and weve known each other for years and have liked each other for years, but due to complications we didnt date each other. It seems that we are going to finally do that soon. She wanted to wait a little while bef... (120 words

I'm in love with my best friend. Does he feel the same way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - My best friend happens to be a guy and we have been friends for years. We know everything about each other and we talk on the phone between 1-2 times every day. A few months ago, he moved far away and we still talk as much as we used to. I'm beginning to develop feelings for ... (251 words

Will leaving a tampon in too long cause infertility?

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12 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - Hey I was just wondering is it true, that if you leave your tampon in for too long it can lessen the chances of being able to have kids?? (say over the recommended time of 4hours?) Thanks its been worrying me.... (47 words

I found out we weren't each other's first, we're split up now but I'm upset!

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12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - I was with my ex for two years, we've been split though for 8 months now. We had plans to get married eventually, and were each other's firsts sexual experience, or so I thought. I haven't stopped crying over him, and I'm still in love with him even though he's been dating his ... (122 words

My ex got back with his ex and I'm conflicted about not having contact with him!

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12 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - I know that some people on here have gone through a similar situation and I know it is only likely to get better. I lost my virginity to someone who cheated on me and broke up with him when I found out a few months later. When we encountered each other again, he seemed to ... (261 words

I'm afraid dating this recently separated woman is moving too fast!

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12 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello, all. Hope you can help some, as i'm clueless. Three weeks ago i met a smart and sexy woman who makes me laugh and calls me on my bullshit. We've crammed alot of dates in; she's cooked for me twice(she's a cajun wiz), we drink vino and play cards and slow dance... al... (215 words

I'm insecure about my body, but I want to be sexy for my man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Ok this is kind of embarassing and frustrating. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years. I want to be able to be sexy and strip or do something he would like but i feel silly and end up blushing and stopping. I want to feel more confident and be able to be ... (157 words

What should I do about my love for a woman, I have a baby and a live-in boyfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - Where to start... I am a bisexual woman. I'm 23 this year and have been in a live-in, but unmarried, committed relationship with a man for four years. We have a child together now, a wonderful toddler daughter. She is my life, and really, everything I do will always be in her... (815 words

How do I assure my boyfriend that I won't leave him because I'm moving away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - I'm moving like and hour and a half away from my boyfriend and he is really freaked out that i will leave him for someone else. Is there anything more i can do to put his mind at ease other than assure him that i won't?... (46 words

People think I'm really quiet, and I find it annoying! Should I worry?

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12 March 2008 (F - I am really confused. People have always told me that I am really quiet- thats true, I am quiet by nature but I can also be very shy on top of that around new people. But even when I am around people I am close to, I'm not loud and overly talkative, I'm more quiet- its just ... (338 words

What can I do to please my new boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - So, i have a new boyfriend. and we have touched and rubbed each other. Mostly i'm the one that's being touched and rubbed, but he told me (in a nice respective way) that he'd like to get some pleasure too. But I don't know what to do. I'm not ready to have sex, and don't thin... (93 words

How can I open up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hey, ok me an my bf have been together for bout 3 months, it's all been great but there is a lil prob that is affecting our relationship, i have trouble opening up and talking bout what i want an how i feel, my mum passed away coming up 3 years ago now and since she's passed i ... (105 words

Married, and I fancy this other guy, I moved away but cant shake that feeling,help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have a problem...a couple really. Firstly, I am married to this really lovely, steady guy. He loves me, we have kids. We get along well, and he is truly my best friend. We have a lousy sex life, but that's not really anyone's fault - more that there are physical problems ... (284 words

I don't want sex as much as my horny girlfriend and it's leading to arguments!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (M age 18-21 - My girlfriend and I been together going on 3 years this month. She is a very active girl in bed. She seems to want activity every night. Me on the other hand I don't get active once or maybe twice a week. We also turn it into arguments. I use to be such active as she is but I ... (89 words

My ex wants me to meet his other ex, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - My daughter's dad and I are spending a lot of time together. I don't have the feelings I use to have for him anymore. He's cheated on me, twice, put me down...and now I see some change in him. The thing is that, it's not there for me. We have fun together. He have g... (232 words

My soon to be in laws want a traditional hindu wedding, we dont, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - I am about to be married. My fiance' is East Indian, I am white. He was born here in America, so he has a lot of the same beliefs that I do and agrees with me on how things should go. His parents, however, are from India and expect him and me to do things according to how it's ... (365 words

I love him and want to get marry but he doesn't. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

12 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've met this man 18 years my senior when I divorced my husband of 22 years. He helps me to go through the divorce and get my life back on track. We get on well and been together two years now. I love him and want to get marry but he doesn't. What should I do? Please ... (62 words

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