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writes:my best friend has been with her boyfriend for 1 year and they have been through quite a lot of emotional stuff which was very serious. my friend's parents don't really let her have her independence and are not keen on her boyfriend. he doesn't make much of an effort and they keep arguing about that and other small things. what can i do to help her, she doesn't think she could finish with him even if she knew she had to.how can i make her see that he isn't worth it if he won't accept her for who she isplease help i don't want to see her get hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx for all your advice me and my mate are really close and i know she listens to me about a lot of stuff so CD she wont think im interfering
thnx again i would be gratefull for any more advice yo have to give
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 March 2008):
 If she asks for your opinions, then you can let her know.
Otherwise, it would be considered as interference in her private affairs.
Tread properly as it could be a land mine and explode in your face.
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reader, greatest love  +, writes (27 March 2008):
what you are saying is true...he has to except her for who she is and to respect her wishes...he really did care about her than he would do just that...when a person cares about another person than their feelings should be the most important thing to them...your friend needs to ask herself if she is willing to give up who she is and what matters most to her just to please that guy...she would lose who she really is and she would not be happy in the future...because this guy would never except her for her.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (26 March 2008):
 I think if you get too involved in her relationship she will start to blame you for the things that go wrong even though they would be nothing to do with you. The only thing we can do when our friends are in destruction mode is to be there for them and let them know that whatever happens your friendship won't change.
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