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Should I be concerned my about my boyfriend being a "cross-dresser"?

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16 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend told me before we got together that he was a cross dresser, it didn't concern me at the time, but after a year he's still not introduced me to his other personality and i'm scared that he's doing something behind my back. He's mentioned things before that have ... (85 words

My first love cheated on me and then dumped me... I'm so clueless!

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really don't know what to do...My ex boyfriend cheated on me 3 times and then dumped me. He was the first guy I have been in love with and it has been 5 months since we broke up and I am still not over him and I constantly think about him, I really don't know how to get over ... (81 words

He is selfish in the bedroom and doesn't even look at me anymore in public either...help!

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16 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - i have been with my boyfriend for a while now,and i always assumed things were great between us.just recently he has become very distant,when we go out he will stand away from me or if i put my arms around him he just keeps his in his pockets he wont even kiss me in public ... (126 words

Wife says "she's no good at it", SEX, what can I do?

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16 March 2008 (M age - My wife of 12 years has no sex drive. She has a 16 year old from another marriage and we have an 11 yo son. She never initiates and frequently turns down my advances. Since then I have grown angry with her which she has interpreted as me not giving a shit about her. I've ... (107 words

Hooked back up with ex but now he hasn't called, why?

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16 March 2008 (F age - me and my ex hooked up, dated for a couple of months, then he called me to ask me out. I said i will call him friday and let him know. He never called again. why... (36 words

Am I bi-curious??

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16 March 2008 (F - Im straight. But id say 99% because i like looking at other peoples breasts, and i like all sorts of porn, even lesbian. When I was younger I went through phases of thinking I liked girls but I was only about 12 then. Grown out of that I dont have feelings for girls but I do ... (62 words

I'm engaged but the love of my life is another man who doesn't even know I have a fiance.

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16 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm in love with 2 men i feel terrible. I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years and im ruining it due to long distance problems; he is 24 and i am 20. I've meet this wonderful man i cant be away from him i think about him all the time but when im with him i think abou... (415 words

Divorced and she uses the kids to hurt me...what can I do??

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16 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hi, I have been divorced with my wife for the last 4 years. She just uses the kids to hurt me. I don't know what to do. I was seeing them before for a little while and i had to work 1 weekend and she didn't like it. From that time she stopped me from seeing the kids and... (106 words

His online profile was enhanced...and I like him as a person but am not attracted to him. What should I do??

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16 March 2008 (F age - I met this guy online. We emailed and eventually had a date. Things went well. I liked him. But these are my issues: 1) picture in his profile must have been at least five years ago, he also seemed shorter than his profile stated and possibly he is also older than he stated. ... (109 words

Why do men express themselves but then hold back and push away afterwards?

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16 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm in love but What if the guy that I'm in love with doesn't feel the same exact way that I feel about him? Or maybe he does but He doesn't want to admit or open up to me? Why do men express themselves but then hold back and push away afterwards? What can I do to make things ... (64 words

Only 6 days till I get married and I am so scared.

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16 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi,I need help I'm getting married this weekend (22nd march). I am so scared all of a sudden, i ahve spent since last ay planning this beautiful wedding but then its 6 days away and i am terrified. We had hen/stag do's last night and while it was good his brother got anno... (257 words

How can I tell my friend to back off and stop trying to set me up??

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - dear cupid, There is a girl at school we are freinds but everytime i talk to a boy she say we should go out and it annoys me. I dislike it the most when she say that she always says it about boys who she knows i dont like and are unpopular. She usally gets picked on for be... (155 words

I moved to Spain to win back my ex...but she is in love with another man. Any advice??

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16 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hey Friends!!! My problem is pretty basic really. I'm American, currently living/working in Spain. I came here, originally, to try and "win" back my X. Didn't work, and she's in love and happy with another guy. I suppose, I'm mostly over it, though there are times that I... (204 words

Is my experience causing his nerves??

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really want to have sex with my boyfriend, and he seems to want to as well. Thing is, every time we're about to have sex, he cant get hard. I know its just nerves, and as I've told him, I'm willing to wait, but I was wondering if there was anything I could do to make him less ... (83 words

When you had alot on your mind did you suddenly think your relationship was a mistake??

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I just broke up with my boyfriend of 20 months 3 days ago. His answer to the break up was becuase he didnt love me as a girlfriend anymore. I am still trying to get over this, even though its only been a very short time. But theres still an inch of hope in me that he will turn ... (230 words

I went to Spain to win back my ex but it was not possible. Please, any advice or words of cheer would be great.

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16 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hey Friends!!! my problem is pretty basic really. I'm American, currently living/working in Spain. I came here, originally, to try and "win" back my X. Didn't work, and she's in love and happy with another guy. I suppose, I'm mostly over it, tho... (264 words

I was thinking about waiting 3 months before telling him of my pregnancy!... Is this right? What should I do?

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16 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Im 29 and i've just found out on 6 weeks pregnant! The problem is i've only been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we haven't even told each other that we love each other! He's going to move into a new house in a month and i'm scared he will think i've got pregnant on purp... (138 words

Why do I care, and can't seem to get past all the hurt that he has caused me? I did not even love him (either)?

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16 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have broken up with my ex about 2 and a half months ago. I have had many one-day dates in the past but he was my first relationship that lasted for a year. I broke it off, because i couldn't take being hurt any longer by him and basically being his rebound. He still loved his ... (572 words

He created a profile on a dating site, and when I asked him about us he kept shouting he does not love me, why am I still with him??

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16 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi there, i am 27 my partner 43 and we have been together for last 6 years. I love him dearly even we have a few problems - personal and financial... Last year i caught him up to sending emails to girl in Ukrain and even paying her for translating his emails because s... (294 words

Are these signs a 17 year old guy likes me?

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Are these signs that a shy 17 year old guy likes me?????? : ) 1.Ignore you when his friends are around becasue he 's in the popular group and you're not. 2.Sometimes his friends do things like tease him in front of me. Like one I walked around the corner and one of his ... (173 words

Can you love someone but be unable to understand WHY??

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - hiii this is quite a strange question, but is it normal to have NO IDEA why you love someone? the thing is, i've really really liked the same guy for like 2 and a half years. he's in my year at school (year 10) and (luckily haha) no other girls like him. i mean, i hav... (155 words

I'll see him at school next year, but what if it will be too late for "us"?

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16 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hey, i like this guy, i've known for about 2 years. he's in 9th grade and im in 8th he's my best guy friend. and is amazingly sweet. i talk to him every day, for about an hour or more. all my friends say he likes me, and we would be so cute. but, i don't want to ruin ... (127 words

Can anything be done about my inverted nipples??

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm almost 18 and have inverted nipples, why is this and can it be sorted?... (15 words

I'm worried I might creep her out or seem desperate...any advice??

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16 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I asked about this girl before and I was worried she thought I was a creep. We kinda cleared it up when I was working at a school sporting event and she came and talked to me. But the whole time she was talking to me she didn't seem at all interested in what I h... (396 words

Should I try to make it work or let it go, at least for the next two years??

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16 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I was dating my boyfriend for a few months and he had to move 4 hours away. We were too in love to end the relationship. So for the past two years we have carried on a long distance relationship, talking on the phone constantly and him visiting me once or twice a month. He came ... (311 words

I don't want anything to change but his gf is looking to end it.

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My ex cheated on me and we broke up so he got a new girl. Sometime after that though we started talking again and hed tell me how he missed me and everything and so he hooked up with me again. We did that for a while and like two weeks ago he decided it would be best to stop ... (203 words

Is my ex having second thoughts, or is it just wishful thinking?

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16 March 2008 (F - My ex split up with me in Jan and keeps on texting me. Either to see how i am, ring me up to ask if i'm with anybody else... He recently fell out with two of his best mates because of me. One of them tried to chat me up on a night out when i saw him, my ex nearly killed him, ... (357 words

Has the love gone or am I just tired of trying?

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16 March 2008 (F - How do I know if he really loves me? Dear Cupid, I am constantly doubting about my relationship with my bf. We have been in a long distance realationship for about 4 years now; but we or I had never felt security in our relationship. 1. he was constantly talking and gett... (209 words

He's really sweet and kind and everything I look for in a guy...but also my best mate. What can I do??

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi, i need some help... I have a guy best mate, but the thing is i like him as more than mate. What should I do ? I know he's single and so am I, he's really sweet and kind and everything i look for in a guy I don't know what to do please help me!!! I want to let him know but... (84 words

I am very worried the violence will start up again if I have this baby...what can I do??

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16 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with a very controlling (sometimes abusive man)... we've been together since we were both 22... I got pregnant when I was 23, and I moved into his apartment so we could raise the baby together. When I was about 3 months pregnant he started acting violent ... (466 words

Any tips for my weekend away with my gf and her parents??

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16 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Okay, first off, I'm really grateful for all the feedback I received for a previous question I had, So, basically, my question is, I'm seeing this girl and the next time I see her, she wants me to stay the weekend with her. I'm worried on how to treat her, I guess we still f... (147 words

Should I ask her out as a friend or on a date??

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16 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - hey, i need some advice, i like this girl we have been friends since last year, but we have not met up since last year how should i go about asking her out on a date or just as friends??? please help! ... (47 words

I have a secret crush but my parents forbid me to date!

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16 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - I don't know what to do. I have a crush on a really sweet guy, but I don't know how to tell him. To me it seems like he's perfect. The other thing is that my parents forbid me to date, but I'm beginning not to care. I've had a crush on this guy for six months now, and I don't ... (81 words

How long does it take for a man to ejaculate?

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16 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - I'm just wondering, how long should it take for a guy to cum?... (13 words

I was assaulted by the man I was seeing last night, I'm scared to press charges though!

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16 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I was assaulted last night by a guy I had been dating for a month or so. I thought I knew him well-ish, he comes into the pub where I work, where I have worked for 8 months. Seems a nice guy, hasd a past with drugs and alcohol abuse, but since January this year has quit it ... (456 words

Loose skin, a turn off?

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16 March 2008 (M - Dear cupid I am 17 and would like to know if girls will be turned of by a person having loose skin, because i currently lost a lot of weight and have loose skin. Now my concern is that girls will be turned off by it, and am afraid of having sex in case they see it and not w... (88 words

Sexual relationship announcing to become serious - but is the age gap an issue?

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been seeing a guy who is in his early 30's for the past month now. Mainly just been messing around but things are starting to get a bit more heated lately and he's been telling me he's starting to fall for me. I'm about to turn 19 and I was just wondering if people think ... (140 words

I slept with my best friend's boyfriend, should I tell her?

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16 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - HELP im 12 years old and i slept with my best friend's boyfriend we were at a party and we got drunk. We both decided we really fancied each other and when his girlfriend left we ended up in bed.I don't no if i should tell my best friend. She knows me and him flirt but sh... (90 words

I have some items of his to mail back; should I bother? We've been thru his cheating, my miscarriage, and it's over...

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16 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I was with a man for a little over a year. To make a long story short. He cheated on me once, I forgave him the first time. It was unfortunate that I did because I think that it showed him that it was o.k. to keep on doing it. Towards the end of our relationship he was acting ... (422 words

I cheated, does this mean I don't like my boyfriend?

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months now but last night i was in a party and i ended up cheating on my boyfriend with another lad. The thing was i dident feel guilty. does this mean that i dont like him anymore?? or does ths mean that i like the other lad and ... (73 words

I don't really want to end the relationship but he finally admitted cheating. What can I do??

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16 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - After being suspicious for a while after a few lies, and weird goings on, my boyfriend admitted to me last night that he had almost slept with someone else he used to go out with following a fight between us. I was devestated. I don't really want to end the relationship, Ive ... (82 words

I miss the cuddles and love that goes with being in a relationship and I miss spending my weekends with someone special.

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my long term bf back in October. We had been together for almost a year and then right out of the blue he broke up with me over the phone. I eas heartbroken and really struggled to accept it was over - one day he was asking me what ring size I was (he was ... (244 words

My dad is creeping me out...any strategies to help me cope with this time at home??

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16 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - My Dad is starting to really creep me out. I am 32 and at the moment I do not have the finances to live in my own place, having been made redundant. My Dad has always been, in my opinion, quite manipulative and controlling. I have been arguing with him because he keeps ... (502 words

I'm confused about his feelings for me and wondering whether I should risk losing what I have now??

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16 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I met a guy in january this year and we have kept in touch, he comes to my flat with friends and we all have a good time. We both had a relationship that ended with our partners cheating on us so when i met him he said he wasn't ready for a girlfriend. we are attracted to ... (197 words

Can I tell my boyfriend I slept with his friends? Now, I may be pregnant, what do you think?

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am really confused!! i broke up with my bf of 3 years about 4 months ago and went a little bit crazy and slept with a few people 2 of which are my ex bf's friends!! Now me and my ex hav recently started gettin closer again and i am still in love with him! i would do anyth... (168 words

Is a "blow job" considered sex? Do girls do this for fun?

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16 March 2008 (M age - I am curious as to why so many teenage girls, and maybe even some older girls and women, don't think a blowjob is sex. Do any of you girls or women here think a blowjob isn't sex? If so, why do you think that? And if a blowjob isn't sex, would these girls give a blowjob t... (120 words

I'm a virgin but wondering, on average, how frequently do people have sex?

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi im asking this totally out of curiosity because its something i've always wondered when reading questions on here about how people don't tink they are having sex enough and everything. I am a virgin so don't get any ideas. Just i know there isn't a set limit on how many ... (112 words

Tips about cunnilingus.

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16 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Looking for advice here on how to eat out a girl. I like doing it, but I'll be the first to admit I'm no pro at it. So ladies what is your advice? Thanks.... (42 words

Is it normal for drinking to inhibate erections?

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16 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Alright so I've got a question here, is it normal to have a hard time getting an erection when you drink? I know it happens a lot when you get smashed, but for me it happens almost instantly. Last night for instance I drank 6 beers, not enough to give me more than a little bu... (91 words

I met a much "older man" and cheated, am I being selfish?

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I had been with my boyfriend in Switzerland for over two years when I movied to China. I would be staying for a year, with him visting me in six months. While alone in China, I met a man twenty years older than my boyfriend. I was immensly attracted to him, and cheated on my ... (150 words

Falling in love with an "addict" and he keeps getting arrested, should I stick with him?

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - last year, i got to know this guy. he's my first ever boyfriend. although i just knew him for a day, i've started to develop feelings for him. my girlfriends did remind me not to fall in love too fast for someone i didnt really know. but i didnt heed their advice. after a month ... (664 words

My wife thinks having sex once every 4 months is normal.

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16 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I wrote a few days ago that my wife or less than 3 years does not want to have sex with me and I received interesting responses. I spoke with my wife and had one main statement. I am under the understanding that if you love someone and are sexually attracted to th... (256 words

Boyfriend will hate me for talking with the girl he cheated with..

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - so my ex cheated on me with this girl and then we split and they started goin out. but she never knew he was with me when he was first cheating. so after the first incident they fixed things and they were good. but a couple wks ago i hooked up with him while he was with her and ... (304 words

I don't let him finger me because of my natural lubrication!

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, Well this might sound wierd but yeah.. My bf wants to finger me which im fine with BUT Im worried because I get a lot of discharge and I dont want him to notice it! I dont realy know if I get more than average, but this is realy stopping me from letting him do it! I jus... (69 words

Love triangle confusion....who do I choose??

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well the thing is...i like this guy, he sed he likes me too, but he has a girlfriend i dont know whether they would ever break up, seeing as ive never met her. This guy also has a friend and his friend likes me too and then they have another friend who i like as well. W... (63 words

How can I build my confidence and get to know the girl I like better??

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16 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi, Im a 14 year old boy i am bit shy and not very confident round girls how could i build my confidence up??... I like this girl and we have been friends since last year. We talk on msn but not alot because we do not know what to talk about. I don't know her enough what ... (94 words

Scared to have sex because they will think this is disgusting...but is it normal??

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have quite big vaginal lips or clitoris or w.e it slightly comes out over the outside (only slightly).. I don't know what to do because im scared to have sex because they will think its disgusting, is this normal or not?? ... (43 words

I can't have sex with my women...what is the treatment??

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16 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Please can somebody help me out of this problem,my penis cant rise in 10mins and when it rised i can't have sex with my woman. What will be the treatment of this problem? ... (35 words

I am 14 and have ADD...my problems drive people away and then they want me back.

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 14yrs old and have A.D.D, i hate having problems, it causes heaps of other problems such as my boyfriends they have left me cause i have add but i have now found one guy we share the same thing. I can get any guy i want but i just have this problem. all my ex's want me ... (226 words

I want my friend to be my bf but he is not responding.

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16 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello, I want my good friend to be my boyfriend. I've flirted, laughed at his jokes (even if they weren't funny), been nice, am friends with his friends, and pretty much followed all Internet hinting advice. I'm wondering why he's not responding. Yes, I do make it clear th... (110 words

Any tips on how to talk to strangers??

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im finding it hard to make conversation with strangers, does anyone have any tips on this? It would be a big help! Thanks... (25 words

We love each other but can't be together and I don't know what to do anymore.

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend really love eachother but the thing is that we cannot be together because of his religion. He is a Muslim, his parents are cool with it just not the rest of his family like uncles, cousins all those people and they all go to our school, my mum doesnt m... (134 words

How long could my period be delayed by stress??

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16 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - I need your advice.. My period should have started over a week ago, so I took a pregnancy test, and it showed up negative. Yet, my period still hasn't started.. They've always been pretty regular, what's wrong? If it's delayed because of worrying/stress, how long could it be ... (52 words

Soon after his fourth AWOL, we broke up once again. I want to forget it all, but I think I love him.

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - last year, i got to know this guy. he's my first ever boyfriend. although i just knew him for a day, i've started to develop feelings for him. my girlfriends did remind me not to fall in love too fast for someone i didnt really know. but i didnt heed their advice. after a month ... (638 words

I am thinking to leave my GF to be with another, both persons were acquainted to me by my best friend - afraid this would cause displeasure in my circle of friends!

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16 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I had gone a while without a girlfriend, but there was this one girl(Jennie) that I had liked for a couple years now. I had met her through one of my best friends(Pat), and pretty much had a crush on her. I had come close to making a move and asking her out a few times, but ... (405 words

Risk of pregnancy in 4-5 days after her period?

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16 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - my condom broke and my girlfriends period ended five days ago what are the chances that she'll get pregnant?... (19 words

I'm attractive and could go out with anyone, the problem is want my EX. I harassed him, texted him, can't control myself!

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16 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Is there hope or am i just a crazy? So my ex of a year and a half broke up with me 6 months ago. At first he wasn't sure and we were on a break. We would talk but i could never control myself i would text, harass him sometimes he would say no chance in hell i dont love you an... (265 words

How close is too close when it comes to a friendship? Is brotherly love possible between persons of the opposite sex?

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16 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Over the past week my ex-girlfriend and I are trying to get back together but while we were broken up she always talked to this guy whom she says is considered just a "friend". although she told me that one night he went over to her house to lay with her until she went to ... (157 words

"Bad Luck Omen" when it comes to sex?

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16 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey, My girlfriend (21)and I (18) have been dating for a month now. We've tried to have sex but its a no go. She has had bad experiences in the past with inconsiderate guys and now thinks she has some sort of condition where she cant have sex and she has to do certain th... (126 words

My boyfriend has "slutty" posters on his wall, why do I feel insecure?

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16 March 2008 (F - I feel really insecure in my relationship with my bf. I dont know if its me that is the problem or him? I have never felt secure in a relationship (besides for the beguining, that feeling of secuirty soon fades away) so it makes me think maybe im the problem. Me and my bf h... (553 words

He tells everyone I am a "retard" but I still want him back!

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16 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - hey I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm having big dating problems. I was dating this guy I totally fell in love with. We dated and one night I was talking to our friend and max(the guy I was dating) tested me and asked what I was doing, I told him talk to Austin. Max and Austin are ... (192 words

Boyfriend had sex with a "guy" when we broke up and now wants to get back together...

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - So my boyfriend of three years recently broke up with me, and then had sex with one of his best (gay male) friends. He came back to me, saying that he didn't enjoy it and that he only wants to be with me. He told me that he never really wanted to break up with me, and ... (124 words

He is interested in me physically but not in any other way, what do you think?

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16 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm having a bit of a crisis of conscience. There's a guy who I've known for a good few years who I've recently developed a bit of a thing for. He has on numerous occasions let me know that he would be interested in me physically but not necessarily in any other way. It's been ... (104 words

Is there something wrong with me because I've never had a boyfriend...

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16 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - Well, I am 13 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. All of my friends have had several boyfriends but me none. My friends say that I am pretty and I am as cute as them and my personality is great so why have they all had boyfriends and I haven't? IS there something wrong ... (67 words

Is he interested, if not, how can I get him out of my head?

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16 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm 15, bisexual. I really have the hots for a guy in my school year. Is there anyway to tell whether he is interested, or if he isn't which is most likely to get him out of my fanatasies?????????????... (39 words

Should I tell her, before or after, or not at all??

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16 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - So i bisexual, there is a girl i like and she doesn't know. I'd like to get in a relationship with her in the future, but i think she would feel dodgy about it if i told her. What should i do, tell her about it before (If I do Go Out with her), or tell her during(if it ... (60 words

I'm scared maybe he is useing me for sex.

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16 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for 3 months and we have had sex. I asked him if I was the only one he was sleeping with and he said yes he can't afford anymore women and we laughed. He picks me up almost every weekend and I sleep over he told me he realy likes me but I need to work ... (203 words

I'm addicted to porn and I'm female!

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok I am really starting to worry. I am a girl(16) and i have a boyfriend etc. I am like addicted to porn! seeing what people have wrote on this site, there so not as addicted as iam. i watch it like every single day!! i use to masterbate all the time but iam cutting down on it ... (136 words

I'm scared I'm pregnant...

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I had sex a little while ago, unprotected. I'm 16 years old. He did not cum inside of me, and we are both sure of that but I'm scared I'm pregnant.. I worry alot. what can I do?... (38 words

I'm not sure about my sexuality...

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16 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I have a dilemma currently in my life. I'm not sure about my sexuality. I've always checked out guys as well as girls, but lately I find myself checking out guys more often but would never take that next step to go into a relationship with them. I check out gay porn web... (145 words

There's this girl I have a yoga class who I think likes me.

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16 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - There's this girl I have a yoga class who I think likes me. After class, there is definitely a tension between us, but I think she expects me to make the first move. I'm not really sure what to do, I'm flattered that she likes me, and she has a really positive outlook on ... (103 words

Advice and thoughts on my girlfriend of 4 years breaking up with me for someone else.

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16 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Ok well here is another break-up story. I never thought I would ever be writing this, but here it goes. I've been dating this girl for 4 years. She is 21 and I'm 26 so we've been dating since she was a senior in high school. we fell in love within a few months and soon she had ... (891 words

Desperate and confused...

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16 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for 10 years, he already has a partner an 2 kids, we have son together and have just brought a house together, even though he still lives at home with his family. I can't stand this double life any more he calls me his wife and says he love me,... (83 words

Should I break it off or break it up?

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16 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Here is the background. I married the wrong man for the wrong reasons... I found someone else who was the person I had wanted to be with. Him and I started a relationship in June of 07 and ended in Oct 07 with him going back to his wife. He would tell me how he was thinking... (406 words

What does the word soulmate connotate to a man?

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16 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Recently my new boss called me his soulmate. We have never been intimate, but we spend a lot of time together outside of work. What does the word soulmate connotate to a man? Further, he has never crossed any physical barriers with me. What do you think?... (54 words

What can I say to her in conversation in order to get to know her better?

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16 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I met this girl last year through a friend we have met about 2 times and i really like her, we talk on msn but not often bacause not to sure what to talk about?? I would like to build our friendship and get to know her better how should i do it? i think she likes me but i ... (101 words

A girl I dated 20 years ago contacted me through a website...

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16 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - Two months ago a girl I dated 20 years ago contacted me through a website. I'm 38 and she is 36 now. We haven't been in touch since then although we've been looking for each other for years, and after just a few weeks of email and chat we're in love just as much as we were ... (142 words

Can I have insane sex with him and still have a chance at being his girlfriend? Or will he just see me as a whore?

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16 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, so a friend of an ex has been pursuing me for about a month, and the ex found out... and the ex took the idea to start coming on to me again out of jealousy or something (though his friend isn't exactly the most attractive). But anyway, he started off just looking for sex, ... (121 words

I am trying to get my former lover to leave his wife.

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16 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am trying to get my former lover to leave his wife. Him and I had a fiery relationship for about 2 months while they were seperated and it was amazing. Him and I still talk a lot even though we know we shouldn't. I want him back dearly how should I approach this situation?... (58 words

I did stuff with my friend and now I can't stop thinking about her...

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16 March 2008 (? age 26-29 - hi, I'm really confused at the moment. I've got a long problem: a while ago my friend came over for a sleepover. We were discussng what it would be like to kiss a girl and I leaned over and kissed her. I pulled away straight away but she pulled me back and we started kissing ... (177 words

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