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writes:Hey,me and my BF have nown each other for about1 year and 1 month we have been going out for about 6 months and we love each other sooo much... now just to get to the ponit i've felt ready with him for about 2 monthsand he's only just felt "sexual" feelings for about 2 weeks, now he doesnt wont to have sextill hes at least 15 or 16, i dont mind waitting but i wont to know what you other people think i should do. x( p.s we're both 14, i'm 15 in april and him in sep)x Reply to this Question
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reader, pier +, writes (8 April 2008):
pier is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks i'll keep all answers in mind and do whats best
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): There's a simple way to avoid all the confusion: wait! Sex is a major milestone in one's life. Wait for the right person and the right time. It's much easier to be happy without worrying about possible pregnancies at such a young age...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): 'heidijo69', frankly, you should be ashamed.
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reader, Rolly +, writes (27 March 2008):
(heidijo69, that's ridiculous. God help your relationships if you do what you said here!)
Can I just say that your guy could actually get arrested, even if he's 16? If you're younger than 16, then it counts as statuatory rape.
I think you should BOTH wait until you're BOTH 16.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): Wow, I'm disgusted at heidijo69s reply. If this guy isnt ready yet, then you'll have to accept that. Dont pressure him and everything will be fine. Sex makes things mightily difficult, so your lucky you don't have to deal with that just yet!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): Wow, the last poster better not be serious.
I mean what right does anyone have ti force themselves onto someone when they KNOW he wants to wait. Thats actually considered rape, even if the person gives in.
Though I must say, I wouldn't mind if a woman did that to me (the shower thing), because I'm old enough for one thing and quite ready.
These days you practically need a signed agreement when you have sex with anyone.
Flynn 24
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 You need to respect his decision; if he says he's not ready, he's not ready. CD has some good advice here, so do study up! And don't pressure him for this, it may wind up backfiring on you.
All the best, and spend a little time here reading questions about what happens when people have sex too early.
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (26 March 2008):
 WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GEna
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reader, cd206 +, writes (26 March 2008):
 You don't really have a choice as to what you should do. If one person is not ready the other person has to wait til they are. Girls are more mature than boys and are often ready for this kind of thing a bit sooner. Why not spend some time learning about sex and contraception so that when he is ready you're fully prepared.
CD
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