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We love each other, but I don't know if it's a good idea to be with someone who has these different views towards life.

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29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and in October I moved in with him. At first things were good. We were both spiritual and wanted to find a church together. Since moving here, I found a church and he has decided to give up all faith in God. This is a ... (176 words

How come I don't want sex as much any more? Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend thinks that I am cheating on him because I don't want sex. We've had sex before and are engaged to get married sometime next year. For the past month I haven't felt the want to have sex with him. Now he thinks that I am getting it somewhere else. I love him and ... (173 words

He swears he didn't rape her, do I believe him...?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

29 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - a friend of mine has recently been summoned to court because a girl is pressing rape charges against him. supposedly he raped her at a party a few weeks ago, I was at the party and I don't remember seeing anything but he swears to god that he didn't rape her. I don't know what ... (404 words

Still Depressed Over a Teacher who Left Last Year ... Need Loads of Help and Advice!

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay..i've already wrote my life... Okay..I had a crush on this English Teacher. She is young and really pretty (But i'm not gay..i'm straight). this all started since the school trip last june. Yeah..i liked to stare at her and look and think about her often. She know... (375 words

What do you think his answer means, Is it a rejection or how should I take it?

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29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - This guy is going on a deployment, and I asked If I could write him while away, bcuz his email account will change and I said I'm a silly girl who cares about him and want 2 stay in touch... He Thanked me and said: "I'll be very busy through the first part of May, but if I ge... (95 words

I just want to be accepted by them...

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ugh, this is so unfair. Bascially I'm 16 and I'm not a loser or anything. I do have friends and I'm socially accepted. I just don't hangout with anyone much. whyyyyyyy?? I try to initiate a time where we can hangout but really it doesn't work. I'm alone at home most o... (124 words

I don't know what she thinks or wants, should I have called her as she asked me to?

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29 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I dated this girl once n we kissed. We both busy due to exams yet she told me last night she really likes me. How do I at least talk on the phone? We lasted 2hours last time. But I always ask her before if she's free. I asked to call and she said call me tonight but I found out ... (99 words

I want to be with him but we keep fighting!

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29 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Please HELP! I posted before, I'm doing it again, I've know Rahul for just over 2 months. We began chatting via mxit, and our conversations went well until a Monday morning 4 weeks ago, I was overwhelmed by emotion and I told him Ii liked him, just then he started talking ... (117 words

What do you think about age gaps in general?

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - how do u feel about age gaps in general? personally i dont think they matter but i know my family does as am 16 and going seein a 21 year old, what do u think?... (35 words

I don't know how to tell my parents of this age difference... how much longer should I wait?

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - i posted a question before asking for advice on how to tell my mum about my older bf(am 16 and he 21). that i went out with him and we get on really well and i really like him that i told her and she doesnt like the age difference at all between us and was totally against it ... (329 words

Am I being used or does he really like me??

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - well am 16 and recently guys have started noticing me. I've had 4 boyfriends in the last 6 months or so but theres always been one thats special to me..hes 17 and has a kid but the problem is am still a virgin..we've messed around alot and since we split have been really good ... (148 words

Is it that he likes me or is he just being polite?

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29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm asking because for me, I don´t know, but I work on sales so I met this GI on a delivery I made, and at 1st glance he was very cocky and not as nice but then he started to be friendly.. Then a week later I had to meet him and he was completely different with me , he was ... (253 words

I find it hard/impossible to read girls and whether they want to go further with me.

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29 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - I’m 22 (almost 23)year old male and I’ve never had a long-term relationship, I’ve had a couple of flings and far too many one night stands (with boys and girls) but nothing ever fruitful comes of it. I define myself as bisexual, but am perhaps more sexually attracted to men and ... (398 words

Why would he say he loves me and not call me for about a week?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

29 March 2008 (F age 22-25 - I called one of my guy friends and we spoke on the phone for 1 or 2 hours and after the conversation he call's me and not say anything and hangs up he kept doing that 4 times. He did it for the 5th time and not say a word so I decided not to hang up for about a minute or so, ... (116 words

What's the least painful way to have sex?

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys. My boyfirend and I have been dating for about 1 1/2 now. Me and boyfriend talked about having sex and we're both ready to have sex. I talked to my mom about it and she helped me get the birth control pills. I've been on them for about 2 months and my boyfriend got ... (179 words

How can I REALLY kiss him passionately?

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29 March 2008 (? age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for a month now and need some advice on how to take things further. He is my first "serious" boyfriend and I feel I am in love with him. However I am kind of shy and so is he, I do not want to push things too hard and scare him away! We have kissed ... (105 words

Do I keep waiting and risk getting hurt? Or let him go and risk being alone forever??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, I am 15 years old and I live in a girls group home. I've been in some trouble before. Mostly just running away from home and things. I have an abandonedment issue. My mom left me around the time I was 10 and didn't give a warning at all. Before she left she was on drugs a ... (527 words

Do I Have A Small Penis?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

29 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi I'm 18 and I feel as though I have a small penis, it is about 3 inch flaccid, and a little over 5 inch erect, do I have a small one?... (33 words

Boyfriend embarrassed to talk to me

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half, however we have never been out together we only go to his house, if we are out at the the same place with our mates he doesn't like us to talk or even look at each other. This is making me feel really down and I've ... (66 words

What can I talk to her about?

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29 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I need some advice please help me!, I'm not very good at what to talk to this girl about, I like her, I'm a bit shy too so that does not help anyway.... I do try to make conversation but she does not do questions back to me so it seems it's just me asking which seems boring. ... (75 words

I don't feel ready... but he does.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really need help. I recently got this boyfriend and we like each other alot. He is a couple years older and I feel that I need to be up to his standards. I feel too young to be doing anything and I don't want to but I feel pressured and I feel that I need to to keep this ... (183 words

Seeing an Ex for the First Time in Months

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29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm seeing my ex tomorrow for the first time in 8 months. (We broke up only 6 months ago, because it was at the end of a 2 month trip I took, before we saw each other when I got back.) He was the love of my life, and I still have serious feelings for him, but things just ... (171 words

I want to go... How do I leave?

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29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my BF for 6 years. I have known for a very long time that I need to leave. He knows I am going to leave and he does his very best to keep me down. Every time I start a new job he does something to make me really messed up in the head and I end up getting ... (502 words

Crybaby...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

29 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I've been with my husband for 13 years. We have twin 9-yr-olds and my 17-yr-old from my previous marriage. Over the years we have had many fights. His favorite thing to do over the last 3 years during our fights is threaten our marriage being over until I cry uncontrollably. He ... (452 words

People have witnessed my bf being unloyal, bf says he hasnt...who do I believe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now. Along the way I have had 3 different people tell me that he is being disloyal.. I've comfronted my fella about this but he says that everyone is causing trouble and not to let it come between us. I'm finding ... (120 words

I think my Army Boyfriend is taking advantage of me. what do I do?

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im 16 and my boyfriend is 21, ive been with him now for eight months. It was great when we first got with each other, he used to pay so much attention to me. After we had been dating for two months, he decided to go in the army now i just feel like he dosent want to talk to me. ... (127 words

Am I missing out on love because of pride?

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29 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hey. I just wanted other people's opinions please. There's this guy I used to go out with a while ago. He says he has always loved me ever since. Now he hears I am single again and immediately he phones up to see if I want to go travelling with him. But not only is it ... (228 words

I don't reject the idea of a threesome, my only fear is losing my partner subsequently. What can you suggest?

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29 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - My partner and I are thinking of doing a threesome i dont mind at all connsidering i have never done one at all, the only worry i have is losing him through it ... (33 words

Should I ask him out again? I wouldn't want to seem desperate.

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29 March 2008 (F - hey there i just recently asked this guy in my class at my birhtday who had a girlfriend if anything would ever happen if he was single and he said yes probably and now he has broken up with his girlfriend and ever since then he's still been the same with me being just friends ... (154 words

How to know if it is the truth or his anger speaking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, i've been married 8 years and my husband wasn't inlove with me when we married but i was so infatuated with him that it didn't matter. now he says he loves me but actions speak showing i'm his friend and not his love, we have a son together and we love him dearly. ev... (205 words

Wondering if the relationship is worth saving - after she has been cheating me on the rent, double charging me to clear her arrears -, and if so, how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

29 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I moved in with my partner in October past having been together for about 18 months, believing that I had found a strong relationship based on love and trust. I recently discovered that she has been cheating me on the rent since I moved in, double charging me in order to clear ... (222 words

Made out with an underaged girl (15)... Could I get into trouble?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

29 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi. I went out last night with a few friends. During the course of the evening, I ran into a girl from Germany. She hung around with us for a while, came to a club with us ect, I bought her a drink and we sat together and had a conversation. My friends left us alone a short... (224 words

Survey: how old were you when you performed your first fellatio, did you choose a special person and did you like it from the very beginning?

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29 March 2008 (M age - I have question for you women and girl on this site: How old were you when you gave your first blowjob? The reason I ask is that I went to high school in a small town in the 1970s, before oral sex was known. So I am curious as to when to when girls started doing this on a ... (109 words

I received an irate message awakening my previous suspicions about my husband's friendship with his (also married) colleague.

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29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for a year and a half, and my huband goes to college about 30 mins from where we live. About 2 months ago, I noticed he seemed to be making and receiving quite a few phone calls and text messages from a female classmate, "Melissa". I casually asked him about ... (293 words

My boyfriend and I are going to a hotel for the night, any ideas on something special I can do?

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29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend is taking me to a hotel on Friday night. I need some ideas as to what I can do that's special, I will be arriving before him so will have up to an hour to do something!... (40 words

How can I make my husband be more responsible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - i have a husbend who has a chimecal disorder and i he is going out to have fun all night and working at afternoon . when he is coming into the house he's main and grumpy don't talk to me dont joke with me . i dont see him and he doesn't want to take care of his ... (125 words

She's had more sex experience than me and I'm still a virgin, could we just keep it platonic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

29 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17, and I've never really had a proper gf until now. I'm a very innocent virgin, but I've met this girl who's 17 too and I think I'm madly in love. But she has so much sexual experience; long term relationships, casual sex, same-sex sex etc.. that she is very open abo... (221 words

I'm 25 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend, where can we meet in private?

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29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ridiculous as it sounds, I'm 25 and my parents have banned me from seeing my boyfriend. They're very snobby and he is from a less priviliged background and they don't think he is good enough for me. We had been seeing each other 6 months before I introduced them to him,... (150 words

Am I missing her or just missing being in a relationship?

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29 March 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hey Cupids. Perhaps you can help me. My ex and I started dating last may/june. She was always on/off with me, some nights telling me she never wants to let me go, others giving me the cold shoulder. This resulted in her breaking up with me a few times, not speaking for a ... (331 words

Any help in getting over this deep depression?

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29 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - For the past few years i m finding myself helpless, unfortunate coz i did not achieve anything whatever i had i have lost it...and i make friends quite easily who are very free with me and care for me as if they are my true friends but when time comes they leave me...i have ... (95 words

He now wants to have a relationship with another girl as well as me?

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29 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have been best friends with a guy for a year and for the past three months we have been in a relationship with each other as boyfriend and girlfriend.initially he told me that he loves me and i felt the same towards him.for the first 2 months we hardly saw each other and the ... (179 words

I'm divorced and broke until finances are sorted. My new man is wealthy but doesn't help much and says I should claim State Benefits..

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29 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Im divocing my husband at the moment and waiting to sort out the finance matter with my husband. I've met this man who is very nice to me. I am looking for a job and have no money. He has got a good job and quite weathly but he doesnt offer any help with money. But he says ... (84 words

Why would he cheat with me if he was really happy with his girlfriend?

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have this friend. (we'll call him jon) I met jon a few days ago while hanging with friends after school. he flirted with me and I flirted with him. he asked for my number and gave me his. that afternoon jon started texting me. he told me he liked me and I told him I liked... (453 words

Text How do you tell an ex you don't want to try again a THIRD time in the nicest possible way?

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29 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - How do you tell an ex you dont want to try again a THIRD time in the nicest possible way? My ex lied a couple of times, we split, but tried again, it didnt work out again. That was begining of the yr. We are friends and thats fine, but recently he's been trying to convince... (249 words

Is it true my friend wont find peace with God after committing suicide?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Good day to all, A girl I know commited suicide. To be honest I am not so upset about the suicide itself or even her death. She had a really really awful life and alot of bad things happen her entire life-from the day she was born. When I first found out I didn't feel ... (338 words

My girlfriend wanted a break from me, but I found out she doesn't want to get back with me.

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29 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend wanted a break from me 2 months ago, and i have found out that she doesn't really want to get back with me, this is because i was to clingy and controlling. I love her so much and she says she still has feelings for me...but wants to be on her own at the minu... (89 words

All he wants me to do is give him oral sex.

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29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've only been with my boyfriend a month, and at first he couldn't wait to have sex. We had sex twice and it wasn't all that good. I was more than willing to give it another chance for his sake. Now all he wants me to do is give him oral sex. Now i'm wanting sex from him, and... (86 words

I don't hate him, I dislike the behaviour and lies about other women though. I'd like to see him again to clarify these, good idea?

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29 March 2008 (F age - i recently told the man i've been sleeping with that my son passed away and after a week of not hearing from him i blasted him for being so cold hearted to a person that had been nothing but good to him. not to mention at the same time there was another women in his house that ... (211 words

Love my BF but I'm attracted to his friend, what should I do?

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29 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Before I got together with my boyfriend, I was with one of his close friends, just casually but it never "ended" if that makes sense. I love my boyfriend, but I'm still attracted to his friend. What should I do?... (40 words

I want to lose weight to be able to use the pool confidently... in 13 days.

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29 March 2008 (F - I weigh 9 and a half stone and i go on a holiday just for 3 days though but there's going to be pools there and i'm going to want to go in them. Plus my friend(also the boy i like) is coming with us so tha'ts another big reason why i want to lose weigt. 13 days till we go. I'm ... (140 words

Married one year and I've never had sex because I lose my erection whenever I attempt intercourse! Where can I get treatment in the Netherlands or anywhwere else?

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29 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - i am married 1 year before still i dont have sex with my wife. becoase when i try to insert my pene into my wifes virgina. my peney was going down(become strongless) so i am so sad that i cant have a sex with my wife. i thing it was related mental problam.so please give me a ... (71 words

I'm a 16 year old guy, I'm tubby, not fat just tubby. I also lack confidence.

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29 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old guy, i'm tubby, not fat just tubby. I feel self-concious whenever i see girls around. I keep thinking that they are freaked out by me or something, i'm not exactly the confident type. My philosphy is " i'm fat and i'm ugly to to hell with you! ", That us... (163 words

I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on 27/03/08, which also was the day after my period ended. It only lasted like 40 seconds but niether of us ejaculated so to speak. I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises sometimes and kind of moves. I know its only been 2 days... (61 words

How can I stop worrying about him talking to other women?

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29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - I been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs. I have very low self esteem and recently found out he spends most nights on dating circle websites! I don't know if i should be worried or not. I know if i ask him about it he'll just accuse me of checking up on him and not trusting him. The... (104 words

24 and still at home, is that normal?

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29 March 2008 (F - This may sound silly but here goes. Im 24 years old, 25 in June, and I still live at home with my parents. I am single but that's through choice as I havn't met anyone I like yet. I have a good job and earn good money. I have lots of friends and a good social life. But in... (191 words

What's the best way to get a girlfreind ?

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29 March 2008 (M age 26-29 - I haven't had a girlfreind in a long time because i havn't really tried, but now i think i should because i'm getting bored and i think i will do well in a relationship. Now but i don't really know how to start the whole thing like finding someone, talking to them, and more ... (92 words

We're in love, but should we take a break?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Well i met this amazing girl online we started a relationship 7 monthes ago. Well anyway everything was going great she would tell me that she would give her life to me and i would always tell her the same. Like for example i told her i was ready to start a life with her but ... (335 words

Please tell us how can we satisfy our feelings without sex or oral kisses?

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29 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - I love my g/f very much, i'm 21 and she's 19. I even want to marry her...and she too wants marry me....but whenever we go for a long drive... we make lots of love. Sometimes we get horny...but i have not touched her naked body or lip kissed her yet...i dont want to loose my ... (98 words

Shall I go back or get on with my life?

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29 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi I left my husband 2 years ago and moved into rented accomodation were i still live. He spent a lot of his spare time in the pub. My weekend became very predictable. I have three children who all live with me. He still lives in the matrimonal home, which is currently b... (262 words

How can I reduce my sexual interest??

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29 March 2008 (M age 51-59 - I am not getting sexual satisfaction as i have expected that minimum once or twice a day with my wife. But my wife is not ready to cope up with this, she simply forcefully agrees and shows no interest. This becomes a big headache for me. I dont want to go somewhere to... (103 words

I'm on a pill break, why do I have this 'spotting' ?

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello. I'm recentely on Microgynon 30 and I've not missed any pills. I was a bit late say for 1 hour on some of the last pills and at the moment I'm on my pill break for 7 days. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend but he did not ejaculate inside of me (drunken moment.... (219 words

I know it's a sin, but I don't care!!

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello. Well, i'm young and I am very very horny..haha..I am a virgin so I like to masturbate alot..It is not secret..I don't care..anyhow. Pornagraphy is a sin..I am Christian and have been raised that its a sin..and it even says so in the bible..The thing is ..I watch ... (90 words

My boyfriend wont talk to me until I tell him if I will have sex with him or not

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he is younger then me, he said when he turns 18 will i have sex with him, and now he wont talk to me until i answer him with yes or no help! stuck in the middle ... (56 words

Why do I lose interest in my men so quickly?

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29 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - I feel that I am picking smart and attractive men to date, but after a few weeks of dating I always get this feeling all of a sudden that I have no interest in him. He'll do nice things for me and will be a complete gentleman, but I end up resenting him for this. Why do I ... (71 words

I was so mean to my ex should I apologise or just let it go?

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29 March 2008 (F - My ex and I broke up in august and he pretty much hates me. i messed up, i lied to him about something big and continued lying even when he found me out. Obviously he was devastated and furious and i really hurt him. he cut all ties with me and completely ignored me but i... (332 words

I had my flight booked to go and meet my online guy and backed out at the last minute..I feel so akward with him now, what should I do?

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok. So I've been talking to this one guy on the internet for about 2 years. I have such strong feeling for him. About a week and a half ago,we decided to meet up. I bought my plane ticket,and everything. The morning I woke,to go to the airport,I started to feel anxious.... (128 words

I am obsessed with an older divorced man...

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello..I am young..a 17 year old girll.I fell for this one man between the age of 40-50 years old in 2005.He is the best guy I have ever seen in my life and I love him to death. Actually, I am overly obsessed with him.I used to go to his church he was the guitarist on stage for ... (424 words

I'm married and afraid in case our families find out my brief fling?

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29 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - help i've been unfaithful once with a freind and worried our familiy's my find out.i'm married but my husband does'nt work i have 2 jobs and we have three kids.he talks to me ugly and wants to party with his friends? been with him for a long time what do i do.i still love him ... (65 words

He still chats about his ex but I want to know how do I tell him that I love him?

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29 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - ive been chatting to a guy 4 just ova 2mnts, i think i like him. how do i tell him this?? he still talks about his ex alot... ... (28 words

I need to know urgentyl whose fluid was running down my leg when we were having sex?

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29 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok, me and my boyfriend were having sex, and towards the end I started feeling this liquid running down my leg. So I told him to stop and pull out because I thought it might have been cum, but he didn't cum until he pulled out. So I'm kind of freaking out cuz I don't know if ... (108 words

Our long-distance relationship has been hampered by constant fighting-but we want to get married when he comes back. Will it work for us?

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29 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 years and 5 months now, and in that we have spent more than 2 years in long distance but he is coming back to the US soon now and we have decided to move in together and get married in a couple years. But recently everytime we ... (127 words

I need to know everything and hate liars do I have a control issue?

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29 March 2008 (F - OK, I had been in a long distance relationship with my BF for about more than 3 years. When we first started to date he was still seem his ex-girl and he said that he had no feelings for her; but he never broke up with her; he was not sleeping with her, but they continue what ... (329 words

My boyfriend is having a child with some one else, what should I do?

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29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I dated for 10 months and we broke up. After a couple of months, we started seeing each other and reconnecting. Things are so much better now for us however during the break-up period he got someone else pregnant. He says he cares for me immensely and th... (215 words

He is all smiles whenever I'm around-does that mean I'm special to him?

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29 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Do you think that someone who always smiles at me and can't help it, likes me? This person is all smiles when i'm around. ... (24 words

I have broken up with my girlfriend because we were always fighting but I cant bear the thought of her being with anyone else!

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29 March 2008 (M age 41-50 - Ok so me and my girlfriend broke up cause all we did was fight now because of her im going through alot of changes such as my anger the way i treat people my self centeredness, now just tonight we had a great talk she said she had her guard up wich i understand at this point ... (227 words

How can I learn to trust my husband?

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29 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - i have been married for 4 years and i have been together for 7 years i have had bad past relashioships with guys cheating on me and me catching them and my husband now i thnk he is doing the same everytime he goes out the door my mind starts to fly everywhere i dont trust him ... (75 words

Does he like me or not?

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - okie hi im 14 theres this guy i like but i dont no if he likes me back .. he looks at me then looks away .. then he looks seriuos for a moment ... he gives me da puppy face what does dat mean ..? he those kinda guys that thinks he can get a girl .. but somehow im the rude girl ... (170 words

Should he be working on progressing the relationship more?

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29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - So I've been talking with this guy for about 2 months now. It's a bit complicated as we met thru my ex, but that is LONG over at htis point and he def. knows that. Anyway, we're both in our mid/late 20s, we have similar beliefs about dating - esp. at this age - that unless th... (264 words

I really love him should I lose my virginity with him?

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29 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hey I'm 15 years old and I have an amazing boyfriend that I really love and I'm thinking of losing my virginity to him soon. I'm kinda nervous for many reasons....STD's.....possible pregnantcy ( i really wudn't mind that though in a way...).....fear of my parents finding out ... (87 words

Help!-I am obsessed with my mom!

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29 March 2008 (M age 26-29 - Ok,this sounds very creepy but,ever since i was 8 i have wanted to have sex with my mom Extremely Badly!! i mean u have no idea.i am only 13 but you know i have had soo many dreams about having sex with her and i just cant tell her how i feel. i mean she is funny very outg... (97 words

Is she really nervous about going out with me or just not interested?

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29 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I need your advice...I have liked this girl since I was 11/12 (im now 15) and she always acts strange with me. I go to an all boys school and she goes to an all girls one so we don't see each other. We text and IM and she says flirty things and stuff and we get on and then we ... (261 words

Can mother-in-law legally force my husband and I to allow her access to our kids?

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29 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - Okay,My husband and I do not allow for his mother(childrens grandmother) to see our children,for many reasons She has talked very Bad about my 2 kids a 4yr old and 18 month old(thats only 1 of many reasons)just to make it clear NO type of abuse is involved here. My husband no ... (81 words

I broke up with my boyfriend six months ago, I am not comfortable with our mutual friend updating him on what I'm doing now. Should I dump her too?

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29 March 2008 (F - Hoping people can help here. I broke up with a guy about six months ago. I liked him but felt that the feeling was not mutual so I was wasting my time. He and I have a mutual friend and he moniters my comings and goings through her which I find odd. I like her but am thinking ... (119 words

How can I get my uber-shy guy to be a bit more chatty?

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, How can I get my not-so-chatty boyfriend to become more talkative around me? He's pretty talkative over the phone, but in person, he's, like, uber-shy. Why do you think that is? Am I doing something wrong? Any advice is GREATLY appreciated. ... (52 words

Any original non-corny suggestions that I can text to show my love to my guy?

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29 March 2008 (? age 30-35 - I have the most adorable boyfriend any one in the world has ever had !!! I LOVE him soooooo much !!!! I've told him I love him many times but saying I love you just isn't enough !!! I text him alot and I wanna text him some stuff that lets him know I really love him and is c... (113 words

Please help me, am I pregnant? Should I do a test?

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29 March 2008 (F age 36-40 - i think i might be pregnant, i've still been getting bleeds around my time of the month, but they are very light and only lasting 2 or 3 days and are either brown in colour or bright red. i'm 23 and have always been regular and heavy. if i am i would be about 12 weeks gone by ... (110 words

How does an eight-year-old end a friendship?

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29 March 2008 (F age 41-50 - How can an 8 year old tell one of her friends she no longer cares for them and would like to stop the friendship ? ... (25 words

Any tips on how to find out if she has feelings for me and how to make progress from there?

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29 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey there, ok lets get down to business, basically theres this girl i am good friends with who i see pretty much every day and i hang out with her 2 best friends aswell which are good friends of mine also. Over time i have had feelings for this girl but im not sure wether she ... (192 words

How do we know if emergency contraceptive will work?

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29 March 2008 (M - Hi I posted about how you tell if a condom's split before and thanks for the replies to that one. But speak of the devil, today the condom did split!! Atleast now I know how to tell... anyway, here's the thing: my gf is on day 7 of her cycle ie sunday was the 1st day of her ... (132 words

I need help to get over my partners ex!

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29 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I can't get over my partner's ex. (It's a long distance thing, but we see each other enough for us to get by) -She's easily upset, and I feel too guilty to go out sometimes, thus missing out the 'prime times of my youth' when she's not out, which is most of the time, because ... (206 words

I love her but she hates me so much she even accused me of stalking her!

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29 March 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm 14 and I'm in love with a girl that hates me very much but I love her I can't get over her I have tryed to get over her but I can't she didin't hate me always she was first very nice to me and then she said to me that I'm pathetic and then she is started to hate me but she ... (137 words

What are the signs a guy is pretending to like being close with you even though they don't?

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29 March 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have this guy friend who I really like and I like to hang out with him. We dont talk very much as we are both really busy premed college students. I went out with him once and he seemed interested in me cause he asked me out. When I want to talk to him, I always... (399 words

I divorced my mean husband but my new older boyfriend also prefers to save rather than spend although otherwise he is an sexy and attentive lover. Should I stick with him?

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29 March 2008 (F age 51-59 - I divorced my husband of 22 years. I wanted to leaves for years. He is selfish and unkind and very mean with money. We always argue over money cuz he just want to save. I met this new man 18 years older than me right after my divorce. His experience about life and love ... (153 words

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