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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After 2 years do I decide 2 split?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with myboyfriend now for 2 years but recently we have been arguing a lot is it worth carrying on with? ... (23 words)

I still have feelings for Alex but I love Paul. I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm soo confused!! I just started dating this guy named Paul. But before that I had a "friends with bens" relationship with my friend Alex. Problem: I didn't date Alex because his mom is racist and wouldn't let him date. So I kinda gave up o that and told him that we s... (171 words)

I want him to chase me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - "Men want to chase not be chased" So how do I get the acquaintance from class to chase me? What do you do in order to increase a guys interest? He is sweet, quiet, and thoughtful man in one of my classes and I feel strongly attracted to him but I dont want to scare him off. ... (77 words)

Should I meet the ex or should I stay away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 29 years old, I moved up north to get away from an ex that I was madly in love with that had a new girl pregnant while we were on a break but we were still in love, he wanted to do the right thing by his children which I respect him for. We ended up staying in touch for ... (272 words)

My brother went off to uni, and now he's back and he's said that I have gotten fat...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - heyx My brother went off to uni, and now he's back and he's said that I have gotten fat. When he says this to me, what comeback can I give him? I don't want him to see that it hurts my feelings, so what can I do to make this less obvious. How can I make it clear that his w... (75 words)

For the last few days I really haven't felt myself at all - I feel dead inside. I feel nothing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy I was seeing for 2 years on and off casually, finally ended last week. I knew it was coming coz for two weeks he had been distant and hadn't seen me but ever since he told me last week, I have gone through many emotions - upset, angry, sad. For the last few days I ... (131 words)

It's slowly becoming apparent that the more into someone you are, the less likely they are to be into you. Can someone please explain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It's slowly becoming apparent that the more into someone you are, the less likely they are to be into you. Can someone please explain?... (24 words)

I'm hoping there's something I can do to help clean myself up a bit and get the foreskin retracting properly again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I've got quite a problem... I tend to be a bit of a health and hygiene freak in general and that's the irony of this situation. Basically when I was younger I'd bathe all the time and everything was cool, but about 5 or 6 years ago we got a cool new shower installed... (253 words)

Sex with my teacher.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this extreme urge to just make out with my teacher and have sex with him. I feel like he likes me too. I don't know. I'm confused. =\ btw: I'm 15. He is 37.... (40 words)

I feel so lonely after my wife has admitted her affair and need somebody to talk to...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, Unfortunately, I never expected (or hoped) to have to ever write something like this.. However, I have found out today that after months of fearing the worst, my wife told me that she has been having an affair and I believe the only reason she has now chosen to co... (246 words)

I am a teenager having really bad luck with getting a girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a teenager having really bad luck with getting a girlfriend. All the girls I have asked out have all said the same thing "your good as a friend... but nothing more" I'm wondering what i can do to get girls to even like me in that kind of way.I'm not saying i want girls to ... (94 words)

What questions can I ask her to get to know her better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey I need some advice I met this girl and i really like her a lot! I think this girl likes me, we were talking about a month ago she stopped replying to my qustions on bebo site, I have not spoken to her on msn as well not to sure why?? I'm very confused?? I... (106 words)

It burns when we have sex. We don't use condoms. Could that be the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - when my parnter and i have sex at first its fine but after a while it starts to burn her inside and we have to stop. we dont use comdoms as she has a coile could that be the problem ... (43 words)

I'm sure she has probably out on the pull as she seems to be out in clubs several nights a week like she used to be before we got together. What do I do please??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Still love my ex and she confuses me. Try to get all the details in but be brief here. Girl i worked with years ago who was also one of my friends exes and another friends sister, Started showing interest in me and i had always liked her so went out on a date and got together, ... (600 words)

I'm So confused, I want to know the truth, is he STRAIGHT or BI

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hello sorry this is pure long but I could describe what happened in a short version,but anyway i'm a 16 year old gay guy, I had some friends staying at mines just last friday, so basically what happened was, me and this guy were really drinking quite heavily and through the ... (427 words)

Do I just walk out of this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex dumped me 10 years ago, and shortly thereafter I started dating a co-worker. I was torn because I thought my ex would accept me no matter what and loved me. Because of him, I felt able to truly be myself for the first time in my life. After he dumped me, I thought all ... (356 words)

She has lost confidence in our relationship, is numb and wants to split "for now".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

- My g/f of 18 months now says she has lost confidence in or relationship and says she is numb and doesn't know what she wants and feels. We have gone through a bad patch arguing. We are mid 30's I backed off a bit and didn't hassle for a month but nothing is changing. Now sh... (131 words)

It has been now 34 days and still no period.. I am so worried I am pregnant Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP!!!! I took the morning after pill within 72 hours, a week later I got a really really light period that lasted a day and came earlier, it has been now 34 days and still no period.. I am so worried I am pregnant Help?... (45 words)

What did she mean by what she said???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this woman over a month ago and we have been out twice. The past 2-3 weeks she has been busy with work to apply for a uni course so I haven't seen her (we have stayed in touch via texts, and spoke 2 times). I really like her and I'm sure she likes me (but how much I don't ... (132 words)

What I'm really looking for is another person's point of view, a bit of a guiding light.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok... I am 17 and have been in a relationship with a girl for about 15 months now and I'm not sure that we suit each other any more. I am more involved in things such as classical music, art work and current events these days and she is still interested in rock music and ... (235 words)

I was molested by my stepdad, now with kids of my own how do I tell my mom I don't want them in their house!?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Since I was about 6 years old till I was about 16 years old my step father molested and raped me, it was an every day thing. It finally got to the point were I wouldn't even fight him anymore, I would just let it happen. I finaly got the courage to tell my mom when I was about ... (514 words)

My girlfriend broke up with me after 4 years because she needs to make sure we were meant to be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend broke up with me about a month and a half ago and for the first three weeks we didn't talk or get together because she said she wanted space to see if we were meant to be and find out what she wanted. After the three weeks she started to call me when she was drunk ... (696 words)

A teenage girl touched me was it molestation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I'm pretty new to this but something is really bugging me. There's this girl in my class she's a co op student. She looks at this girl in my. I got really moodie one day than I walked out of the class room. I call her by her nickname witch is Vici. So she came to she what ... (175 words)

I can't bear to think of him looking at porn when I am a willing bed partner, it makes me feel so angry and rejected and worthless any ideas what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I can relate to everything some of you say I met my partner 8 years ago at first although not frequent, sex was really good then four years ago he announced that he no longer wanted sex with me or any other woman I was a bit shocked but took on board what he said and like ... (370 words)

I'm pregnant and he's not there for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this boy, his name is Chris and we've been going out a lot of times since we met but we kept on breaking up over and over again. Then on 3/13/08 we start going out and we were having sex and now I'm pregnant and he's not there. What should I do? ... (56 words)

I just want to feel part of a strong friendship group again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really lost, my boyfriend and I split up about a month ago after an 11 month relationship, as he cheated on me with his ex. I am distraught, but to make things worse I used to go see him every weekend, and my social life became evolved round him and his friends. I now have ... (149 words)

We're "off" again! What do I do here for the best???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I are on again off again. When wer'e off he is always going back to his ex. He says he wants only me yet there are little signs that say otherwise.... (35 words)

What is bugging my sister so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a sister and I've recently found out that she's been saying all sorts to her friends, like I am fat, I have not eaten in days, when I know damn well she has! She said she's not fat to me! and always acts depressed around her friends. She takes everything so ... (85 words)

It just seems like I have no chance with him but I don't know how to get over him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This may not seem a huge problem but it is to me.. I've never really ever fancied anyone (apart from celebrities) but now there's this boy in my school, he's 16 so two years older than me who I talk to him and I have real feelings for him. He has a gilfriend and one of ... (140 words)

"Mum" problems...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am beginning to hate my mum and stepdad, but only about one thing. We moved from my home town last year and I've hated life since then. Now we've moved my emotions are everywhere and I think I need counceling. The real problem is that I would like to go see my ... (190 words)

I keep flitting between anger and upset and I genuinely do not know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi After being suspicious of my boyfriend's relationship with an ex over the past few weeks due to strange messages on his myspace and him becoming withdrawn and weird, I recently discovered that he had been texting her inappropriate messages, and had nearly ending up having s... (403 words)

It really turns my boyfriend on to think of me having sex with other men - he even wants me to tape it!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5810 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I really need some advice I've been dating this guy for 2 years. I fell in love with him everything amazing he was my first the sex amazing the bond pretty much everything I ever wanted but all of a sudden we started opening up and it really turns him on 2 think of me ... (106 words)

The thought of being without her is more than I can handle.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in love with this one girl forever. We are good friends. I have told her how I felt about her when she had a boyfriend. She is now single and we still hang out but I am worried that we may never work out. The thought of this makes me sick to my stomach ... (109 words)

Husband is drinking more and ignoring us....what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married almost 3 years and been with my husband for a total of 7 1/2 years. we have two beautiful little girls and we have had our little fights but nothing major. Here in the past two months he has changed. he has started drinking more and snaps at me rather ... (310 words)

He is still "in love" with me so why does he have a new girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I of almost 2 years had a seemingly great relationship. A few problems that would occur would mainly be because of me. I always pushed him away whenever he got too close. I was at times selfish. He's the most amazing boyfriend ever, but he was also too nice ... (189 words)

I masturbate and imagine I'm making out with someone, Help!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5695 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm around the age of 12-14. I don't have a computer of my own but I have looked at porn on my gma's computer. I am always scared that she will find out and that other people will find out. Also when I am home alone I masturbate and act like I am making out with someone. ... (66 words)

Should I get in touch???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, My ex broke up with me 2 months ago and im still very much in love with him... Im one of these girls that 'love to much' so i find it hard to move on, but im trying very hard. He's moved on and is seeing other people. I work with him and his dad, but he is on hol... (160 words)

What is "constructive critism"? My boyfriend doesn't believe in it...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there such a thing as constructive critism. My boyfriend says there isn't and that it a saying made up by business people. He says in reality its an oxymoron. Weve argued about it but he's adamant theres no such thing. Can you help?... (44 words)

Hurt, worried, confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and my boyfriend is 20. We have been together for a month and a half. Every time we try to get together something happens in his family. Like one time we were going to celebrate winning our basketball games by getting shrimp because it's our favorite but his little girl ... (212 words)

I've left 10 texts to my boyfriend with no response, does he still care?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for two months. now, we are on spring break and he hasn't text me back. i have left at least ten plus messages. do you think that hes doesn't care about me anymore or that our relationship is over? ... (46 words)

Sexuality dilemma...I'm falling for my best friend who denies being gay...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, i have never really used one of these things but it doesn't seem like a bad idea. i am a gay lad and i'm quite open about it but my problem is that i think i'm falling for my best friend, but his sexuality is some what questionable. he denies being gay and i also deny it ... (187 words)

Can anyone give me some idea of what might be going through his head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with a pal about a year and half ago. We went out for about 4 months. But before we were really close friends. Even now, since the breakup, he tries to avoid me, (example, ill walk into a room and he'll then leave). can anyone give me some idea of what might be going ... (71 words)

He says he loves me but the only thing we do together is go to the movies with his friends...Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my bf have been dating for 6 months and 8 days. i really do love he says he loves me too but im not sure if he really does because he always says he wants to hang out with me but then he always blows me off to go do something else. then he wont call and tell me what ... (146 words)

How can a man be in a relationship with one woman and have another one on the side?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - why do men act as if they are god? how can a man be in a relationship with one woman then have a nother on side as cutt buddie explain? ... (34 words)

I like this boy... but I don't want anyone to get hurt! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this boy. The only trouble is, he has a girlfriend. Plus, his girlfriends is one of my good friends. She was talking to me just only last week, saying she has stronger feelings for someone else and might break up with him soon. I felt kind of relived, he had told me ... (143 words)

Are you born with STD's? My boyfriend and I just started having unprotected sex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

19 March 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Are you born with STDs, or do you have to catch them to have one? It's just, me and my boyfriend are each other's firsts, and we've only been with each other. So I'm just checking, you can't be born with them can you? By the way, we don't have unprotected sex often, but have ... (60 words)

Is "Dry Sex" okay? I don't want to get pregnant!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 12 years Old and me and my bf have been dating for 2 years and we want sex i dont want to get pregnant so if we did have sex we would have dry sex would that be ok ??... (41 words)

My long distance boyfriend wants me to go naked in front of my webcam..I feel awkward and like I'm doing something wrong!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am from a conservative family. yet i have opened up to my bf and have had sex with him many times. it is a long distance relationship. now i got a webcam and he wants me to go naked in front of it. although i trust him i feel awkward and i told him so. am i wrong? what is ... (70 words)

He has genital warts! Should I be suspicious? He said it was from the girl before me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Im absolutely devasted im 30 years of age and had been your typical "Briget Jones" for three years, then a year and a half ago I met my perfect boyfriend a true gentleman not like the usual bad boys I would date.A very shy gentle man. I really really loved him but after 3 ... (442 words)

I found something on his computer to another girl! I am really hurting...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F) - i really dont know what to do....me n my bf of nearly a year have split up because i found something on his computer that he had said to another girl but i have betrayed his stuff as it was the 3rd time i went through his private things after him tellin me not to do but the ... (254 words)

Can an affair make your marriage stronger?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I often read amongst the answers that an affair can make a marriage stronger. Is this true or just the hurt parties way of saving face. i.e its been so painful i must make out its been worth it. Question can an affair strengthen your marriage?... (49 words)

Vampirism!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I are into a little bit of the old vampirism. Biting and that's about it. Last night however, we did something for the first time and I'm unsure of how to feel about it. He offered me his arm and told me to bite and draw blood. This I've only done once, that was... (221 words)

How do I make things right again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, sorry have a long question for you! Ok so I was seeing this guy for a while and we were totally in love and everything was great! But I have friends, one in particular that interfere in everyones relationship, not just mine. Well anyway I started hearing that he was unha... (401 words)

I wanted to know how other infected people deal with this, and how do they manage to get on with their lives with no sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi aunts and uncles: I found out in January that my now-ex gave me HPV-genital warts. I couldn't bring myself to forgive him (he had insisted I trust him, that he didn't have anything and that if I didn't trust him then we were over. So I trusted him) so that, plus other is... (259 words)

Is it possible for us to give each other a STD while having unprotected sex even though we both have gotten tested and they came back clean??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend just got tested for HIV and any STD's and we both came out clean. We got tested because she is very very paranoid about getting a STD. My question is: is it possible for us to give each other a STD while having unprotected sex even though we both have got... (87 words)

I have recently found out that my boyfriend has been texting my friend's sister and met up with her once during the day for lunch.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently found out that my boyfriend has been texting my friend's sister and met up with her once during the day for lunch. When I confronted him he said it is harmless and he thinks she is good fun and was only trying to make a friend from her and never wanted anything ... (173 words)

Is my boyfriend going off me? He very rarely kisses or hugs me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend very rarely kisses or hugs me. Well I only get them if I go up to him and give him them. We hardly ever have sex when we first met, we used to have a great sex life now we hardly have any sex. It seems to me that he just isn't botherd any more. Please help. My ... (102 words)

I think my daughters' masturbating is going to far.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4823 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a older guy. My wife died at a really young age. I have 2 daughters. One is 12 and the other is 14 One year ago I caught them masturbating in the bathroom. I told them it was ok and that they have the right to do that to themselves but don't let other people touch you... (125 words)

Miscarried and left alone...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We had an amazing relationship. I got pregnant and had a miscarriage about 4 weeks ago. My boyfriend has been so busy with work that he has barely noticed. He has stopped calling me as often (sometimes for days at a ... (140 words)

How can I get over my worries about blow jobs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really kinda need help with this now. When I was kinda young, I had a few problems with a relative, which involved him doing a few.... not so nice things to me at the time. In the start of my teens, I privately went and saw a counsellor, but she didn't really help. I ha... (169 words)

She keeps snapping at me all the time... Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (M) - Recently got engaged but we argue a lot, she snaps at me. It makes me unhappy and I can't even tell her that I am unhappy. I don't know what to do!... (33 words)

How are you supposed to keep a strong connection when you only see someone twice a week and no calls in between?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my guy have been seeing each other for 6 weeks now and we are great together but I have one complaint! He doesnt call me much at all I have noticed the last couple of weeks. He will call when I am supposed to come over and maybe a couple times I will hear from him in ... (340 words)

I keep on faking orgasms but I love my new partner, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I love my new partner. But I don't always have an orgasm with him so I fake it so as to please him. I've been doing for a while and find it tired faking it. What can I do? Please advise.... (44 words)

My ex has just dumped me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello I'm really worried and upset, my ex boyfriend dumped me and their was rumours going around that he kissed another girl that has a boyfriend herself, I don't know if this is true, I still love him, and I've tried so many times he said he's moving away today :( my life is ... (62 words)

How to get back to what we had and is it worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have broken up - it seems like he can't give the commitment I want, but I want to be with him still. I am wanting us to live together but he isn't ready and doesn't know if he'll ever be. I love him so much I am finding it hard to stop seeing him but at the ... (142 words)

No lectures please, I'm staying with him no matter what, I just need to know what to do with my bf who's smoking weed...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Okay so here's the stich My boyfriend has lately started on weed again and it has changed him big time, its got to a point were he doesnt care what i say or what i do anymore... Hes yelling at me like everyday now, i told him that he has cha... (289 words)

How can I show that I am there for her, and that I truly care, without being overwhelming?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 20 yr old guy, and my girlfriend is 17. I have been dating my girlfriend for 7 months, and things seem to be stuck in a rut. This girl is my first real girlfriend, and we were getting on so well up until about a month ago. Ever since then, she has been really hard to ... (316 words)

Sometimes I feel like I am making love with my dad, as he's 18 years older than me. Am I abnormal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've just divorced my husband of 20 years. He is selfish and unkind. Then Im lucky to meet this man 18 years older than me. He helps me to get my life on track. He makes me feel loved and wanted which I've never felt before. However I feel sick sometimes when I make love to ... (79 words)

My gf doesn't think its going to workout because we aren't seeing each other. I need some advice please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi i am recently going out with a girl who is actually older than me, we have been going out for about 2-3 months now and just today she said she wasnt sure whether it was going to work because we arent seeing each other a lot and thats because of work interfering and i really ... (81 words)

I'm a bit disturbed about some clips I've seen in my boyfriend's computer...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a bit disturbed about some clips I've seen in my boyfriend's computer. The setting is in the shower after a seven a side tag rugby match between men and adolescent boys and women, they're all taking a shower together but wearing underpants and knickers. The women have ... (104 words)

Anything wrong with fancying your ex's best friend?

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19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'd like to know if there is anything wrong with liking your ex's best friend. Of course, nothing will ever happen between us considering i dated his best friend, and I'm sure he'd find it awkward. But was I really that wrong in believing something could happen? Since ... (75 words)

I consider myself average in all aspects, is it a hindrance?

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19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, i would like to know readers' honest opinions as to why i just can't get a boyfriend. People i know tell me I'm attractive, and i do get hit on by random guys, but i would like to know why i can't find someone who is genuinely interested.I personally consider ... (77 words)

My ex intended to keep me for sex as he wanted his own family and couldn't deal with the time I dedicate to my kids, what should I have done?

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19 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 2 and a half years broke up with me 3 weeks ago and moved to Europe. He called me after three days and within 6 days he came back. I am divorced with kids and he says that although I am the greatest love of my life, he just cannot deal with the amount of time ... (341 words)

My partner who is 10 years older treats me like a child! It ruins my day!

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19 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have lived together for a year. Everything is usually fine because my bf is very caring and we love each other. But, one thing really bothers me and it often makes me upset. He is 10 years older than me and it is true that he is much more responsible and ... (251 words)

My wife and mother of my two children has been unfaithful, but has changed for me. How do I learn to ignore the past?

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19 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - please tell me what to do? i am married having 2 kids after marriage i have come to know that she was phisically involved with someone but now she has changed herself a lot for me but its hard to ignore her past. please advice me how to ignore her past??? ... (51 words)

Why does he get so frustrated and yell at me if he says he loves me?

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19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have been togther for 6 months now. he says he loves me and i don't do anything wrong, but he gets easily frustrated and is a bit controling. if i want to have a beer he gets irritated saying i'm not with him so why do i need a drink. he says i do nothing ... (78 words)

Is it true one can fall pregnant from a man's pre-ejaculatory fluid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I had sex 14 days after my period we started out unprotected but then he put a condom on meaning he did not ejaculate inside of me but I've been having some cramping,lower back pains and i've noticed a change in my appetite.. I read that you could get pregnant ... (60 words)

Worried about sizes... and the future.

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19 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - okay, im overweight, and i have a 4 and half or 5 inch penis(its hard to measure...), i'm 17 and i get made fun of by these other kids i know for being a virgin, but i have to know am i too small? will there really be someone out there who excepts me? its eating me up ins... (92 words)

I will travel in order to help in an orphanage, any tips to be more prepared?

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19 March 2008 (F)

- I'm going away on a trip to Africa next week to help in an orphanage, with 98% of the children there HIV/AIDS carriers, there. I was just wondering if anyone has any tips in helping me pack, prepare, and how to deal with what i'm going to see there. Thanks, x... (54 words)

I'm homeschooled - and worried about not meeting new people, one of which should be my BF!

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19 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i want a bf but i'm homeschooled so i don't have any guy friends i want true love,i want somebody who will like me for me,i'm 12 and i'm not getting any younger so please help?!thank you... (37 words)

Should I bury the idea of cheating and remain admirable in the eyes of my children? My wife does not satisfy me sexually...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 12 years, and have a very long history of cheating on my wife. She believes I stopped cheating on her in 2003, when I told her I would never do anything with that particular girl again, however, I have started talking to this girl again, within the past ... (397 words)

When to have sex with a new partner? Do you wait until marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I know it depends on a lot of factors, but can someone give some sort of a general timeline on the appropriate time to wait before having sex with a new partner? I was in a long term relationship for several years all of which I thought we would eventually wait to get ... (184 words)

Wife is begging me for "Rough Sex" and wants me to call her a "Whore", how do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I read the gentlemen's question who said his wife wanted rough sex, and begged for it even... but he was guilty. Well, my wife is begging me for "rough sex" more and more. She also said to me that she would like for me to call her a "Whore and a Slut". However, my problem is ... (170 words)

How do I tell him how "insensitive" he is?

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19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Sometimes my boyfriend can be, in my opinion, very insensitive about my feelings. When i try to organize something fun and he sees a negative side about the idea he will voice his opinion without giving thought that i may have put alot of effort into the plans and that he might ... (91 words)

My ex has always cheated and now I like his best friend! Should I go for it?

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19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - well okay so i was with this guy we were together 4 years and we have a lil girl together but the whole time we were together he cheated on me this last time it was with my sister yes my sister but thats a whole nother subject ok so i have this problem lol i have had a crush on ... (406 words)

She thinks my parents are evil! Do I deserve someone better?

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19 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I recently broke off our engagement because my parents and her could not get along. Both my parents and my now ex-girlfriend are strong headed and would not try to find a common ground. She felt my parents were evil and every time things were going good for ... (199 words)

The silent type...

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19 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a very quiet person. I love knowledge and music but I have a terrible time meeting others and leading a conversation with women. It seems to only be this way until I get to know someone but it is incredibly difficult for me to get to that point! Apparently, because I am so ... (89 words)

Should I believe him that he won't cheat on me?

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19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a 7 year off and on relationship. We have 3 children. He has cheated on me before, but since we got back together this last time he swears up and down that he wont cheat on me and that he had alot of time to think about things. We even got engaged. Should I believe ... (65 words)

I don't know how to tell if he likes me back...help!

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19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i like this guy and my best friend told him that i like him but the thing is i don't know how to tell if he likes me back. he keeps trying to start arguments with me and he gives me some weird looks like i'm stupid or something, but once he saw i got a good grade so he ... (79 words)

I think I made myself look real bad here and need some advice...

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19 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I made myself look real bad here and need some advice... A week ago my friend was at a party and made out with a girl, while he was dating someone else. Well my girlfriend is bestfriends with the girl he's dating, so she asked me if he done anything, and I said he ... (134 words)

My boyfriend is in the army, can our love last long distance?

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19 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been dating a guy in the army for a couple of months, we've got on great but hes being posted to germany, i thought we could carry on but hes said it wouldnt work because of the distance and the fact we wouldnt see each other, ive said id be fine with that, but he said it ... (101 words)

I'm in love with my best friend's wife!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in need of advice, constructive critisim, and feedback. Please do not tell me how terrible of a person I am. I already know this. I have beat myself up emotionally for years now. I can't get away from these feelings, so here is my story. I became attracted to my ... (678 words)

Mid-Life crisis or could having this affair really lead to something?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4307 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age - Married 25 yrs, no glaring problems, 2 teenagers. My wife would say she loves me..I would say that I like her..love, not so sure about anymore. I have had a female friend for many years-we socialize together. Her (2nd) marriage ended 3 years ago, and she looked to me for... (407 words)

I was wondering if I should try to get a date before I leave and try to leave things on a good note.

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19 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So I fell pretty hard for a girl in one of my college courses. I finally got the nerve to ask her for her number and we went for lunch befor our final exam. She told me she had a great time and I suggested we go on a real date sometime and she agreed. The problem is that ... (310 words)

How can I "talk dirty" to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I have a slight problem. My boyfriend loves, loves, loves to talk dirt. Like across MSN and through texts and in person. I cannot talk dirty to save my life. I have all these things I could say but I can't let them out. And it makes me feel awful because it's not a lo... (125 words)

Parental Rights

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

19 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello All. Thanks for reading and resonding to my question! :) Here it goes! My girlfriend and I have broken up, and she's 4 months pregnant... with my baby. We were talking about names the other day, and I want to have both last names and she only wants the baby to have ... (133 words)

I like this girl but she seems to hate me!

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19 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, I like this girl but she seems to hate me... and I'm a shy person so I don't talk to her much but from what I have said to her and what she said back I think she hates me. Can anyone give me advice to maybe try to get her to like me.. or should I just move on?... (62 words)

Love-struck

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19 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I'm losing my mind, help me please. I am a 24 year old man who always didn't find a way to connect with people on a close and intimate level due to the fact that my way of thinking is completely unacceptable in my community. I have spent my life wanting love, bu... (378 words)

What do lads think about girls/girlfriend watching porn, a lot???

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19 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do lads think about girls/girlfriend watching porn, a lot!? I just want to know if ye have a problem with girls watching porn. Is it a turn off? I would really appreciate your comments!!!... (38 words)

How do I get my mum to stop acting like my man, who has been with me for 8 months, and loves me a lot, is not like the men that she has been with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

19 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I asked a question on here earlier about my bf not seeing me for a week, and his car needing to be fixed. Well, now I have another problem. I've had this problem for some time now. How can I get my mom to stop acting like he ain't shit, just because all the guys she's be... (632 words)

Do you think he'll hate me? Some opinion's please.

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19 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone. For reason's which are not important; I was house bound because of severe depression. Thus to help the time pass I went online. I ended up talking to this guy. I'd heard people say lie about your age, what you look like, where you live because the net is filled ... (191 words)