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Why has he been acting so withdrawn?

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6 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am a married woman who has developed a strong friendship with a work colleague. Things were progressing well - we would talk about our lives - me about my marriage and he about his past relationships and also about our work woes. I realised that talking about my marriage ... (80 words

How long does it usually take for a woman to orgasm?

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Me and my boyfriend have known eachother for 3 and a half years now, all through high school. We started going out last Valentines day, (Feb. 14, 2008) and have been having sex since the end of march. Our sex life is absolutely fantastic, as well as our whole relationship ... (138 words

Should I break up with him over this?

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6 December 2008 (? age 18-21 - Im a vagan and my boyfriend (im 15 and hes 16) eats meat like it's the only food left in the world. I tried not to let come between us but one day we went to a restaurant. He ordered veal When he got it he was bf: Look its Betty the cow. He started playing with it. ... (94 words

Am I reading too much into the vibes I get from her?

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6 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi Dear Cupid readers. I've got a problem! Hence why I'm here!! I've got this huge attraction to another woman... I'd even go so far as to say I'm in love with her. I want to tell her because this is killing me. Problem is, I don't know how she feels about me... We're gre... (141 words

We were just friends, now I don't have a clue!

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hey. So here's the problem, I have the greatest friend in the world, just call him J. Well me and him have had so many great times together and I love him more than anyone in the world, seriously. Well all was alright but then one morning I woke up beside him after a night ... (264 words

In love with my best friend's boyfriend, what do I do?

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Ok, here it goes. I'm in love with my best friend's boyfriend and I don't know what to do, it hurts just to talk to him, he always says how he's useless and nobody needs him and that he's a waste of space and everytime I speak to him U just wanna say, your not, your not, I need... (188 words

I feel my wife uses sex to control me, so frustrating!

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6 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - I've been married now for four years and we have two kids four and 1 year old. This is my second marriage. My wife and I argue often. Not in front of the kids though. When things are good they are great but we probably argue around 50% of the time. Our sex lives i... (150 words

What is acceptable to buy my married teacher for X-mas? We're friends.

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hi I want to buy my english teacher a present for xmas. He's not just my teacher, he's more of a best friend to be honest. He got me a birthday prezzie a while back, so i feel kinda obliged anyways. However, he is married and Im fairly young (17) and female, and i don... (303 words

My boyfriend's always contradicting himself!

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - hello. Ive been with my fience for nearly 3 years now. we've grown up together and we've both turned 20. I dont ask for much,just want him to be there for me,to love me,and to get spoiled from time to time. which i dont but i get told how much he lvoes me etc.. our relt... (198 words

How to show him it hurts when I make an effiort to spend time together and he backs off?

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6 December 2008 (F - i spent the last 2 days working hard and kissing so much ass at work to get monday and tuesday off so i can spend the days with my bf now he told me he asked to do extra shifts thoses days even though he knows i worked so hard to get them off. his next day off wont be until ... (153 words

My boyfriend is addicted to pornography online, should I worry?

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6 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Pole dancers and pornography issues. I have been dating a guy for around nine months and we recently moved in together. We are really in love and are incredibly compatible and have discussed very long term plans together..however a stash of internet porn links and saved po... (158 words

I tend to get a rash after shaving my pubic area, any tips to avoid this?

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Please help! I have noticed that when i shame my pubic area that i tend to get a rash afetr which is really painful and itchy does anyone have any tips or could tell me why this happens?? ... (38 words

My life in a nut shell: bad marriage, and I want my ex back!

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6 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm Married and have been for over a year now. In the begining it was great. Life was perfect... til she hit twenty one. Shes always been the party drinking type, but now it is worse. She works nights and I work days, but when it's the weekends, she sleeps till five at ... (335 words

I am afraid to try any more because I'll end up rejected anyway?

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6 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi i see so many girls my age and younger then me with boyfreinds and i missed out all along the way because i was getting rejected.by guys who had girlfreinds in the past and know how to get girlfreinds and kow how to kiss and know how to get what they want.next year will ... (249 words

Pinky at first, then brownish discharge, what could it be?

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - This is really wierd and embarissing but i keep getting this wierd stuff in my knickers like discharge but different. It started off a pinky colour but now its gone quite a dark brown. I have no idea what it could be. Anyone help?... (44 words

I have never been kissed but now I have to kiss on the stage, any tips?

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - I am in a school production. I have a few kissing scenes... problem is I have never been kissed. I am ok with a stage kiss and he is also and that is what the director wants but in the play I am a very aggressive character that kisses him. I don't know how to stage kiss, were ... (68 words

How can I cover up unwanted hair?

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6 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - I need some advice regarding unwanted hair (under arms), it doesn't matter if I shave, wax or whatever I always have stubble left and I think that there is a yellow/green shadow, I have been to my GP and she says it's normal just hair folicals, could I put make-up on to cover ... (56 words

Should I go and clean myself up after sex?

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6 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have decided to sleep together and I am a virgin (which he doesn't know) after we have done the deed so to speak, should I go and clean myself or should we just stay together.... (39 words

I'm bleeding excessively during and after sex! Is this normal?

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - I was wondering if you could help me! I have been in a sexual relationship for a couple of months now and after and during sex ive been bleeding excessively and was wondering if this is normal??? please help... (40 words

Is it ok for me to be getting non-sexual affection from him if I WANT it?

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - I am in a rather unconventional situation. I am at a comparatively young age [look upwards], and recently I have become kind of physical with a man who is around 50. Nothing sexual really, I have known him for a bit over a year, and a month ago I kissed him on the cheek. He... (151 words

My fiance turns out to be a porn addict!

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6 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - hi my name is priscilla. i just came to united state to met my fiancee we been dating for 4 years now but distant relashionship so now i,m here with him i,d just foundout that he is a porn addict we use to have a lot of sex but his not satisfied without masturbating i love ... (113 words

Do men really only want women with big breasts?

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6 December 2008 (F - Do men really only want women with big breasts - my breasts are no bigger than Kate Moss's - I'm naturally small, but worry men will be disappointed when I get undressed !... (33 words

I feel like an un-wanted guest, what should I do?

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6 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - Help, my friend invited me and another friend to cape town. we had a great two weeks. on the way to the airport he persuaded me to stay for a few months and go traveling with him. This went down very badly with his girlfriend who was angry he never consulted her. Now, he's ... (200 words

Which one???? They're both so appealing to me...

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - He's soo adorable... The way he laughs and when he's there for me...Lets call him RF. Theres just one probem...i love him. I have a boyfriend too...i love RF as much as my boyfriend(KL) but they cant stand each other=/. KL is supposed to be taking me to Australia after im ... (212 words

Can she get pregnant if I ejaculate on her vulva?

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6 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - I've been having sex with my girlfriend just recently. 98% of the time i have wore a condom. but me and my girlfriend prefer to not use them. is there a chance she can get pregnant if i ejaculate on the outside of her virgina. (on her virgina, not in it) ???... (52 words

I'm scared I'm going to mess things up if I tell him I like him.

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Well for a while I've been hanging out with a friend (who I've liked for a while now...) he's been coming over for a while and we've been having a good time. A couple weeks ago something happened, and we ended up making out. It...was to say the least.. wonderful and we ... (587 words

A big misunderstanding?

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6 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - was at my first works party getting along with everyone and settling in quite well. at the end of the night when there was a small group of us left one of the guys at work came on to me quite strongly he tried to kiss me kept trying to feel me up i pushed him away and tried to... (306 words

What song should I do for my audition and do you have any tips?

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - well, this is one of those questions that isnt really a relationship question.. but i do need help. well anyways.. in a few weeks, i plan to audition for our school musical. im only in jr high, ninth grade.. and this is my first year being involved wth drama, i was in ... (131 words

Why can't I make new friends or meet someone?

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6 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 21 and in college. I've never really been popular but have always found friends, or more like they found me and welcomed me in. In grade school when I knew no one I became best friends with two girls who were best friends and in turn became part of their group of ... (326 words

29, never kissed and I'm scared at the thought, too!

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6 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - i am 29 yaers old and i never ever kissed a guy in whole life nevr even once i don,t know ow and partly scared of it too.how do people french kiss ... (32 words

I'm getting to the point where I just want to run away from this small town.

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - im getting to the point where i just want to run away from this small town! ive been suffering from depression for quite a few years but i only started counselling a few months ago. my friends are treating me like shit lately. they use me for advice then just ignore me. ... (399 words

Can I really get married with these doubts?

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6 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - I have been with my fiance for four years now and am due to get married in 6 months. I always thought that she was the one for me, but now I am not so sure. My previous relationship of two years (and first love) ended when we both moved away to different sides of the cou... (183 words

Should I wait until I don't need my braces to ask her out?

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6 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - i have no confidence due to my braces but im in love with this girl. should i wait until i get my confidence back in 4 month or ask her out now?... (33 words

How can I deal with these rumors?

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hey everyone :) Well basically me and my ex boyfriend (we broke up in like feb last year!) got really close since the break up, as in friends, nothing else, although were so close like best friend close we can hold hands and stuff and know its just a friendship! Anyway during ... (272 words

Did he dump me?

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6 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating with this guy for 3 years.He recently lives in Lisbon for getting an Portuguese residence.He used to call me and we talked on the phone every week.I live in Madrid since we dont see each other alot,i knew that he doesnt have a girlfriend.He does not work at ... (276 words

My ex is cheating on the mother of his baby with me and says he wants me back.

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6 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Alright me and my ex boyfriend who broke up 2 yrs ago,we are still in contact.I am still sleeping with him,and Have been for 4 months now.He has told me he still loves me and wants me back.But the had a baby with his exgirlfriend 2 weeks ago.I am so afraid of getting hurt.I am ... (94 words

I've fallen in love with my singing teacher, but shes married and alot older then me.

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6 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - I'm 16 and quite a shy boy, I always have been and have a very close knit group of friends. I also attend singing lessons and have done for close to 5 years now, and over the years I've built a strong friendship with my teacher who is female but fairly older then I am (Shes ... (330 words

How do I make sure he's not playing me?

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6 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I am 22yr old and have just come out of a 3yr relationship. My first love and sex experiance. He ended it with me and i was devastated. Its been a month now i feel better in myself and i seem to be getting interest fron men. One in particular has caught my eye, h... (185 words

I am still attracted to her as much as when we were young, could my weight be the problem?

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6 December 2008 (M age 51-59 - i am a 50 yr. old male and my wife is 56 we got married when i was 17 and she was 23 she was and is still a very beautiful woman she looks to be in her 30s insted of 56 i have gained a few pounds over the years she as always is very tiny 120 at 5ft 4inches i on the otherhand am ... (193 words

What are some ways to boost my sex drive?

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - What are some ways to boost my sex drive? I've heard certain foods or herbal supplements can help. I'm on birth control; i've heard this can lower the sex drive? Has anyone else had the same experience? Also due to work and school I'm always exhausted and stressed out which I'm ... (68 words

I think I love my teacher! But I don't even think he's good-looking!!

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - i have been feeling like this for about 2 months now, so i know its not a 5 minute fling or whatever. but i think i have feelings for my english teacher! i get so excited for my english lessons and i must admit i do show of quite alot, just for him to notice me! yesterday after ... (231 words

He says he's losing his sex drive, how can I go about fixing this?

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6 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi I've been reading over the porn and sex topics on this site and noticed a lot of variations but i am after some advice, and especially after a male perspective.. I have been with my boyfriend not long - about 6 months, and i am happy to say (after many disappointments ... (583 words

He gives me mixed messages but we are just friends! How do I know if he wants more?

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6 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi I am so confused. How do I know if a guy wants more than just freindship? Myself and this guy are very close, we do a lot of things together as freinds. I have known him a few years now. I am very reserved on my feelings, always have been, he does not have a clue I ... (488 words

Is he trying to make me jealous?

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi there, really hoping someone can help me.. I've liked this guy for a good few years now and although we've grown close and I've become one of his best friends he's never wanted to be anything more. Last year he found out that I liked him and told me straight out that he ... (288 words

My husband told his ex he only stays with me for our child, I don't know what to do...

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6 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Okay I read my husbands messenger conversations, and well he told his ex that he was no longer attracted to me and the only reason he wont leave me is because of 2 year old. I confronted him and he told me that he was just being a jerk and it was all lies. I dont know what to ... (118 words

How long will the "limerence" last this time??

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - At first glance this may seem like many of the other 'internet crush'-related questions, but I promise I actually do have a point, so please bear with me for a moment. I've already seen a lot of the answers to these types of questions so I'd like to start off by saying that my ... (618 words

He told me he didn’t fancy me anymore but how could this happen?

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - About 9 months ago my friend told me that he was attracted to me and I admitted that I had feelings for the guy too but we decided to just stay friends. One night, a few months later, he came over to mine and we had a cuddle and ‘dry humped’ and he said that it could never ... (367 words

I feel awkward since I caught him masturbating - how will this affect us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2044 days ago

6 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Yesterday I caught my boyfriend masturbating. I know its normal and im not "jealous" like some people on here have been. I just think that its something that should be kept private (i know some people like to share it, its a matter of personal opinion) This sounds stu... (149 words

Do girls remember emotional moments longer then guys?

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6 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - hello...i read the other day that girls are more emotional then guys...well, i know this to be a fact, but do they tend to keep emotional moments in their minds alot more then guys do? For example say i got my girlfriend a gift to make her happy like a box of chocolates lo... (85 words

Fashion question...

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Is it ok to wear a red satin dress with some simple blue suede heels?... (15 words

Pro's and Con's of being friends with benefits for a guy who's never had a girlfriend...

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6 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have read lot about FWB( Freinds with benefit) Relationship. Some are having it with one, Some are simultaneously having it with 2-3 partners. Some are involved in it premarital, some are inovolved in it after being married also. I am 20Y old. So far have never been in any k... (107 words

I'm falling in love with him... but it's his fault!

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi there. I have a problem. I'm 14 and I have liked this boy for a while now and he has said in the past (only a few days ago) he likes me too. The thing is, he has a girlfriend BUT he says he likes me aswell. He flirts with me on msn and webcam ALL the time and keeps saying he ... (144 words

We're friends who have sex, but are we really friends?

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6 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Yet again I find myself let down. Story of my life really. I seem to meet blokes who constantly lie to me and use me. Anyway point of this question is that I met a guy a few months ago, who I really like - I think he's totally amazing! He lives about an hour away from me ... (569 words

2 men are being friendly... or are they being more than friendly?

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6 December 2008 (F - I would like to know whether either of these two men are showing interest in me. First one at my child's school. He came past and very politely said hello and on the way home from school he passed me on the opposite side of the road and smiled at me. Every so often he has ... (394 words

Do I date my male manager or female co-worker?

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6 December 2008 (? age 22-25 - Dear Cupid Members, I need some killer advice... I am 19m and I am bisexual. I have a crush on my manager he is a sweet caring guy and we flirt all the time, but I dont know what his sexuality is he found out I thought he maybe gay, and he did not deny it! He has ... (228 words

My wife doesn't want sex but this other woman does...

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6 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hey guys i need your advice. I am married since last 7 years. I am tall and with good physique. My wife has become overweight. Her belly has become very fat. She remain frustrated all the tiem. Has no charm in life. Go to job , come home , eat and sleep. She don't have any sex ... (156 words

My husband doesn't seem to like sex, or even masturbation?

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6 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - My husband is a 36 year old male who has a low sex drive. We have been married for 3 and a half years and he very rarely initiates sex (usually after I have nagged him about it). He is very affectionate and loving, yet that does not seem to translate into having sex. His work ... (203 words

I was her teacher for a while, and now we want to marry once she is old enough, but what will people say?

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6 December 2008 (? age 30-35 - my girlfriend is 10 years yunger to me,i am 25,we are madly in love and plan to marry after she joins some college that is 6 years from now.m ready to wait but is this relationship socially acceptable coz i for 1 year was her teacher in school and also gave her tutions for sm ... (81 words

Stuck on his ex girlfriend... but he says he wants to date me?

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6 December 2008 (F - There is this guy (21 years old he is, and i am 19) and he says he likes me alot, and wants to be in a relationship with me. I like him too but there is one thing which is keeping me from saying yes to him. He seems to be still stuck on his ex gf. He had a gf for 4 years and ... (268 words

Can any Irish Men help my understand the male mind and how they think?

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6 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - how does a girls stop being rejcted ? why sme guys only ask out cerain girls and not others? why are guys so shallow and mean ? why do some guys never get rejected by girl they like.but when a girl likes guy she gets rejcted how is that? why do the guys get all the control?... (168 words

Anyone got any comments or support for me? I feel a bit numb at the moment.

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6 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I text my boyfriend this morning to ask him to come over after work so that we could talk (I want to break up with him). He immediately called and said that he was busy and couldnt come over but we could speak over the phone, he asked if I was breaking up with him (we have had ... (290 words

I would welcome more fun in my life, what should I do?

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6 December 2008 (M age 18-21 - Hey, well here is the thing. My life is so boring! All of my friends have things going on like relationships/hook ups, my brother is going to uni my best mate has a really beautiful girl after him and i have nothing like that at all. Every day is the same and nothing remotely ... (81 words

I would like to suggest a FWB relationship but how will I do that?

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6 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - So, basically the thing is that I am very sexually attracted to a work colleague, and I am sensing attraction from his side too, or so I think.. I would really like to propose a sort of a "friends with benefits" relationship to him, but I have no idea how to do that...W... (144 words

Her dad says I can't see her again. What can I do?

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6 December 2008 (M age 18-21 - Help please and thank you. OK so, normally i answer things and an pretty well minded about relationships. But i just entered a situation that even i cant figure out. please help me. OK, so i went to my girlfriends house tonight, and I'm not detailing what we did cause... (243 words

After ALL my sacrifices for her, she doesn't care! I have wasted 9 years. Please advise.

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6 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi. I'm a British guy who was divorced after a long term relationship. I'm from a South Asian background. I posted up my details on a matrimonial site as I was 31 at the time and needed to find a companion. Altho many many girls were interested, I recieved an email from one ... (772 words

She thinks I cheated on her... how can I explain?

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6 December 2008 (? age 22-25 - Me and my girlfriend went to a party together. Well turns out my ex was there and I think she was a bit drunk too. We just were catching up a littie when she tried to kiss me. I did what I could to stop her but then my girlfriend walked in the room. She got so upset I had take ... (89 words

I need opinions on whether staying with him is worth it!!??

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6 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship with someone for about a year now and there was a time recently when we broke up for about a month or so. In that time the both of us got involved sexually with other people, but have said that it was nothing serious. Now we are trying to rebuild ... (187 words

Mixed up man...

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6 December 2008 (M age 51-59 - I am a 49 yearold male, I am happily married to my wife of thirty years but I have a problem, I am very much in love (lust) with her 39 year old daughter. She is not aware of this and I will keep it so but she looks so much like her mother it is unreal, they look more like ... (133 words

He calls me a promise breaker!

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6 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend since last 2 years. I had true feelings for him, I oftenly used to tell him upto which extent I loved him. Though he never said to me verbally that he loves me. Whenever I happened to ask, he always replied: "My feelings are silent". We were ... (364 words

My two best friends have fallen out with me, what can I do to win them back?

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - This has been weighing down on me and I really can't take it any more.. me and my 2 best friends (I have more best friends than them.. but we were the closest) aren't friends any more.. they never treated me right, they're mean to me, and etc. I have a boyfriend and they think ... (274 words

How to stop crying over a guy? Please help me I need it!?

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6 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I hate myself, I'm hopelessly in love with a guy who will never be mine. He's far away and I've being crying for TWO ******* YEARS now. I feel a BIG HOLE in my soul, and nothing seems to cure it. I pray at night to God to make me forget him, and to send me someone with whom I ... (175 words

Every time we fight the thought of seeing other people interests me...

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6 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - I am 20 years old, my fiance is 19. Without giving too much detail, I am an up and comer entrepreneur in the creative entertainment business, run my own company, all that stuff. Met my fiance 9 months ago, we fell absolutely in love. She is an extremely beautiful woman, if I ... (674 words

When sex is no longer holding two people together, because it's dead, is it too risky to stay together?

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6 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - When sex is no longer holding two people together, because it's dead, due to impotence, or other reasons, is it too risky to stay together? Is there a much bigger chance to leave each other for someone else?... (40 words

Why am I the exception?

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6 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - Shes 23, I'm 18. She has a boyfriend who is 24. About a year ago, we started talking as friends. A few months later I found her calling me every day. We've been talking non stop every day for the past year, without missing a day. Texting is a part of that also. It's const... (464 words

She gave me an STD, now I don't know whether to stay or leave.

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6 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - I just recently found out that the (only) girl I've been seeing and having sex with for the past couple months gave me an std; doctor was called and said that I tested positive. Recently our condom broke so I'm guessing that's when it happened. I waited until I was sure about ... (333 words

How can I get off this drug?

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6 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - Someone help - this weird thing I have for marijuana. I been smoking for a year now but I am hooked on it. It's about 2-3 joints a day. I'm finding it difficult to stop. Anybody got any suggestions for me? I'm 18 by the way. ... (46 words

We've been dating for three months, how can I tell if he's ready to commit?

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - This close guy-friend of mine and I have dating/friends with benefits for about three months, but neither one of us has been seeing anyone else since we've started seeing each other. Lately he's been occassionally using words like "not-quite-boyfriend" to describe himself... (292 words

Period pain/cramp.

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - I'm 16 and I started my period when I was 12 and every month I have unbearable pains I think it's geting worse every time. I always miss a day off school if I start on a school day. I cry out in pain and throw up all day. I've taken (at different times) exedrin, mydol, ... (101 words

Does he really like me but is too shy to admit it?

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6 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am in love with an older guy who I think likes me back (I'm not sure, but he flirts with me a lot; we're good friends at the moment). Anyway, I'm coming home for Christmas and he and I are planning on getting together. He's been joking with me a lot, saying that he's going to ... (87 words

Did he try to hook up with my friend?

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6 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for about a month and have been telling him all along I don't want a relationship but he's been trying to convince me that we should be together...it seems like it's moving toward that direction until the newest development. Preface: He, his good ... (209 words

Been with him for 8 years now but he has no financial stability.

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6 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating the same guy for 8 years and we are not moving forward mostly because I will not. He is kind, caring and handsome, but he has no financial stability and we totally are different when it comes to parenting and resolving conflict. He is a great guy but I can ... (65 words

He's pressuring her for sex! Either they do it or they break up!

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6 December 2008 (? age 22-25 - My sister (she's 14 and I'm 17) came crying to me because her boyfriend (also 17 and my guy friend) has been pressuring her for sex. It's either they do it or he's breaking up with her. I mean never saw her this upset before. I could get my boyfriend beat him up but he might ... (64 words

Will there be any penalties for my boyfriend? I'm 16, and pregnant.

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 18, I am pregnant with his baby. Will and I been dating since i was 14 and since he was 16. Him and I have been having sex since I was 15 and he was 17, my parents had no idea. On this week Tuesday my boyfriend and I went to a clinic where I took a... (183 words

I cant get my new boyfriend to come...confused as to why seeing as all my ex boyfriends are premature ejaculators!

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6 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - My new boyfriend and I have a bit of a issue in the bedroom. He has a massive penis way larger than any iv ever seen before lol. The problem is that he dosent orgasm for absoloutly ages and most times I have to 'finish him off' so to speak by giving him oral sex. I feel abs... (201 words

He seems to think foreplay is too much work!

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6 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband seems to hate giving foreplay because he is too tired so we end up not having sex. He makes me feel horrible about myself because I need foreplay to get warmed up. He'll make a feeble attempt then suddenly stop because it's too much work and he's too ti red and he'll ... (95 words

Why has he changed so rapidly?

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Well, i met this guy through a friend and we started getting along. he was very shy when we used to meet up. one day we started talking about experiences and he said he doesnt make the first move and i sed the same then after i could see he wanted me to make the first move.i ... (193 words

I love her but she has a boyfriend, what do I do?

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6 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - I'm in love with my best friend, same old sorry haha. She is is in a 3 year long distance relationship, that is rocky to say the least. I finally told her one night "your my best friend but i want more than that, you dont feel the same way so we can be friends." She st... (387 words

He's throwing his life to drugs - how can I get through to him?

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - my best friend is the best thing that happened to me in years. a while ago he promised me he would never touch drugs, i believed him. then he did the unthinkable and turned to drugs. he knows i dont agree with it, he knows i get angry at him, im finding it physically draining ... (119 words

My friends-with-benefits has erection issues...

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6 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm in an open relationship with a 30 y.o. co-worker who is involved with at least one other woman seriously. We're just friends with benefits, and he claims to feel no guilt over being with me, but he is unable to reach orgasm while inside of me. This has happened ever since ... (273 words

Why is she getting excited over fireman if she hasn't lost interest in me?

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6 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been going through a tough time for the past month, we do not live together but been a couple for 14 months now. She works 2 jobs and we do not get to see each other very often, and it is now starting some friction, when we first started dating this was ... (230 words

I like my best friend even though she has a man!

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6 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - ok, so im 14 years old and my new best friend is 16. we are both girls. we are also both bisexual. she has been in a great relationship for almost 3 years and she really loves the guy. im starting to really like her though. ok scratch that, i have been really liking her and i ... (92 words

DNA test results!

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6 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok I'm trying to work things out with my boyfriend who cheated on me 3 years ago. There is a possibility he is the father of a little girl that is now two years old. My question is if a women asks a man what if I told you I was pregnant would you take me to get a dna test and ... (182 words

I really love him and need to tell him!!!

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6 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi There I hope you can help me. Well what it is... I'm totally in love with this boy but he doesn't know about it and I really wanna tell him but I dunno how to coz it's pretty embarrassing in case he doesen't like me :( I've known him for a while and he was also on hoild... (95 words

Too young to buy sex toys!

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6 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hi, i am 16 and in need of some help. My boyfriend and i have been talking about having sex together. We are both virgins and i am worried about the pain to come with losing my virginity. I decided that it would help if i was more ready when the time came and decided the ... (167 words

In the last two months everything seems to be fading...

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6 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - I met this girl in sumer school and I noticed her on the school bus so the next day I talked to her, everything just went so perfect and I got her number and everything, at the beginning we talked to much and had so much chemistry and got along so well, once summer school ended ... (476 words

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