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Can a person male or female, truly have the belief or values which consider that cheating on someone they absolutely love is totally wrong and they have always considered it that and then go to a person.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

11 March 2008 (? age - Can a person male or female, truly have the belief or values which consider that cheating on someone they absolutely love is totally wrong and they have always considered it that and then go to a person; Who considers it just something which I was only into, because I though... (170 words

How to tell if he wants to be just friends, or is interested in you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - What are signs that he wants to be more than friends, or signs he wants to be JUST friends? Does it mean anything if he keeps texting you late at night? What if he talks to you on and off throughout the day? If he keeps asking about your life, and often gets involved an... (75 words

I don't do oral, and I get embarrassed. But are there any more exciting alternatives, or ways to spice things up so that I can help him more without giving in to sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really love my boyfriend. And he really loves me. But he is more experienced than me. He is used to sex, and I'm not ready for that step. He is a good guy and understands that, but some days it is harder for him to not have more. I don't do oral, and I get embarrassed. But ... (82 words

A couple of questions about sex for you...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been dating me boyfriend for three years and two of those years we have been having sex, But I have never done it on top! To be honest I'm a little scared to and I'm not sure how to do it. So I have two questions, How do I give by boyfriend good sex on top and what are ... (63 words

Why does my friend always put on this "front"?

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11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, just wondering if you could give me a little bit of advice... I feel a bit silly but hey.. My boyfriend and I have a mutual friend, I would say that this mutual friend tells me more personal stuff than he would tell my boyfriend, however he has known my boyfriend since ... (364 words

I've met someone else during the time my BF was in jail, but this person is much older, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i'm 19 and my boyfriend is 29, well me and him haven't really been getting along for the past year or so, he left me, ditched me and has no legittimate excuse for the reason why he's gone,well now he's in jail for about 1 month and half, during that time period i've met some ... (73 words

Making myself sick to lose weight, will it work?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I weigh 11 stone. I look at myself as fat, but I know I'm not that fat but for my age I am over weight. Ii stopped eating for 4 days once and I lost half a stone. As soon as I ate again I put on half a stone again but recently I've been making myself sick after ev... (84 words

I want him for nothing other then pure passion, but could we remain friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - ok i need help!! i'm with my man for years now and i love him to bits don't get me wrong. but there's this guy who's in the same situation as me and we both want eachother soooo much, just for sex like! we always tell eachother that it cant happen but wen we text it gets so h... (101 words

Should I still pursue this guy as I had a REALLY good time or just leave him alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I've been flirting with a guy for several months and we finally were able to meet for sex. We have both been eager but nervous to get together, as we are both sort of shy and reserved. It ended up that he could not get it up, but gave me some really great oral sex that has my ... (180 words

She says she's been thinking about me all along. The fact she slept with somebody else during our break up, however, is tearing me apart!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

11 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hello. I dated a girl for about 4 months, in which we fell in love very quickly. We took each others virginity. Things began to wither away and she broke up with me. I recovered alright and was with several different girls, but did not have sex with any of them. She dated ... (310 words

What can I do about my disrespectful and obsessive wife?

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11 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - My wife and I are in our early 40’s, we have been married for 3 years, and have a 20 month old son. Things have been difficult for us since our son was born. Both of us have done and said things to each other that are totally out of character for both of us. I am will... (1589 words

I'm scared we're drifting...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I met my 51 year old partner (I am 22) on-line and now we are living together. Now I feel he is more concerned with himself and makes it clear it won't affect him if we split up. Yet we are engaged. He is disabled and used to living on his own but I feel I just need mor... (82 words

I need to lose the pounds quickly!

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11 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - hi, How much weight will I lose by Easter Sunday if I do one hour on the treadmill a day at 6km per hour, and eat one apple everyday and nothing else. I'm 5 ft 3 and 9 and a half stone, so I really want to shed the pounds. Also, what would be the ideal weight for me to get ... (65 words

We have been intimate but she does not let me see her down there, how can I persuade her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend won't let me see her pussy and we have been doing sexual things for months just not full on sex and she still won't let me see, is this normal? how can i persuade her?... (38 words

It's not you... It's me?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - After dating a guy for a month, having a blast together and talking about future dates and fun plans together... I had a "bad day" at work and was really quiet while spending time with him that evening and it upset him in the long run - because it reminded him of his ... (167 words

I want more from him, but I don't know how to get his attention back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I met this guy about 2 years ago and we really hit it off. We dated for about 6 months then we broke up because he wasn't spending time with me and I cheated. We were broken up for about 3 months, then he called and we started back talking. We spent time together and he started ... (153 words

How can I meet other girls and how should I approach them??

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11 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a bisexual girl and would like to meet a girl. I hung out in alot of the lesbian bars for a long time but I am not attracted to those girls there are they are mainly butch looking, not to mention that it is always the same old crowd that go to these places. Plus I have ... (322 words

What is my ex gaining by shunning me??

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11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-laying-low-and-just-concentrating-on-college.html was the original post I left... Any ideas on when its safe to talk to the ex again? I really miss him and have been miserable for a long time. If you had been treated like I treated him how ... (75 words

Should I just accept that I am just a friend to her or keep going after her??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, Theres this girl I really like in the year below me. We get on really well, and are becoming good friends. We email each other practically every night and she knows how much I like her. Shes a year younger and has never had a boyfriend before, but is extremely mature... (456 words

She says she fancies me but wont go out with me...what should I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

11 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - There is this girl who has told me she fancy me, i and i really fancy her but she wont go out with me. I have asked her out and she said no. What should i do??... (39 words

My Dad said I was useless and it hurt alot...why did he say that??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I do stuff wrong a lot of the time...But i done something the other day and my Dad practicly called me useless!!! Ok,we have two phones,but when my m8 talks to me on one phone i'm ment to ring her back up on another or it costs LOADS...The problem was that i didn't,c... (219 words

Should we try for the third time for the sake of our child??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok. We have all been there. So I would like to here from those how have made it through. A break-up with my partner for 2 years; there was hardly any good times. And if it was good it was just because if he amount of passion between us. Now we are talking again and this tim... (145 words

I don't feel anything masturbating...am I doing it right??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - This question is sorta embarrassing. Ive started masturbating lately, but i dont feel anything by doing so... am i doing it right?? IS there something wrong with me?....On the other hand when my bf does it i do feel something..(no, we havent had sex yet,since its illegal). W... (54 words

Is infidelity genetic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend has confided in me that his dad cheated on his mom while they were married and that was the cause of their divorce. My question is, is my boyfriend more likely to cheat on me in the future because he has been exposed to and influence by his dad. They are close, ... (74 words

I can't stand my husband touching me or kissing me...and the thought of sex makes me sick.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I don't know what it is. the thought of making love to my husband makes me sick. I can't stand him touching me or kissing me. In the past and currently he has some anger problems and he says hurtful things to me and about my family and its a turnoff. He'll apologize but he c... (131 words

My ex-girlfriend split with me after 6 years and I am very low

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

11 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi all, Well, where do I start. Let me give you some background information. I was with my ex-girlfriend for over 6 years and she split with me last weekend, 1st March. It was her choice, we split as she thought we didn't feel right and she was not going to marry... (309 words

She doesn't feel the same way... how can we still be friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am male and I am deeply in love with by best friend (female). She has known for years how I feel and has made it clear that she doesn't feel the same way which I respect. However, we have stayed close friends. We go on holiday together, she cooks me dinner two or three nights ... (352 words

Has anybody else been in this position and got back with their ex after a year break and it's worked?

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11 March 2008 (F age - Ever since I split from my cheating boyfriend I hate being on my own, I'm still friends with my partner from before the one that cheated on me and I know he would like us to get back together, we were together for 12 years when I left him for the cheating one, I so regretted ... (168 words

Can a man have an affair and still be seeing the 'love of his life' ???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I'm in agony here. I am having a long distance relatioinship with a guy, for a year. We see each other 2 or 3 times a month. Last time I saw him, I found a movie ticket in his pocket for 27 dresses. After lying, he admitted he took his neighbor to a movie. He says he gets ... (236 words

Age gap between our kids and his sons kids!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I just recently got married and my husband is 43, and I am 23. I know a lot of people question the whole age gap thing but our age isn't what my question is about. Anyways, he has 2 sons, 1 is 13 and 1 is 21. My question is if his son the 21 years old has kids before me a... (122 words

He likes us both!

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11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I finally plucked up the courage to tell the boy I liked the way I felt about him and he told me he felt the same way about me and has done for a while. The problem is, he didn't think I liked him in that way so he's met somebody else from another school and is off to meet up ... (157 words

It bothers me that I haven't told my current boyfriend that I lost my virginity to my ex...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend who I later caught cheating on me.. I am now in a new relationship and I haven't told him about sleeping with my ex... He is quite orthodox and I don't think he can live with that... I have been open to him about everything else except ... (68 words

We've been together 2 months and he's cheated on me. How do I know for sure he won't do this again?

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11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Recently my boyfriend admited that he cheated on me. I forgave him after a period of time. Up to now I am not having any trust issues but I am worried that it may happen again we have only been together for 2 months but I really like him and I think I may be falling in love ... (64 words

Help! I am having trouble getting over my ex, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

11 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I broke up with my girlfriend of over three years a couple weeks ago and I need some advice about what I should do now. Let me give you the background. We started dating during her senior year of high school; I am slightly older and was already in college. She went away to... (446 words

He has to work at getting an erection with me yet he gets one no problem when he looks at other women. Should I be worried?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Most of the time my boyfriend has to work at getting an erection so we can have sex. He tells me that I turn him on but he has also told me that if he checks out another woman and is turned on by what he sees, he gets an erection quickly. Is this normal or should I be worried?... (61 words

Women and stretch marks.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I had a baby and now I have stretch marks. Are men turned off by stretch marks?... (17 words

I have a crush a on a boy but I don't know how to tell him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have a crush on a boy but we are not in the same class at school. He used to stare at me before and I thought he fancied me because when someone has a crush on someone else that is what they do. After a few weeks, he started making fun of me and then he stopped again and ... (104 words

I am still in love with my fiance, he has moved on and has expressed deep feelings for this other girl but has also expressed deep feelings for me still...

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11 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello I am still in love with my fiance, he has moved on and has expressed deep feelings for this other girl. But also expressed deep feelings for me still. I am skeptical about him. The more I talk with him each day, the more I feel me losing the feelings I do have left for ... (212 words

Do I marry and die????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

11 March 2008 (? age 41-50 - I've been in this relationship for 6 years now. He claims he fell in love with me the moment he saw me and has wanted to marry me ever since. After a few years he went to another country to pursue his studies. I missed him terribly and decided to follow him. We had terrible ... (538 words

Ever since my girlfriend's night out she's been receiving text messages from another guy.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

11 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriend (age 34) went out to a nightclub with her girlfriend the other night. Since she returned she has not stopped receiving text messages. I finally did the unthinkable and pinched her cellphone and took a look. Sure enough, there is a new contact who is sending h... (69 words

Should I tell him my true age before the situation turns more complicated? I'm not 16 just yet.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - So i have a pretty minior problem. First off i am 15, (turning 16 in may) and the guy i am talking too is 18 (turning 19 in may also) we have kissed once or twice, and we talk constantly. he wants to take me out on a date, and seems pretty honest about the fact that he likes ... (228 words

Should I walk away even though we both still love each other? I've trust issues after his lying to me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my huband for 5 years and he has lied to me since the beggining but instead worring i accepted his explanations for the lying and thought that everything was cleared up and i could put it behind me as i really liked him. However last year i was looking through ... (447 words

I feel so alone after my misscarraige

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11 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - after miscarrige i feel alone husband is also abroad. what should i do? ... (13 words

I slept with my ex, do I tell my fiance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I slept with my ex bf..bt i still haven't told my finance that I did. He is open minded but we come from traditional backgrounds and I don't think he will accept that..what should I do? ... (37 words

I'm falling for my friend's husband...

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11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I need help! I started working with this girl about two years ago we don't work together anymore but we hang out. But I have a problem, I'm falling for her husband! He's super sweet guy and very sexy. We flirt quit a bit and when we have been drinking he's very flirtasious with ... (75 words

We broke up, I want her back but she won't give me a straight answer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (M age - Dear Relationship Advisor, I've got a big problem and was wondering if you could help. But its kind of a long story so bear with me. A few years ago I met a really nice and fun girl. I was immediately attracted to her because of her fun loving nature and her outgoing p... (1399 words

My boyfriend is paranoid and possessive but he kissed someone else, do I stay?

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11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im 16 and so is my boyfriend. We've been together just over two months. He's very paranoid and i've had to stop talking to a few guy mates as he's got so worked up about it and its caused arguements. Anyway a few days ago he came to me in tears and told me he'd met his mate mel... (140 words

How do I tell my parents I love someone they don't like?

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11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i relly like this boy and we knew eachother for 4 years. he likes me too.... we started to date and my brother found out told my mom n dad so now they dont like him. they wont let me date him cuz he half n half n i am white. we talk behind there backs i dont want to do this ... (161 words

When a guy apologises, does he mean it and does he care about you?

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11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - when a guy says sorry for hurt feelings, does that mean he cares about you?... (15 words

I treat my partners so good and they always cheat - will my current partner cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok i was with a guy for almost 3 years then i found out he was cheatin on me with his bestfriends sister after he asked me to marry him now im curently wit a girl and i love her so much i never thought i would give my curious thoughts a chance now we have been together for 5 ... (249 words

I have feelings for my sister in law, not sure on the signals she has been sending...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - I need some input from people out there. Here is my situation. I am married man, happy with all aspects of my marriage expect my wife and I have relations about once a year. Over the last year or so, I have been talking online to a friend who is female and also my sister in ... (331 words

Is my boyfriend gay? Do I test him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok im goin out with a guy who is really sweet and is always hyper.................well a few days ago my friend told me that when they asked him to go out with me he told them he was gay!!!! and so now idk wut to do.......should i test him? cuz i was kinda thinkin i should tell ... (94 words

My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...

This question has 58 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

11 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I hold down a full time job and ... (293 words

My boyfriend is premature - anything we can do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend suffers with pre ejaculation, what can i do to help stop this?... (14 words

Is he attracted to her?

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11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - My husband has been secretly flirting with coworker, hugging, texting, posing for pics, late night phone calls, and even a secret handshake only the two of them know. He has never hidden being friends with someone before now, but he said he hid it this time because he was ... (79 words

What are my chances of success?

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11 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Just wondering is anyone has been through a court access case and can comment on whether I can be successful given my circumstances. Basically my ex partner never wanted our son, he didn't attend the birth tho I did manage to get him to put his name on the birth certificat... (646 words

We're of different religions - is there any future in this?

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11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - heyya ive been going out with this lad for 1 year n 1 month, the thing is he's muslim im not.i really love him and i know he loves me he's told me many times that if when it comes down to it his family may not agree to our love and they may disown him and i dont want that i ... (127 words

What do I do with him?

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11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have recently been going out with a guy,we both decided to slow things down because things were goin to fast and we were fallin for eachother deeply.hes confused because his ex wanted him back but she cheated on him whilst they were together in their 7 yr relationship.he took ... (91 words

My boyfriend is messing about on the internet. Has he cheated?

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11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been going out with my bf for nearly 2 yrs and he is 19 yrs old. In Feb 2007 he made an Faceparty account up on the internet and I didn't know about it. However, in Nov I found out about it just browsing through looking for my friends on the site and found his profile by ... (412 words

I've lied to a man I really love, and now I feel bad. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I've just divorced my husband. We have been married for 20 years. My husband is selfish and unkind. I stay for the security. He made me feel unattractive so I started to cheat on him. It didnt make me feel better but just feel guilty and cheap. I met someone I really love ... (107 words

She was forced to get married, but I can't get her out of my mind. Please help.

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11 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I'm from India. I'm 25 and was in a relationship for 4 years. I love her so much that it hurts to even think of her now. She loved me too. In fact she probably loved me even more than I loved her. Unfortunately her parents were against her marrying anyone outside of their ... (329 words

Could I be pregnant if we used a condom?

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11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay about two weeks ago me and my BF had sex with a condom but about 2 1/2 weeks later i started getting these real bad pains in my tummy, after we had sex i was supposed to get my period but i missed it that worried me but is that normal? my BF wants me to get a test done but ... (70 words

How can I start a casual conversation, and is it really a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - There is this guy hes my friend that i hang out with and i like him. but heres the problem he has been out with my friend and one of my other friends like him. Hes invited me over to his house what do o do to make a casual conversation so that we can talk for hours and get to ... (75 words

Is he with me only for sex, if he has an erection every time he sees or touches me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

11 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend gets an erection each time he sees or touches me, is that a good sign? or does it mean he is with me just for sex. i need much response from the male sex.... (36 words

How relevant is a dream?

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11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have just had a dream where a woman confessed to sleeping with my partner and admitted to having feelings for him, i have had suspisions about this woman before. Am i mad? Is there any truth in it?... (39 words

My BF's roommate suggested spending the night together, should I tell my partner this happened or simply ignore it?

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11 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend is out of town working for 2 weeks. His roommate (whom I know because I have been to their house many times) came into the restaurant where I bartend. He then proceeded to get drunk and start hitting on me. He asked me to come over after I got off work and spend ... (140 words

She complains I don't display desirable masculinity...

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11 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I don't know how to be "the man" for my girlfriend. She complains that I'm not masculine enough for her. One example: Her managers at work hit on her often, even as far as buying her gifts. I want to do something about it, but I have no idea how to go about it. She senses ... (228 words

My friend kisses me in front of her husband, I'm a confused puppy!!

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11 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I'm good friends with a couple, Paul and Rachel. We've been pretty close for about 3 years. I'm 28, Paul is 28 and Rachel is 27. The 2 of us seem to spend a lot of time together, and most of it is instigated by Paul (he usually invites me to go with them sometimes to dinner, ... (598 words

My BF is in the army and will go on training courses, how will I know if he is, God forbid, in difficulty?

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11 March 2008 (F - My bf of two years is in the army and goin on tour next month I am so worried and he has gone on training courses for the next 3 weeks so not sure when i'll get to see him again. He is away at the moment and i wanna ask him questions about when he goes away and how much ... (100 words

I have a foot fetish, is it weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

11 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - is it wierd that i like to climax on a girl's feet and toes and then suck her toes then finally climaxing after i done that? i have a foot fetish and i like eating my own climax as well off her body.... (43 words

Is he hiding something?

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11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - In response to an article i wrote about not knowing my boyfriend's family, it seems hopeless to me. i have asked him about the situation again and his response is that he is not on good terms with his family, i don't know any of his family members, none of his friends, he ... (155 words

I need an opinion from straight women who watch porn.

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11 March 2008 (M age - I need an opinion from straight women who watch porn. What type of porn do you watch - intercourse, lesbian, blowjobs etc. I also need an opinion from gay women who watch porn. What type of porn do you watch - intercourse, lesbian, blowjobs etc... (48 words

Should I apologise or is it a lost cause?

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11 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hello, I'm at the age of 19 and about 4 inches when errect. I was wondering if that's enough to satisfy a woman, as I'm very into someone at the moment and very apprehensive of attempting to start a relationship with them. I'd just hate to be shut-down once she sees the size ... (81 words

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I always get guys worked up about having sex. But when it comes down to having sex. I chicken out. Any tips?

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How can I tell him to keep his comments to himself without being nasty?

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11 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I get along with my new boyfriend ok but he is not religious. He says there is no point and that I have no freedom. This upsets me that he has no faith but I try to ignore the comments. He believes we came from monkeys I do not. He believes in stem cell research I do not. ... (104 words

She says she loves me but her actions don't always show it.

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I realy like this new guy I'm seeing but I think he might be having an affair with his friend's wife.

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11 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I realy like this new guy I'm seeing but I think he might be having an affair with his friend's wife. He talks to her and emails her more than he talks to me and when he says he is going to thier house he says her name not her husbands who he knew first and works with. He even ... (153 words

Cheating friend.

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11 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My friend has been seeing this boy (boy1) for about a year and she has cheated on him a lot of times and now shes seeing one of her ex's (boy2) while boy1's in prison she has also kissed boy2's brother. I don't want to be interfering but she's going to lose both of them. ... (67 words

Why does he smell his fingers???

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I can't help but feel bad that I broke up with my ex fiance.

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She's always studying and never seems to have time for me.

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11 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey everyone, My girlfriend and I have been dating for only a few weeks now, but we have been friends for 3 years. Well anyways, I like her a lot but often feel she doesn't have the time for me. She is in all honors courses and is always doing homework. I feel bad asking her to ... (120 words

He is older then me and if anyone in my school finds out before I graduate he can get fired.

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11 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm currently in a dilemma. I'm a college student about to graduate in a couple of weeks and I'm currently seeing this guy that works there. We aren't supposed to be together and he is seven years older then me. He has so many good qualities though that it's hard for me not ... (167 words

I want to ask him if he likes me but I'm afraid it will make things awkward between us.

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