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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

If I am pregnant it will make me the happiest woman alive, but I'm scared her reaction will cast a huge shadow over our happy news

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

- Hi. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 20. We haven't been together very long (6 months) but we are very much in love. We decided that I would stop taking the contraceptive pill to try and get pregnant. We are both sure that this is what we want, i have absolutely no doubts about our ... (237 words)

I have a boyfriend but have the hots for my best friend's brother.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok... So.. I'm a 14 year old girl in year 9 at school... and I have a boyfriend... he is 15 and in year 11... I really like him but there's a problem... my best friend has a older brother and he is absolutely amazing... He is 17 and I know my friend knows that I think he i... (187 words)

I don't know who to believe, him or the rumours...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy (let's call him A) who asked me out a few days ago. Before then, I had only known him for three weeks and had already heard many rumours of his womanising behaviour and lack of respect for his girlfriends and girls in general. However, he seems to treat me very ... (195 words)

I really need someone to shake me up and tell me to get a reality check.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is like a lot of typical cases.. but I really need help. I'm in my second year in high school, and I've had this same crush since the first week of freshman year. This guy had shared one class with me last year- which is how I got to "know him", but I've never a... (323 words)

With my partner, I get nervous with any contact...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i am in love with my partner n have very strong sexy feelings towards her, i become nervous with any contact....what should i do? ... (26 words)

I'm so scared about everyone around me dying.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really struggling to deal with the death of my grandparents. About a month ago my grandmother died after a long illness. We knew she was dying and although she stayed with us a lot longer tha any of the doctors predicted she would, her passing still hit everyone in the ... (381 words)

Why does my ex call everyday but not say anything when I pick up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - y does my ex boyfriend call me every day but when i pick up he doesnt say anything? i really like him and people say he likes me and when my friend askes him he says he luves me but when i ask him out or ask him if he likes me he says no? any help? do u think he likes me? y is ... (68 words)

Why are some guys so successful with girls and why are girls the ones who end up alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi how do guys get girlfriends so quickly and some girls don,t even get a chance. i know i like a guy he wouldn't even consider me a girlfriend understand no circumstances but others girls he would consider girls. girls that he doesn't even know. how is this? do guys only t... (305 words)

How can I get my wife pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I get my wife pregnant? Is there some sort of trick, a better position, pills? Tell me please!... (20 words)

Falling for someone else...she's married and I might as well be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been living with my girlfriend for 3.5 years in a house we've bought together. I love her but i don't know if I am or if I have ever been in love with her. Our relationship is stagnant and it seems like we stopped trying to get to know each other 2 years ago and lately all ... (406 words)

I'm completely put off by my boyfriend snorting cocaine.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - HI - I feel let down and have lost all respect for my boyfriend. The other night my boyfriend and I went to a house party, we both had a really brilliant evening. The next morning we went back to the house where the party was and spoke to the girl who's house it was, she ... (342 words)

Should I tell him I like him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I really like this boy and he's one of my REALLY good friends. We're freshmen in high school, and last year (8th grade) we met, and we became best friends, and I told him everything. I'm 14(15 next month) and he's 15, almost 16. Now that we're in high school we hardly ... (279 words)

If a man reveals his affections to the woman too soon, can this kill his chances of a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. Fifthquadrant here. This may sound a bit ridiculous/cheesy, but I was just wondering whether there are any women out there who have actually been willing to have a first date with a guy AFTER he has actually told her face to face that he 'likes her very much'. Aren't you ... (102 words)

I'm attractive woman and men want me, but I still don't want to move on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I was in a relationship for 3 in half years and it was a on and off relationship. My ex just broke up with me 2 n a half months ago. the relationship was a really bad one and my ex was a self centered, cocky, manipulating, possessive controlling, and jealous person. You ... (447 words)

What else can I say during phone sex? And how do I know when I cum?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, 4 years in June. The fact is, he and I met over the internet and that is how our relationship started. We talk on the phone every day, and sleep on the phone together every night. We've never met, but that isn't part of my ... (408 words)

Should I really trust this one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok so last year i ended a relationship after 3 years because he always accused me of cheating. I was so in love with this man, but he was so controlling, and demanding. He didn't want me to have no friends over and god forbid if i had a male friend. Well now all i do is think ... (156 words)

Is there any hope for our relationship and soon-to-be family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I got engaged a week or two after meeting. Things went really fast, but we felt we were madly in love and everything was wonderful. When I met him I knew he had been in a previous 6 year abusive relationship in which both parties constantly cheated on each ... (1226 words)

Penis size?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I've heard all the jokes, the snickering, and anything you can throw my way, so here's the facts: My penis is 5.5 inches when erect, and I bet I can still satisfy any woman (except for the skanks who have no more 'tread on the tires' and need a surgically enhanced dick to ... (60 words)

What can I do and say to make her like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - she is really goofy and funny. she's short(which is fun to tease her about) she's a pervert in a funny way and she thinks dirty stuff can be funny. i like her. we flirt alot but it could just be that she's flirty she is kinda considered our school slut but she's really cool. ... (99 words)

We dated for 3 weeks, he was my first, he up and left, 5 months gone, and I'm not over it?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please just take the time to read this so I can get some advice because I've been stuck on him for 7 months. I "unofficially" dated this guy back in May, we dated for a few weeks, nothing happened, we didn't kiss or anything. We were taking it slow because that's what he said ... (625 words)

Do people use this site to hook up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey there, Not necessarily advertising myself, but I was just wondering whether or not people use this site to hook up and 'get together'? Anyone?... (28 words)

I need tips on breaking someones heart...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi - I need advise on how to pluck up the courage to dump my boyfriend. He is a rebound relationship that has moved too fast too quickly and now he wants more than I can give him. I need to be on my own at the moment to sort my head out and move on, I never had time to grieve ... (115 words)

Can my school fax four transcripts to different schools?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I plan on transferring to another college for the spring but I am not sure exactly what college I want to go to. I haven't spoken with an advisor yet because I want to have my mind made up. Is it possible that they can fax my transcript to four different schools just to be on ... (60 words)

Can you get pregnant while on birth control if you have sex on your period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - um question... can you get pregnant while on birth control if you have sex while on your period?? are the pills un-effective?? and if you are pregnant will it kill the baby if you drink?? please help me!!!... (39 words)

Is it possible for men to have multiple orgasms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I was wondering if the rumors were true? Is it possible for a man to have multiple orgasms? Have any of you experienced multiple orgasms? Does that mean multiple ejaculations, or is it something different? Any information and/or tips and techniques would be helpful, ... (46 words)

How do I get over this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well I have recently been tricked into liking this girl at my school. She says she is bisexual but I don't believe that because she wasn't being serious about going out with me. She tricked me twice. The First time I had no idea until everyone told me then the second time ... (173 words)

Am I wrong for being mad at him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have just made 4 months yesterday. We didn't get to spend much time together like we planned because he had to go to his step father's graduation and I had school all day. Last month on our 3 months we didn't spend much time together either. As a matter of ... (282 words)

Any techniques that will help me last longer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey there, I just wanted to ask you guys if you knew any tips or techniques on how to make sex and masturbation last longer. It doesn't take me very long to cum, and I was wondering what I could do to lengthen the pleasure. ... (47 words)

How can you gain motivation when you don't have it in you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) age - Everybody says, when you are motivated, you can do anything. Reach all your goals, get better etc. But the question is how can you get the motivation, if you don't have it in you. I agree, from the point you have it, that is easy, but where can you start to find your ... (72 words)

Is it okay to masturbate while on your period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Hey this is more a question for the girls but any help is great! Ive recently started exploring my body and have stated masturbating I was wondering when you're on your period is it still okay to do? Thanks x... (42 words)

Was she expecting me to ask her out???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - help! i'm 13 and i fancy this girl and i know she considers me a mate. the other day she asked me who i fancied and i said her. thing was, she'd already figured that out and thought it was really sweet. so what do i do now??? i am hopeless at this sort of thing and don't have a ... (82 words)

What's with all my sex dreams lately??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been having sex dreams alot lately and i cant even recognize the guys in my dreams, ive never met them before and their different guys most of the time. i do have a boyfriend and he does pleaze me so i dont know whats wrong! heeeeelllllpp... (47 words)

I hate not talking to him and I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have started to like one of my best friends (DM) but my best girl mate likes him as well. recently he started bitching about her to me, but to her face he acts all nice. today someone told her what he said and he blamed me. now he wont talk to me and someone who is jealous ... (111 words)

How do I get over him? I've tried everything and nothing works...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - last year i ended a relationship with my first ever boyfriend because he accused me of cheating. for the whole of the year we were on and off, and everytime I took him back he would drop me as soon as he found another girl that he liked. B.ut no matter what he does i still cant ... (86 words)

Is he my toyboy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

5 December 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Hi everyone my question is this who come guys can date younger girls but girls cant date younger guys? I'm having this problem I'm 13 so's my bf but hes in the year below me I feel like we're falling in love we have loads in common and inseparable! But my best friend keeps ... (111 words)

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not sure what to do. My periods are never regular and I haven't had one this month yet. I am having all the symptoms of my period though just nothing yet. My boyfriend and I have had unprotected sex recently. Could I be pregnant?... (46 words)

My ex wants me back, but I just found out he was seeing my BFF while seeing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently split up from a 1 1/2 year relationship. my ex is now trying to get back with me but yesterday i found out he was seeing my best friend for the duration of our relationship. he tell me he loves me and wants to be with me but i dont know what i should do. please ... (61 words)

Should I have responded to a love letter I received from this guy in my office?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey there! A guy at work from a different department passed me a note recently telling me how he felt about me (i.e. positive stuff!) and that because he has suddenly realised that I'm actually seeing someone else in the office he has decided that this is a 'goodbye' letter of ... (340 words)

I have a boyfriend for 9 months but a crush on my best friend, What should I do!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I'm currently a freshman in college who commutes back and forth to school. My senior year in February I started dating this guy. I'm 18 and hes 20. It has now been 9 months we have been going out. I lost my virginity to him and he has became super attached to me. Its almost as ... (785 words)

Are my breasts/areola normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dearcupiders, I have a question regarding my breast. I am a size 34 C. My areola are some what big... when they become hard I find that its bumpy... not monstrously bumpy but you can tell around the nipple is not smooth. Is this normal, and one areola is more round th... (70 words)

Does he like me, not like me or just not know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Right, typical teenage boy trouble: BAsically, there's this guy i like at school (NM), and i really like him loads, and i wanted to find out if he liked me... so on msn last night i atold my friend i liked NM and asked her if she could ask him before we go on a school trip ne... (386 words)

Did prank calls kill our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey cupid, Ever since september there was this boy who i really liked at skool and he likes me... Well he used like me. Recently, some1 pranked called him and used my name in the prank call so he thinks it me but it wasn't and i know who it was but i don't want to say anyt... (304 words)

Is my marriage over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age - We have been married for 23 years. For the last 5 years my wife and I have not been getting along very well. She seems to avoid spending time with me and when she does, there is something missing between us. She has no problems getting out with her friends, some that I have ... (339 words)

I love this man soooo much but he shattered my heart, my world and the future in my eyes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm married to the man of my dreams and have a son who is 3 years old. He recently got back from Iraq and our family was whole again. He had an affair on his lunch break 3 weeks after getting back. I love this man soooo much but he shattered my heart, my world and the future in ... (120 words)

Because of the lack of communication and history of lies, I'm paranoid every single day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to give up on my husband. I love him so much and can't bear the thought of actually leaving him, but at this point, I'm not sure that I have better options. I met him 3 years ago at work and we hooked up almost right away. About half a year later, he cheated on me (with ... (474 words)

Drama!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - MY Fiance And I Have Been Dating For Little Over a year and we have major issues with his ex( daughters mother) interfering. sitting outside my house, following me around to the beauty salon, calling me, taking me to court for harassment, suing me, and he just says ignore her. ... (62 words)

My boyfriend finds it very difficult to attach himself to anything or anyone... will this change with time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf's parents are divorced and he doesn't attach himself to anything or anyone saying he doesn't want to get hurt... he is not open to me.. it's been 2 years we have been seeing each other... Will this affect my future with him?... (44 words)

Can I have my boyfriend back after the space that he needs?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - In relation for the question that I have posted this morning regarding my indian muslim boyfriend... since he wants to be alone and will just call me back if he fixes everything about himself.... is there any possibility that we can be together again or is there any chance that ... (75 words)

He says I'm bad at giving oral sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been good friends with this guy for a year already, but then I had a bf. Now I'm single, me and this guy are getting more intimate and romantic. It was my first time to give him a blow job, but I've been doing it for the past 2 years with my ex. He's always wanted on... (208 words)

Does anyone out there know where to find some good looking femmes???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I just got out of a long term relationship, and I know I shouldn't be looking for another one. I really don't want that, I'm just lonely.. I am a very attractive femme, 21, from Texas looking for the same.... Does anyone out there know where to find some good looking ... (54 words)

It hurts that she couldn't tell me the truth to my face but had to do it by text!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there. For the past year or so I have been involved in the internet dating scene. I never thought I would be someone to do it but I've actually met one or two really nice people through it. About two months ago I got chatting to a girl who lives not too far away from me... (669 words)

He put his hand down my blouse and touched my breasts.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some help I'm so confused. Myself and my best guy friend (Jack) have been flirting ever since we met 3 months ago, and I know you might think it's weird that he is my best friend after three months but as soon as we met we clicked! He walks me home from school ... (213 words)

33 and never had an orgasm!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in need of knowing what I am doing wrong here. I have never had an orgasm and for some reason when he is rubbing the "spot" it tickles like hell. I want to but I guess I cant. I'm 33 years old and never had one, that's crazy, that's with having sex or foreplay. ... (56 words)

Rejection all the time...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't like guys any more because they always reject me and it's really unfair. I am shy, quiet, nervous around guys, I have a weight problem, I'm short, not goodlooking just plain with a fat face. I have so much bad luck with them I don't want to bother any more, I am just ... (245 words)

Sister wants me to take her to the adoption clinic as she's pregnant but I'm so against it! What do I do here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

5 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My sister (she's 14 and I'm 17) just told me that she's pregnant by her boyfreind (also 17) and wants me to take her to the adoption clinic so she doesn't have tell our parents. We have been really close and I'll always be there for her but I'm complately againist it, cause a ... (81 words)

She didn't call back re our date.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi so I text this girl I've known a while and asked her to meet me for coffee, she said she was busy that day but suggested another day or a week later. So I texted back and said "ok next week Friday. bye." I was waiting for her reply but she didn't reply. Friday has come and ... (121 words)

Semen in the eye? How is it treated???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Everytime me and my girlfriend are having sex, and she has an orgasm, she pushes me off or tells me to get off after she is done with her orgasm, it just makes me feel unwanted. At least she ends up giving me oral or I have to finish myself, the good thing about me finishing ... (353 words)

He died when I went to make a phone call and I feel so bad because I wasn't there.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some help with this. My dad was my whole world but when i was nine he started drinking and became an alcoholic. He started hitting me and one night he raped me. I still thought the world of him as i learnt to separate the dad who drank and my dad. I moved out and ... (222 words)

I've STILL not heard from her.

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5 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Aiit! guys this is nick checkinn again. So, I am not callin my honey.. not even texting messages.. It's been exactly 10 days today. What I know about her is that she is a very chilled out person with no issues at all. As I already mentioned she just cut off all the contacts ... (168 words)

My ex hit me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex hit me. He put me down, told me I was fat and ugly and now this is affecting how I am with my new boyfriend. I have been with my current bf for a year. If he moves too quickly I flinch, if he shouts I get scared, and I'm always asking him if I'm fat and if he wants to be ... (149 words)

It's a question of age!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey got a simple question. I just wanted to know whether its ok to date a guy say 5, 6, 7 years older than you?... (25 words)

Suffering over his porn habit...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I know there are many posts here with variations on this theme, but I'm just desperately searching for some insight and haven't yet found a situation similar enough to mine to bring me any comfort. I'm in a 3+ year relationship with a guy that I am absolutely crazy about who ... (921 words)

Every time I think that I may be actually getting over him it's like he knows I am and tries to crawl right back into my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Two years ago I had started my first job when I had met Dave. As soon as I had layed eyes on him I was infatuated. Within a couple of days knowing him I had made up my mind that I had grew feelings for him. A few weeks later I had found out that he had been in a relationship ... (520 words)

No win situation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My best friend Alexia has been with her boyfriend for two years +. I've become very close to both of them and her bf is now like a brother to me. Last year, he went to uni Alexia since then has slept with four other lads and at a party, she was filmed giving someone o... (306 words)

What do I do to prove to her that O will never lie to her or cheat on her again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I'm having a problem with my girlfriend and it's all my fault, since a year now that we started this relationship, I've cheated on her and lied without knowing the reason why I did all this to her, though I lied because I don't want to lose her, now she has found out all ... (122 words)

Is it wrong of me to want to have fun before I settle down?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I told my girlfriend that I think relationships at my age are more to do with fun rather than love and she got really upset. I do love her but I don't want a serious relationship just yet. I'm only 17. I've been going out with her for over a year and my feelings for her... (133 words)

I feel unloved and under appreciated...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

- I feel as though im stuck in rut and I really need other peoples opinions. I have been with my partner for over 3 years now we live together also but recently I've been feeling as though I'm missing out on being single and having the option to saying yes when I get asked out. ... (137 words)

Should I wait until he asks me for a date and take things slowly this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Some sensible advice please please please! I was with my ex for 6 years but split up after going through a lot together - it's been 3 years now and we have both had relationships and he had a child. His ex got pregnant within 6 months of us splitting up and now they have bee... (244 words)

I'm scared it all ends in tears again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, Please can someone help me, I'm a mess! When I was 19 I met a girl and we got on so well like best friends everything, was good. 2 years on we had a kid got married, after being together 4 years we started to argue a lot, mainly me being rude or just snapping for no r... (186 words)

I just want him to love me for me, not just use me for sex or try to make me the person he wants me to be.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for just over a year, I love him so much, I nearly died a few months back and since then things haven't been right, he won't open up to me or talk to me. But now I have an STI and I think he has been cheating, he tells me he hasn't and my treatment a year ... (137 words)

I used to avoid his parents who don't like me but now we're invited over for X-mas, any advice?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my problem might seem a bit silly. i lived at my boyfriends parents house for about 5months but i would always avoid his parents, i wouldnt talk to them and wouldnt come out of his bedroom until they went out. i have had some problems with his dad, he doesnt like me because i ... (84 words)

He wants to marry me next year but I'm concerned about the ex...

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my problem is my boyfriends ex.i have been with him nearly a yr he has a 3yr old daughter with is his ex. and has his little girl twice a week the problem i got is im never allowed to go with him to take her home i have asked him loads of times why i carnt go and all i get is i ... (119 words)

Close guy friends have told me men feel intimidated and assume I'm taken. Any suggestions?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm not super model material but I've been told by people that I am an attractive person, my problem? Men just don't seem to talk to me and I'm shy when it comes to meeting new people. Close guy friends have told me its because men are intimidated or just assume I'm ... (88 words)

How can I show him how much he means to me and not go over the top?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year things havent really gone well, my dad died and we have had some problems. mainly because of me being very depressed and moody. he was going to leave but we decided to try again. how can i show him how much he means to ... (74 words)

Ex boyfriend declared his love then went travelling, how to cope with the months we are apart?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex went travelling 5 days ago, he will be gone for 6 months, before he went we met up a few times, made peace and decided we both want each other back. The balls were already in motion for his trip, it was just bad timing. The thing is, I cant technically say we are back ... (281 words)

As time went on, we started having sex less and less, until she became totally desinterested. I don't see why!

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5 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My Situation: My girlfriend is 18 and I'm 21. We've been going out now for about 1 year. When we first met, she told me that she only had sex with one other person who she said was an awful lover and that she never liked to have sex with him. Also when we first met, we st... (560 words)

He broke up after he kissed another girl. Do I tell him that I'm still in love with him?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex-boyfriend had a really stable relationship, that is until he kissed another girl and decided that because of it we couldn't be together "You deserve better" is what he said. The truth is I don't want better and I don't belive one kiss is worth ending everything ... (151 words)

He said he wants to forget about me but he doesn't even know me that well!

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy I like, well people have told me that I had fallen for him and apparently is obvious, he told me that there was a connection and that because he didn't know me that well he didn't want anything more, because we don't have the same interests but he doesn't even know my ... (152 words)

My partner's child stays with us at weekends which is very stressful for me!

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for 2 and half years, we live together with my 12 year old daughter. He has a 6 year old son from previous relationship who stays with us at weekends. Lately each weekend is becoming stressful and my partner is trying to turn our home into his sons ... (133 words)

He told me he felt trapped and wanted to be able to have me and have sex with other girls!

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year. We moved in together earlier this year we was happy, but couldnt keep the place as we couldnt afford it. He is a bit older than me, 23. Then i got my own place and he wouldnt move in, then he told me he felt trapped ... (126 words)

We will wait until marriage to have sex, I know he likes oral sex but I can't do it, any ideas for a first-timer?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My b.f and I started daing about 3 years ago.. we will be getting marring in about 1 yr. actully less then that the date is aug 2009. Anywho we decided a long time ago that we would wait till marrage to have sex well. hear we are im still a virgin. But he had sexual rela... (147 words)

How soon after having treatment for Chlamydia is it OK to have safe sex?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had chalamydia last year i had treatment and so did my partner. But i have it again. I had treatment yesterday and so did my partner. Is it possible that the treatment didn't work last time? And how soon after having treatment is it ok to have safe sex?... (50 words)

Can she get in trouble for having an affair with a married man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question. What are my options when I have proof that my husband is having an affair and she is living with him and he is in the military? What can I do? Can she get in trouble for having an affair with a married man?... (51 words)

My ex gave me Herpes and has now left again. I feel like such a fool! Help me!

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5 December 2008 (?) age 41-50 - How do I get over this? I never want to see him AGAIN! but have too as we have kids. He dumped me to be with her. We were together seven years. Didn't want to see me or his kids. I focused on my self for six months. Lost weight started enjoying myself. He noticed I change... (159 words)

My boyfriend intended to meet a 50-year-old for man for sex!? He swears it was only a fantasy but...?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so i've been dealing with a lot lately. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months or so, and its been rocky at times and great at others... I felt as though he was hiding something so a few days ago I logged onto his e-mail account for the first time ever.. I was ... (352 words)

I want to make love with my boyfriend before marriage, we are from India, should I do it?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone suggest me to do right. I am from India, here in US for my PhD. I love a US guy here. But my parents in India have settled my marriage with an Indian boy, and i am going with their decision as our society wll not allow me with a US guy. Now my problem is that i wa... (86 words)

How does one get a guy to talk?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this guy for a while but not really so well that we talk to each other all the time. We say the occasional "how are you?" and such but I don't really know anything about him. But, we're continuously thrown into the same environment, it's just that we still go our ... (144 words)

My Indian boyfriend required space because his family oppose to our relationship, I'm scared he will leave me eventually!

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been dating an indian muslim boy for over a year now and he has brought me to india as well to check whether the family can accept me, although almost every one likes me when we come back from india to the country we are working his brother says the society cannot acce... (265 words)

You won't believe this..

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5 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, you are not going to believe this, but.. My gran works for a very rich man, and she is very friendly with him. I used to help out my gran, and so me and this gentlemen both new each other. This was around 7 years ago, so when I was 10-11. My family moved, and I did... (274 words)

He hardly spends time with me and says the more I whine, the more he will do this!...

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for about ten months..the longest relationship I've ever had. I don't think I've ever felt real love until him. It took me a while to realize this. I was with another guy when I first met him and he tried to convince me to be with him the couple of ... (362 words)

Am I being harsh to end things without giving him a chance to explain?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Aunts I need to know if im over exaggerating or not. In 3 hours im going to end things with my boyfriend who I love. This is because he knows my ex boyfriend of 8 years cheated on me with his little sister's hot best friend and now my current guy has just let his sister's... (166 words)

As soon as I put a condom on my erection is gone... what's up with that?

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5 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so two things now. I know it's been awhile since i've checked in here, but.. I've been abit busy with my girlfriend. SO.. first thing's first, don't call me stupid for asking, but how likely is it that my girlfriend can get pregnant while she's on her period? The ... (280 words)

Lost my erection, then said something that upset her - was I out of line?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

5 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hey - tonight i gave my girlfriend a nice long message with candles and music and then after some foreplay fingered her until orgasm. after she got some energy back from the orgasm we started kissing again en route to sex. however, i lost my erection. she kind of just loo... (291 words)

I caught my sister's boyfriend cheating on her, what now?

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5 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I saw my sister's boyfriend cheating on her (she's 14 and he's 17 and he's also is in my grade) at a party and I think he was drunk. I always had a bad vibe around him but I thought I being paranoid so I ignore it (plus my sis wouldn't’t have listen anyway). My sister would be ... (63 words)

Should I continue my friendship with my teacher? I don't want to fall in love!

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'd really apperciate it if you read this and give me some feedback because I am reallyy confused! I had this " student teacher " that is now attending school. So he doesn't teach at my school anymore. I've always thought he was attractive and the way he looked at me was... (311 words)

Is he talking the truth when drunk? Any ideas?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - All mature people here please give me the right advice. I have a boyfriend. But our relation is strange. First i used to call him. He always asked to call me only between 4-5 on saturday. Most of the times he used to cut my calls.Out of frustration i stopped calling him. I was ... (240 words)

My ex's boyfriend is a loser who calls her bad names - what can I do to get her back?

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5 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I grew up with a girl and started dating her at 17 she was 15. I was going in the marines and broke it off. I still loved her but could not have a girl freind at the time. My body messed up in the marines and we started talking/dated agen. I was not stable. I broke it off beca... (194 words)

After being hurt once and again, I keep on loving like no tomorrow - is it worth it?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, what a fabulous site, and what awsome answers.. this isn't really a please help me, with an issue, I am just after a release really and if you have any answers I would be greatful. I just want to really know WHY? Why do we keep on searching for the ones, for ultimate... (272 words)

Rough sex!

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently had sex with my boyfriend and it was a little rough although I felt no pain during intercourse itself. Afterward I began to ache. It is now almost a week later and I have been bleeding moderately for about four days. I feel an ache in my lower abdomen too, it is a ... (186 words)

What are the signs a boy gives when he's interested in you?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem, I don't know when a boys likes me. What are the signs a boy gives when he's interested in you?... (24 words)

What should I do? Should I stay or should I go?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So... me and my ex dated for a year and seven months. But I broke up with him cause we just went too far! (Meaning, we had sex. Our first time btw!) But ya see. I didn't want to. And even he knew that. Ok! So anyways... we broke up, and I've moved on about 6 months later! B... (157 words)

Do I continue to wait?

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5 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm partially afraid to ask this question because I believe I know what you all are going to say. And, I apologize in advance if this gets long. Basically, I'm absolutely in love with my friend (J) who is already in a relationship (with B). Let me try to break down both ... (656 words)

I'm with him for all the wrong reasons and I don't know what to do about it...

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hello! I need advice on what to do on a delicate and confusing matter. I am 24 years old with an 8 month old child with my bf who is 37. we've been arguing a lot recently over stupid little things and sometimes concerning how to raise our child. he is interested in ha... (344 words)

My best friend's boyfriend likes me, should I let her know?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend has been dating her boyfriend for two years. A few days ago he tried to kiss me but i didn't let it happen. That day he confessed me he had been wondering for about six months why he hadn't met me before he met his girlfriend. I tried to make him understand ... (162 words)

I'm obsessed by Matthew Lewis!!!!!

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 18 (turning 19 in February), been crazily into the Harry Potter series since I was eight, and I've been OBSESSED with Matthew Lewis (the amazingly hot and sweet guy who plays Neville Longbottom in the series) since I was 10. I would say I'd give my virginity to meet ... (153 words)

Opinions about perfume!

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, This isn't a problem or anything but I want peoples opinion. What kind of perfume do guys like more? (girls can answer too) Fruity, floral, or more musky?? (any specific perfume would be helpful too :D ) thanks... (47 words)

I feel I never see her... am I best moving on here?

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5 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know really how to explain the situation, it's really kinda complicated this might be a little long but I'm not sure really what to do, I'll try to explain it as best as I can. I met this girl last year around this time. At the time she was married and still is in ... (1198 words)

I think my boyfriend likes someone else...

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am 13 years old and my name is Narda! Well I have been having some problems because I have a boyfriend and I think he likes another girl which I am very mad about! I need some advice because I really like him and I don't want to break up with him! I really need your... (62 words)

How can I bring her to orgasm without actually having sex?

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5 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This is more a question to girls than guys but if they have any tips please share them. I've been with my girlfriend 4 months now. We've yet to have sex but we have done other things. Has anyone got any tips on how I could make her orgasm without having sex? Also she does... (64 words)

I'm afraid to have sex.

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i am 14 years old and i am really afriad to have sex because i am afriad that i will get cought and plus im agfraid that it is gonna hurt really bad.and that people is gonna call me a slut,whore (ect)but most of all ...my friend is 14 and she is pregnate.what should i do? ... (57 words)

I need to take care of this problem, this guy keeps making sexual comments to me!

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - there is this guy at school that is 13 and im 13 but when we are at tech school he keeps tellin me that he wants to have sex wid me and for me to give him a bj, i dont like him and its wierd cause he did the same thing to my cousin and almost got her in bed and now he is trying ... (104 words)

Should I get out of this now or wait it out? And how do I get his parents to accept me?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together two years now and then just last week, the day of my boyfriend's 18th birthday, his dad "grounds" ME from his house. I haven't been to my boyfriend's house in exactly a week now and it's because I couldn't get a car quick enough and so I ... (274 words)

How do I tell someone it's time to leave?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age - I need advise for a delicate situation. A friend, just a friend, who I have known for 25 years has come to stay at my place which was supposed to be a couple of weeks until her LDR guy arranged things for her to move to his city. He is taking a very long long time to arrange ... (242 words)

My boyfriend barely kisses me, why?

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5 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I don't know why but I've noticied my boyfriend doesn't like kissing much. I mean we pop kiss all the time but I mean really kissing. I just want emotion into it, pops don't really have a meaning. I feel kinda crappy cause like the guys in my past always wanted to kiss me ... (131 words)