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writes:Ok, We have been dating for 2 months. My girlfriend has never made out before and I am her first boyfriend. She has recently told me that she would not mind making out a little. The problem with that is she has never done it before, and I dont claim to be an expert either. we have kissed a lot, but she pulls back to fast for me to go further. How do I start making out. Can I ask her flat out before I start? I am meeting her tomorrow(wed) at a mall. Is that an appropriate place to make out(I mean once we are in my car)? We are also going to be cooking dinner together on sat night at my apartment alone, then watching a movie. Would that be a better time? How do I tell her that I am waiting for an appropriate time to be sure she dosnt get impatient.(She asked me about making out last friday). Any help would be appreciated.thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (27 March 2008):
 when your watching a film is the best place to ask questions like that. Dont be full on as she may be shy but just put your point across in a funny way i'm sure it wil al happen after you talk good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): I think you will both know when your time is right. My first time kind of just... happened. Start out slow, don't just jump on her. Lead her on a little, and if she wants it, she'll keep going as well.
I think you should wait till you get home. Most people like privacy, especially if they are new to the situation.
You sound like you care for her alot and you are sensitive to her feelings, let things happen as they will and I'm sure it'll be alright.
Hope this helped a little!
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