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How can I make "missionary style" more wild?

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Question - (26 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

when i am having sex with my guy and he's on top, i feel like i am just laying there. what could i do to stir things up? i am new to this and im not sure about girl on top either .. do i move up and down on him or does he do it?

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A female reader, GeorgiaGirl84 United States +, writes (27 March 2008):

GeorgiaGirl84 agony auntDuring missionary, wrap your legs around his waist, dig your nails into his back, and bite his shoulder. Making out is always fun too. It makes things more intense.

Girl on top is always fun. Starting off, you can be in control and put in as much as you want and set the pace. It's a chance to experiment and figure out what you like. He'll probably get into it and start thrusting too.

Good luck, have fun, and keep experimenting.

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (26 March 2008):

natasia agony auntIt's feels like you are worrying a bit about technique, whereas if you were really into it you wouldn't think so much about it - you'd just go with what felt good. But in terms of ideas, maybe try this:

When he is on top, put your legs on his shoulders

Another variation on this is that he can kind of squat on his feet, knees bent, with your legs on his shoulders

Also try your legs being together, with his either side of yours (rather than yours open and his in the middle)

As for you on top, can be done in any number of ways. It's a good position for you to take the lead and move up and down as you want, but also he can do it with you. Usually I guess you start it off and then maybe he joins in, so you're moving together.

I think you should start from the point of what feels good, though, and then let your imagination take you. Pretty much anything is possible!!

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