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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I tell him I love him in a way he'll understand?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ladies: What is the best way to tell a guy you love him? I know that guys aren't as touchy-feely as we girls tend to be, and I know that their minds usually have a tendency to work VERY differently from the way ours do. What's the best way to say those three little words... (218 words)

He's in debt and him and my mother are blaming me! I'm lost. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

- Hey there... I'll try to keep this organized so it's not so confusing. lol I have a room mate...we used to be together romantically but it just wasn't working so we decided tp try to build up our friendship and leave the romance out of it... okay..so recently I went to Calif... (299 words)

I'm in love with my (probably straight) best friend, should I tell her? Or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... the question is should I say anything or not?? I shall tell you about it: I've fallen really badly for my best friend, who I think is straight (although I very occasionally have my doubts), and I mean REALLY badly, I can't stop thinking about her at all, I can't imagine ... (118 words)

How can I stop being jealous over stupid things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i stop being jealous over the dumbest reasons, like when my bf just talks to a girl?... (19 words)

I love being loved by my older man but how do I learn to love again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've met this new man 18 years my senior right after my divorce. He makes me feel loved and wanted. I love the way he treats me but I know I dont have much feelings for him. My problem is I love being loved but dont know how to love again. Please advise.... (57 words)

In a loving relationship with my cousin, how do we tell our parents?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am just in a fix! i honestly dont know what to do, i hope to get help from anyone, the thing is, im in a relationship, but with my cousin, 1st cousin, i love him alot ever since we were small. and then back in december 2006 i told him how i felt and i was shocked cause he... (199 words)

I'm nearly 18, my partner is 15 - is this legal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so....I need help!! I'm 17 going on 18 and I'm in a relationship with a guy who is 15 is it illegal??... (23 words)

How safe is ORAL SEX from AIDS.. HIV...??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

20 March 2008 (M)

age - How safe is ORAL SEX from AIDS.. HIV... Is it dangerous to have oral sex with women for aids ?... (23 words)

Help! I'm confused...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age - With the same guy for 15 years, got engaged last July 2007 were supposed to be wed May 17.2008 and on February llth he told me he loves me like a room mate and not with the pazzaz. We called off the wedding and I moved back home. Tells me he still loves me and can't see ... (82 words)

I just don't want to make a fool of myself. Do you think he still likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this guy at work and my co workers said he was quite sweet on me and I thought so too. I left that job so we swapped numbers and we texted for a bit... it was nice and he always replied really quickly, if I didn't reply he would send a text asking why I hadn't replied. ... (245 words)

My last boyfriend put me down and I can't get over the things he said.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there something wrong with me? I have been single now for about 3 years and in this time not one boy has asked me out it has really put me down because my last boyfriend said some really horrible stuff when we broke up and I haven't been able to get over the things that he ... (67 words)

How do I show her I love and care about her? I want her back!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

20 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of two and a half months just broke up with me because I'm not good at showing her that I love her. I love her with all my heart, and she loves me. She's so good to me, I really believe she's the greatest girl I've ever met. I have tried to tell her that on... (163 words)

My husband has cheated on me after 19 years of marriage. Should I give him another chance?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has cheated on me after 19 years of marriage. Should I give him another chance?... (18 words)

Hugely complicated love pentagon leaves me confused. HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

20 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is complex situation (for me at least) and I would be hugely appreciative of help from anyone who has experienced something simular or just thinks they can help. First of all, about three weeks ago, my friend was asked out by this girl a year older than him f... (518 words)

Why is he brushing me off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy 2 weeks ago, we saw each other a few times in one week, we had long makeout sessions, he seemed to be interested in me but for the last week hes been standing me up and not answering or returning my calls i find it weird that hes doing that cuz when i do get to ... (85 words)

Affair update: What do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This is an update on Is he having or had an affair? posted on 28th January. Thank you Tuatara for your excellent advice. Not much has been happening in recent weeks, i even asked my husband if anything had happened, he strongly denied it and i accepted it. However today i ... (286 words)

We just had sex! Will this risk our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - please help! i went out in january for my birthday and met a guy through one of my friends i went to school with. we hit it off and have become friends - but we sleep together, he stays at my house every weekend and sometimes in the week. we dont have sex everytime were ... (161 words)

Her fling "meant nothing", how do I come to terms with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi hope you can help. I met my current girl friend 3 years ago. We were friends for about 4 months, talking regularly by email, telephone and meeting up. We had both experieced breakups and had been honest about our pasts and i felt there was a real connection between us. I ha... (215 words)

Met an older man on a train, is the age gap too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I meet this really nice guy on the train last weekend and we started talking and we ended up leaving with each others numbers. since then he been texting and foning me every day and always answers straight away even in lectures lol we get on really well and are wanting to go ... (184 words)

Husband threatens to cheat and divorce me! What is the matter with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Whenever My husband and I have a spat, in the end he threatens with divorce. I have told him that it is hurtful that he brings divorce up especially since I dont say things like that since I know that it would hurt him. Also, since I love him very much, I would dare to bring up ... (230 words)

Can I find out before my missed period?? What can I do to stop thinking about this possible pregnancy...?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a very strong possibility that I may be pregnant and I just can't keep my mind off of it. I have to wait until I miss my period to determine whether I am or not and it's really bothering me. Any ideas on what I could do to find out sooner or to help take my mind off ... (72 words)

I've fallen pretty hard for this guy but should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5872 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i'm allie and a sophomore in highschool and so is the guy, jake. I just transfered to his highschool at the beginning of this year. So i haven't knows him too long. We run in different circles so we don't REALLY talk. I'm in the more popular clique...and he's in the shy ... (311 words)

He has to still want me even though he broke up with me! Do I deserve another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i know deep down he has to still want me..i mean we were the best of friends and the cutest couple ever, we could do nothing and have so much fun. i told him i changed and see what i did wrong and i deserve another chance cause i gave him one but he said he gave me plenty b... (129 words)

How to "go down" on a guy, I need good tips!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need good tips on going down on a guy. I know I never do a very good job, but no one has ever told me how so I am not sure if I am even doing it right or at least very good.... (44 words)

Living together or marriage? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 6 1/2 years, has actually made the next step of wanting to totally commit to me. This is after a email I sent last week saying I'm tired of playing games , good luck, i'm moving on ... He is now begging me to let him back into his life, loves me, miserable ... (187 words)

Who is the "rebound" girl? I want him back bad!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so this guy ive been dating for 2.5 years just broke up with me. we went out when i was in 9th grade and mutually seperated then he went out with this one girl on a bet and ended up kinda liking her...she cheated on him and he cheated on her ... and they only lasted that... (1539 words)

My friend 'got off' with somebody...what does it mean??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend came back from the cinema a couple of days ago saying she had got off with a boy i know. At first i thought it was sex but shes only 13 and it was in the cinema so its unlikely to be that!! I really want to know what it means though. So, if somebody says 'i got off... (73 words)

How can I get closure on my relationship ending as he has joined the Navy??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5873 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently posted a question about my ex boyfriend of 2 1/2 years joining the Navy. The other day, he said that he forgave me for not supporting him initially, but then he still said it is over. I am heart broken, because I have done everything i could to demonstrate ... (84 words)

Are there just some people who are destined to be alone or who are slated to be unlucky in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

- Help...hoping someone has some insight here. I broke up with a long time boyfriend about three years ago and since then I have had nothing but heartache with guys. It seems like I cannot win no matter how I play it. I really have nothing bad to say about any of the guys. I ... (138 words)

I don't want to leave him because I cant bear for him to be happy with another girl but he is getting me so depressed. What can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 31. I don't love him but i don't want to leave him as i cant see him happy with another girl. How sad does that sound? He treats me so bad and puts me down all the time. We have a 2year old together and i don't think i can take much more of this; i ... (138 words)

I love him - but what if he can't give me what I need, as my father warns?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How on earth does my father know? My dad doesn't like my bf. Not even a little bit. So last night he told me that my bf would never start working now, he's 20. He said that he would only study but never actually do the job. I just got off the phone with my bf and he said that ... (265 words)

My boyfriend is convinced I can't have been in love with him before dating him if I slept with another man in that period.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Before I was with my boyfriend, we were both in love with each other, but each of us did not know about the other one. I had sex with another man, and even though we were not together I feel so guilty, like I cheated on him. Also my boyfriend is convinced that I can't have been ... (87 words)

She rejected me 4 months ago because she had only just ended a relation. When is it a proper moment to ask again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm a stubborn and picky bloke, and i struggle to find a woman that to me is 'what i'm looking for', until i found her, and i've never met anyone that i've conected with so well. we have lots in common, and share simliar interests, and she makes me laugh like there's no ... (133 words)

One moment my BF acts like we are a couple, the next he doesn't want to know, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi people! ok so here's my problem. I'm currently going out with my boyfriend and I love him to bits! He says he loves me the same, more than anything he says. We mess about you know talking about sex and what have you and some days he's like "I love you enough to have sex w... (267 words)

A gentle way to break up from my GF who has self-harm tendencies?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

20 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've grown apart from my girlfriend of 15 months and need a very gentle way to break up with her over a period of time. I don't want her to get really upset as she used to self-harm... (39 words)

Help, best friend, married man, major disaster!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Right, please don't jump down my throat here but my best friend's husband and i have realised that we fancy eachother, i don't have many friends and i am very lonely and i think that's why i have developed these feelings. the other day we kissed, the atmosphere was e... (167 words)

Why would a guy say he wasn't wearing a condom when he was?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - why would a guy say he wasn't wearing a condom and ask if he could let go when he was in fact wearing one? He said it was just to heighten the heat of the moment but it freaked me out and I didn't understand that.... (47 words)

How can I ejaculate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i'm a 23 year women and i want to find out how to ejaculate b/c my husband and i would like to try it so if anyone can help please let me know. ... (34 words)

I'm eighteen and my breasts are really small! What can I do?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am an 18 year old female, with small breasts, im still wearing a 32 a. It is really embarasing when i c other women or girls even younger than me with bigger breast than i. I really need help will my breasts ever grow? i am even self consious when im intimate with another ... (70 words)

I get so angry things just seem so bad. I don't know what to do. How can I de-stress?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Why is it anytime I have a bad day, I suffer some sort of depression? I find that these days, if I have a bad day, it's an awful one. Today, everything seemed to be going okay until it came to something really important (TRYING to record my bands CD) and it all went horribly... (300 words)

He can't hold an erection and I take it personally. Now things are weird. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating someone new and have slept together about 4 times now. This last time he couldn't hold an erection. I know men feel insecure about this and he hasn't struck me as the insecure type but he kept commenting after that he hopes I don't go looking for someone ... (93 words)

He won't marry me or have sex ...I don't know what to do.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29 and been with my boyfriend which is 37 for eight years. He says he wants to get married but he keeps giving me all kinds of excuses. Also we haven't had sexual relationship in four years. He knows it hurts my feelings. He tells me its because he has absolutly no ... (200 words)

There's a guy I've liked but never spoken to. How can I talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5872 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am 19 years old..n i have dated guys had my share of fun..but right nw i am in a total fix..earlier guys was sumthin i would luv to talk n nw i don want to talk abt anyone except 4 this guy i really adore.lets call him ken..i have never met or spoken or talked nothin at ... (171 words)

How do I keep him interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been together for over 10 years. He takes alot of meds that makes having sex difficult. Recenty he said he's bored with the relationship. How do I spice things up and keep him interested without sex being able to be a factor. All the advice columns ... (126 words)

What is the expiry date on a lie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - What the expiry date on a lie. When we were teenagers my girlfriend never turned up for a date. I went on to marry this girl and later find out she went out on a date with your best friend instead. Does the lie invalidate everything inbetween? like you would never carried on ... (73 words)

I want him to choose me but I feel like an idiot for waiting on a married man, but I'm not ready to let go, what do I do?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I fell in love with a married man, who loves me back. He travels so while i have been able to see him, I will no longer be able to meet him in these different cities, so I won't be seeing him for a while. And while everything is good between us, he will be going home for two ... (151 words)

Is being comfortable with little or no passion enough in a relationship?

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20 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I of one year broke up shortly after new year. We've had 3 months apart with no contact, and in the past couple of weeks have got back in contact. We missed each other, and have had time to reflect upon the mistakes we both made, and why. We have the best bon... (135 words)

I have trust issues...How do I deal with the physical aspects of my new relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

20 March 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I'm thinking of kissing my new boyfriend today! Woohoo! I'm just scared he'll be an awful kisser or something...Eep! I'm also afraid he'll want to take it a little farther than touching my breasts...okay, so not afraid, because I've been around the block on several occasions ... (299 words)

Was it an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - during intercourse last nightmy whole body sort of convulsed with a tingling sensation starting from the bottom of my spine-I had to arch up my back. I sighed as the sensation ebbed away.I've never had this sensation before since starting regular intercourse with my ... (55 words)

My BF suggests that I get an abortion but I disagree, please advise!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i might be pregnant but my boyfriend says i should get an abortion what should i do???i don't want him to leave me alone with the baby but i don't believe in abortion, some out there please help.... (40 words)

I would not have married her, had I known of her wild sexual past! What now?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

20 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - What do you do when you find out your wife has had a wild sexual past and you didnt know about it and if you had known about it, you would not have even asked her to marry you?... (39 words)

Can I forgive him for cheating on me, even when he has never done it before???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some help! Should I forgive my boyfriend of 2 years for cheating on me??? The story is quite long unfortunately. 3 years ago I met my current boyfriend when I was on holiday, unfortunately I was with someone else at the time who I married a few months late... (404 words)

I think of him a lot and am so hurt by the terrible things he said, which were mostly a lie!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F) - Hi cupids, I have been seeing a guy on and off for 6 mths. It started as I met him thru a guy I was seeing - me and the 1st guy only met up a few times, never slept together and it didn't work out, no hard feelings. However me and his friend clicked right away and we got ... (546 words)

My best friend is getting really secretive.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend is getting really secretive. I mean, normally if i had news i would tell her before anyone else! She got a boyfriend, right, and i only found out off someone else! I asked her if it was true and she said yes. Now i'm unsure of how to be around her, as she kee... (107 words)

I think that it is a fear of commitment... what do you guys think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 2 1/2 is joining the navy, and at first I did not encourage him because I did not believe in it. He broke up with me about 2 weeks ago, and I wrote him a letter apologizing, and he confronts me and says that "friends do not do this to other friends" and that he ... (272 words)

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, it started off great but over time it's got worse, he just doesn't seem interested anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I really need some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, it started off great (as it normally does) but over time it's got worse, he just doesn't seem interested anymore. I told him a few weeks ago that I couldn't carry on like this, but he begged me... (159 words)

After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - After debating this for a while, I sat down at my desk this morning and wrote this to my probably soon to be ex. Can anyone advise if this is the right way to go. I know email is not the way to go, but I'm tending to descend into floods of tears when I think about trying to say ... (351 words)

I don't understand how he can be disappointed since this all happened in my past, before I even started talking to him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy everyone=] I'm in a little bit of confusion and need some help. Okay so me and my boyfriend were talking on the phone last night and somehow we got into the subject about my past and what I've done. He's always called me "miss innocent" and now that he asked for the tr... (241 words)

What's the deal???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve been friends with this guy for over a year. We’ve been spending more time together over the last 5 months and it's basically been developing into something more over time. He used to do all these really great things for me all the time. He asked me out and I had some ... (810 words)

Virtual flirt... too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 15 years and am very happy with our life. Sex life not so much. Recently I found one of my first boyfriends online and started talking... really only wanted to see how he was doing. It turned into memory sharing and was very sexy. My husband totally ... (124 words)

I'm married and having an affair but I'm so lonely...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I'm new to this but feel very alone. I need advice and help. I'm married but been having an affair. I want out but I'm also hurting. My husband only sees me one day in a week. It's been like this for 10 years. I love him but I'm so lonely. The guy I'm having affair ... (170 words)

Lesbian Love triangle!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey I could really do with some advice or any thoughts on the following: (sorry in advance about the length!) Ok I'm 21 and a lesbian I have been in a relationship with my gf since the end of september and for the first few months everything between us was really good. The... (830 words)

What should I do about his constant rejection of my advances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. For first 6 months sex was frequent but then I started to get rejected whenever I initiated. If i waited for him to make a move he didn't. Eventually after refusing to talk about it I said I was struggling to stay in a sexless ... (195 words)

His dreams are causing problems in our marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My Husband of 6 years has been having sexual dreams almost every night,Of course he has a full errection.Several times I have heard him say sexual things out loud while in his sex dream.What really upset me is that he has even called out a females name which happens to be a co ... (217 words)

Breaking up for Uni???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I noticed most of the guys who reply on this site are girls, so it'll be interesting to see the responses. I'm 17, soon 18. I've been with this girl for 6 months of more... started casual and we only spent time togehter because it was fun and now it's obvious we're bo... (169 words)

Am I being selfish? Should I walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - HI there, ive been seeing my boyfriend for nearly 9 months. Everythings great apart from the fact that he's not got a job, he has been temping but in the time ive been with him its just been 3 jobs. Im begining to feel that im resenting him. I want us to do things as a couple ... (118 words)

Should I tell him why I left him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been seeing this guy for almost 8years, i saw the divorse degree, thats when we started being serious, i knew he use to go and see the son he had we his ex, i saw their wedding photos on webside with the same ex he was divorsed to, he did not even tell me they were ... (155 words)

Can I stop myself becoming bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4816 days ago

20 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have an amazing bf and I love him to bits but i always watch lesbian porn coz its much more of a turn on and also sometimes i see girls and i dont think id mind having sex with them! i dont like the thought of being bisexual, can i stop myself or something? whats wrong with ... (65 words)

Upset that my ex boyfriend is sleeping with his new girl in OUR house!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, I'm new here. I have a question. A few months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. We had a relationship for almost 10 years. A few years ago we bought a house. After he broke up with me I left (He asked me to leave). I'm staying at my best friend's appartment. She ... (249 words)

Was I just a rebound?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

20 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I'm sure you've gotten this many time before, but I'm going to ask again for my sake. I started seeing a girl recently. We weren't anything official, but we spent a lot of time together and we shared a lot in that time. She had just gotten out of a long committed relati... (555 words)

I am not sure if he is over me and just is keeping his distance, dating someone, or what.

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20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am missing my ex and not sure if I should leave him alone or pursue a friendship or what not. We dated for three-four years when I was in high school and he is five years older then me. I went away for college and when he started talking about following me, I ended it which ... (264 words)

I'm a male and my lesbian friend is sending me mixed signals

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20 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - One of my best friends is a lesbian, however, lately she has been sending me mixed signals. We've both been out of a relationship for a long time and have been spending more and more time together as of late. We talk online or on the phone almost everyday now. Over the last ... (185 words)

I have an "inverted penis", why?

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20 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im 19, and im overweight, i have something called, an inverted penis, meaning... my penis stays inside me, i was wondering why this is? im also a little small, im about 5 and half inches... i was wondering if i was to lose my weight, it would not be inverted anymore... (64 words)

I have a lesbian crush on a co-worker!

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20 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all! Im a woman, bisexual and have had a crush on a coworker for a few months now. SHe is not lesbian. The other day I told her I wanted her to know that I loved her and cared for her as a friend. After a couple of hours she invited me to have lunch. She wanted to hear m... (166 words)

Sex, the messy details

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20 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I plan on staying a virgin until my wedding night and I hope to marry a virgin. I'm concerned about what our wedding night might be like. This might sound naive but just how messy is sex without a condom. Is there semen everywhere? What about her love juices? I'm curious ... (74 words)

My boyfriend prefers masturbation/porn to sex???

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20 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I live together and have what others consider a perfect relationship. This is going to be a bit long winded, but I feel I need to start at the beginning so that it is all properly understood. When I first moved in, I quickly realized that he was looking at p... (456 words)

How do you know if your a lesbian/bisexual?

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20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, I have another lil' prob. How do you know if your a lesbian/bisexual? (I have a boyfriend and like him a lot) Like when I watch porn, I watch lesbian porn only! There have been a few occasions where I have looked at a girl and said "I'd like to do her". I wouldn't real... (76 words)

Sex for me is never enjoyable...

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20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Sex for me is never enjoyable, I am really tight and every time I have sex with a guy he is never able to get all the way in. I've tried relaxing and everything but still the guy can never get all the way in.. I've never had an orgasm niether.. what can I do?... (55 words)

He never answers his phone and told me to leave him alone! Still, should I give him the benefit of the doubt?

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20 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ok ive been with this guy for at least 6 months. but before i started talkin 2 him he had an ex of three years that he left becuse she was unfaithful. and he said that he would never get back with her. everything was going good with us. he would call everyday and he was just ... (371 words)

He's not the faithful type, should I go after him anyway?

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20 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have known *Guy* for about a year now, i've got on with him well since we first started talking. we've always flirted and joked around like that but over the last month or so hes got more serious about it, telling me he cant stop thinking of me ect. He current has a gf... (235 words)

Boyfriend wrote me a threatening email! How do I respond?

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20 March 2008 (F)

age - Boyfriend and I are arguing.He did somethign that hurt me and all day I waited for flowers and an apology or both. When I finally received an e-mail from him it was nasty and threatening. I don't know how to respond to that. I feel I should show someone what he wrote but hav... (79 words)