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writes:Help please and thank you.OK so, normally i answer things and an pretty well minded about relationships.But i just entered a situation that even i cant figure out. please help me.OK, so i went to my girlfriends house tonight, and I'm not detailing what we did cause that's to long to write, but, basically, from the first day her dad met me, he didn't like me, and i never even said a word to him. but, tonight, i was going to call my parents to come pick me up and what not, but we fell asleep. Her dad came downstairs and caught us sleeping in her bed.he was vary angry, and yelled at me and her, using vary course words. I wanted to say to him, Not to swear in front of a lady like that, but i feel that only would have made things worse, so instead i stayed quiet. He yelled a Lot, even tho no harm was done and he doesnt know the whole situation, when i went home everyone that saw it agreed he was way out of line, and now he says i can not see her anymore, But she means so much to me, i don't know how to fix things and see her again, we both Love each other dearly but her father keeps us apart. What can i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, babyminow +, writes (6 December 2008):
 okay my father is the same way, so i think i can help. first of all if she feels the same way she will keep seeing you. She also would talk to her father about what really happend. what you can do is be a man and go up to him and have a man to man conversation. tell him what happened, and appologize for making it seem different. this will show him you care about her enough to face him. which is good. just remember no daddy wants to see his daughter leave him, so be gentle. good luck
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reader, Georgiex.x  +, writes (6 December 2008):
 Hi there. It seems harsh the situation your in here. It's not good when their parents don't like you. I think what you should do it maybe go and speak to her Father privately and explain everything, make sure he know you love his daughter and will protect her. Because he is just worried about her and wants the best for her. If you can't do this try writing him a letter reassuring him about your actions. Keep us posted! Good Luck! :)x
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