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How to stop crying over a guy? Please help me I need it!?

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Question - (6 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 December 2008)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I hate myself, I'm hopelessly in love with a guy who will never be mine. He's far away and I've being crying for TWO ******* YEARS now. I feel a BIG HOLE in my soul, and nothing seems to cure it. I pray at night to God to make me forget him, and to send me someone with whom I might forget him.

The only stupid guy who resulted hitting on me is a big jerk who ended up being a player who besides of hitting on me is hitting on this other girl too. To make me feel worst this other girl is prettier and I feel like he just wanted to screw me up, I hate him too. I didn't sleep with him thank God, but was thinking of it, now I don't even think I can look at him and smile at him like I used to. I don't want to continue crying, what can I do? My life is such a misery really. Please help me!

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A female reader, shelleyanne United States +, writes (6 December 2008):

shelleyanne agony auntAt this point I don't think you're crying over the guy anymore, you're probably crying over your life. You need to find something more worth while to spend your time thinking about. Find a hobby you love to occupy your time and hopefully meet someone new. In the mean time, join a dating website. What's the worse that could happen? Anything's better than wallowing, right?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2008):

You can't have only met one guy in 2 years.

Get out and make some friends, get yourself a life to occupy yourself with and try and meet a decent guy that doesn't "hit on you" but is a friend.

The guy you are crying over has probably become so perfect in your head that he is nothing like the reality any more.

Find new things to fill that hole in you. Not a man but other things in life.

Good Luck!! xx

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