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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I move on from being in love with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - This is the first time ive done this so please bare with me. Im 27 yrs old, im currently married, have been for 6 and a half years and i have 2 kids. For a little over a year my husband and I have had our ups and downs and I suffer from depression. In august I discovered chat ... (342 words)

What should I do about my ex? I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 296 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I have two questions: 1: Is it normal for a 13 year old girl to be eager for sex? 2: I just broke up with my boyfriend. He was being a jerk doesnt trust me, cusses and makes fun of me... He always says he will change but he never does and now I feel bad... and I think th... (123 words)

Should I tell her I love her or should I just keep my feelings sealed away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi I really need some help. Im 17, male from newcastle, and for the past year and a half I have been playing online gaming. About a year ago I started talking to a girl online, we immediately clicked and became good friends, recently though I think ive come to realise im in ... (294 words)

He forgot my birthday again! Should I continue with this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend forgot my birthday for the second time. We have been dating for about 3years now. Distance has always been a problem but it is so torturing and painful that for the second time, I had to remind him again and all he could say was work stress. I really dont know if ... (81 words)

I feel my ex is neglecting my son, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay I am at my last wits! My ex who I had a child with does not spend a dime of my child support payment on him! His clothes are too small (except for the ones I buy him during my visitation, which she sends back to me rather than keeps), his shoes are a size too small if he ... (172 words)

Can they really take my daughter away from me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently got a message from my ex boyfriend's new wife. She talked about how she went to social services and told them how I used my daughter to get back at him, yet all I did was take her away because he wasn't there for her anyway. Plus she said that my daughter has had ... (204 words)

Guys, how has a girl won you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - How can a girl win over a guy? Are there any specific lines that work? Scents? How can she get closer to the guy without seeming like a stalker? Please help!... (31 words)

I've met him twice but he never calls...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am dating this guy I met on the internet. He was honest by saying he want only an affair. The problem is the last 2 times I spent the weekend, after I had gone back home, he does not write me or ask how my journey back home was. Is it normal in an affair. Both times I h... (83 words)

I want to build a relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I want to build a relationship with this guy at my school (not a love one; he has a girlfriend) so that I'll be able to keep in contact with him in and through college and maybe meet up later in life (and maybe date?). I don't want to seem like a sketch either. Any advice would ... (59 words)

I got so turned on when I found my boyfriend pleasuring himself with my dildo. Am I weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Last week I caught my boyfriend pleasuring himself with my dildo... I'll leave it up to you to imagine where, but oddly, it really turned me on and we had the most amazing sex I'd ever had. Is it weird that I got turned on by this?... (47 words)

Friends hubby has feelings for me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was approached by my friends commonlaw husband and he said he has had feelings for me for a long time..He told me exactly when he started feeling this way and I remember the day I didnt even looked or even talked to him but he said that the way I looked and how I am took ... (170 words)

Can water be used for masturbation??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - can water be used for masturbation?? I was just wondering. I know people use their fingers and sex toys or whatever but Ii heard someone say they used water [[like letting the water from the shower go in her or something]] to masturbate.. So I just wanna know if thats ev... (57 words)

Why is he suddenly giving me the silent treatment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Why have I been receiving the silent treatment? This guy friend I have has been recently talking to me alot through texting, talking online, hanging out quite a bit and we have fooled around in the past and recently because of our attraction. In the past however, he's jump... (196 words)

Should I marry her even though I am not ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I know a girl who had a BIG crush on me during pre-undergrad days, when most boys in class were after her :-). I used to like her too, but we never expressed our liking to each other, and were just 'friends'. Later I moved to a diff college to study computers, and ... (265 words)

Girlfriend or the ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I need help, I'm stuck between my girlfriend and my ex. Me and my girlfriend have been arguing non stop for months on end and its just getting worse and worse but i still love her a bit, but me and my ex have been talking recently and she said maybe we should give it another ... (102 words)

My husband loves me, I know he does but he can't say it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my husband and i have been together for 7 years, married for 6. i love him with everything in me, he is my world. i know he loves me too, and we have a decent sex life and all of that, but he REFUSES to compliment me. this is something we've been going over and over since ... (355 words)

If he becomes a surgeon will this make him more prone to cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have read that "high profile" careers make men more prone to cheat and 31% do compared to 21% that cheat that make 25 grand or lower a year. I met my boyfriend through my best friend over the phone. She and I have been friends all my life and she said that he is a genuinely ... (90 words)

I'm pregnant and my husband's ex is stalking me! PLEASE-what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi! I'm 2 months pregnant and I have a major worry. Recently I told the hard truth to my husband's ex girlfriend about her inability to properly care for her daughter. I probably shouldn't have, but I was sick of her acting as if she's the best mother in the world, when she ... (219 words)

He's having an emotional affair with an old fling!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years. In the beginning everything was great. Then I find out that he was having somewhat of an emotional affair with a past "fling" (3 hour phone calls, text messages) a year and a half into the relationship. He said he would stop ... (172 words)

Why did he say he would call and now he hasn't? Do all guys do this? WHY?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Alright I know this question is like the ultimate girl question that gets asked all the time Why doesn't he call back?!?! except this time its not after the first date, just being niceness, at this point, we had hung out every weekend at a friends house for 6 weeks i... (212 words)

What happened when he went to the bathroom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - What does it mean when a man spends an excessive time in the bathroom on a first date. There was definetly an attraction and flirting was exchanged. He suggested we go back to my place but then changed his mind when he came back from the bathroom... (51 words)

How to make anal sex more enjoyable!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - How could I go about making anal sex hurt less and become more enjoyable and even arousing?... (17 words)

Is he falling for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is he falling for me? I am madly in love with a guy who I only see from time to time. At first he was quite cool, only calling me now and then and only giving me a quick peck on the lips when we met! - Now he is calling a lot more and calling me babe and love and also sent ... (110 words)

If I could back in a time machine..I cheated on my girlfriend and I'm sick

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - You never really know what you got till its gone....and its soo true. Here's my story, I started dating this girl named Amanda in high school I was 18 and she was sixteen. It started out as a typical teen relationship however I just got out of an 8 month relationship with a ... (1642 words)

How do I stop having sex with my ex? I'm getting tired of it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Help me, help me, help me.. How do I stop having these thoughts about going back to my ex to have sex with him? We are still cool. Even though we are broken up we mess around every now and then.. I'm getting kind of tired of it but every now and then I kind of want to use him ... (85 words)

What do women want and what do women need from a man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Ladies Please answer truthfully: What do women want and what do women need from a man? I just want to gain an understanding of you and how you tick. I'm only getting back confidence talking to women in some varying situations both inside the work area and outside... (81 words)

My husband spends far too much time with my dad, neglecting ME!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 28, married with a 7-year-old young son and a 4-year-old son, and my husband's 30, working as an IT consultant. We are popular, and our lifestyle is good. I've become concerned recently about the amount of time my husband is spending with my dad - in fact he's spend... (476 words)

I am very well lubricated before and during intercource - does this favour squirting? How do I go about squirting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 300 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend is studying to be a doctor. He's very good to me and I love him very much. He once mentioned 'squirting' to me; he said it would be a huge turn on. I didn't think I was even capable of doing such a thing l thought only girls in porn flicks could do it because ... (109 words)

My boyfriend loves sleep more than me!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello all, I'm in such a deliemma with my boyfriend, I always feel like he cares more about himself that he des me. When we have sex, we dont really do much foreplay, well thats to say its not returned. I do things to him but he wont do anything back. Then if I'm foreplaying ... (474 words)

After our break up we slept together again, she told me she had sex with 2 of my friends. How do I get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend said we were broke up. She still told me she loved me and still had sex with me then she told me she had sex with 2 people that were supposed to be my friends. How am I supposed to get over that. She also got back with me before telling me this and now wants to ... (76 words)

What do you enjoy hearing from your man after you have had sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (M) age 18-21 - Women please reply… What do you enjoy hearing from your man during sex? What kind of things do you enjoy doing after intercourse? What do you enjoy hearing from your man after you have had sex? ... (41 words)

I just got my tongue pierced. How can I pleasure my boyfriend without using my mouth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I just got my tongue pierced. How can I pleasure my boyfriend without using my mouth? What sex positions would be really pleasurable to him?... (25 words)

Stuck in the middle, don't know who to choose.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - My New Bf {shaw} He's Wonderful we been together for almost 3 months we were friends first before anything. A month ago My ex {alex} came to my basketball games he was also my first love and he also has my virginity. But we broke up over the summer and he comes in november and ... (162 words)

What made him tell me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and I finally starting talking again. I told him I missed him and he replied back telling me that he missed me too. He also told me that he hasn't been having sex with anyone. So my question is: What made him tell me that he hasn't been having Sex? I didn't ask...... (55 words)

I want to do something special for him on our first anniversary...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Me and my boyfriend will be going out for a year on january 3rd. I want to do something special for him, but he's grounded so he can't leave his house. That means I'll only see him in school. I thought it would be a bad idea to buy him a present because christmas is going to be ... (98 words)

What's wrong with my way of thinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Why do people have relationships if there is no intention of marriage? I'm 22 and I've had 2 girlfriends in my life which I know is a little pathetic (or at least my friends think it is), but I knew both those girls before we started dating and I knew that there was marria... (231 words)

What is my exgirlfriend's intentions here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm having a hard time with my ex-girlfriend. I don't know how to act towards her and I don't know what to think of her actions. Maybe you could help me out here? The basic story is we dated for a short period of time and I fell head-over-heels for her. Then her ex came... (470 words)

I'm looking for advice on how to let him know that I'm interested or keen without being too forward!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - hi I have a second date with a guy I really like and I'm hoping that things will progress into a relationship!I'm looking for advice on how to let him know that I'm interested or keen without being too forward! I'm not into playing mind games so no tricks etc, I like bein... (170 words)

How to tell your ex you still love him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I posted a Q earlier about what to do about my ex. An idea was to just tell him how I feel, but I’m not sure how to. Just briefly what happened, was that I broke up with my bf 2 months ago (been together for nearly 2 years). I thought it would just be a couple of days for ... (230 words)

Does he want me or his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My ex boyfriend and I broke up and he's back with his ex. Everybody that knows me and him thinks that we're going to end up back together. A lot of his friends say that his girlfriend now is trying to compare herself to me b/c she doesn't want to lose him. They say that she ... (158 words)

Will this break her hymen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my gf went to a movie today, we were seated to the corner seats, taking advantage of the less crowded theatre and started to kiss and touch each other. Later on I put my hand inside her pants and started to finger her vagina, no blood came out but she had a little pain. ... (109 words)

I don't want any forced commitment from him, only for him to acknowlege his child.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I am 26. I met this guy on the internet. We had a date. I asked him what type of relationship he wanted from me. He said he wants an affair that he is dedicated to his work and have no time for serious relationship. I decided to go on with him hoping that with time he wil... (140 words)

He wants to have sex with me but he's having sex with another girl too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everybody. I met a guy 3 years back. We became good friends. He has been waiting for sex with me since 3 years. I have started loving him though he never says that he loves me too. But he wishes to have sex with me. He has also admitted that he is having just sexual ... (95 words)

I have a new boyfriend now but I want to get back with my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My ex boyfriend and I were together about five months. And through that entire five months we were soo happy together. We did everything with each other and spent nearly the entire day together all day every day. He would always want to see me and I wanted to see him. He ... (440 words)

I've ruined our relationship many times but I still want him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - ive ruined every relationship ive ever had and now ive lost the one guy i love and i have true feelings for.. we have been on and off for ages.. but everytime we get together i jeopardize it! I break his heart and i just cant do that to him any more and i no i was the only... (164 words)

Every time we have sex I get torn--any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Seventy percent of the time we have sex, he tears me. I tear near the little part just below the vagina (it commonly tears during child birth). Not a big tear, but just enough to make it uncomfortable. Everytime it happens he stops our love making. He apologizes and it really ... (106 words)

I am really stressed and depressed, I feel I have nothing...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - life for is very depressing i live in town in ireland where there is nothing but houses and small few shopni gym and no nightlife and no where to go.very very few sports clubs..i hate the town i dying to leaave it but i can,t.i am 29 yaers old and i never had eny thing i can, ... (402 words)

I don't know which one is stronger, my head or my heart, how can I get over this teacher crush?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm so tired of being in love with this guy, that i can't have. I thought i would get over him soon, because it'll never work out...but yet, im still sitten here, love sick, and tired of it. I need help! I don't know how to get over him. Here's a shocker...he's one of my te... (310 words)

Anyone know anything about getting approval to come to the US from Phillipines?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - i have bf in california, and he wants me to come there from the philippines,what should i do? How easy will it be that he can get me in the philippines,and how long will it take to get the papers to fixed or approval? ... (47 words)

Can you be really good friends with your ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Can u be really good friends with your ex bf we agreed to stay mates but whenever i see him theres always a connection, he flirts and playfights with me it seems like where in a relationship sometimes, sometimes my mates think we are bk out, or that we hadnt split He dumped m... (104 words)

I have a pain on the left side of my breast, doctors don't know why, any idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a pain on the left side of my breast, I had an ultrasound and a mammagram done this year. They found nothing wrong. So, does anyone know why I have this pain? ... (34 words)

Rejection stories wanted please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi any one tell me there experiences of rejection so i wont feel like the only who has rejected million times in row. my experience of rejections leaves me thinking that all guys in the world are jerks for some reason or another. i feel very left and alone. why is it jerks al... (79 words)

We're not together should I tell him about ectopic pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 300 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - If you had an ectopic pregnancy would you tell the guy you were seeing? Not seeing each other more, just friends now. It wasn't serious. He knows you haven't been feeling well at all and this explains why . . . is it a waste of time and just causes drama for no reason?... (78 words)

Why does he flirt with me when he says he doesn't want me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone, This is about my ex bf, basically he dumped me nearly 2 months ago, anyway, we talk on the phone most days, see each other most days, just like when we where going out, Anyway, i still have feelings for him and he knows it, we where still having sex bout twice a... (285 words)

What would you do if your boyfriend had an arm fetish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ladies got some questions for you. sorry about length thanks in advance (Ladies only please) 1. do you have a lot of hair on your arms? 2. what color of hair do you have on your arms? 3. can you see your arm hair when your arm is wet? 4. how does your arm hair lay when your... (122 words)

No lust for g/f but I want her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hiya, I'm in a relationship at the moment which is coming up to two months. We've been PERFECT with each other up till now when the other week my partner's grandmother passed away and she had to go away to the funeral and she was gone for about a good 3 weeks. While she was ... (375 words)

I'm losing that loving feeling!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - hey im scared that i have stopped feeling for this guy fancy my ex i woke up this morning and i thought of him (like every morning) and i didnt get that buddley feeling in my belly and i put are song on , put my headphones in my ears , cuddled the teddy he got me and ... (231 words)

Her husband knows about us and she still won't leave him! I'm in agony!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 335 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am from INDIA. Let me make an honest confession. Sheer frustration has prompted me to write this. I am a married man aged 48 years. I am in love with my cousin brother’s wife since last 4 years. She is 34. Has a girl child aged 7 yr. Her husband is loving and caring. There ... (1436 words)

I'm clearly unhappy, my fiance sees this but why can't he just let me go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Im clearly unhappy, my fiance see's this but why cant he just let me go? My life is pathetic! There is this man who I had loved soo much and now well, I will always have love for him. I live around his world. I have his friends, I see his family, if i want to once a yearly... (550 words)

I caught my ex looking at me when he didn't think I'd notice. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

- Best of the season to all. Whenever I see my ex, which is not that often he is a bit funny. I was at a party last night and when I came in the door he just looked away and did not say hi. As the evening went on I did see him look my way when he thought I was not looking. I am ... (88 words)

My grandmother who raised me is overprotective, how can I get her to trust me and let me go to dates, events, etc?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 340 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - my parents left me with my grandmother when i was only nine months old. living with her is great at times but she's a little over protective. i'm 17 now and i've never been on a date.i have never been out with friends or to school events. i'm a senior now and i'm worried that i ... (99 words)

My marriage is falling apart-I need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This question goes with the one I read my husband cuts me down all the time and tells his friends bad things about me. I have been married for 8 years and we have two wonderful children together. What do I do i still love him but I can't take his behavior anymore. Sometimes ... (98 words)

My ex has a new girlfriend but still wants to sleep with me! Does he really care for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 317 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I recently just got out of a 7 year relationship with my boyfriend. I cheated on my boyfriend with a co-worker of mine and he ended our relationship. Its been 6 months since our relationship ended and he is currantly in a new relationship. He got with his new girlfriend a few ... (298 words)

I'm very ticklish, any way to get over this so I can enjoy his touches?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been trying to do things the past couple of weekends. I am a virgin so I really know nothing, him on the other hand is not. I would still like to remain a virgin but I will let him do other things to me. The thing I have a problem with is that I am ver... (115 words)

My boyfriend said I was a show off and hasn't talked to me in a week!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (?) age 18-21 - My boyfriend and me went to this summer fair (I live in Australia) and we stated playing this ball ball game when you knock down milk bottles. He was horrible at it, he couldn't make a shoot. I didn't want he waste his money, so I grab the last ball and knock down some. I even ... (111 words)

The ex who hurt me used to be my best friend. Why did he play these games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - dear cupid, i need your help. robert and i met my sophomore year of high school. we were very close for two years. he was my best friend. we loved to talk and hang out. he had the biggest crush on me and i knew it but i didn't feel the same so i acted like i didn't. he said he ... (505 words)

I was molested as a child, please help me, never told anyone besides my dad who didn't lift a finger!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 312 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My older brother molested me as a kid, then when I was 11 my cousin who was 19-20 molested me, at christmas. I told my father about my cousin and he did nothing. I resent my father so much for not helping me. My step-father always helps me no matter what. I don't understand ... (273 words)

Where can I, a really normal guy, meet someone of outstanding character in a most abnormal city?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Uhh, help. Please. I go to a college which has a 19:1 male to female ratio, yeah that's bad. The women that are here are all, well, corupt (that means averaging about 9-10 partners per month) and I want nothing to do with that (gross). So, I live in New York City, but I'm... (107 words)

Dealing with an out of control platonic friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 340 days ago

20 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm a 20yr old male, in college. people tell me that I have a paternal streak, or as some call it "old man syndrome". What I take that to mean is that I'm a bit of a downer, the "dependable one" and it shows in the way I treat people. The issue is that emotions that I'... (398 words)

Am I right that a threesome could ruin our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - The man I see regularly (kind of date) has told me that he enjoys threesomes and wants me to join him and an old girlfriend he has.. I said no (even though Im tempted). I always been against that sort of thing. I keep on avoiding the subject.. I think it could mess up the ... (86 words)

I get approached by men of all ages, it's getting weird, what's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

20 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 45 and single..Lately when I go any place I get approached by men of all ages (youngest 25) and I been told all kinds of lines to get me to go with them to have sex. Lines like "you are beautiful and seductive"" Tonight you are mine" " I saw your smile and I must get to know ... (244 words)

What can I do to get better in our private moments? She said I hurt her.

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20 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - this is kinda akward but.. well me and my girlfriend have been together a while and she recently "ran me to second base" and when i felt her breast she said it hurt, i wasnt being rough i was gentle, im worried that something may be wrong with.. them or me or something, any ... (67 words)

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend hasn't told his parents yet, I don't know what to do about this.

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 23 years old and my boyfriend is 22. I'm very close to 7 months pregnant and he has not told his parents yet. I have asked him if it would make him feel better if I was there too and he said yes but that was a little over a month ago. Also, he seems very distant with me, he ... (120 words)

My sister's boyfriend steals and gets drunk, I'm so worried about her!

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20 December 2008 (?) age 18-21 - I dont like my sister's (she's 14) boyfriend (he's 17 my age) because he gets drunk at a parties and he smokes. Also he shoplifts, he even has a criminal record for it. So you can understand why Im getting a bad vibe around him. The guy is a total loser. My parents even ban... (98 words)

I'm 25 and never had a date! Why do men never ask me out?

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - What are you supposed to do if you're were an ugly duckling that grew up to be an ugly duck instead of a swan? I am a 25 year old virgin and a girl. I've been reading some postings here from other people but my situation is different because I actually get ZERO interest fr... (308 words)

He says he doesn't love me! Should we break up?

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Here goes my story.. I met with my present boyfriend in college. When we met, I didn't find him particularly attractive in any sense and would have never thought about a relationship with him. He liked another girl at that time (her childhood friend who he is still close ... (397 words)

I've lost my control-all I think about is girls now!

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20 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - i don't know why i'm like this. When i was 17 i didn't even look at girls that way, and all my friends were going crazy over their bodies and underneath their clothes but i on the other hand had too much respect for girls. now i'm nearly 19 and i've turned into some freak. I'm ... (102 words)

First date what to wear??

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - first date curly or straight hair ? skirt or pants (date is at mall)... (25 words)

He's been waiting 2 years for sex-should I make him wait longer?

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - so...im 17 and my boyfriend id 19. i've been in a relationship with this guy since i was 15. he has been patiently waiting for me to give the signal to start our sexual conquest together. i'm ready but i still have doubts about the pain and pregnancy. what should i do? should i ... (73 words)

We broke up and now I'm confused about how he hugged me and acted

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I broke up about a month and a half ago. In the beginning of the week we met up so i can get my closure. We talk, cried, yelled and hugged a lot. The hugs lasted long and when i tried to pull away he wouldn't really let me. He also put his head on my shoulder ... (197 words)

Lesbian with high sex drive-is there something wrong?

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I all of a sudden i am having a high sex drive and also i'm a lesbian is there something wrong with me that I don't know... (27 words)

I hooked up with my ex and now I feel badly about it!

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My ex and I broke up about two weeks ago after a two-year relationship. Today, we were talking online and he told me to come over but I kept refusing, but eventually, I gave in. We ended up hooking up and now, I feel like it's going to take me longer to get over him. What's ... (147 words)

I hit my fiance and now I know why women have trouble with men!

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My fiance and I had an argument n i became very irritated that it lead to me socking him on his back and then when he turned around i socked him in his jaw..it was good n hard..I mean, it felt good but den i felt bad afterwards..ahahhahahahhaha..is it me or my mind is fukn me ... (202 words)

He loves me but doesn't care if we aren't physical?

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i have been dating this boy for almost a yr. and 4 months and i'm kinda confused. He always says he wouldn't mind if we never kissed or did anything physical. In fact he only kisses me because he knows that's what i want. I know i should be thrilled to get a guy who doesn't ... (191 words)

I only like sex when I'm drunk!

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok I like sex, it's great fun, feels good and so on, but the thing is, I only feel like I can do it whilst drunk. If I'm sober, I don't know, I just feel as if I cant, like slightly I don't have the confidence in a way. It's not a comfortability thing either, I'm more than ... (85 words)

What can I do to make my relationship last?

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - What can I do to make my relationship last? I keep on getting discouraging news from my classmates and from my parents on how relationships often fizzle out. I'm sure I love this man and I think I would like to be with him for the rest of my life. But I'm paranoid that we might ... (85 words)

I don't get this guy, but then again I am dumb. Can anyone tell me wtf is going on here???

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex broke up with me 3 months ago, we remained friends until 2 weeks ago. I stopped talking to him because I asked him if he didn't like to talk to me anymore and he said that I always ask difficult questions, so I stopped talking to him. I am in this new relation... (240 words)

How can I tell him my real age???

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok here's the story, I've been on this chat site for about 2 years, and because I was under the age you were allowed to join, when I joined, I obviously lied about my age, basically saying I was 3 years older than I actually am, I've built some very strong, good, and wonderful ... (163 words)

She told me "I want you in my life as long as possible."

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20 December 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Ok so me and this girl fell in love. But due to her religion we can't go out. Quote from her; "I want you in my life as long as possible" Opinions!?... (40 words)

How can I be more social face to face with women?

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20 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello, I'll try to make this short, basically I want to know how to be more social in face to face situations with women, can someone help me? I was also wondering if women in New York are nice lol. I don't want to sound arrogant, but I'm a fairly handsome guy, I have no ... (257 words)

Will we ever be happy, and will she ever stop punishing me?

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20 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Well, I dont really know where to start, because there is a lot of issues and things regarding my story which covers the last 2 years. Well anyway, to try and keep it simple... I met my partner 7 years ago, I was 20 and she was 17. We had never been in a serious relation... (744 words)

Don't want to get nasty!

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here it is I have told you all before that i was going through a divorce and today I went to see a lawyer and which he told me that my husband is suppose to be paying me more money for child support and also is going to have to pay allimony I told the lawyer I didnt want ... (245 words)

I am so confused. Please help!

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. Up until recently we broke up but we are still messing around. We have always been able to talk about anything. Since the death of both his grandmother and uncle he seems to change up....like he shuts down and tells me he ... (198 words)

Is he avoiding me? What should I do?

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I have a crush with a guy for the last 2 years in which we communicate by email since we met in person. I don't like to send a bunch of messages b/c he might think I'm clingy and stuff. We talk on the phone once a month. We talked on Tuesday and I even asked him to sen... (211 words)

I don't want to loose him, please help!

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I know I’m young, but I feel like I’ve lost the love of my life. My bf and I, of nearly 2 years, love(d) each other, but one day two months ago I had a fit and everything had become too much for me to handle at that point, so I broke up with him. I thought it would be just a ... (174 words)

How can I be more sexy?

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20 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm not really comfortable with wearing revealing clothes, etc. but how can I look/ seem sexier? Perfume? Wearing my hair a certain way? I'm at a loss.... (27 words)