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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What's the best way to tell someone you need to explain something to them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have to tell a guy something. We were seeing each other, not any more. friends... apparrently. What's the best way to say I need to talk to you - without saying "I need to talk"? Does "I have something I need to explain to you?" or "I need to explain something to you... (107 words)

He didn't put my feelings or birthday first. Not sure if I can ever get over this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Just wanted some feedback. I am with someone for 3 years. We are both divorced. My children are grown and on their own. He has two small children. He is with them every chance he gets, not a problem. My birthday was last Saturday and it was not his weekend for kiddies so ... (147 words)

Really confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 331 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Well last year I use to like this boy [boy 1] and it was pretty obvious that i liked him, well to me anyways. Now it seems I've gotten over him since he got himself a girlfriend. However, I've come to like one of his friends [boy 2] and he's witnessed me flirt with boy 1. I've ... (357 words)

No more sex!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend stopped wanting to have sex with me completely!!! we were together for almost a year. Him and I used to have sex 4 times a day in the beggining and it was the best sex I've ever had in my life and he said the same for him. This whole thing of him not wanting to ... (644 words)

No responce from ex after I sent him Christmas greeting...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My b/f and I broke up about 2 months ago, we had no contact for almost 7 weeks. Our breakup wasn't overly negative. The past week, I've debating whether or not to send him a Christmas greeting. Anyway, I finally decided to do it. So on Christmas eve, I've sent him a very ... (266 words)

I think she is cheating but it's weird..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok I am in a bit of a problem and not sure how to handle this, I am not new to the dating game but this is one of the more complex problems I have had. We will start from when we first met, I met my girlfriend online one year ago (a few days ago was our one year anniversity... (796 words)

We said we love each other--confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I told my boyfriend that I love him and I think I said it a little early. then he wrote this beautiful poem and wanted me to figure out that he loved me back. then he wanted to say it to me in person. and he did, it was cute. problem is... we don't really say it. or at least I ... (149 words)

Will a long distance relationship work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year. We are both 18 years old. Unfortunately, my parent will soon have to move to another country due to their work.. Our relationship is very serious. He is a good guy and I would accept him as my husband vice versa. We talked ... (148 words)

My g/f's job is to hold a man's parts

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hey, so i've found the woman of my dreams. We're both crazy in love w/ each other and going on a year now together. I have this one issue that bugs me soooo much and it seems the more feelings I develop for her, the more this issue bugs me. She works at a hospital in the ... (342 words)

Worried about fiance's lack of interest

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My fiance and I have been together for two years now and are beginning to have a strained sex life. She never feels like having sex anymore. I have received all the garden variety answers: I am tired, I have a headache, I don't feel like it, I promise tomorrow, I have even ... (127 words)

Happy Holidays

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Happy Holidays and Merry/Happy Christmas for all of you out there who asking for or willing to give help. Thank you for all of your advice!... (29 words)

Why do I feel like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - me and my ex link broke up 8 months ago because he was being long about starting a relationship, since then i haven't seen him but last week at a club saw him and dropped like a bag of stones, we talk and asked for a second chance but didn't say anything. I then texted him the ... (127 words)

Girl on girl crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a 23 year old girl who has a huge crush on my 27 year old assistant manager, who is a girl. I have never done anything with girls nor do I think she has. I work in a small department with only 6 other people. We flirt all the time, more when we are not at work. I made her ... (240 words)

Air trapped inside vagina!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - after my boyfriend and i had intercourse i felt like i had air trapped in my uterus/vagina. it's still not coming out and now it's causing intense cramp like pain. what can i do to get rid of this and is it harmful?... (43 words)

I want to sleep with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello everybody... Ok here's the deal. I'm 18(almost 19) years old and I really like one guy who is 23. He's very sexual attracted to me. But the problem is that I see him very rare and when I see him, he's always with bunch of his friends (drinking beer and talking). The t... (339 words)

What can I do about feeling like the wicked stepmom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for almost 8 years. After we had been married for about 2 years, I found out I was pregnant. Late into my pregnancy, my husband found out he had a 4 year old son through a short-term relationship. The child had a lot of behavioral issues, and being the ... (388 words)

Why is my friend going all weird on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Recently me and my best friend have had an on/off friendship.. he used to fancy me and recently kissed me.. he goes weird and the next minute he wants to kiss me.. I have now met someone new but I still love him. I text him about my graduation and he didn't reply, then I w... (121 words)

Do guys care for their appearance when they go clubbing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Do guys care for their appearance when they go clubbing? Like hairsyling, aftershave, coglone, deodorant, mositures, do they care how look clubbing or do they make any effort at all because I don't see why girls have to make all the effort and guys make none.... (47 words)

Is my boyfriend's behaviour normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I’ve never really been in a relationship before so this is all new to me. Well I was wondering if my boyfriends’ behavior is normal. We barely talk on the phone because I’m not really a phone person, I’d rather chat online or in person. Well when we are together it is n... (272 words)

Can you get AIDS from kissing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - i kissed my ex girlfriend for the first time . i am kinda very deeply stressed after that. i know i am being a phycho asking this but will this cause me AIDS ? i trust her completely but still she is a stranger for me afteral and i cant be sure of her past.it is eating me from ... (104 words)

Do I have a foot parasite?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Could this be a sign that I have a parasite in my body? Last night while I was taking a shower, I felt a pain on the side of my right feet. After I got out of the shower and started walking the pain was still there. When I started to sit down or get up I could feel the pain. ... (113 words)

Never met but in love... and then she goes and gets a boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I am 20.I know this girl for about a year now.We have never meet but it was all over phone and mails...We were supposed to meet soon.Six months back i told her that I love her and She said that she loved me too.It was the happiest moment of my life.She is really a wonderful ... (242 words)

I should leave him but feel bad about it? Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 306 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 21 years old, and i am currently dealing with this situation. I have been in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for two almost three years. I have dealt with all the usual problems most women have dealt with when you are with an abusive man. He is an alcoholic who refuses ... (1470 words)

Can we make it work? Ever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Can we make it work? Ever? I have been separated from my soon to be ex husband for over 6 months. I cheated on him and he found out from my best friend. I broke his heart. We were still sleeping together for a brief period after we split. Then I met somebody and broke it off... (223 words)

Am I just his sex friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi to every one I need your help like every one douse but I just can't take it no more it make me crazy not knowing will I have this friend that I been messing with we make out and have fun and I see him some times I'm 18 teen he is 24 years old but I've been seening him for a ... (209 words)

No commitment from her, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Im a female and imm in loev with another female but the thing is she isnt a lesbian i went for it anyway got her number she accepted my advances but made it clear that she wasnt gay i still went for it we go out on dates and have had sex and all but she doesnt want to be my ... (105 words)

Pregnant, or just my period?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 306 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - well here is my problem in 15. i been in a 10 mnth relationship. so you know i know his the one. so i gave it to him. well we been having unprotected sex for some while now, but he always pulls it out.. well one night, we just did it and right when he pulled it out some sperm ... (179 words)

I want to be with him but I'm not sure I want to marry him... yet!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hey guys reallly need help now... im 20 years old and my boyfriend is 23 which is really not to bad however we have been together offically 6 months but i think hes getting a bit to ahead of himself... he introduced me to his parents and i spent christmas morning there.. i feel ... (153 words)

Is it right to date a divorced man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - i am a very christian woman, i am secretly in love with a divorced man who is my friend, he told me he loves me but then my thoughs are telling me that its not right to date a divorced man,thuswhy i have to tell him that it is not possible, but then each and everyday i am ... (65 words)

My marriage isn't working... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi Cupid, I am 36 years of age, asian and have been unhappily married for 6 years. I married at the age of 30 out of conveniency and desperation as I had never fallen in love with anyone. I never thought I would meet my soul mate. My parents were pleased that I had final... (585 words)

What to do to make him last longer in bed?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend doesn't last very long when we have sex, a few minutes max! and it's over so quick i don't get anything from it. We are still in the early stages of the relationship and i was wondering if there was anything i could do to make him last longer? Any advice wou... (66 words)

Who do I choose? I'm married but I have feelings for a coworker.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my husband for 12 years and married for 3 of them. Recently, someone at work has fallen for me in a big way and I feel the same. I know it's wrong but we have kissed. We have always been good friends and he is the sweetest guy, he told me he has been trying to ... (154 words)

What time shall I put the turkey in the oven?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - What time shall I put the turkey in the oven. My husband say's 10.00 but I say it don't need to go in till 11.00. The turkey is 10lbs and needs to be ready for 12.00. Please help. He says this is the final straw if the Christmas dinner is spoilt. It's been a bad year I slept wi... (83 words)

How do I make my best friend fall in love with me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Ok, my best friend finally admitted to being Bi and currently likes both a boy and girl, but i know nothing will happen with either of those. I am his best friend too, and am unfortunately in love with him. We have messed around before but he never likes to talk about it an... (101 words)

He loves her, he loves her not...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 334 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - He loves her, he loves her not... Hi, I'm female separated from my husband for more than 3 years. I met a wonderful man who encouraged me and gave me my self-confidence back and now i'm going to go through divorce proceedings which is time consuming because my husband refus... (223 words)

Penis size opinions - help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello to everyone. I am about to have sex with my girlfriend and I am really concerned about the size of my penis.It's about 4-4,5 inches in length and about 4,5 inches in girth when erect. I am quite fat for my age (21), about 246 pounds (for BMI lovers, I'm 36 BMI so I am off... (124 words)

Me and my boyfriend have been talking about having a threesome.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been talking about having a threesome. neither one of us know where to start. Any suggestions on where we can we go and find a person (female) that will be willing to join our threesome? We live in Boston.... (44 words)

Baby daddy drama!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 295 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i just got a new boyfriend! i am sooo happy, but im also having a baby that is not his. he knows about the baby and is fine with it, but i feel i am not being fair to him.. i just got out of a bad relationship with the baby daddy, who wants a part in the babys life, but not ... (102 words)

I can't find work! Any suggestions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well my big problem is im living in stupid country and very poor anyone help me find work... (18 words)

What do I do I think I might be pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey I'm 15 years old and my bf is 19 and I have a missed peroid and I don't know what to do.I don't want to get my bf in trouble but if I am perog what advice can you give me?... (42 words)

Did my wife visit her ex-boyfriend?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I’m a British man working and living in the Middle East with my family. Recently I was on the internet and went to Yahoo mail. My Filipina wife’s Yahoo email came up on the screen because she had forgotten to log off her email when leaving the computer. The page was at the ... (1535 words)

How do you know if SO is tired of you

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 334 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - How do you know if your significant other is getting tired of you. There aren't any obvious signs. He comes home every night, but our sex life has dropped off to once a week (when it used to be practically every night) and my b/f seems hateful and rude to me too much of the ... (140 words)

I think he's hiding something!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 334 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My b/f is traveling out of town for business next month. His class lasts a week so he offered to have me fly out on Thursday and stay with him for the rest of the week and week-end and then we would drive home together on Sunday. It would mean I would only have to miss two ... (348 words)

Can I be forgiven for drunkenly cheating on my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I am a freshman in college and did not drink in high school. In my first semester I started drinking at parties and get-togethers but very rarely did I get drunk. As I became more accustomed to drinking, it didn't really bother me to start drinking more and more and getting ... (734 words)

I'm in love with 2 men - my hubby and a single womanizer who pursues me mightily.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with 2 men - my hubby and a single womanizer who pursues me mightily. Hubby has a low libido, womanizer is older but has an enormous libido. I've always known the womanizer would find someone else, and looked forward to that day. Well, womanizer is in love with a ... (151 words)

Christmas eve, hav girlfriend but alone with the cat...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - help, ok, now it's year three in the relationship and we still don't live together mainly because I would have to let her 26 year old daughter live with us, which I won't do. She's old enough and has a boyfriend who still lives at home too. Here it is, christmas eve and I'm ... (238 words)

My boyfriend didn't get me anything for christmas.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 309 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend didn't get me anything for christmas. It's very upsetting since I spent lots of money and thought out each present. I even took our kids out to pick him out something!!! I am sooo freaking upset and just want some feed back. He knows it's christmas and I've ... (63 words)

Should I just bite his neck some more and make him forget I am a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Last weekend I stayed the weekend with him. I'm a virgin and he told me once before that he didn't want to take my virginity away. Well we started making out and I started biting his neck which REALLY turns him on. Then we went outside on a ... (199 words)

I just need some advice to be able to get her to do a little bit more than make out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Hey, I am 15 years old about to turn 16 and I am dating a girl that is about 5 months older than me. We have been dating coming up on three months. Typically I guess you could say I'm the kind of guy that does like to do things sexually, but my girlfriend is completely the ... (179 words)

She said she wanted to take things slow and I agreed, but how long am I supposed to wait for her to make up her mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 334 days ago

25 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm dating this girl that i have known for about 5 years. She has just recently gotten her divorce. We were getting along good till her divorce became final, now it seems like she is distant from me at times. She used to let me visit her several times a week now it's once ... (136 words)

I want to live my own life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 24 years old and have been with my fiance for 6 years. I have been supporting my non working parents for 5 years. I would like to move out and get my own place with my fiance, but I don't know what to do. I don't want to just leave my parents with no place to live. my mom ... (106 words)

Is my husband on the down low?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 301 days ago

25 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 2.5 years and have not had sex for 17 months. I am trying to determine if my husband is on the down low. Does anyone have any signs I can look for? Or help me understand why we have not had sex for 17 months since I have improved my health and fitness ... (62 words)