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anonymous
writes:PLEASE HELPI've known my current bf since the tuesday before feb 14th and been going out with him for about 4 weeks, but one thing's bugging me, he has a 3 year old with his ex gf,he goes round to see the kid most nights and leaves when the child is asleep,i don't mind as kids should always come first but his ex keeps ringing him or texting asking him to do things and he jumps when she does and it's beginning to get on my nerves especially when the kid's in bed so he won't even see the child, He also can't mention my name often as the girl may pick up my name, she knows me as dad's mate, she used to think he was seeing someone but has since thought it has ended.MY question is should i be worried or is he thinking he could lose the child, from what i heard she could do that sort of thingplz help xxxxxxxxxx
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reader, kassie  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 hey i think you should feel the way he feels sort of bcuz yes your children always and should come first.but if he loves you with the ex and without the ex he loves you but also remember that there is a child involved so he loves them too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): Let him jump.U shouldnot jump,try to help him as he wish.One day would come when he jump for u.....all d best.
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reader, lavhez +, writes (26 March 2008):
 Because u havnt known ur boyfriend that long, there might have been times in the past were his ex has threatened him about losing his daughter. There might also have been times when he wasnt the best of dad's, so he now feels guity.
Before you get worried about ur bf and his ex u need to no how their relationship ended and if its well and truly over for them in a romanic way.
try building on ur own relationship with him so u could get to no his daughter and instead of being known as the "mate" become someone he can trust with his child.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 He comes with a baggage .
He has to co parent a shared kid with his ex.
There is no way he can avoid his ex.
You will need to co exist with his family.
If he treats you good, you will have nothing to worry about the ex.
He can only be half the man for you .
If you want a full man , you will have to seek another one.
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