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writes:Ok two questions here, saves me posting twice.1) How can you tell if someone is looking at you or looking through you, whether its from a distance or close up because with this lad I like I really can't seem to tell. I've tired taking pictures of myself both looking straight at the camera like looking AT soemone and one where I'm just looking that way but it doesn't work out very well as I have a squint in one eye and I still can't tell anyway. So how can I tell if he's looking AT me or just looking round and daydreaming but is happening to look in that direction?2) Can christians (I'm not one or any other religion come to that) go out with people who aren't or do they have to be religious and do they have to be christened? Or can they just go out with anyone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): No Religion has any right whatsoever to prevent you from marrying someone who does not share your belief system. I think you'll find most Christians take this marrying other Christians rule with a grain of salt, like the no eating pork rule thats in there somewhere.
Tolerance is a two way street. You cannot expect others to respect your faith, when it doesn't let you respect others.
So go with your heart. If you love someone, why should you want to worship a deity that is arrogant enough to presume to tell you who you can and can't be with?
Your and his feelings are all that matters, not that of a bunch of Sad old men in robes.
Long story short... if a god REQUIRES you to worship it, then it is not worth worshipping. Nothing that powerful can possibly NEED to be worshipped.
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 The bible says that if the man is wicked and the woman is of the faith--she is to stay with the man. She can help him change his ways. Visa versa. So, I would say Opposites attract and that can be a good thing.
Gena
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): Is the guy looking you in the eye? if so maybe he likes you.Try to make conversation to be sure.For the other part of your question Most all Christians only date other Christions. sure sometimes people date outside thier Faith but most do not because it is against Church rules.Plus it could raise problems when Children are born.What Religion will they be raised as? As a Christian it is are responsibility to raise our children Christian.Jewish people as well as Muslims and other Religions also are reqiured to raise thier children thier Faith.So you can see were this might be a problem. But sometimes it can work for people.They just have to sit down as adults and talk about it.We are all God's Children. Good luck and God Bless.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (26 March 2008):
 Ok...;
1) Does he make eye contact with you or appear to be studying you?? If the answer to either of those questions then I would say he is definatly looking at you.
2) Yes, I think they should be able to. Relationships allow each indvidual their own personal space and within that space one could keep faith or indeed a lack of it. If there are areas where those differing positions cause a conflict in the relationship then it is usually possible to make a compromise through communication.
Good luck :)
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