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writes:im 15 years of ageand lost a baby 2months ago,my best friend david asked me out n i acceptedthings wre going okthen he forced me to do thingsand he made me suck him off n toss him off n made me let him poke me and he ragged my trousers down n stuffshud i tell someone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): I'm glad that things have quieted down for you. :] Hopefully this never happens again, and that he's too scared to try it on someone else since you showed him up with your courage and self-love. Good for you!
See you around,
Toasty
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reader, siobhankay +, writes (29 March 2008):
siobhankay is verified as being by the original poster of the question First of all I would like to thank all of you for the advice. I told HIS dad.. a spur of the moment thing... His dad didn't care at first then after I left he told David.. the boy who this is about.. that he had to do anything to stop them from going to the police.. and had a little shout at David..So I agreed not to go to the police and his mum and dad have now gone on holiday.. he didn't seem to care all that much.. even though David admitted it all to them. So it's over... Thanks for all the help x It's much appricated x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): It really is best to tell your father. He has violated you, over and over again, and I shudder to thing who else it may have happened to. There is NO excuse for it! Please save yourself from that monster!
Good luck, baby.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (27 March 2008):
 One more thought, you could tell your doctor too, they will make sure you're alright! Tell your Dad today, its really for the best in the long run.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (27 March 2008):
I'm sorry you're going through all this, but you've no need to go through it alone. You've already had a lot of aunties here tell you the best things to do, so please do be sure to follow their advice. Once you tell your parents, a teacher or the police, they can get you the help you need so desperately. I expect he'll be getting the 'help' he so obviously deserves. Do it today, there's no need to feel afraid, you're not the only girl this has happened to.
All the best, and I hope your next post lets us know that you've asked someone for help.
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reader, siobhankay +, writes (27 March 2008):
siobhankay is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhes 17.. and im 15...
i rang him last night and told him i was going to tell my dad
he broke down in tears apologising to me begging me not to and that i would ruin his life if he told anyone
i did say no when he was doing them things
and he didnt just do them once
hes dont it 4 times now. the first time i ended up smaking him across the face.. the second i ended up breaking down in tears and crying for a good half an hour the 3rd time i did nothing but told him to stop but he continued and the 4th time i pretended to roll over and go to sleep then he did stuff to me when i was 'asleep'
i dont want to ruin his life.. but i want him to stop doing these things to me.. and i want him to understand what no means.. he said hes going to get 'professional help' from a clinic or something im not sure what to do now.. i was really set up on telling an adult
but like i said ive just lost a baby a couple of months ago and when i get really upset about it he takes advantage...
hes in college and im in high school. ive never been out with anyone that isnt in high school.
.. confused and not sure what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): definitely...you have to tell someone, and you need to know that was so wrong...you're too young to be doing things like that and the things that he made you do, are difinetly wrong...and you should report that in asap...you shouldn't wait...because you don't know what this guy might end up making you do next...and i don't think that you want to find out.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (27 March 2008):
 You most certainly should tell someone!
If you did not consent to do those things then he forcibly molested you and he needs to answer for it or he will take advantage of others in the same way.
Don't you let him make you think that it was your fault either. It is all on his head. Doc
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): If he forced you to do these things and you voiced or showed that you did not want it, he has raped you and/or sexually assaulted you. It is very important that you tell someone to ensure that it doesn't happen to you again, or happen to someone else you know or don't know.
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