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Fight for my feelings and stay here or move to another country and expect he waits for me?

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Question - (26 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *roubledalone writes:

i love my boyfriend so much..

but my brother and my parents want me to go to canada when i turn 18..i don't want to leave him..and he don't want me to go too..but i really need to..i said that if he loves me..he'll wait for me..but he said if i really love him..i'll fight for what i feel..and stay here..it's hard for me..please give me some advices..i wanna die..

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A female reader, troubledalone United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2008):

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troubledalone agony auntugh..i know he's too immature..:c

thanks for the advice..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

In your post you said that not only does your family want you to go to Canada

but you also stated that "you must go"!?! If it is really necessary for you to go....then I would go. If your boyfriend really really loves you, then it is he...who must let you do what is necessary and if he really loves you...then he would make arrangements to either go to Canada with you or follow you to Canada soon after you arrive there.

Now for the stupid part of me.....

If you choose to stay and not go to Canada....then you are one dumb ass girl who I can make do anything I want to. Once a guy can get you to go against your family and friends

He pretty much can get you to do anything he wants under the guise of love.

1. Girl, if you love me...then you will sleep with this guy

so I can buy his car from him for cheap.

2. Girl, if you love me...then you will prove it to me by doing whatever I request or ask of you.

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