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writes: Hi I need some opinions on this . I'm 15 years old and I've had phone sex with 3 different guys in the last two years . ( not at the same time or around the same time....) Two of them it was text sex and the other one ( my boyfriend now)was actually talking on the phone. I recently told my friend about it and she said it was discusting and that I was acting like a whore and other words like that.... I don't think I am... what do you think ?
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reader, Acuriousincident  +, writes (29 March 2008):
You don't think it is disgusting, she does. What makes her right and you wrong? Nothing. Decide what you want to do and make the choice yourself. Listen to your friend's advice but remember there are plenty people of different opinion than her (Look at all the replies here even).
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reader, Miss C +, writes (29 March 2008):
 Everyone has different opinions on what is acceptable and what is unacceptable or in your friend's words "disgusting" so it's up to you what you want to do. No-one can tell you what is right or wrong.
I do however think that it doesn't need to be broadcast to your friends unless you can trust them completely and your friend doesn't sound like a good person to talk to about it (that's just how it seems - it may be untrue.) All I'm saying is that this way - rumours and gossip can be spread and can earn you a bad reputation (as undeserved as it may be) so be careful.
As for your friend, that was completely uncalled for. She doesn't have to approve of what you are doing but she can keep her opinions to herself and has no right to judge you for it. Miss C xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): It is not disgusting, don't worry. :) I don't reccomend text-sex, though, because that, like naked pics, are solid evidence and can be used against you.
Toodles.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (27 March 2008):
 You're friend just sounds like a prude to me. I think you're fine.
I wouldn't make a habit of it though. It's okay to explore, just don't get obsessed about it.
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reader, MissKin + ♥, writes (27 March 2008):
 You're not acting like a whore. Phone sex is a lot better than actual sex at your age and it can be fun. Ignore your friend, she obviously isn't mature enough to understand the intimacy. I think it's espcially good that one of these men you were having 'phone sex' with is now your boyfriend.
Don't let your friend make you feel dirty or disgusting, it's not. It sounds fine to me.
Take care.
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reader, lilly_08  +, writes (27 March 2008):
 No its not disgusting its the safest sex you can have maybe you should keep it to yourself though dont tell your friends if you were sleeping around then her comment would be justified but your not so dont worry about the things she has said.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): well, a little bit.
i wouldnt do it.
but i am not going to judge you and if your friends want to judge you maybe they arent very good friends. but i dont know them-- or her.
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