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Is it weird that I haven't offered him oral (yet), is it a problem?

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Question - (26 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 March 2008)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Been with my boyfriend 6months although we been friends since we were in school. everything is goin great sex is great and hes a brilliant problem, i havnt given him oral sex, he hasnt said anything about it so Im wonderin is this weird that i havent is it a problem?? I would like to but i dont wanna end up lookin like an idiot cause i havent a clue! I never wanted to give my ex oral cause i thought it was dirty but i did a few times anyway. I feel differently bout given it to my present boyfriend tho. help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

You're definately normal. I had been with my present

(and only) boyfriend for well over 6 months before we had oral sex. It's a lil bit awkward at first, but it's a great bonding expirience if he returns what's given to him.

Don't rush it, it sounds like you have a great guy that isn't into pressuring you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

Is it weird? No! Of course it isn't. You do what you're comfortable with, and if he's not brought the subject up I wouldn't worry about it unduly.

Personally, I think it's a very much overrated pastime, and I can take it or leave it. No big deal either way.

But if you must, keep the teeth shielded with your lips, lots of spit and use your hands as well. Take a look at some porn sites for tuition if you need to!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

It's not unusual, although by the sounds of it, I do think you're ready if you're up for it :] there's plenty of sites dedicated to oral techniques on the internet (non porno ones) so google it maybe :] or you could ask that question on here? :]

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