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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's this boy I liked and he knows I like him. And like I actually thought he was starting to like me because he would look at me alot, he would talk about me to his friends, and he would talk to my friends about me. Anyways recently I was walking down the hallway and i saw him and then I turned the other way to talk to my friend. When I turned back around he was gone and it was like a 2 second turn so he wouldn't have time to just walk way. I just have this feeling that he was hiding from me. If that is true then I am really pissed because he been acting like he was at least a little interested in me. He even gave me his number and now all of sudden he hiding from me! I mean im a shy person so I barely talk to him to began with. What reason would he have to hide from me. All the times that we ever talked it was never me going up to him, he came up to me because I was to shy to go up to him. I mean if he was annoyed by me sooo much why was he the one coming up to me! This is exactly why im soo scared to talk to boys i like because i can never understand them! Either you like me or dont. I hate these mixed signals! I didn't do anything to him. I mean its not like im some creepy stranger who hes never meet before. I actually had a class with him. And i've always been nice to him and i never bugged him about liking me I just pretended like everything was normal like i didn't know that he found out. Ocasionally i would look at him but thats normal... people like to look at there crush. I mean what did i do to deserve this :(! How can you be annoyed with someone you barly talk to!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didn't turn the other way because i was avoiding him though. My friend was walking with me so i turned to talk to her. He was standing with his friend by a bench at school. And then the next thing you know hes suddenly dissappears.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 Mixed signals eh. So you see the boy you like coming towards you and turn away from him to your friends. Because that is how you show your love.
Awh, they are so cute when they are young aren't they.
No real advice to give, I just think you two are two teens who have to figure it all out on your own just like everyone else.
I willing to bet that he is as confused about all this as you are. So either you two continue to play games until one of you has the guts to take the first step.
Next time you see him coming towards you, smile and approach him. But be careful, they are skittish at that age and he may wel bolt at the first sign of danger.
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