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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

I'm going to a slumber party with some women friends and I'm male.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi, it's me Paul. Again I want to thank all the females for their anwers and everything for helping me out but now I got another situation. After I went out with my female friends for the girls night out that weekend they invited me to join them for their slumber party that my ... (154 words

I have no experience with girls, can you help me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi I'm a 14 year old boy, I have never really had a girlfiend and not too sure how to ask her out or where to take her on a date, what to talk to her about, what to do with her? I need some advice but it's hard to explain but I don't really know where to start, how to be... (93 words

What does a break really mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years. The relationship was going down hill due to us arguing all the time about stupid things. Two weeks ago she said she wanted a break. She told me she wants to do her own thing and concertrate on school. she really wants to ... (160 words

My wife's ex boyfriends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age - My wife and I have been married for less than a year, and our relationship is very good. It is a second marriage for both of us. There is one thing that concerns me and makes me feel uncomfortable. I'm not sure how to deal with it. While my wife's first marriage was not sati... (388 words

Care for two men...

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17 March 2008 (F age - I was in a relationship for 23 years and then seperated and divorced after meeting someone else. We see each other every other week and talk most nights. When I left my husband and over the last 2.5 years I've never felt that the relationship has moved on despite my boyfriend ... (271 words

I feel a bit insecure and am scared we're going to drift apart.

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17 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been going out for almost eight months now. We usually see each other once a week or more, since he lives in another city (but in the same state.) He just got a car from his mom that she was using for a while, and then he was using it for a bit to come see me, ... (253 words

At the moment we're friends with benefits but I want to ask her out as I really like her.

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17 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Wondering if I should ask this girl out, not too sure though. At the moment we're basically friends with benefits, but we talk to each other for a cuple hours a day, and I like her, I think she likes me too. But I think she's got a thing for her ex still, in a myspace s... (174 words

Does the trust EVER come back again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - When your partner does something to hurt you, lets say emotionally cheats and even though he's sorry and you give him another chance, things will never really be the same again will they?? Does the trust ever come back... is it possible to forget the hurt that they caused y... (150 words

Period problems!

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17 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I am 24 years old and have 3 children. The youngest is 4 months old... I got my period on February 28th and ended on the 6th of March, but now I got it again an the 14th of March and I still have it, there is enough blood that I need a tampon so I know that it's not just ... (96 words

How to get your partner to do more around the house?

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17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'd like some tips for persuading my partner to do more housework. I work full time and he is at home with our son. The only chore he has agreed to do apart from childcare while I'm out is washing. But in practice he doesnt do it and we have mountains of washing, and n... (267 words

What is proper love and how do you know when you're falling in love with someone?

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17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - well, I'm 16 and been with my bf 2 months now, I've had sex with him quite a few times and I lost it to him.. but the thing is he asked me how I feel about him and whether it was just 'teenage love' or 'proper love' and I dunt know cuz I've never felt real love before, and I ... (137 words

How do I build trust back?

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17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm meeting my ex boyfriend on Friday, for a chat and a general 'What happened to us' conversation... which we do need because it was all very messy and we haven't spoken in a month ( at all) and not properly since December. It was my fault the rlationship broke down, and ... (167 words

How does he live this happy life now without consequences?

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17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi. I know others have gone through this a million times before me and it will happen a million times after me. However, I have experienced the most traumatic event in my life. My ex, whom I loved and trusted whole heartedly and who I was about to marry moved away (where I was ... (316 words

He's not a creep, he's HOT! Is he just playing me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - OK theres this guy I know. I've noticed he's quite flirty-which doesn't bother me in fact he says he flirts with everyone. Now he SAYS he's just playing yet he winks and looks at me longingly. He's also offered his place for me to 'escape' if I need to(having oth... (85 words

I want to try alcohol! Will I become an alcoholic?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

17 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - I've never really drank alcohol before, but for some reason now I want to try it. In the past, I've only had a few sips. I never want to become an alcoholic, so I'm put off drinking it incase I like it a bit too much! Am I being stupid? How to you get to the point of being in ... (64 words

I'm looking for subtle but effective ways to make my BF jealous, because he also disrespects me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - My guy likes to try and make me jealous by talking about how hot other women are and flirting with women sometimes. I never give him the satisfaction of letting him know it bothers me after all what's good for the goose is good for the gander. But I don't want to flirt with ... (77 words

Should I stop this relationship based on sex?

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17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi i'm in a new relationship yeah for me! I'ts been a while! but all we have in common is great sex. I know he is only calling me because of this but I don't care cause I like having sex with him . Should I stop this I know it's bad? right?... (54 words

First time oral, I don't know what to do?

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17 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - hi i'm going to do oral sex for the first time with my new girlfriend but im worried about how i go about things and how is the best way to lick a girl out can any one give me tips?... (41 words

I want to date him, just not live together or marry yet! What should I do keep dating him to see were it leads?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for about four months now and he is hinting about living together. I feel I still don't know him emotionally yet. We have a lot of diffrent views on religion and morals. I think he is a great guy but I just got over a two year bad relationship and ... (246 words

He arranged to meet another girl via Internet, then regretted it. How can I trust him again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, i have been with my husband for 2 years. About 5 months ago i found out that he had been messaging another girl on a internet forum and had gone as far as to arrange to meet her. He says he would never have actually met her and that he is sorry etc. He also says he loves me ... (135 words

Is he with me only for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - is he just with me for sex? i've been seeing this guy for about 5 months(im 21 hes 26), we went on a few dates then i started sleeping with him (after about 3 weeks), since then i mostly go round to his, and we always have some form of sex (even when i'm on my period). i do... (155 words

Relationship Advice Sought.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - My partner and I have been together for twenty years. We have a good relationship and he is a wonderful man and treats me well. We take good care of one another and together we share all the relationship duties : mortgage, bills, groceries, laundry, dinners, etc. However, we ... (391 words

Follow up: BF Ego Problem After I Bested Him.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi! I'm the girl who asked a week ago about whether I should allow my BF a re-match after I beat him in a wrestling challenge. (March 13: "Ego problem after I bested my BF"). He still insists I got lucky when I pinned him--even tho' I know judo and he doesn't--and that ... (231 words

Could his smoking weed be contributing to the fact I'm not falling pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 years now we have always had unprotected sex. I have never been pregnant. He always smokes weed, do you think that has something to do with it?... (39 words

How long does it take to get "loose"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - How long does it take to get "loose"? I have been having sex with the same guy for two years and he is about 5 inches. Will this make me loose? Can I ever buy a vibrator or will this also make me loose? I have been doing kegals, but I just want to make sure I won't be loose ... (66 words

Got caught masturbating!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I love to masterbate and love porn. I've been in a relationship for 2 year with my girlfriend and things are great but I feel she does not trust me because I masturbate. I tell her it is just a fantasy, I'm being truthful with her, we make love 4 to 6 times a week but I still ... (228 words

I've not had sex after marriage, still a virgin!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - HI, I got married on November 30th 2007. I have a problem that for last four months of our marraige we didn't had sex. I always force him to have to come on me, he never comes by his own. Only thing we have is masturbating each other. He works night shifts, working for a US... (201 words

Does anyone else have a weird looking vagina???

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am sure that this has been asked time and time again, but I really worry if my boyfriend is telling the truth about my.... vagina. You see it "sticks out" well the lips do. I tell my boyfriend that I need to get it fixed, but he says it is normal and is beautiful. So is he ... (75 words

My husband has told me he wants an "open marriage" but I can't do this, please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband has been cheating with my sister the whole time we have been together and married, it's been awful and one trys to stop but my husband won't let it. He wants both! Now she had a child to him so when I try to get him to want only me he lies and gives excuses to be ... (107 words

My boyfriend borrowed $2,000 from me last year but when I ask for it back he gets mad! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

17 March 2008 (F - Dear Cupid: My boyfriend and I been together for 5 years. I make 3X money of what he does, and that is now, cause before he used to make none 'cause he was in school. Therefore I would pay for a lot of things, like restarant, plane ticket, car, hotel etc. I don't mind 'ca... (259 words

My dad has problems with my husband - MAJOR problems!!!

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17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi, My dad has problems with my husband - MAJOR problems. Ever since I introduced him to Dad three years ago when we told him we were engaged he's awful around my Jamie. Mum gets on fine with Jamie but Dad is really horrible to him. He insults him behind his back and sometim... (126 words

Are people required to change because their married now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I dated for 4 years before marriage and we have been married 1.5 yrs, are in counseling already. There is no emotional, physical or spiritual connection anymore and I don't want to live like this. I have a habit that is not particularly legal but have had this ... (250 words

We're afraid to tell my parents I'm pregnant!

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17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm almost three months pregnant and I'm 18 years of age my boyfriend is one year older. The problem is we are afraid to tell our parents and we aren't sure if we should or can mamage to have this baby. I don't believe in an abortion we have both finished high school but want ... (74 words

I can't open up easily to people...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I never opened up easily, not to anyone, as much as i've wanted to, i just can't and i really don't know why, it's so frustrating when i'm going through a rough patch and nobody knows, because other people tend to get mad at me for acting the way i do. i just feel so alone, how ... (263 words

A cousin question...

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17 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Ok so I am 15 and my cousin now 16. We are both males. When he comes over my house to play video games and stuff like that I always have an erection when I look at him. Sometimes I would peer at his "area" and see a bulge sometimes. When I play hit him he always smiles like ... (293 words

Do his fantasies hint that he is gay? Or, bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy that I'm really into for almost 2 months now. Things are going great, we have a lot of fun together and we can literally talk the day away with each other. We have hooked up a few times, but have been taking things a little slow in that department.... (316 words

If things seem to be going great, why is he not ready to sleep with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - So, a couple years ago I met this man (man 2) - through my then boyfriend - who I became really good friends with. When my relationship ended, it came out that we (me and man 2) both had feelings for each other. We took it SUPER slow in the beginning, only sporatically tal... (295 words

Wife is thinking about cheating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age - Recently my wife of more than 12 years has been flirting via email,phone and in person with another married man who is a friend of ours. The relationship between me and my wife has been solid -- neither of us has ever cheated on the other. I honestly love her and can't ... (173 words

Crush behaviour...

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17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I just want to know something that may seem silly to some people but it's really important 2 me. My question is: Suppose the person who you crush on is in the same room as you are... you haven't really communicated or talked but you really fancy the person.. So if he or ... (138 words

My thoughts are keeping me up all night and I can't get to sleep...

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17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl. I've been really sad and feeling depressed lately. And I just let too much stuff get to me. Yes, I speak to my family about how I feel. I see a counseller once a week. But my thoughts are keeping me up at night. I'm having trouble falling asleep. Do you ... (68 words

Every time me and my boyfriend go out I always think he's looking at other girls, when I ask him he says he's not and that am just to paranoid.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi can you help me Every time me and my boyfriend go out I always think he's looking at other girls, when I ask him he says he's not and that am just to paranoid!!!! I don't know if it's just me as I have had my little boy I don't feel as braw as I used to!!!! and am no... (75 words

Should I Push Through This, Or Move on With My Life. I Really Need Help

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17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 4.5 years now. I'm 25, he's 36. We started off very rocky, where he would be cruel to me, go behind my back, and say and do things really hurtful. I've proved loyalty and love to him, and he's changed his "wild" behavior. He recently we... (275 words

Any young husbands have good advice for a guy that's been married for 4 years and wants to balance friend time with wife time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - Any young husbands have good advice for a guy that's been married for 4 years and wants to balance friend time with wife time? I'm ready for it to not be a hassle to go play a video game with a guy for a few hours. As far as my pre-marriage friends, most of them dealt (or d... (235 words

Should I stop all communication with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I'm a happily married man who loves his wife of 3 years a lot. Just last month, she bore me a beautiful son too. I started at a new job in January 2007. Later that year, this lady colleague, A, joined. She was quite attractive looking and I was smitten. However, I know ... (577 words

Painfull sex, sugestions please!!!

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17 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've slept with my bf of 6 months now for the 1st time about 4 months ago now, but every attempt at sex since and including then has either been painful for him or I'm just not getting anything out of it. We've tried so many different position some nice for me but are painful ... (84 words

I have some issues with regards to marriage, maybe someone here could really advise me in what I can do?

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17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have some issues with regards to marriage, maybe someone here could really advise me in what I can do. My husband and I just recently moved to the States, and I was told from his parents' experience that not everything comes all at once when moving from one country to anot... (834 words

When is the right time to tell her my proper age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have recently met a very attractive lady that I really like (and from the look of things, she is very much into me as well). The only problem is that she is 5 years older than me. I don't have a problem with the age difference because i have dated older women but I suspect ... (124 words

Deep secret from my past!! Will it effect my future

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17 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I believe i was abused when i was very young by my father. I am still a virgin because I choose to be but I wonder why I am not really interested in having sex. I am scared that what happened when I was little(eventhough I cannot remember it because I was little) is effecting ... (66 words

Is my sister jealous of me?

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17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am getting married in October and my sister is my maid of honor. She was trying on dresses and said she wanted to find a dress with a loose belly area so it can stretch if she "gets pregnant from now to October". I know it's horrible to feel this way but I can't understand ... (112 words

How do I ride my boyfriend cowgirl style!? Yeeha!!

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17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I know what the position "reverse cow-girl" is......but I do not know how to move once in the position. Please advise. Thank you!!!!! I am not very experienced, and my boyfriend wants me to try this.... (39 words

If you don't have your period then are you pregnant?

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17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi my name is michele and all i wanted to know is if you dont come on your period does that mean that you are pregnant or other things thanks michele leonard... (38 words

He lies about porn, can I trust him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am currently with my bf of 6 months, we're living together already and although 6 months may not seem that long, it's like we've known each other for years. He was my first everything really and have given up allot to be with him properly. I am a fairly mistrustful person b... (240 words

My friend touched my girlfriend in his sleep, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - i dont know what to do.we were at a party and drank alot.my best friend couldnt drive home and i said he could sleep over.he shared the bed with me and my girlfriend.in his sleep he touched my gf and kissed her neck and the touched her vagina.he would never do anything to hurt ... (132 words

All my friends are in relationships, why don't guys like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay I am 15 turning 16 this year and I feel really really lonely. I feel really inloved and it's really getting to me. All my other friends have boyfriends and they are lasting a long time. My last realtionship lasted two days, so I am really eager to find a boyfriend. I like ... (175 words

She still likes her ex - can this work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - me and my partner have only been together for about 2 months now. in the beginning everything was going on fine and then slowly i began to see a slight change to her.had a feeling it was to do with her ex through over hearing phone calls and also through her blog. it was then ... (155 words

How to I tell my one night stand I'm pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i had a one night stand with a guy just over a month ago and now im pregnant. im still in contact with him but how do i tell him?... (30 words

Pregnant and unable to sleep! Any relaxation tips?

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17 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I found out on Friday that i am pregnant, which my partner and i am very happy about.:-) The thing is, i havent been able to sleep properly for the past 3 nights. This is obviously cos im thinking about being pregnant, but i dont want to carry on not being able to sleep... (85 words

Should I tell her how I feel and risk our friendship or just leave it as it is?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok this is like really long. Sorry So theres this girl. Annie, And we've been friends for about 8 months I met her threw my ex boyfriends friend. we both go to the same school. and im really starting to like her we have made out about 10 times ethier dare, spin the bott... (211 words

I am lost, I think I know what I want, but I lie so much I don't know what I even want.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

17 March 2008 (? age 36-40 - I am a 22 year old, in the Marines; I have been on a deployment to Iraq and preparing for another one. I was young when I first had my long relationship in high school and continued into the Marines. She broke up with me and it hurt me. I then traveled around alot with the ... (1384 words

I had an abortion because I thought we'd get back together but I haven't heard from him since then!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - hey pls pls help i had an abortion 4weeks ago and im starting to reget it so much, i had just split up from my ex when i found out and didnt know what to do. part of me wanted the baby but then part of me didnt when i told my ex he said he didnt want anything to do with me or ... (147 words

Is there hope for me? I only recently decided that I was in love with him and now he says he's marrying someone else...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - My partner and I are more or less best friends. In the past he would speak to me about marriage but I wasn’t remotely interested until lately and I found that I might be in love with him. Unfortunately, now he tells me he is getting married to someone else but seems to always ... (96 words

He forced me to give him oral, I froze and acted as demanded... what now?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Is this wrong? I was hanging out with a college hallmate and asking about homework. He kissed and touched me before one night when I was tipsy, but this night he started touching and I said "I don't think this is a good idea." I kept saying that but he told me to be quiet. ... (141 words

Do you think he'll ever come back to me or am I pining over someone that's lost to me forever?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - So I posted a problem on here at the beginning of march. I just basically asked for advice coz I had been with a guy for 7 months. At the beginning of the relationship he'd been living with someone else. A girl who used to be patient at a mental hospital where we both wo... (638 words

He gets annoyed at the littlest things but has a great personality and I love him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys, i really need your help my boyfriend is allowed to say stuff, go out, talk to girls and stuff like that but the thing is im not!! I really love my boyfriend and i have put up with him for 8 months now. i cant confront him about it because then he will yell and we w... (108 words

My gf likes female porn..and I find it kinky but could it hurt our relationship??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend admitted that she masturbate twice the other day while looking at vaginal close up pictures. When she told me it turn me on.shes not bisexual or lesbian. I asked her if we could do mutual masterbation while i am looking at her while she looks at these picture ... (83 words

Should I call this girls father and tell him she is living with a married man??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - My husband and I have been having trouble for a while, initially stemming from financial problems which led to every other problem imaginable. Neither of us were truly working on things. Right when we were about to turn a corner, he apparently lost hope and had an affair. ... (222 words

Want to have sex, but worried about how I'll look with no clothes on!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - hiya, well i'm 14 and i have this most amazing boyfriend, i love him to bits. The thing is we muck about talking about sex and stuff and i no he actually does want to have sex with me as he has told me and he keeps hinting it. I also think i want to and i think i am ready. ... (163 words

We're 12 and 13 and love each other; we know we shouldn't have sex but can we take it a step further? To breast touching?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age 26-29 - i have been going out with a girl for 3 mounths we love each other very much. she's 12 im 13 same grade. we have made out when ever we could, but i was wundering should we take it a step ferther like breast tuching we both know that sex is not good at this age. we talk about se... (62 words

We want to get matching tattoos and I'd like some suggestions.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years almost. We've been friends for a VERY long time. We recently decided we want to get a matching tattoo. Something that nobody really has. Does anyone have anything in mind?... (40 words

Why would a guy do this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

17 March 2008 (F age - Why would a guy you hooked up with and was dating for three months and you know he loves you and you love him, stop calling you because you told him you didn't know if you was free to go out with him on Friday, and that you would call him?... (51 words

My partner didn't want to spend as much time together as I did, one of the reasons why I ended it...suggestions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

17 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - My partner and I were together for 3 years. We were engaged and living together for about 2 1/2 years. About 3 months ago we broke up. One of the major reasons we broke up is because I didn't feel she was giving enough to the relationship. Her family were a huge issue... (252 words

Does it matter if she swallows? I really would like to know...

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17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - this is a questions for the guys this is a real question i need to ask do guys really like it more when a girl swallows and does it make a difference if we dont i ask this question because i want to please my hunny as much as i can so does it matter if we swallow or not ??... (62 words

Some things happened between us and I called off the engagement. Will he change on his own?

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17 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - So I am an 18 year old young woman and I am in a very happy go lucky relationship with a man that I plan to marry after I graduate in June. Most of the time I am happy with him and the way things are. He makes me feel so complete. Like the way I am supposed to feel, ya know? W... (367 words

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17 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am a 37 yo divorced single parent of two children. I have been dating a coworker for the last 5 months and it is a complete secret at work. We have a lot of fun together, but I wonder if there can really be a future with us because of the age difference and the different ... (126 words

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17 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - Yeah like the Question says, how long is too long. Ive been alone for like 4 years now. Ive dated off and on since then and meet a few diffrent women, but nothing seems to stick for me. My first major relationship left me all fouled up and alone, and since then Ive been ... (98 words

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17 March 2008 (M - Hi, Okay, i need some honest advice. My girl and i have been broken up now for about 9 mos. We don't really keep in touch, either via e=mail or phone. we work 2 blocks away from one another. we had been together 5 years...her and I had a very deep and soulful connection. One ... (422 words

How do I forget sex and focus on myself?

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We chat online for hours but....what about my ex?

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17 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I dont know what to do?this Guy has just told me that we likes me, i been speaking to his guy for about 1 month or so..and we been chatting for long hours even when he has work in morning he would chat to me until i feel asleep, he is a very sweet guy i dont want to hurt his ... (225 words

How do I take this relationship to the next level?

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17 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hey, Im 21 male and have really liked this girl (Age 20) for over a year now and we have recently started dating :D I have to be honest, im havnt been in a serious relationship before so Im not really sure what to do. This isnt serious yet but I would like some advice/tip... (265 words

My husband has sex with me when I'm asleep....is it rape or "silent sex"?

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17 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - my husband had sex with me when I was drunk and asleep - I woke up as he pulled out and was climbing off me, cleaning himself up with tissues, I have confronted him and he says he thought I was awake - there is no way he thought I was awake as we did not speak at all and we ... (92 words

I am once again pregnant- going to have an abortion- can our relationship survive?

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He is getting "cold-hearted" towards me and I'm getting angrier but obsessed, what do you think?

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17 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi, Just a little long but I am very tormented.... I had a coworker (John)that started helping me out at my farm. He is recently divorced very christian, kind person. For the last year we have done things together -antiqueing, play dates w/our kids, attended the same church... (946 words

How bad of an age gap is this? We met on Hot or Not.

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