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My husband has a very controlling nature and the past year has got worse...

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7 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been married over ten years and my relationship is in tatters, my husband has a very controlling nature and the past year has got worse, the physical abuse has stopped but the emotional abuse is just as draining, will he ever change and is it worth me trying anymore?... (51 words

Am I being stupid for getting upset coz we aint even an item?

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hiya! There is this guy i really like, we aint in a relationship but we meet up whenever he has time and shows alot of affection etc. Been doing this for 5 months. well what it is he has gone away to ireland for 4 days with the guys, he will be back sunday and my mind ... (143 words

I wanna help in my mysterious love...

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I was having a bf for 1 year and I really left him from only 5 days and returned to someone i was talking to before knowing my x-bf...... when i was talking to this person he was telling me about his girlfriend i feel jealous but i was smiling and telling him what to do with ... (169 words

I worry so much about having sex, even after 5 years of being in a relationship. Please help?

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7 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we are in a very loving relationship. I really am very happy but there is just one problem; sex. For almost 4 years of our relationship I had constant kidney and urine infections which meant sex was always painful and I wo... (159 words

I feel I should just concentrate on college and nothing else, because now I feel that even close friends can leave you behind.

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well basically, in September this year I started college. All of my friends scattered to different places, however I was the only one on my own. My two best friends went to the same college. And now that they have new friends they are always out with them, even some of my old ... (377 words

I think it's a bit out of reach but should I tell him how I feel anyway??

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7 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - Ok so here’s the deal. I’m gay/bi (still trying to figure that part out but at least I do like guys) So I kind of know this guy lets call him Ken and I meet him a few weeks ago at the pub, he knows my best mate, and we played darts had a few pints chatted a bit and when the ... (644 words

Should I take a chance on the boy I like??

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really like this lad in the year above me, we've known each other for ages and i can talk to him about almost anything. But i'm not sure whether he likes me too in that way, or just as a mate as i keep getting mixed signals from him. I don't know whether to take a chance with ... (81 words

How can I approach him when I am scared of rejection and looking bad in front of my friends??

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really like this boy; he goes to a diffrent school to me but all my freinds know him and that is how i know him. A few months back we started talking on msn, he said he liked me and i was pretty then we just stopped talking (i kept it from my friends becasue i wanted t... (151 words

I love my boyfriend but I like another boy and am scared to leave him, but can't carry on with this relationship.

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been together for nearly..8 months now. I'm 14, hes 15. He's my first. And he's my first love. I recently moved about 30 minutes away from him due to school. So, now i can only see him in the weekends. Well i made a guy friend at school named zack. an... (267 words

I don't treat my boyfriend well...do I need medical help??

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7 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Me and my BF are totally in love with each other for the past 3 years. I'm the only child in my family; most of the time im selfish but my man is not like that (he has a sister) i always get what i want, 3 yrs ago i want him as my boyfriend and now i have him, everythi... (309 words

When I hint I like a guy nothing happens..so I have decided it is time to take action.

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My self esteem has reached an all time high and I feel great! :D Guy's are flirting with me and I am flirting back. I feel very attracted to some of the guys and when I really, really hint that I like them, nothing happens. and I've realized, life is too short to wait for some... (95 words

After a bad break-up I want something serious again...but I just can't seem to decide which guy I like the most. Please help.

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well, i haven't had a boyfriend in a while now, he dumped me and i took it quite badly to be honest..and ever since then i can't seem to keep my eyes on that one special person.. I mean, i like his mate Jamie but i also like a few other guys but not so much i want somethin... (96 words

If I just drink Fanta and Coke till Easter Sunday and eat nothing will I lose weight??

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7 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, what will happen to me if i only drink fanta or coke zero til easter sunday? And eat nothing? I just have one can a day (330 ml) and that it. Will i lose any weight? What side effects would it cause me to have? Is this an awful idea? Thankyouxx... (55 words

I can't bear the thought of spending the rest of my life with him...but he just won't leave.

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7 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - hi, ive been married 22 years and since i turned 40, 2 years ago, ive realised how unhappy i am and all i can remember of my 1st 20 yrs of marriage misery. My 2 kids are now grown up and im far from happy with my husband,, dont think i ever really was but for some reason n... (167 words

My head is a mess...i've fallen for this guy but I know there is another girl but think it's not serious.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy about a month ago and during that time I've grown quite fond of him. He is amazing, and I mean that in every possible way. He is gorgeous, funny, very succesful, kind, everything, he is just amazing. When I think about him I just smile and when he hugs me, I quite ... (371 words

Does joining an adult dating site make me look desperate??

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7 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm considering joining one of those websites where you find people who are looking for intimate/sexual relationships... But I'm a bit concerned about how that may look and how people look at me. I know it shouldn't matter, but I worry it would make me appear very desperate to ... (105 words

After the gym...everything is hurting and I am worried I have damaged something.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

7 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I was in the gym yesterday and everything was okay...some weights, some treadmill etc etc- the norm. Today however my shoulder muscles are hurting terribly and i am worried i might have done damage or something. please help. thanks.... (39 words

How can I handle my girlfriend not showing me she loves me??

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7 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have been with my g/f for about 2 months but we really have been together for 7 just not officially. She does not show me any affection. I almost feel like she doesn't like me or anything. She tells me all the time that she does, but i have to bring it up in the first pl... (177 words

He was my first love...but I just founf out he cheated on me with my best mate and I can't stop crying.

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my ex were in a relationship for almost a year, we broke up in november but carried on he flirting and doing stuff until very recent, he suddenly decided he doesnt like me like that anymore, we where so in love it was magic! first love:) but i just found out that him and ... (93 words

My bf is a serial flirter...how do I make him stop this or prevent him crossing the line??

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7 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend is a serial flirter when it comes to other women.I have lived with him for the past 16 months and although he knows how it makes me feel he still continues to do it even going as far as getting a co workers number at work which I called when I found it in his ... (172 words

Is it bad for me to be talking to my ex-boyfriend when I already have a boyfriend??

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Is it bad for me to be talking to my ex-boyfriend when i already have a boyfriend????????????... (17 words

I'm head over heels...but he has a girlfriend or does he??

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7 March 2008 (? age - hi there, I've been married for 19yrs now and we have a daughter. I thought our marriage would go on forever but my husband has become very bitter he makes me cry all the time. Last year i ordererd some food things from an internet site and i became friendly with the owner. ... (146 words

A few questions about how I can deal with liking my best mate.

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7 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I met this girl and i like her; we are good mates and we have only met 2 times but always talk to her on msn. How do i know if she likes me?? What should i talk to hir about?? I'm 15 in march and she is 14 in december do you think im the wrong age for her?? If i was to go ou... (83 words

I keep breaking up with my boyfriend, getting back together, breaking up. It is a merry go round!

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i keep getting back with my ex and after a few days i either get bored,or find something in his behaviour that annoys me,and i tell him to break up..and later,i regret it and do the same!how can i stop this???... (41 words

Ex boyfriend troubles

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7 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi!! i am going out with thhis girl z for about 1 month and we both like each other but when ether we are are youth club and we go of to be alone and have a walk and talk hug and snog. this lad who z has been out with before folows us and it is anoying. i have tried to talk to ... (99 words

I snooped and found out he cheated. How do I confront him on this?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

7 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am at a loss! I am in agony right now! I did something very bad and I know it. But he did something worse. My boyfriend accidentally left his email up on the computer and I know I should have just logged it out and ignored it. But I didnt. I snooped. I looked at his old ... (478 words

Is it normal for middle aged guys to masterbate?

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - O.k i don't know whether its me just being naive but i need to know whether this is normal? I have caught my dad a couple of times masturbating in his bedroom...believe me that was traumatising enough but what i want to know is, is it normal for a dad to do that? Its normally ... (99 words

I worry about breaking up with my boyfriend

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello ! Me and my boyfriend are really happy together .. but i worry losing him as i have done before.. we get along realy well just laods of rumors go around but we still stay strong. i cant bare losing him . if we split what is the best i can do even thou me and him are r... (72 words

I like him alot, but I am confused if he likes me, too.

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - there's this guy i talk to a lot and we chat in school as well as online. when i talk to him he speaks so differently to me. he teases me a lot.when his mates or other people in the class make comments like 'get in there' and i ask him what did they say he goes all red and says ... (156 words

He wants time to himself and I understand. But is it really something more?

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7 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - My good friend and I started dating shortly after he ended with his ex-gf whom he was with for a while (6 years; living together). He has been in love with me for about 7 years he says, i know this to be true because 3 years ago he confessed his feelings to me and I had to ... (603 words

Should I ask her on a date? Where should I take her if I do?

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7 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - i met this girl and i like hir we are good mates and we have only met 2 times but always talk to hir on msn whatshould i talk to hir about ?? how do i know if she likes me??im 15 in march and she is 14 in december do you think im the wrong age for hir?? if i was to go out on a ... (79 words

She hates the ejaculating inside of her, but only after 4 years she tells me this!! I feel hurt and disoriented.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

7 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - I have been seeing a woman for over four years and have had what I thought was a great relationship. We have recently been talking about marriage. However, last week after sex she told me that she absolutely hates the fact that I ejaculate inside her and she feels that I should ... (435 words

Is it possible to contract HIV by getting a tattoo?

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7 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - my boy friend wants to get a tattoo. is it possible for him to get infected with HIV? ... (18 words

My son saw me kiss another man while I was separated from my husband (due to his abuses.) I'm worried my temperamental husband will find out!

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7 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband was acting like he was ragging yesterday because his boss laid into his ass about something. So we were arguing about little stupid crap all night because of his attitude. Well, whenever he starts to lose the argument he always tries to bring up old dirt to make ... (491 words

I feel like he’s disrespected me and I don’t know how to deal with it. Any thoughts?

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7 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I dated a guy for 2 months before he left to work at a ski resort in Colorado for the winter (he made these plans months before we met, because 1) he’s in debt and the US pays more and 2) his ex broke his heart so he wanted to leave). Three weeks into our relationship, I found ... (494 words

Why do I feel so bad? I gave him a blowjob!!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am feeling a bit down coz I did something I don't think I should have but I don't regret it! I went out with my boyfriend (16 + I am 16 too) a day ago and we decided to drink.. I am a lightweight, I don't even have to drink much to get pissed!! Anyway I got pissed and ended ... (158 words

How can we make losing our virginities REALLY special?

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7 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - hey, I've being with my boyfriend now for 11 months, it's our year aniversery in 3 weeks and we are planning on losing our virginities to each other on the date we got together. He is 16 and I am 15, 16 in april, and i think looosing our virginities to each other is a great ... (179 words

Quiz - who want's sex more often?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

7 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - This is more like a quiz for you guys ... I spoke to my BF and we kinda disagree on: "WHO WANT'S SEX MORE OFTEN IN A RELATIONSHIP .. GIRLS OR GUYS?" So guys and girls ... hit me w some fun answers :) Lierin ... (64 words

It's my first relationship, how do I know if he's the one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5877 days ago

7 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. We are 22 and it is my first relationship. For the last two months I have been continuously questioning whether or not he is "the one for me." It often leads me to believe that he is not. Then I decide we should break up, and I ... (213 words

Who's spreading these vicious rumors?

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7 March 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm confused! i met this girl and we have a lot of things in common. but ever since i started hanging out with her, vicious rumours have started going around about me! and my friends say she spreads them. who should i believe? ... (45 words

Is he gay? What's my next step?

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7 March 2008 (F age - i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and in the first 6 months it was great, but he wanted to have sex all the time, we have been living together for about 1 year now and i can barely get him to touch me except for cuddling which he loves to do, i will tell him my ... (214 words

He says their just friends and I need to trust him, but can I?

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7 March 2008 (F age - split with my ex of 15 years 18 months ago.last summer he wanted to be back with me,i said i needed a couple of weeks to think about it,by that time he turns round and says to late he had found someone else. things didnt workout with this women and she only wanted to be frien... (159 words

Am I right to feel betrayed?

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7 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Last year I met a 40 year old man, separated but now divorced. He was in a bad way and I saw him in tears at least twice on our evenings out. I thought it was because he was losing his wife and children and I was there for him whenever I could be. We were becoming very good ... (474 words

He kissed another girl at a club! How can I ever trust him again?

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend cheated on me last week in a club by kissing another girl as my friends saw and told me. He, however, claims he was 'too drunk to remember' and therefore he says it means nothing. I love him and don't want to loose him, this was completely out of character and he ... (138 words

We agreed to have space but now he is so distant. What should I do?

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7 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I was with my BF for 2 and half years. I met him when I was 19, he was my very first true love and his. For the past 6 + months we were drifting apart, hardly ever making love even kissing or cuddling like we used to. For the past 2 months we argued a lot and used to bicker ... (378 words

I'm afraid to trust him or trust anyone.

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7 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've read your answers they were useful for me thank you so much people but I'm still confused. I just feel like a small girl who needs some one to hold her hands in order to know her way. I've asked him what made you remeber me now after a year and half he answered me in an ... (339 words

When would be a good time to ask her out for a drink?

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7 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me two weeks ago, after trying to rekindle our relationship for a month. It felt very pressured the whole time and she eventually broke it off. So, its been two weeks, she's contacted me once to "see how I am" but said she still felt she'd made the right ... (132 words

I lost my virginity on Sunday... could I be pregnant?

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7 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - After having sex for the first time, I've noticed I'm very damp below and also since yesterday having diarrhoea my mate said I could possibly be pregnant? I'm not sure but we did not use protection and he didn't cum inside me he pulled out before, I lost my virginity on Sunda... (57 words

Will my brace affect foreplay?

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi i recently got a wire brace in the roof of my mouth i dunno what it is called but it just loops round the rook and isn't that big. My question is... Can I still give my boyfriend a blow job? ... (50 words

My gf wants to move to another town so as not to embarass her family with the premarital pregnancy, but this would ruin our relationship because I cannot follow her! What to do??

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7 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - We were due to be married in April but girlfriend has since found out she is pregnant (12 weeks). She is afraid to tell her father and feels she will embarrass her family. She is having very negative thoughts about whether our marriage would last - she fears we'll not get on ... (262 words

I gave him my virginity to later realise he was not planning to committ to anyone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

7 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Last year during the month of October I met somebody and evrything began to move fast between the two of us and at some points I wasn't really sure that that was a considerably good pace for us. Either way I went with the flow of thingfs and it was harmless until we found ... (241 words

Worried about size, will I be able to engage in sexual activities?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

7 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - am 25 years old, i am very worried about my penis size, when erected my penis size is 13 cm, can i lose virginity of my girlfriend whith this size, what size of penis must be to lose virginity of female. thank you.... ... (44 words

He's having an affair with another woman, and we are all sharing the same house. Does he love me?

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7 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - hello dear cupid, i just want to know whether my partner loves me or not because he's divorced and 20 years older than me, i'm just 22 he's also having an affair with another woman, keeping both of us in the same house, i just want to know whether he loves me or not cause i ... (84 words

We are rather friends than romantic partners, and I feel I'm wasting my time!

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7 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship for 5 years now. I can't remember when we last had sex but I remember it wasn't any good. Sadly, I can't remember when it was since the beginning of the relationship. We have lived in a fairly new city for 2 years and he has had 8 jobs. I can't say ... (152 words

He wants to take friends on vacation with us!

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7 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Lately the man I'm dating this year has asked me to go on vacation with him for some days. We haven't made definite plans but we discuss this. Sometimes he mentions that it will be fun if we go for a trip and have some of our friends with us. I agree with him but I would prefer ... (106 words

He hardly makes time to see me... Am I over-reacting here?

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7 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - SO me and my boyfriend both have very conflicting schedules. On weekdays, either I have school, or he does, or I have work, or he does. And on the weekends, he works on Saturdays and usually plays hockey and bowling on Saurday and Sunday nights. We live around an hour apart ... (213 words

Should I continue this pleasure-only relationship even though I don't have the same feelings for him?

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7 March 2008 (F - Everyone has this infatuation phase once they find someone they are really interested in. A couple weeks ago, a friend of mine told me that someone likes me. I knew who he was, and I just thought it cute, because at that time, I did not like anyone. He did not fit my preferen... (531 words

Exactly what kind of relationship DO we have???

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7 March 2008 (F - I need help understanding my relationship I'm having with this guy. I'm 22 he's 32. We've been seeing each another since September but known each another for 3 years. We kiss and make out and are now talking about having sex and we both have agreed that we will. He's not ... (217 words

I'm scared I'll lose him but if we're meant to be we'll be... right?

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7 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've been out of love and dating for about 6 years. I'm still very young but am very selective about who I allow into my life. I think I've found someone potentially amazing only he has a child and I'm not sure if he and his girlfriend have broken up. I do know though tha... (271 words

We both have braces... could we get "stuck"?

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am about to get braces and this guy that I'm with has braces also but if we both have braces will we get stuck? or caught?... (27 words

Completely lost: What should I be doing to help my wife deal with the knowledge of my cheating

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7 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am a married man with one child at home and my wife is currently 4 months along with our second. 2 Years ago I put myself in a situation and made poor choices that ended with me being unfaithful to her. One night with instant regret. I took the burden of my sin on my own ... (203 words

Forbidden Love...

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7 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm deeply in love with my girlfriend and she's as old as I am though we are only 16. Her family is isolating her from me since the day they found out... :[ and not only that we both are just bleeding out tears. They are going to immigrate and may not come back this time to ... (150 words

Annoyed and I need HELP!

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months about to go on 5. Well, I never really got annoyed about this before but all the sudden lately I've been just wanting to yell at him to STOP!. He always says "you silly girl"... or just "silly girl". I don't know if I'm ... (68 words

Is she just looking for attention?

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7 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - Ok this might be a big post but please bear with me. Me and this girl "ashley" have started hanging out since i broke up with my girlfriend. Ashley has liked me for years and after years of waiting i was available and she was soo excited that i am single, but im not sure if s... (236 words

He wants to bring another man into bed to please me (strictly for me), but I'm not so sure...

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7 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend thoroughly enjoys pleasing me beyond my wildest expectations and has a fantasy of bringing another man in to have sex with me while he is having sex with me. He says it is strictly for my pleasure and he gets off on that and simiulated the act recently while I was ... (127 words

My girl is my world...but she wants a break...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5882 days ago

7 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been having problems for about a month or longer. We have been fighting and carrying on but recently she told me she wanted a break. This absoloutely crushed me to pieces. The only way that I was able to cope with this pain was to drink until I ... (243 words

Why am I thinking of an old flame 13 years later?

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7 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - I am 40 and happily married for 4 years now. Back in college I dated a girl for a year than another year after. We were in love(so I thought)started talking about marriage. Of course one day she told me she didn't want to see me anynmore. I was devistated. It turned out there ... (154 words

We were doing great...then her ex called and wanted her back! Help!

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7 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I've been dating this girl the past four months and things were going great. Everytime we were together we had and amzing time and laughed a lot. We talked about the future and had met each others families. Both of our families like the two of us together and thought we were ... (388 words

How can I get over my first break up?

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I was with him for a year and a half. I was just 17 when we started dating, he was 21 at the time. He quickly became my first love, and according to him, I became his (I wasn't his first girlfriend, but this was his longest relationship). We shared a lot in common, even had... (642 words

A girl wants to meet with him and I'm really upset!

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7 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i have been in a relationship now for 3years and i jus took my bf's mobile from his house and it turns out that there is a girl wantin to meet upwith him tht he and i both know i want to smack her, i am seriously upset and i jus dnt no wot to think and do about my relationship ... (65 words

What are some good sex positions?

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7 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - wat are good sex positions?... (5 words

We plan to move away soon, but we have a few problems.

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