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Mixed up man...

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Question - (6 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2008)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

I am a 49 yearold male, I am happily married to my wife of thirty years but I have a problem, I am very much in love (lust) with her 39 year old daughter. She is not aware of this and I will keep it so but she looks so much like her mother it is unreal, they look more like sisters than mother and daughter. Is it that I see her as her mother 25 years ago as my wife is still very beautiful and youthful looking... I don't understand my feelngs about this, just the smell of either one of their bodies turns me on as they smell alike, also is there help for me or should I just fade away into the mists of time?

Mixed up man

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (6 December 2008):

eddie agony auntIt is an attraction....So what? You can not stop what message your eyes send to your brain. As humans we are supposed to be able to stop our actions though. Leave it at that. It is also taboo so be wise and keep it under wraps.

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A female reader, hippiegirl Romania +, writes (6 December 2008):

Well, I do believe this is all about the resemblance with your wife...And the smell is also important, we humans even associate smell with memories, so it's not that amazing that you feel turned on when you smell the perfume of your wife on someone else..And there is the physical resemblance too..If I were you I would try to keep myself as far away as possible from the daughter until this fades out, and just try to really keep in mind that it is your wife you're really attracted to, this other thing is just a fling and the less you think about it, the better..Just keep your cool about this..Good luck!

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