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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do I tend to let my guard down in relationships after 6 months or so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 March 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Hey everyone not sure where to start but I'll do my best. I have had 2 relationships in my time now both lasting 2 years. In both relationships the first 6 months were perfect, getting to know the person, flirting, making an effort to look good but after the first 6 months I ... (163 words)

If he was not married, would he see a future with me? And if he does, will he ever divorce her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't really give a huge amount of information for obvious reasons, but I am in an unofficial relationship with my married art teacher which our entire school/college knows about. He is my best friend and I am genuinely in love with him, not a crush, not an infatuation, I ... (590 words)

My husband's affair...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age - I've been married for 13 years but been with my husband for 16 years in total. A few months ago I discovered he had been having an affair with a 13 years younger woman with 6 children, we had no children together but he had 4 from his previous marriage. He admitted the affair ... (320 words)

I'm 17 weeks pregnant and I am having nightmares.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 17 weeks pregnant and I am having nightmares, not scary ones just creepy funky unbelievable ones, every hour on the hour I wake up, I'm so tired I feel like I could pass out all through the day. I've read that it's my hormones but I'm worried it's something else. help!!!... (53 words)

How often should I feel these flutterings of pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey, not been on here for ages. Hi everyone, I am now 17 weeks pregnant, which is... 4 months 1 week and 4 days. Anyway, I couldn't be happier but my main concern is that I keep feeling the fluttering feeling which is meant to be the babies first movements. I was wondering how ... (88 words)

If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5881 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If a guy cheats on you once, will he cheat on you again?... (13 words)

Can I consider my teacher a friend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, there is this male teacher whom I've had a crush on since I was a sophomore but this year my junior year, I have gotten to know him better and about his personal life experiences and I also have had a few bumps on the road in my life. He is always there to help me and t... (165 words)

He says he doesn't know what to do and I surely don't.... Should I wait and give him time or should I just move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy at a work function about 6 months ago. We got along great from the 1st day. At the end of the week I went back to my home and he went to his (a few hrs away from me). We talked just about every day since online and on the phone about everything and anything... (329 words)

Why would he ask for my number...say he will call and still not call??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm 18 and I met this guy who is around 33. I met him by chance and we started talking and well I know him a bit and it was pretty nice. He was really sweet and all and he had asked me if i was alone or witn company and where I lived, but unfortunately i wasn't alone an... (363 words)

I have really bad stretch marks...are they bad and ugly??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, I am 14 years old and on my boobs I have bad streach marks. I weight 103 and I am 5ft. 1in. I am in a bra size 32 C. I'm super white and the streach marks Are very see able. I have had a recent boyfriend and he didn't seem to care. I an kind of freaked out about this. I ... (149 words)

Is it possible he doesn't masturbate to the porn on his computer??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently found some porn pictures of nude female models in pictures by themselves and a couple of videos of girls undressing on my boyfriend's computer. We have been dating almost 2 years, and from the time I met him he has always told me that he does not masturbate and does... (243 words)

Do boys find girls with glasses attractive??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy im just wondering, do boys find girls who wear glasses attractive? I know this may be a dumb question but i wear them and i havent had a boyfriend and im 15... :( but anyway, im just wondering! :D... (42 words)

Would it matter if I wear the same clothes to a second date??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 March 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Okay, So I recently started dating this girl, she lives a fair bit away from me, (few hours) and I'm meeting her again soon for the second time. Do you think she will mind if I wear the same shoes? I know it sound's like a really stupid question, but I get paranoid about these... (96 words)

I think he wants me to touch him down there but I haven't before...any advice??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here's the deal, my bf and i have been dating for almost six months, he knows im not a virgin, however we do have our moments were we get heated up, but nothing has happened yet. One of these many days,things were getting pretty heated up, however i stopped because i ... (119 words)

Should I lose my virginity to him at 14??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4294 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok I'm a 14 year old girl and there is this black guy I have known for almost a year. He is 14 also. I talk to him some times not alot and he wants to have sex with me. I am a vergin and he I don't think is. Last night I was texting him and he asked what I wanted to talk about, ... (232 words)

Is it wrong to confront him about this money he owes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My daughter's dad called today to tell me Fed Ex has delivered a package. His sister and mother sent his daughter a new pair of shoes, along with a doll house and a brand new labtop. It was nice of them to send it to them. What I am trying to say is that, he owes me money... (194 words)

How to resist temptation of contacting or responding to an ex.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello. I've written here before asking a question about how to get over a breakup. That was back in September. I definitely got through the break up, and moved on and found happiness within myself. But not completely. Currently I am not dating anyone. I have a couple ... (382 words)

Will love over rule sexual urges or will sexual urges over rule love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can you help, My beautiful partner used to swing with his ex, while I am open minded, I can't do this and I have told him so and he has said he would never make me do anything to feel uncomfortable. He said it's not the fact he never felt sexually fulfilled it's just he ... (168 words)

Do culture differences really make a difference??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a relationship with a zimbabwean man. I think it's love but for him, he seems a bit of a player. A lot of my friends (including some zimbabweans) say it's a culture thing... any views? Do culture differences really make a difference??... (45 words)

I'm sooooooo confused, can anyone tell me why did he do so???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I knew a man he was preparing his divorce papers we were friends at first then after divorce we became more close i loved him soo much he was sooo decent he was trying his best to make me happy then after 4 months he asked to marry me his mother visted us at home to know my ... (460 words)

He seems to prefer his mates to me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says he loves me but has cheated on me before, I forgave him because he told me straight away. He seems more interested in going out with his mates than me, and only sees me when they are busy. I love him but am sometimes unhappy, should I stay with him?... (53 words)

His Friend Used Me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay in November 2007 I started to dated this one guy whom I really liked, he seemed to like me too. After the date he texted me and told me how much fun he had with me and later in the week I went over his house and we cuddled and watched TV. We did not kiss or anything, we ... (845 words)

If I don't get back with him he's threatening to move 263 miles away...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 2 months pregnant, I have just left him as he is extremely possesive and paranoid, he now has decided if I don't get back with him he is moving 263 miles away from me and my child, leaving him would mean my baby has no father I am 18 and homeless and pregnant. I love him ... (90 words)

Sex or no sex in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just recently broken up with a man who I had sex with for the first time, after dating him for two months. Hes 36 and Im 23. We actually met in a dance club (definitely not a place where I imagined myself to find the man I had my first sex with. Now, I have regrets that ... (1096 words)

Our mother and cousin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15-years-old and have a 13-year-old sister. About a year ago our parents got divorced, and my sister and I are living with our mother since then. Over the past 6 months or so, a cousin of ours - our mother's sister's 17-year-old son - has been a regular visitor to our h... (200 words)

I think my love for a teacher has gotten me into a depression or mental instability, help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and in love with my teacher (and NO it is not a crush or infatuation) and have been for almost a year, and even though i've been very unhappy since i realised how i felt for him, recently it seems to have gotten a lot worse - whenever i'm near him, my heart beats so ... (188 words)

Feminine ejaculation or... did the condom split?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, my question is difficult. Can girls cum? I recently had protected sex with my boyfriend and when we'd finished I noticed a lot of white cum-like fluid from inside me. I assumed it was my owm cum, but I can't help but worry that maybe the condom split. Would we have ... (87 words)

I'm scared that if I marry her and have a baby it will be like I have two babies to take care of, what do I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm ready to settle down in my life and get married. I have been seeing this girl she's a little younger than me six years. She's beautiful and sweet but very shy. I'm more of the outgoing type. She loves kids and would do anything I ask of her. I know she has had a hard lif... (278 words)

My date knows rasist jokes but claims he is not racist. Should I broach the subject to him to understand his thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my new guy's a racist. He says jokes that I don't like. I told him this but he keeps saying them. Maybe he just says them because he was raised in well, let's just say not my area of town and is ignorant of other peoples cultures. Should I come out and ask him if he is? ... (252 words)

19 and I want a baby...what will my parents say after I had an abortion last year?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. Around this time last year I fell pregnant and had an abortion. I have regretted this ever since. We have now decided to have a baby, we will be 20 when it is born. I want this baby but im scared of what my mum and dad ... (83 words)

He broke up with me after three years...what to do when I haven't seen him because of the distance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years,this year will b the 3rd but he broke up with me a few days ago after an argument we had in which he was the wrong one,ive never seen him yet coz we have a long distance relationship but ive spoken to him and we've exchanged pics,his ... (177 words)

I'm left feeling alone after getting attached to him - please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i guess im not really looking for advice, just need a sounding board. I have posted on here before ragarding my current relationship. We have been having a difficult time together recently, i dont think hes attentive enough, we have been squabbling over little things. ... (398 words)

Is she lying about filing for divorce to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in process of getting a divorce. I am in love with a married woman who says she has moved out of their house into her mom's. I have relocated 3 hrs. away. She said she is going to file her paperwork. But then suddenly, she is going away to Japan for 2 weeks to see her ... (152 words)

I'm engaged but he tells me he prefers someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi This is quite a long question. I have a problem with my relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now. He has asked me to marry him and I accepted, although he hasn't got me a ring yet. The problem is, things haven't been going so great lately. He has b... (675 words)

He lied to me when I was falling for him - can I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

- Okay i'm just goin' to jump straight into this question. Basically me and this guy have gotten quite close over the past three and a half months and I only recently found out that he had a girlfriend during this time me and him were getting close. We both admitted our feel... (247 words)

If he looks at me a lot, does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy that I like. I think he just likes me as a friend but I don't know. If I ask him to do small little things for me he does them, I catch him looking at me a lot, even from across a large room he was looking at me, he makes fun of me in a fun way, but now a days ... (185 words)

He won't marry me - is it time to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 6 years. We started discussing marriage after about 2 years. He is opposed to the entire concept of marriage. In his opinion, people change for the worse when they get married. He has said on many occasions that he does not ... (331 words)

I'm tired of violence and abuses, how can I get my ex to leave me alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just left my abusive boyfriend six months ago I live with family now. But my ex keeps calling me and asking why I left. I told him this six months ago that I'm tired of him beating and controling me. To this day he still will not take responsibility for what he did to me. So... (160 words)

I would like to know her a bit more but not too sure what sort of qustions to ask her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 14 year old boy I met this girl last year and I really like her but not too sure what to talk to her about?? I would like to know her a bit more but not too sure what sort of qustions to ask her to get to know her more ?? I would also like to ask her out on a date but... (84 words)

Are my thoughts normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I do not have a specific question, but I want to know if there are other women who share my thoughts and feelings and whether I am normal. I have only become sexually active for about a year, and have not once been able to have an orgasm. Sometimes I wonder why I even bothe... (266 words)

Pain on urethra after sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Why does my hubby get a painful sensation on his urethra when we have sex when i am on top. when he is on top he has no prob, no pain. only when i am. the pain only last for bout 5 mins and then fades and doesnt happen again unless we have sex when i am on top. do any other ... (86 words)

My husband watches porn without me and our sex life seems to suffer. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We have sex about once every 10 days. My husband also watches porn as he says every 10 days. When I say: "Let's watch together." He says: "It's not a turn on". So he watches porn alone. He is unable to ejaculate with me, only with porn. Please explain to me what is going on ... (123 words)

A supportive husband

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (M)

age - My wife is 38 and a talented performer (singer and actress) who couldn't pursue her career when she was younger because she had a controlling first husband and abandoned her dreams. Now, she would like to pursue her "last chance" to make it. She has already found the contacts ... (243 words)

How do girls think????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

15 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl and really fancy (like) her but not sure if she really likes me and I don't know how to attract her?? What signs would she show if she likes me?? We mostly talk on MSN but not too sure what hints she would hint if she likes me?? What could I talk to her ... (74 words)

Why does he say one week he wants my kids and he wants to marry me... and the next it over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so sorry for how long this is but can someone give me a chance and read it please? I really need some advice. I have been with my ex for nearly two years. I was his first serious relationship as all of his others were only a month or two long. He is the kind of boy who ... (308 words)

Why is my ex getting involved?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5883 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently wrote in a question; http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-possible-for-someone-to-change-if.html. Well everything was going well with that boy, we went to the pictures and texted each other alot and then we drove to the next town to pick his bike up on Wedne... (256 words)

He hacked into my email and copied them onto his PC!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend lied to get me back and I found out. Now what? We were split up for months, I loved him but was tired of the fighting. He continued to call and write. Finally, tired of being lonely and missing him, I tried to be honest with him and told him up front that if he ... (363 words)

Is it possible to adjust my pill-taking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im on the pill and wanting to bring my period forward by a few days. I have two pills left in the pack at the moment. Is it ok to not take these 2 pills and then start the next pack after the 7 day break?? Will i still be protected against pregnancy? I need to know ... (100 words)

Should I wait until they break up, or do something about it now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5883 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in the sixth grade, and I have liked this guy since like kindergarden, but it has turned more to love since second or third grade. I seriously like him, but he is already going out with a girl. I know he knows I like him and that the other girl likes him. What should i do? ... (93 words)

Am I being silly about my boyfriend's comments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship with a guy I really like for about 6 months now. The problem is, at the beginning he was always talking about his ex's, mentioning silly abitrary things about them just because something reminded him of them. I didn't say anything at first. But one ... (238 words)

How can I walk past him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help me and my boyfriend just broke up but im still in love with him, i thought he was the one, its going to be hard walking past him at school now knowing were not together. what can i do i love him so much... (50 words)

Is it a problem that I've had previous sexual partners, but he's only had me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend lost his virginity to me, however ive slept with men prior to our relationship. he knows about the men ive slept with, just that it makes him feel uneasy. he told me he has tried to block that out of his mind. does this pose a problem for our relationship that he ... (65 words)

I got drunk and made an idiot of myself. What can I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't a relationship question but I really don't know what to do! I went to my close friends party last night and I drank a bit too much. To make it worse I'd had nothing to eat that day which made me really drunk. But basically I made a complete idiot out of ... (149 words)

It would be difficult to leave my husband, but could I be happy seeing this other guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for 30 years, 3 children and 2 grandchildren. My husband needs to take medicine for Bipolar, which he refuses. He is not really any part of this house other than he works and comes home. That is all he thinks is neccacerry for a relationship. I have been ver... (251 words)

How can I relieve my frustration?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - is there some things i can do to relieve my sexual wants besides jacking off or having sex? my fiance is pregnant like 2 months in and i am so turned on but she isn't so i need some pointers as to what i can do to relieve this sexual want.... (51 words)

Could we be meant to be together sometime in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - So i really dont know what to do here. Let me explain. I am 26 years old, single, and will be for a while. Im just not into the whole dating thing. I have a friend, who i talk to alot. We met about 3 years ago. She is alot older then i am, married with kids. I have never over ... (307 words)

Is this relationship salvageable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so it's kind of a complex situation. My boyfriend (on and off) of more than 5 years and I have decided we want to get married. I have just recently finished college and am currently looking for a decent job. He has just decided he doesn't want to pursue his curre... (385 words)

Why do I hurt so bad when I'm not with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm like so in love with this guy right now and I like being in love but I feel sad sometimes like I can't be without him and when we are together everything is great but as soon as we part It makes me feel terrible why does it hurt so bad? Is love supposed make you feel the ... (65 words)

He has a thing about trying to see my panties all the time!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4904 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Whenever I'm alone at home with my boyfriend (whether his home or mine), he constantly tries to see my panties from under my skirt or by tugging down the side of my pants. When he just started doing it, it was fine, but he does it literally almost every time we're together. He ... (92 words)

Do I have a chance of being with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know if this boy likes me? Okay there is the boy in the 7th grade (im in 8th)named Robert and I like him but I don't know if he likes me. He doesn't seem interested but one day I was walking down the street and him and his friend were walking and his friend was talking ... (114 words)

I want to take her out on a date but I don't know how best to ask her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

15 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, I have met this girl and really like her and I want to take her out on a date but I just don't know how to ask her???? help ... (30 words)

I am stuck between my boyfriend and my ex. Please Help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. I do love him. He's a good guy but I'm afraid that I may still love my ex boyfriend from three years ago. I thought I let go of him but everytime we talk or bump into each other we fall back in love. He begs me for a second chance ... (86 words)

Is LOVE evading me or do I have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5886 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known LOVE for 10 years. LOVE is 26 yrs old while I'm 18 yrs old. Our dads are best buddies. Unfortunately, we didn't get the chance to meet up often as distance set us apart (we are frm different states). Besides, he's studying Medicine in a American Uni while im ... (574 words)

I'm in a "secret" relationship with a female friend, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5886 days ago

15 March 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Confused about my sexuality (possibly) question. I've been in one relationship with a female best friend of mine, in total secret, for 1/2 a year. this 'secret' relationship halted when she ended things with me saying that 'it wasn't for her anymore and that she had to move ... (450 words)

What can I do to stop him hasseling my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

15 March 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, so this is a real toughy to say the least, and I've got no idea what to do.. so here goes: I've been dating a girl, and she told me a cop I know (some guy who's fined me for drinking underaged a couple times) has added her to Facebook and MSN and has started trying t... (187 words)