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My husband hit me--should we separate?

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27 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - My husband told me tonight that we should separate. He says if I went away for a year and lost some weight and sorted my pms, out he would reconsider. I am very hurt. Last week he hit me over the head with a glass and caused injury. He says it is my fault for causing an argum... (142 words

What do I do about her wanting an older, married man?

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27 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - So I have this girl who is my best friend by any means. We have always been on and off again. Well she has seen this physical therapist since she was 14. Now she is 18. He is 34. So She has a huge crush on him and recently asked him if she should just give up. She meant if ... (100 words

Feel like she's loving me less...help!

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27 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I feel like my girlfriend of a year and a half is slowly starting to love me less. How can I fix this?... (24 words

Is there a way to make my nipples more perky? Is that wierd to ask?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

27 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - this is a question about my nipples ..... They aren't very perky..... if you know what I mean.... is that normal ? is there a way to change that? it's a weird question I know but I need help..... so if you know anything please let me know ....... (52 words

How can I tell my long-term girlfriend I want more sexually?

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27 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and me have been together for over 1 and 1/2 years. We have no sex. She doesnt even like to touch my penis naked. But I finger her alot. How can I tell her I want to do more?... (45 words

The love of my life is getting married, how am I supposed to get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - How do I get over someone I am in love with getting married within the next year? Please help my entire body hurts. I was taken when he wanted me then he found her. I know it's not meant to be but just tell me how to get over it. Don't say time because they've been dating f... (77 words

I just lost my virginity- it hurt him because I'm really tight- will it get more comfortable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - hey, i lost my virginity two weeks ago. my boyfriend said that i was 'tight' and it hurt him a bit. Anyway, we did it again and although it didnt hurt him this time it still hurt me a bit even though he was gentle and he kept asking me if he wanted to stop, i said no. I was ... (73 words

What am I not getting about relationships? I've never had one that lasted!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

27 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I've recently hit two years since the end of my last relationship (which lasted a solid week), and since then I've not come close to having a relationship or even a casual lay with any girl. I've also recently seen my best friend get married -- a deadline I'd set myself for ... (172 words

How can he break up with me and then change his mind in 1 week! I'm confused!

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27 March 2008 (F - 19 years old and my bf dumped me. I feel so lonely and I miss him as I really did like him and was beguining to have deep feelings for him. Most of all I am just confused about whether or not the break up was a good idea or not. Apparanrlt he wants me back after 1 week, I... (383 words

He said he wants "space" but then calls me at crazy hours! Does he still have feelings for me?

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi! Me and boyfriend broke up because, he said he wanted space and feel not ready to be in a relationship. It's only been a few days he contacted me again telling me how I was doing.etc. We are still friends and we go out together usually. What I'm confused about is h... (440 words

These greedy people are taking my boyfriend to the cleaners!! What can I do?

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27 March 2008 (F age - In had been friends with my boyfriend for 8 years and together as a couple for 2 years now. when his wife died 10 yrs ago he ran into a woman he had known in highschool she gave him a big long sob story about how her husband abused her and then threw her out and she had no ... (337 words

Why does his penis go limp when he's on top?

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27 March 2008 (F age - Why does his penis go limp when he is on top of me, but stays hard when I am on top of him? ... (23 words

Will my career drive a wedge between us? How can I prevent that?

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm about to leave college and start a career in journalism and I'm worried about the effect this will have on my relationship with my boyfriend. Due to severe depression in his teens my boyfriend was pulled out of school at 13, so has no qualifications and therefore can't get ... (137 words

Can a cold climate affect conception or make your periods irregular?

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27 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - i recently shifted to london from india on november 29 2007,after coming here i got my period on dec 4 2007, next on jan 31 around 4 weeks late and now its march 28 and i am 4 weeks overdue,previously i had a regular cycle of 29 to 32 days. i am married and my pregnancy test is ... (82 words

I'm dying and having religous/spiritual questions, any insight?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

27 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I am dying. At times I feel have made my peace and am ready to face it whenever it does eventually come, other times I feel sort of scared. You see I was brought up Catholic as a child but as an adult I lived my life being an atheist. Therefore I have... (164 words

I'm so disgusted with myself I didnt mean to kiss this other guy

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27 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Please help: Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years now and love him so much. It's marriage for sure. He's the most geniune guy I know and would never do anything or cheat on me. Hes not the type. Neither am I, but was out with my girlfriends the other night ... (116 words

Should I trust him if I commit to a mortgage agreement

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

27 March 2008 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating seriously for 3 years. We are both in our mid 20s. He is now living in different city because of work. He would like to buy a property so I can move up to his city about 1/2 year later (when my work gets organize). I'm paying half of the d... (172 words

After two years of dating will he ever cut all ties with his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5845 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Am I asking for too much? I have been dating a guy for a little over two years now. When we started dating he was still married but seperated, which I did not find out until I started asking questions about the divorce. By this time, though, I was already quite emotionally ... (360 words

What are the Tell-Tale signs of your girlfriend cheating on you?

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27 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - We've all seen those online-articles, magazine articles, about how to tell if you're dating a "playa" or if your man is cheating on you. But I've never seen the inverse of that. How can you tell if your girl's cheating on you? Let's be honest, women are just as bad as men, a... (75 words

Does having sex too soon sabotage a potential relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Is sleeping with guys 'too soon' sabotaging potential for a relationship? I've always thought of sex very casually, and don't have problems sleeping with guys after a few dates. Often times I'm the one that makes the first move. I enjoy sex, but I'm starting to feel... (115 words

How can I convince my wife to be a "slave" to another man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

27 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am a married man and have always wanted my wife to have fum with other men. She see's it as cheating and is not sure. I have told her I would love her to tell me the things seh gets up to with other men whilst we have sex. I also like the idea of her seving another m... (108 words

Implantation bleeding or my period...which is it?

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey all...My period is due in about a week and I was just wondering if what I'm experiencing could be implantation bleeding. I just noticed it yesterday and it was a pretty big spot on my underwear. Since then I have probably filled one tampon and had another large stain on ... (127 words

My boyfriend told me not to get too DEEP into him, what does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 6mnths tld me a few days ago not 2 get 2 deep into him as hee does not want to see me all depressed and stuff if things do not go well. I askd if he was serious about da relationship n he sed he was but how does dat work? I askd him if he was in the re... (141 words

I'm not deformed or ugly so....how come I've never had a girlfriend? I'm 33yrs old.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

27 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am 33 years old and have never had a girlfriend before, never had a meaningful conversation with a girl, never flirted before, havent really 'liked' anyone for 11 years, and I don't have ANY friends. It's not like I am deformed or ugly, I just have no experience, and now ... (232 words

Should I stop sleeping with him until he tells me I'm his girlfriend? Is he not confirming this a normal men's thing?

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27 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for four months now. I want to know if we are going steady because he has never come out and said that I was his girlfriend. His friends wife asured me that there was no one else he was dating. They have been friends for years and her husband and him ... (276 words

Am I just stupid? Does he even love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I've only been married a month and a half and I have learned my husband tried calling his ex girlfriend the other day (anonymously). I know this because I looked at his calls on his cell phone. Let me go back a bit to explain why I did this... When we were dating he cheated ... (336 words

My boss is sending me confusing signals. Is he coming on to me or rejecting me?

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27 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I met this guy long time ago, at my previous job. He was my big boss and I was married. He's very smart guy and mostly talked to me direct boss or my senior. He seems angry when he looked at me but I didn't think much of it since I have my own problem in my marriage. I worked ... (556 words

How do you know if your first love was meant to be? - please enlighten me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - this is gonna be quite long so here goes..(sorry!) id just like to know do you ever forget your first love?like,is it real? im 17 but ive been on and off with my first love since i was 11...it only really kinda ended there last week..well so i think,ive been through this... (238 words

My girlfriend created a "secret profile" on myspace! Can I trust her?

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27 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - hi everybody, i have a long distance relationship since 2 years. i discover recently that my girlfriend (23 years old) have created secretly a profile in my space, where she claims to be single. i asked her if she was hidding something from me and she always refuses to tell ... (76 words

I don't want to wreck our friendship if it doesn't work out. Any advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Okay, so I've been friends with this guy for about 3 or 4 years now (I'll call him A). He's 19, I'm 16. Basically since I met him he's been in a long-term relationship, so there was never any question of romantic interest. We get on really really well, and though... (413 words

Why do guys try to portray they are a certain way they think you want them to be, when deep down they're not???

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27 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Split with someone a couple of months ago, nothing major, had been together just over a year but kept arguing. Anyway we remained friends. We still see each other quite regularly and he would like to try again slowly, but i have stated i dont want that, as it didnt work before, ... (214 words

We can never find anything to say to each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

27 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, After a hard journey trying to talk to this girl I like, i was told to get her MSN address and talk to her on there. The thing is, i can never find anything to say. The conversation just dies straight away, ive tried talking about interests, music etc but it dosen't work.... (76 words

Should I go on the pill behind my mums back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, I'm 15 and me and my boyfriend have been having sex for over 6 months. Before I had sex my periods were slightly out of time but I still had one every month, but since I started having sex, my periods have become worse and sometimes I completely miss a period. In January,... (189 words

I love him and his family but feel I'm not ready for a serious relationship?

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello, so where do I start? Well I am 17 and have been in a relationship for 2 years now. I love my boyfriend very much. We have great sex regularly and on the outside we seem like such a perfect couple. I really like his family and have became good friends with his mum and dad ... (249 words

Why does my new boyfriend ignore me at recess?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well I'm 13 years old(girl) and I need some advice. This boy in my class(13) likes me and he asked me out. I said yes because he is so sweet. I like him too because he is really nice. So we started going out. But whenever I go out at recess, he ignores me. He never talks to me ... (63 words

Need your opinion...I'm feeling unsure about our relationship.

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27 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months and I love him to death but I feel very unsure about our relationship. I have been very insacure since I've met him. I have had alot going on in my life and have told him I need the support from him and he's not wiling to give ... (187 words

His comments about other women make me feel insecure, and I want to be more confident!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age - Am a 48 year old, attractive, intelligent woman. I have been seeing this wonderful man for 4 months. Just back from holiday with him. On occasions when we are out, he'll say things like "that barmaid was gorgeous, wish I could take her home" or when he saw a young waitress ... (245 words

Which is accurate, the vaginal exam results or the blood and urine tests?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Is a vaginal exam stating I'm pregnant accurate, while blood work and urine are saying negative?... (16 words

My spirit is breaking, my life has been falling apart, I need advice on coping strategies!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I have been going through a very very difficult period in my life for a long time.Every aspect of my life keeps on falling apart: my career, family life, personal life, social life, my finances, my health. Believe me when I say it has been a nightmare and no... (408 words

My first boyfriend ever and I love him so much. He's going away with the army for six months, how will I cope?

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27 March 2008 (F - Hi There I have asked questions here before which has been a lot of help to me. Now im about to face the biggest challange of my life and need as much help as possible to do it Im 24 And i am in a reletionship This is my first relationship. I know it might seem strange but... (498 words

He has major mood swings, will he come back?

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27 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I would love some advice ...particularly from a male point of view. I have had a fantastic and fun relationship with my boyfriend for three years. We laugh, we connect , we have a great sex life, we have so much in common and we have plans for the future. My house... (413 words

He broke up with me and I'm pregnant with his child. Will he come back?

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - my ex-broke up with me over a text msg and told me that he has been cheating on me. im pregnant with his child that he wanted with me...everyone i talk to dont think that it wont last with them because the girls a skank and her relationships dont last that long...do u think ... (64 words

Broke up with her and now she's in a relationship and I feel hurt! Is this love?

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27 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hello all, Me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for almost 4 weeks now even though it feels like only 2, i found out just today that she is in a new relationship, and it makes me kind of upset, i dont know why. I was the one that broke up with her because i was ... (122 words

How can I talk to my mum about sex and tell her that I'm having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - im 17 and iv been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we have been having regular sex. my mum already knows that im not a virgin, as the boy i slept with his mum told my mum, my mum was really upset and disapointed in me. now im with someone that i am in love with, but ... (255 words

I love him but nothing is good enough for him. I can't get over him. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I am 24 years of age and life seems to have come to a stand still...I met a guy through a friend which I ended up dating we were two different kind of people always argued he was never really there. As funny as it may sound I celebrated both my birthday and Valentine’s Day ... (577 words

Stuck between my mum and my new guy... I want to keep both.

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, from the top... My boyfriend and I broke up last month. Since then, I've met a guy and we've decided to start a relationship. I want to tell the world, but I don't know how to tell my Mum. I know she is going to overreact, because only a few days ago, she was tellin... (220 words

Due to a long term illness I feel trapped and unsupported, how can I help myself feel better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am currently suffering quite badly from a long term illness. Both my family and partner have a lot on at the moment personally, I am progressively getting worse and can't talk to any of them. I feel trapped, and alone and with absolutley no support when I need it most. I ... (86 words

Spent so long building my career I'm lacking in social skills. Looking for tips on speaking to ladies.

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27 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hello all, I am a single guy and spent the last few years devoted to building my career. Sadly because of it my social life suffered. I am at an age now where I would like to go out and meet a nice girl. (I am really not interested in joining gyms, extra curricular activ... (297 words

I look less mature than the other girls in my class, is my weight and height normal for my age?

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27 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - I wanted 2 know if my height and weight iz normal. Im 13 years old and 5.1 in. but weigh 90.5 pounds. My doctor says tht my weight iz just fine but i seem like a baby infront of the other girlz in my class cuz thier so much taller and weigh more than me. Their bodies look ... (89 words

Anyone out there who's had stretch marks and found a routine or product that helped improve the aspect?

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27 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Is there anyone out there that has had stretch marks and found a routine or product that helped improve them? Can you please share it? Also please describe what your marks looked like and how much of an improvement there was. I would really appreciate people who have actually ... (141 words

Wondering if it was my young age that made him distant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Went on a date with a really fantastic guy - we hit it off loads, laughed constantly and I really felt we were getting somewhere. Then my age came up in conversation and I mentioned to him I was 18, though am just about to turn 19 in about a months time. He's 25. He's gone a ... (78 words

There's growing sexual tension between us - but he is guy! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I'm really confused about what's going on between my gay friend and I. I'm a woman, and he's a man and we've always been really close. I've also always thought he was quite attractive but have never made a move simply because he was gay and I knew I'd just be letting ... (303 words

He chose my best friend because she is pregnant with his baby, but he loves me actually. I can only think about how happy we could have been...!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I really like my best friend's boyfriend. I have liked him for about 2 years now and never told anyone about it. We all had a few 3somes together at some point, and me and the boyfriend work together which makes me like him even more. My mate has never been happy with him at ... (577 words

I need tips on fixing my 'gaydar'!

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27 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am a lesbian and I have a real difficulty when I meet new girls as I guess my gaydar may not be too great. I often have problems guaging with when a girl is just being friendly or is actually interested. Alot of girls have a habit also of flirting with other girls even though ... (205 words

How do you know when you're going to be with someone forever????

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - How do you know when your going to be with someone forever????... (12 words

Am I irrational for feeling second best to my boyfriend's ex?

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27 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I seem to have developed an irrational second best feeling to my boyfriends ex. They were together several years and had a little boy together, he obviously sees her for contact with his little boy/ to pay maintanance, but I often find him doing things for her above and beyond ... (306 words

I have a tendency to give in to sex, what should I do?

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I know that it is wrong to have sex with someone that I just met so I am going to ask for anyones opinion on this. Ok I just met this dude at the club saturday and then we left to go chill in his car we didn't do anything. We've been talking for almost a week now and hate this ... (180 words

Big events or being really nervous gives me diarrhoea...any tips?

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27 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Whenever I get really nervous or have some important event etc I get Diarrohea. This can be extremely embarrassing and inconvenient as you can imagine if I am out attending an interview, meeting, important function etc. Any help will be appreciated on how to deal with or ... (50 words

How can I meet and approach other bisexual girls???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, I am a bisexual girl and would like to meet a girl. I hung out in alot of the lesbian bars for a long time but I am not attracted to those girls there are they are mainly butch looking, not to mention that it is always the same old crowd that go to these places. Pl... (335 words

When I use the toilet, I get blood. What could be the reason?

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27 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am 27 yr old. When ever I use toilet I get blood. What is the reasons for it?... (19 words

I really like my best friend's boyfriend, we've had threesomes, but he's feeling trapped because she's pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really like my best friends boyfriend. I have liked him for about 2 years now and never told anyone about it. We all had a few 3somes together at some point, and me and the boyfriend work together which makes me like him even more. My mate has never been happy with him at all ... (563 words

My ex wanted to stay friends so why is she ignoring me now?

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27 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi, I have a problem with my ex-girlfriend. after she finished with me we decided to stay friends and i really wanted that because i didn't want to lose her. However i've been feeling like she doesn't want to now. she never makes any effort to get in contact i alway... (143 words

We once had threesomes with my mate does he now like her more than he likes me?

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27 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi I have been with me boyfriend for 3 years now, that is never a good relationship. He never cuddles me, we would never sit together on the sofa at home and we hardly ever had sex, he spent most of his time in the put as well. About 2years ago me, my boyfriend and my... (483 words

I value my independance but is it wrong to ask my man for help with minor things?

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27 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - When i meet the man i am dating i usually present to him that i am independent and i hesitate to ask his help even in minor things. In the rare occassion that i ask him his help for something (something minor) i feel uneasy that i show him that i need him, something that i ... (105 words

In a relationship for six years and I don't want to ruin it but feeI have more in common with my co-worker...any advice?

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27 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I am 24 years old manager at a retail store, i have know this co-worker of mine for four years, she is 22 years old. She had quit this retail job and went to work at a bank, from all the other co-workers i kept in touch with her the most, mostly by texting and sometimes talking ... (150 words

Any tips on how to make my wife squirt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

27 March 2008 (M age - i am 20 years old man. I have read about female squirting, but i didnot able to squirt my wife, how i can squirting her? regards Jan adnrive... (30 words

We have broke up but I want him back for good-help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

27 March 2008 (F - me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up, we kno the love we had, hav.. shared.. i thought that it was the best thing and stuff but i don't think so anymore, i miss him so muchh.. i dunno! we broke up coz we had fights and he said he didn't love me anymore but then he said... (112 words

I have an embarrassing vagina problem, someone help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi... For the past 5-6 years, (that being as far back as I can remember) I've had an... ugly vagina. Its abnormal. The labia, or the little lips on the inside arent exactly little. In fact, theyre kind of large and stick out. Theyre wrinkly, and theyre two different colors, ... (125 words

My boyfriends mum has just been fired how can I help them get through this?

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My BF lives with his mom and brother. Both he and his brother go to the university here in our city, and their only financial support is their mom, as their dad was abusive and abandoned them when they were kids. The thing is, his mom has worked as a secretary/assistant ... (204 words

How do I let him know he has to initiate getting back together?

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27 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend very much, but feel we need to "take a break." He is no longer affectionate and I have talked to him about this several times, but he hasn't acted upon it and I have been extremely patient. I think he would realize his feelings for me if we took a break for ... (99 words

My mom sleeps all the time so I have to watch the 2yr old! How can I stop this misery?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

27 March 2008 (? age 26-29 - i hate my mom.. because she sleeps all day. so i have my two year old sister. my mom has a boyfriend now.. i understand that she works and her job is hard on her.. but its not fair for me to have to watch a two year old who doesnt listen, hits, just makes life miserable.... (314 words

How do I tell my husband he bores me sexually without hurting his feelings?

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27 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello, I have been married for 6 years, and I have lost interest in sex with my husband. We have sex about once a week, but I feel as if I'm just going through the motions. Sometimes I pretend I'm satisfied, and sometimes I try to explain what I want. But that's my problem! I ... (122 words

Why keep begging me to come see you if we're not going to have sex?

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27 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - My Ex-girlfriend wants me to drive 3 hours and come spend the weekend with her so we can "hang out and have fun". I just got off the phone with her and she says she doesn't want to have sex and that I can have her bed. The whole not have sex thing is throwing me off because ... (196 words

I'm a virgin and getting ready to have sex but I'm embarrassed about stretch marks!

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im sixteen years old,and a virgin.I think in the next couple months around summer time my best guy friend and i are going to lose our virginity to each other. He's seventeen. But im very insecure about my body,i have stretch marks on my stomach and sides,they're not that bad or ... (114 words

My boyfriend dragged me in the house and forced me to have sex. I don't want him to get in trouble & I'm only 16!

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Is it considered rape if it was your boyfriend? A few days ago I was at my bf's house and we started having an argument, mostly because I wanted to wait until I felt comfortable enough to have sex and he was getting annoyed with me. Well I walked out of his house because ... (125 words

Will having sex before marriage kill what we have?

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27 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - Ok, this may sound weird, I would like to hold off from having sex with my girlfriend till marriage... ok, thats easy right, ill make it trickier, weve been having sex for 9 months. Lets make this even more interesting, were confessed Christians and SHE doesnt want to stop, she ... (78 words

We've "made out" even though he says we are "just friends! Is this dating?

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have a guy friend recently he would hold me close to him, and we would hold hands. when he was asked if he liked me he said just as friends. well we've kissed and made out. does that classify dating? ... (41 words

I've been shot down twice asking someone to the prom, why is everything going so wrong?

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27 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ugh, well i have been trying this week to find a prom date. Well my first attempt well i got shot down and she couldnt say it to my face, and she isnt going with anyone else. This really hurt my hope of getting one, and now my friends are trying to help me, but so far my other ... (221 words

Should I tell this girl her boyfriend is cheating or just stay out of it? I would want to know!!!

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27 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - There is this guy who is cheating on his girlfriend. I know who his girlfriend is and I also know the girl is he is cheating with. I'm not close friends with them, but I know each of them. I want to tell the girlfriend that her man is cheating on her, but then I'm afraid it ... (110 words

Feeling the pressure of a steady relationship. What can I do and how can I break up with him?

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok im 17 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we regulary have great sex and i love him.. however im starting to feel the pressure of going steady for so long! its like when im with him everythings graet but when im not with him i have my doubts. ive basically lost all ... (82 words

Need to tell him I'm not sure if I want to sleep with him without hurting his feelings...

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27 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now, We've been on and off since I started at this school. Its been sorta Y'know. 'I cant come. I'm really sorry but I cant I'm extremely swamped' and it was true I know we had the same classes. [Thats how we met] He keeps asking ... (199 words

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