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Am I normal for my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

28 March 2008 (M age 13-15 - Ok i am 15 and I stand around 5ft 10... is that normal? Also my falccid penis is around 10 cm with my erection growing to about 16cm. am I normal for my age. ps i have only really started to grow in the last 1.5 years.... (56 words

Sweet sixteen and never been kissed or have some one love me, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - Hello there... I seem to have trouble finding a boyfriend. Im turning 16 ina month and it seems i will be able to use a car before i get to use my lips to kiss a boy... Quite sad, yes. I long for a boyfriend, but its not like im desperate. Infact, guys think im the opppos... (229 words


   

I really care for my friend and would like things to develop further, is it ok to stop by his place without calling beforehand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hello, I really really like one of my guy friends and I would like to be in a relationship with him someday. We have a lot in common and have the same career goals. Hes a really sweet guy who works hard and is fun to be around. We hang out sometimes but I never really tol... (171 words

Is emotional arousal for women the same as porn for men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - okay just wanting some point of views i brought this up in another question and some said it was interesting so here it is exact question: just curious and this might get a rise out of a few people and i don't agree with the writer i feel its wrong and i would never do that to ... (188 words

I'm shy, he's shy, are we having a relationship or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - last friday night i went, along with several colleagues, to an ex-colleagues wedding party. for a while now, i had been developing feelings for a work mate, but had not acted upon it because 1) i am shy, and 2) i was unsure how he felt in reagards to me. but on friday, our mutu... (285 words

   

He has pulled out of our wedding twice should I give him a third chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - hi im in real need for some good advice this is a long story but il try to cut it short! my partner is in the army! we have been together for 2 years! he was sent away to afghan half way through he proposed and it was the best day of my life!! we were sooo happy! when he retu... (244 words

I don't want to lead him on, as I have a flirty nature, so what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - I've got the best guy friend in the whole world, he means everything to me. But lately i found out he loves me. I have a flirty nature but i have explained to him that i don't feel the same way but i can't help but think in my being myslef i am leading him on. What shall i do ... (69 words

I'm scared to go out with anyone because I'm worried I wont marry them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - Right well.. I'm 15 and all i think i want is to get married and have a kid. I'm incapeable of going out with anyone because of this.. Because i'm scared that if i go out with the person i like at the moment i won't marry them when i'm older. The dude is marrage material and i ... (63 words

He didn't tell me he had a girlfriend, should I flirt with another guy to make him jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - Hi I used to like this guy ........... to cut a long story short i liked him + i thought i liked him + i thought that he liked me, (he might have been joking). Now he has a girlfriend and didnt tell me, + now he is even going out with her. I feel upset, i know that me + ... (139 words

Is it enough to love someone, even though you think they are disrespectful? Are people expecting too much of relationships nowadays?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 March 2008 (M age 26-29 - My partner of four years recently had an affair, then after much persuasion, decided that he did want to stay with me and make it work. When he was making his mind up I was desperate to have him back, but now he is I'm not so sure. I had thought that the dynamic of our ... (321 words

How to express my feelings and needs without seeming I am pressuring her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 March 2008 (M age 16-17 - OK so, i've been dating this wonderful girl for 3 months now. I want to tell her that im ready for something more than just kissing (if you know what i mean(not sex btw)) but i don't want to make it seem like im pressuring her. I just feel she may be thinking the same thing. ... (85 words

He gets too touchy which I dislike. How to keep him at distance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - hey everyone!!i am studying in college..and i have a guy friend who i am not that close to but yeah we just say hi or maybe sometimes speak..but i dont like the way he behaves..as in whenever he sees me he would touch my stomach,many a times he gets too touchy and i don't like ... (68 words

We don't see each other that often....how can I talk to him without seeming desperate??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - hey well i am 19 years old and i really like this guy..but i dont se him often its been weeks since i saw him last..and because of this its very difficult for me talk to him.. Can you tell me some of the ways how to start talkin to a guy like without seeming desperate and what... (84 words

Should I explore this side to discover what I truly like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - hey..i have a major problem.. i think i am bi..i love watching lesbian porn..i had boyfriends and i also have crushes on guys but deep indise i want to make out with a girl..do u think its k for me to see a girl..i am askin this because i am in the initial stages of liking a ... (98 words

Depressed over a teacher who has left last year.. What should I do? Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - Okay..I had a crush on this English Teacher. She is young and really pretty (But i'm not gay..i'm straight). this all started since the school trip last june. Yeah..i liked to stare at her and look and think about her often. She knows i Like to look at her and i don't know if ... (220 words

My sheets were stained with blood..was it from my period starting??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi, just wondering if anyone could help, i am 18years old and have been with my bf for 2years and sexually active for 1. I usually have regular period cycles, starting between 1st-6th of every month, but on wednesday after sex, i found the sheets stained with blood and blood ... (74 words

My partner has starting hitting me, where will I live with the children if I left him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have been with my partner for 11 years and we now have three children together. Recently he has started to hit me [once causing a black eye]. He says its because when we argue. I won't back down and resort to tears which makes him angry. Because of this I guess I forgive him ... (94 words

How can I get a work collegue to be more interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - I think I'm a pretty attractive person, and I've never had trouble getting male attention. But I've recently met a man who apparently isn't that shallow. I think he might be mildly interested in me right now, but I don't know how to go from here! I know I should 'be m... (196 words

He makes me feel unloved, ugly and paranoid.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 years, and it seems as though lately, he has completely changed and doesn't care about me anymore. He's started going out drinking more often with friends not inviting me. He's recently changed his apperance ha... (107 words

Can't let go and worried love will always be like this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - (13 year old girl) I met this guy 5/6 months ago and we went out 4/5 times. Things were fine until his friend told me he doesn't fancy me. To cut a long story short, i was angry he didn't tell me and got someone else to do it. Apparently he wasn't meant to tell me. So wants... (156 words

We have two children, he says he loves me, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - I was in a relationship with a man i thought was the one for me we have 2 children together and we have not long split up. We have still been having sex but he has a new girlfried. He says he doesn't love her and he is only with her because her auntie is dying and he says he f... (135 words

My dream about my English teacher, what does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - Hi everybody! I'm a girl between 12 and 18.I had a dream 3 weeks ago...in my dream, i had sex and i fell in love with my English Teacher (Woman). This dream was really crazy... I mean, i never had a boyfriend, but i love boys, i flirted in vacations with guys and i don't ... (142 words

After five years of marriage, he now tells me he never loved me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I just found out my husband is and has been cheating for the 5 years that we were married. When i asked him why he done this to me he said that he had never loved me. Can someone live with someone, marry them and not love them?... (50 words

Do I stick with this job just so it looks good on my CV?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - I have been at my current job for just over 7 months now, and at first things were good as far as work goes, the people seemed really nice and the job was quite interesting. I am a fleet sales administrator for a mercedes dealership so there was always something to do. I wa... (333 words

I don't know how to talk to this girl I really like, please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 March 2008 (M age 13-15 - Hey I need some advice please help!, I'm not very good at what to talk to this girl i like her, i'm a bit shy too so that does not help anyway.... i do try to make conversation but she does not do questions back to me so it seems its just me asking which seems boring i ... (79 words

How can I cope when my family have abandoned me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 March 2008 (F - I've been abandoned by every member of my family, I had a really tough childhood. I've been lucky enough to find a man who will do anything for me, we 're even getting married and trying for a baby. Sometimes it's easy for me to cope with my past and othertimes it's ... (75 words

Should I let him go or am I being too hasty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - I'm in a tough situation right now and not sure what to do. To start, i'm dating this guy who broke up with his girlfriend early december of last year. They dated for 7 months, and although things weren't bad between them, she didn't excite him (however she is the nicest girl... (268 words

Only been married a year and my wifes gone off sex!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (M age 26-29 - We are married for a year but we seldom have penetrative sex (almost none). My wife says its the trouble of her professional career (not finding a good job) thats putting her off sex. I have been co-operative but its getting on me now.. pls help..... (46 words

Please can you offer your support and prayers to help me and my mother through her illness...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - I am not asking for advice but more for your prayers. My mother is very ill, and we don't know exactly what is causing her illness. She is going into hospital tomorrow, I am an only child, we've been through think and thin I cannot begin to think what life will be like without ... (75 words

He dated me just to get at my younger mate and cheated, what can I do to move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I'm 17 and i know this 19 year old boy for over a year and i really liked him. We went out for 3 weeks but my 14 year old mate went out with him before me. It lasted 3 days so me and this boy spent a lot of time together and then he asked me out i was so happy but the gi... (164 words

I am not over him and think about him 24/7...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Last year I got really hooked on this radio station, it was a right wee hobby of mine! I became famous in its own wee world with the djs and the listenors who all called in and it was alot of fun. At the time I got very close to one of the djs. At first I thought it was all in ... (407 words

I think I have to dump her...what's the best way to do it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 March 2008 (M - Hello. Ive been seeing my girlfriend for nearly two years and I think I have to dump her. Things that shes done in the past that I just cant get out of my head and I have seriously tried to so i think the only way out is to break up. She really loves me, I don't know how t... (105 words

Mommy's 'Baby Girl'...how do I handle this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - My 5 year old blew me away recently. She said her private area was tickling her. I let her know it is important that she can talk to me about things. I did express my concern that this should be private to her. I've noticed stuff that I don't want to notice. I may ask what she ... (136 words

Is my boyfriend lying to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Been dating someone for past 10 months. He is 49 years old. When we first started dating, he was texting a 29 year old girl he had met before we got together. Said they were “just friends”. He shared with me that they went to Cancun over a holiday, but nothing happened ... (142 words

Should I wait, or make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - I've really liked this lad for ages now, and when i told him how i felt, he said he felt the same way. My problem is, nothing seems to be going anywhere, we talk loads online and quite abit at school, as he's in the year above. We've never met up before, even though we've ... (148 words

Should I relocate to be with him even though he might never marry me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - what should i do? background - together for 7months - relationship been great. we met each other's family, hang out together all the time - i love him and i think he does too problem - he's relocating to another country and i don't know if i should follow him. He did ... (270 words

Is it bad to still be a virgin at 13?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - I'm a 13yr old girl and I'm still a virgin.Is this bad?I'm worried about me because my friends are already having sex with boys at 13 and 14.... (28 words

What is the correct amount of hair around ones' pubic area?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - Hi this is a really, really embarrassing question, so i'd much prefer females to answer it, Thank you. Ok so I'm a virgin though i have a fabulous boyfriend, he's everything i've ever wanted. I'm old enough legally to have sex now, and i know that i am ready and he is to, bu... (182 words

Will I be on time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - I just got back together with my current boyfriend, and we had protected sex lastnight, and the condom did not break of fall off. my last period was march 7th or 8th, and it was pretty normal. So, my only question is, my likelihood of getting my period: Will it be on time or a ... (57 words

How long will this take to heal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (M age 18-21 - i have recentley had an operation for testicular torsion,and i was wondering how long it will take to heal and how long i must wait to be able to have sex? thankyou to anyone who knows the answer.... (41 words

Should I take a test or wait a few more days?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - i think i might be pregnant... im 22 and i already have 2 children and i've been with their dad for 4 years, he is older than me and has two older children with his ex. Our relantionship is good we hardly ever argue.But after our daughter was born we said no more children cause ... (146 words

Can a partner taking dancing lessons without you affect your relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Can a partner taking dancing lessons without you that requires a partner affect your relationship?... (15 words

Should I ask her to let me watch porn to get me aroused when we have sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

28 March 2008 (M age 26-29 - Been in a relationship with a girl for 5 years now... she's my second long-term girlfriend. Before I met her I was into porn, and lad mags, and generally just liked looking at women all the time. After I ended my relationship with my first long term girlfriend, I stopped ... (447 words

Why does he still contact me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - Ok...ex bf dumped after 2+yrs together saying he wanted space and wasn't sure whether he loved me as gf or a friend. Gave him space then few weeks ago said he doesn't want to be with me anymore and wants to be friends with me. I never bothered to contact him after that (except ... (229 words

How can I prevent her getting hurt again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (M age 18-21 - hi everyone, just recently one of my best friends found a boyfriend. She had been in a relationship a few months ago and the guy didnt treat her with any respect. I comforted her after this and became very emotionally attached to the girl. I never had the guts to ask he... (148 words

Would he go back to her for the sake of their child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hi Sorry this is long But i really need help on this so please need advice, my bf of 4 weeks ive known him for nearly 2 months, told me weds nite that he still has really strong feelings for his ex gf also the mother of his child,they split up around 8 weeks ago, He said i... (270 words

Currently in a long distance relationship, but I find myself asking other women out, is there cause for concern?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (M age 26-29 - Hello, I've been in a relationship for 4 years now. We're currently apart (since last August) because of work reasons. Since being apart I have been looking at other women having the urge to ask them out on dates. In some cases I have asked. Is there something that I... (76 words

Any suggestions for 'pet names' to call my boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 107 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - What "pet names" are there for guys? My boyfriend always calls me things like babe, sweetie, beautiful, gorgeous but I cant think of any that I would feel comfortable saying to him. Anyone got any suggestions? thanks... (37 words

Why am I attracted to men who are sooo different to me, and not attracted to men who share my values?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F - I dont get myself. I always go out with and are attracted to guys who end up treating me badly or who are sooo different to me that we just dont work together. But when a guy come along who is very similar I just dont like him more then a friend. Its weird. For example I have a ... (118 words

Cell phone tracking question...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Does anyone know if there is a way to track a cell phone? (ex. finding out where a person is located at any certain time)I also am hoping someone can answer this... Can my cell phone service provider give me a list of the text messages from her phone? Is this legal? The plan... (77 words

I think I'm suffering from depression because of forbidden love

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - hi, i am really worried at the moment cos i think ive got depression. it all started 6 months ago when my original teacher left on maternity leave and we got this new guy who i kinda fell in love with. now, i know you will say its just a crush but i have had 4 bf in the... (304 words

I love sex with him but I'm tired of his lifestyle!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've met this man 18 years my senior right after my divorce. I am 45. It was lust at first sight. He makes me feel loved and wanted and I love being round him. I've been with him a year now and start to feel tired of his life style. When we are together we just go to ... (104 words

Lesbian in Love triangle!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hey I could really do with some advice or any thoughts on the following: (sorry in advance about the length!) Ok I'm 21 and a lesbian I have been in a relationship with my gf since the end of september and for the first few months everything between us was really good. The... (830 words

Even although my ex has told me to forget him, I can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - hi.. I am heartbroken here My guy and I are going on for quite long... we were going normal for long till one day he just stopped smsing me. I sent him so many messages but I didn't recieve any reply from him. I don't know whether we both have broken up or not. The worst is... (212 words

I'm trying soooooooooo hard to give him the space he asked for.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

28 March 2008 (F - Ok here's the story, my boyfriend and I broke up last weekend but when we talked during the week we realised that there was a few things we hadn't told each other about our relationship. So instead of splitting up totally we decided to go on a "break" for a few weeks instead. ... (168 words

My heart is hurting...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - I've been dating a guy on hi5, he's a ghanaian like me but aunty we always fight each other, he thinks I am the one causing the problems and I think he's the one causing problems, we really don't know our faults so he later broke up with me and is having another cameroonian ... (111 words

My boyfriend wants us to stay exactly the way we are... but without the sex!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend of a year has just broken up with me stating he does not love me. He said he just doesn't feel the same way for me as I do for him. He was having problems sexually and I don't know if this is having a bearing on things. Anyway, he has said he wants us just to be ... (146 words

My ring finger is shorter than the rest and has no knuckle... is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

28 March 2008 (M - dear cupid I would like to know if this is normal. On my left hand, my ring finger is shorter and has no knuckle, I have not been in any fights or anything not that I can remember of. I would like to know am I the only one with this feature and is it abnormal? Also... (81 words

Space Problem....between me and my 13 months old boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hi...Actually, me too am having space problem with my 13 months boyfriend... actually, we've been through lots of fights all the time... he doesn't trust me since i lied to him once and from that day onwards, he doubts all my say. and also, he doesn't like it at all when i talk ... (157 words

Is he really ready for commitment???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Is he really ready for commitment. We've been engaged since 2005 and are living together, we've got a 9month old girl. He always go out at night every weekend and come back home in the morning. If you talk to him regarding the matter, he will admit he was wrong and never ... (225 words

If your boyfriend always goes on about your cousin, what do I do because it is starting to p**s me off proper and I have been with him for 3 years and he hasn't done it ever before.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 13-15 - If your boyfriend always goes on about your cousin, what do I do because it is starting to p**s me off proper and I have been with him for 3 years and he hasn't done it ever before.... (38 words

I know he had been lying to me but why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - Ive been talking to this guy on AIM for a few months now (chatting for usualy about on hour evry day), but weve never met. He lives in the same county and a friend of mine went to high school with him so Im pretty sure hes legit. I know hes told me a few white lies on ocasion, ... (247 words

I lubricate easily when we are talking about it so why does it feel more dry when there's actual contact 'down there'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Recently I've noticed I get really wet down there when me and my boyfriend are like talking about doing something, but when like theres actual contact down there, it feels dry. Why do I get dry when I was so wet before?... (42 words

Any tips on going on top and dominating in general?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi. How do i go on top, missionary style. I've been having sex for the past 4 months with my boyfriend (I lost my virginity to him) and every time he's been on top but I want to take a bit more control and surprise him and be on top for once. I sometimes attempt to get o... (161 words

Are there any alternatives to shaving or waxing 'down there'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Personally, I think that it's more attractive to be totally hairless 'down there,' but I've got incredibly sensitive skin, and whenever I shave it gets red and bumpy, and ingrown hairs all the time, which is even more unattractive! Most unfortunatly, I have quite a bit of h... (86 words

Is it normal that I still visit my friend's grave?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

28 March 2008 (M age 13-15 - is it normal that I still visit my best friends grave even though hes been gone for 8 years he died of leukemia and my friends say that its not healthy to think about the deacesed, but im happy and talk to him even though he cant hear me I like to think he can. am I weird or ... (68 words

Any tips to be sexually aggressive in the bedroom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hey- My bf absolutely loves to be controlled during sexual activities. It's odd, because he's normally the more agressive one and I the more passive, but it's totally different during our personal encounters. Is there a reason for that? Anyone have any tips that he might fi... (50 words

Secretly bi because my boyfriend is a little homphobic-Do I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now - and its fantastic. Generally. We barely argue ever, but everypne has their ups and downs. ANYWAY. I'm bi. My first 'relationships' (continuous hookups for several months?) were with my two best friends at the time. It was... (307 words

She wants more commitment I'm happy with the way things are for the moment-advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

28 March 2008 (M - My girlfriend and I (both in our early twenties) met last summer. She lives six times zones away and so it’s been a 7 month long-distance relationship interspersed with three trips to see each other. To our great frustration, our needs for a relationship are not met because ... (326 words

Does he like me and what do I do next if he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 120 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - There's this guy and we've been friends for about a month. He has a lot of friends, girls and guys. We're both in high school and he's 2 years older than me. We flirt, you could say. He says something playfully mean, I say something back, we hit each other playfully sometimes. ... (215 words

He said he doesn't love me anymore but should I believe him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

28 March 2008 (F - i'm in a bit of a confusin situation atm me and my boyfriend of 3 years have broken up and now i dunno wat to do, he said he doesnt love me anymore but i don't believ him, he hasn't taken me off his profile or anything and he makes it out to his bestfriends lyk he still ... (362 words

Why is daughter's dad bugging me to phone him all the time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

28 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - Maybe I'm buggin' over nothing. I've heard from my daughter's dad but that's unless I text or call him first. Then he'll ask I haven't heard from you. The phone works two ways. I don't have to call you all the time. Then he text me this morning, after I texted him. He ... (161 words

Am I alone in feeling jealous and insecure because my man is handsome and charming?

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28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - I apologize for the long rant. I'm overwhelmed right now with feelings of insecurity and jealousy. My boyfriend of 1 year is a very charming man with good looks and great sense of humor. He is flirtatious, he is very out going and meets new girls all the time, and he hangs out ... (292 words

How do I control my panic attacks when I'm around the guy I like?

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28 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - I met this guy two days ago (we'll call him jon) after school while hanging out with a bunch of friends. we were both flirting with each other and he took my cell phone at one point and put in all his info. and had me take his picture to put on the contact. well, my friend w... (560 words

Does anyone with sleeping problems have any tips for me?

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28 March 2008 (M age 18-21 - Hi all, long time no post. Hopefully this will be appropriate for the site. Anyways, in the past week I seem to be having trouble sleeping. 3 nights ago I was awake for almost 36 hours which isn't normal for me, the nest night I fell asleep watching a DVD which is normal ... (255 words

Is it fair I give up ballroom dancing because my boyfriend doesn't want me dancing with other guys?

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28 March 2008 (F - My boyfriend has a problem with me dancing with another man. Do you think it's fair? Background info: I used to take ballroom dancing with my gay friend. After I dated my boyfriend, I have stopped. He doesn't like me dancing with another men because he believes it's an... (109 words

I want more than this friend with benefits, should I break it up?

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28 March 2008 (M age 16-17 - K so, I'm with a girl atm, well, we arn't dating or anything, we're more like friends with benefits. Anyways, we talk for a couple hours a day on the phone, we get along great, and I was planning on asking her out, but as it turns out she's got other friends with benefits. ... (256 words

I'm scared I will lose my boyfriend because of my small breasts-help!

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28 March 2008 (F age 16-17 - I'm 17 and I have A cup breasts, and I'm worried my boyfriend thinks my body's ugly. He has said that he doesn't need me to have bigger breasts because he enjoys my legs and butt more. I think he's lying just to make me feel better. I'm scared that sooner or later he'll dump ... (92 words

How soon can you tell if you are pregnant?

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28 March 2008 (F age 18-21 - i had sex on the 4rth day of my period and it was unprotected... now i think im pregnant... how soon could you tell?... (25 words

I want my girlfriend to open up to me, and tips?

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28 March 2008 (M age 18-21 - I'm having a bit of difficulty trying to get my girlfriend to open up, she just doesn't seem to talk about things with me, any tips? We've been together for 5 months now.... (33 words

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