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writes:I have an ex-girlfriend. We dated for about 4 years. Been broken up, had so many fights and problems, thats all i seem to remember. but now we are i guess friends. When we hangout its just a little awkward bc its not like how it use to be. she used to love me you know, but now we are like friends. What really gets to me is, when her ex, or dad calls (maybe even friends sometimes) call her she lies and says shes not with me. I get that her dad didnt realy like me cuz we had problems, but her ex who i know she still sometimes hooksup with, she lies to him to. I know she doesnt want more problems bc of me but idk what to think about her. I know she wont stop talking to me. and in my heart i dont want to stop talking to her. but i just need a third person to help me out. I just feel confused and hurt. idk anything would be great. thanks
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 She does not want any interference or invite negative comments
from her ex or her dad.
She is doing it to protect herself from any criticisms .
Sometimes, you cannot tell the truth.
There will be more questions than answers.
She is giving you another chance and not letting her ex or dad
poision her mind against you.
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reader, Ask oldersister +, writes (26 March 2008):
 I'm not sure what all the fights were about but I guarantee they must have upset her enough that her family doesn't think you are good for her. She either told them the truth about your relationship or exaggerated what you did to her. Her parents were probably relieved when you guys broke up because they couldn't stand to see her so miserable all the time. They would also probably be very concerned or furious that she is hanging out with you and so she lies to them. I'm sure you know what all this is about.
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reader, sarahisgreat123 +, writes (26 March 2008):
wow that really is a quandery... i dont know what to say... is it possible that she is embarassed to be with you or doesnt want her ex to know because she doesnt want to fight with him??? or maybe she still has feelings for you and doesnt want people to ask questions or make it more awkward so she avoids telling people??
sorry i couldnt help more!!! good luck!
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