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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why is sex such a big deal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Why is sex such a big deal?... (7 words)

How do I get him to revolve his life more around me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Guys, I think this is a great site and I really need some advice. I realise it can take a lot to reply and really think about someone question but I'd appreciate it alot. Me and my boyfriend of nearly 2 years are in LDR he is in Sweden studying and i live in London. W... (634 words)

How can I talk to her without seeming desperate or paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 354 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a little problem. I have a friend and lately I have not been able to get in contact with her in a while. The last time we spoke was through a text message in which I was a bit angry at her (the reason being a friend of hers was laughing at me because I got my friend an ... (192 words)

What do I do about my girlfriend acting distant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my girlfriend have been togther for two years, We were getting on great. then all of a sudden for the past 2 months shes just distancing herself from me. Hardly ever gets intouch etc. She says she still loves me and wants to be with me, But she seems disinterested. I ... (141 words)

I love my boyfriend so much, but I've never been sexualy satisfied by him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and in that time i have never been sexually satisfied. I love him but he just cant seem to turn me on. i has been my first and only. He tries so hard so i just lie and fake it. I have tried to be honest in the past but it broke him. He ... (129 words)

Should I lose my virginity to him while he's still living abroad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend live abroad so I dont get to see him much.. He is older than me.. but it works. age is just a number after all (and no. not STUPIDLY older). Ive known him for such a long time and we are both ready to take things to the next level... He isnt a virgin. I am. I truly ... (197 words)

I get made fun of for being with my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - i get made fun of for dating this boy that i love very much. there were rumors that we broke up and got back together, but then we did break up and then got back together because i couldnt live without him and got back together. now i get made fun of what should i do?... (56 words)

How do I approach the situation without scaring him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 354 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi. Got a question. There's this guy Im getting closer to at uni. We've been chatting a lot lately and we're going out for food and stuff at the weekend. He added me on facebook ages ago, we've know eachother for months, but it's only the last month that we've started ... (325 words)

How can I meet my BF on the other side of the world?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I love this guy I met, I love him so much. I want to meet him but he lives in Spain and me the USA. he don't care about sex or anything he listens to me, he's the only one I really trust. I need help how can we meet? I'm 14.... (52 words)

Question about cheating...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - This question may sound really silly to some but something I would like everyone's opinion on. Do you think that if a man cheated on his girlfriend for the entire length of their relationship of nearly three years, broke up and then strung her along for another year - leading ... (82 words)

How do I please my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hello everyone. I'm 16 and have been with my girlfriend who's 17 for a couple of months now. She's a little more experienced than me, as i've never been in a same sex relationship before. Every time we have sex, she makes me cum, either by going down on me or using her fingers. ... (107 words)

Do you think they are alcoholics or have an alcohol problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupids, I would like to know if a couple drink 2 to 3 bottles of wine per day and hardly ever less than 2 bottles, would this couple be considered as alcoholics? Would this couple have an alcoholic problem even if it does not effect their daily tasks nor their behaviou... (57 words)

First gay relationships...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, Here's the thing. About 3 years ago I realised I was bisexual. I've had one relationship since then with a girl, but it was long distance and although I really felt for the girl, it didn't work. Before this i'd always dated boys, perhaps because I wanted to or because ... (247 words)

I can't seem to let go, I can't seem to feel, I'm just stuck. Whats wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - So I'm sure you've all probably heard this story a million times. I don't know if I'm even asking a question, but just need to pour my heart out to a kind ear. Any words of comfort would be greatly appreciated. my boyfriend and I broke up officially four months ago. There wa... (500 words)

Men in panties yes or no???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm mainly looking for replies from the ladies here. I'm a lucky guy to have found a woman who enjoys my panty fetish as much as I do. I know for a fact that lots of guys love wearing woman's panties and things. For me it's the silky or sheer feel and how they look. So anyway ... (72 words)

She treats me good, it's just the way she acts when we aren't together that throws me off.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Okay this is kind of a complicated mess but I will try to spell it out the best I can. My girlfriend is 25 and I'm 23, and I've been seeing her on and off for about 9 months. We really hit it off and spend so much time together, I really have been kind of neglecting alot of ... (546 words)

My Penis is "turning" to the right - could be a health problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - That's my second question and I love this site because of the anonymity, I greatly thank you about the last advice :) That's acutally very embarassing, but I'll try to explain. I'm 19, my penis is not too curvy, but when it gets erect it turns to the right a little. ... (152 words)

How can I tell if he's just trying to have his way with a younger woman or if he really means what he is saying??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have recently moved to Spain with my dad. He likes watching x factor on a Satuday so we go to this english bar that shows it. We get on really well with the bar manager there Mark. Mark and I constantly flirt with each other and up till last night I just took it as a barman ... (378 words)

I being too sensitive, or should he say sorry for what he said?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Last night when I went to bed I said night to my boyfriend in an IM, I brushed my teeth before saying love you and what not and while I was gone he said that I didn't love him any more, and logged off. Today, he said he was just joking around and was just tired. I was really ... (98 words)

I don't understand If I am gay or straight, or bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 28 year old male and I have recently broken up with my girlfriend. All my life I have been fantasizing about women and enjoying relationships with them. I recently had a hard time getting erect with my now ex-girlfriend. So I tried different things while masturbating. ... (154 words)

I know it won't last forever but what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now we're both 17. I know it won't last forever because I can feel it inside me if you know what I mean but what should I do? Should I keep going out with her to enjoy the time we have together or should I just end it now?... (64 words)

I lost my job and now constantly think I want to leave! Why on Earth am I feeling like this!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 10 years. I recently lost my job and am starting a new one next week. I have this big problem which is really bringing me down. I keep saying to myself that I don't love my partner and need to move out. I don't know why this is happening, ... (113 words)

I'm not sure how to trust again! Am I just going for the wrong type again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I live by myself.. with my pet cat. And I kinda like living by myself, however sometime I just wish I had someone to come home too. I moved out of my parents when I was 16 and went to hostels, but I wasn't on my own there, there were a lot of young people around me. Even ... (426 words)

Who do I beleive!? My man or the text girl that has nothing to hide!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I found out last weekend that my boyfriend has been hiding texts he gets from a girl. We have been together a month and a half (we just got back together after being broken up for a year after being engaged). I found them by looking in his phone because i had a gut feeling he ... (436 words)

Why should we spend all day getting her germs and then getting ill ourselves...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, I posted this yesterday and only got 1 reply... I need to pick some brains here. I work in a small office with no windows which we can open for fresh air but that isnt the problem...The problem is that 1 of my colleagues is always ill!! She always has colds,... (194 words)

How can I be her friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I want to make be friends with everyone in our group, there is just one girl that I had a bit of a bust up with. I want to be friends with her, but I don't think that she likes me. She acts like she is my friend, but she acts so different around me. I really want to be friends. ... (65 words)

My periods have changed but I haven't had sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hiya, well a rather silly question but my periods are normally really regular.. and this month (now) i am supposed to be on and im not :S i'm 15 and obv never had sex etc etc, so i know its impossible to be preg, but im just scared ! this is the first time they have been t... (77 words)

Boyfriend's friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We have 4 children together. He cheated on me once before, a while ago and we've been fine until recently. His friend and I were always close but recently it's been more than that. I'm not and never have been attracted to his friend ... (185 words)

I'm 3 months pregnant by my ex-drug addict boyfriend...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

3 December 2008 (?) age 13-15 - i'm 14 my boyfriend is 18. he used to be a drug addict but isn't anymore(THANKGOD). i'm 3 months pregnant by him. should i keep the baby or have an abortion? my family and his family know but he don't. i don't know whether to tell him or not. i love him so much and i think the ... (116 words)

Need help and tips please with a part time job!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I really really reallyyy need some HELPFUL advice/tips here!!!! I work part time at a very high profile exclusive club. My job is to just stand at reception and greet / smile with customers. There is no one for me to really talk to, I stand there on my own and of course I ... (318 words)

Even though I'm extra careful having unprotected sex, I still worry something might go wrong.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend and I have completely, unprotected sex. We're being really stupid about this (especially me) since I'm already and adult and she's still underage. Condoms are usually a little tight on my penis but, I forgot what the name was, that large condom is just a little ... (184 words)

Now that I've lost the weight he wants me back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago because I got fat. Now I've lost weight and he wants me back. I think if he loved me he would have stayed with me when I was overweight, so I'm hesitant. Should I get back with him? I love him, but am very hurt that all it took for ... (71 words)

Rash in pubic area during menstruation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I've just gotten my first period and this is my 2nd cycle, I noticed that a horrible rash will develop in my pubic area and it really hurts and I've even spent sleepless nights crying and saying silent prayers but can someone tell me what's wrong with me and what I can do ... (98 words)

Can this relationship last?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a relationship with a man I was with years ago. Friends said I was crazy to try again. I never got over him. He is just the same as he use to be. I love him though. We never do anything I want to do. He drinks every day. He sleeps till noon the next day. We ... (191 words)

Is it okay to be friends? She wants us to be friends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend broke up with me 3 days ago. She says she doesn't want the responsibilty of a girlfriend. She says she doesn't want to see me and she is too busy and needs to concentrate on school. She says we can be friends. Do you think we can be friends? My question is: is ... (70 words)

Am I right to hope that this man really cares about me and that in the future our friendship will develop into something more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I would like some advice please since it is years since I last dated (my relationship of 9 years ended at the beginning of this year). I have been friends with a colleague for 3 years - just friends - but my feelings for him have become really strong and we have seen eac... (360 words)

I'm financially dependent on my parents and now I'm pregnant! Is it possible to have an abortion without them finding out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 340 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - i am really scared. i am 24 years old and think i am pregnant. my period is generally regular, and its now a few days late (this is VERY rare), and its too coincidental that i have had unprotected sex between my last period and now (for the first time ever). my b/f did... (126 words)

I'm confused! Am I another victim of her mind game, or what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I've known this girl for almost a year now. She is 24 and I am 27. She is a superfriendly type of girl. By "superfriendly" I mean she is the megaflirty type who would make her male friends easily misunderstand her friendship to love. I know this because a few of my friends ... (418 words)

My girlfriend's a day late for her period... what should I be doing, or not doing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - My gf is a day late for her period. I know that's not much but she's on the pill and said that it's always right on time with that. She missed her pill one day but following that we had sex with a condom for a while and have only recently had sex without a condom again. She's ... (202 words)

Since he left, I've made many changes but nothing is good enough!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband left me and our son 3 months ago to think! after 3 months he came back and sai he cant come back to us as he sdoesnt love me. he says he will stiffle all feelings he has left for me. i used to drink which he hated but i didnt realise the problem was such an issue to ... (101 words)

How can I fix this drunken mistake?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - this weekend i was at a friends party and got super drunk... and woke up next to my best friend. we were both naked and not sure how far we have gone we found a condom but it was used but had no cum inside does this mean we havent done it..? shes went and got the morning after ... (118 words)

My Best Friend's parent hit her and I swore to secrecy - what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 353 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - My best friends parents hit her, and I really need someone to talk to about it, but I swore to her not to tell anyone. She won't do anything about it, won't tell anyone or anything and it's driving me insane. I can't tell my mum because she'll want t do something, I can't tell ... (102 words)

Would this not be the perfect storm for a relationship to develop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I want to keep this question as general as possible, but it does apply to my personal situation. What would explain why two people are not in a relationship together when they both like each other (and know it), have incredible chemistry, and have tons in common? Would t... (98 words)

Help me choose the right path... should I give my virginity to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. Please help me to select the right path. I love a guy very much . He also loves me the same. We r emotionally attached. But due to some family problem we can't get married.He asks me to give my virginity to him before my marriage. I also want to make my first love ... (133 words)

Is masturbation good for your health? And how many times a day can we do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Im 20 yrs old guy.. i not yet experiment masturbation.. my penis size is 15cm when(erect) my friends said it is very big size.. It will affect my future wife..and i plan now to do masturbation.. does it good for health or not.. and tell me how many times can we do for a day. ... (60 words)

I think have thrush - what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, this is quite embarrassing but I don't know what to do. I think I have thrush, and I think I have had it for almost a year withoout realising! I want to tell my mum, but I'm really scared. I have told two of my friends, but they don't know what to do either. Because I've ... (82 words)

What do I do about this crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F) age 22-25 - I have a crush on my mum's cousin,who is eight years older than me.I dont know what to do.He doesnt live near me now,he used to,although i dont know him very well since i havent seen him much in my whole life,so because of that,it doesnt feel like he is related,even though he ... (397 words)

I'm having trouble trusting her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am involved with a very sexy girl she's 22 says she loves me calls me her boyfriend and wants me live with her. We get on really well txt non stop and have graet sex so what is the problem?..... We I have beem hurt in the past by people cheating on me. I have found this... (346 words)

Am I getting my hopes up for no reason?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Broke up just over 3 weeks ago now. absoloutely miss my ex so much after we spent 3 years together. a friend of mine who she is also friends with rang her a few days ago and told her about how he'd dumped someone and regretted it forever. now she wants to meet my friend to talk ... (71 words)

Suddenly developed feelings for a close friend, never ever felt attracted to her before for the 1+ year I've known her for !!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - something really weird has happened. i became friends with this girl for just over a year ago. we went to different colleges yet still we started speaking quite alot. i never ever even thought about liking her. i didnt like her in anything more than a friend, i didnt find her ... (243 words)

Am I putting myself at risk by doing these things on webcam?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - am i putting myself at risk? I have fantasies about guys watching me masturbate, so much that find myself getting people i meet in chat rooms to watch me on webcam. I dont let people that i know watch me as this would be very imbarising at school i already have a bad repu... (94 words)

She thinks I only want sex, how can I make things up to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - My girlfriend use to have a boyfriend who in a way, forced her to do certain sexual activities, I've done those things with her and a lot more and without forcing her into anything. She knows I'm a freak in bed, and as a guy, I'm constantly thinking about sex. Well we haven't ... (358 words)

My partner changed his will leaving everything to his daughter. What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my partner and i own equal shares in our home at 50% each...when i moved in i had put up a large sum of money into the property, approx 70k, which covered the extention works carried out. it took nine months to get my name on the deeds of the property, which were the worst 9 ... (302 words)

Is two months a short time to fall in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - does he love me? l have been dating this guy for 2 months,he doesn't call sometimes-its been two days now we recently got back together after l had ended things because he had come 3 hours late for an appointment.l said some horrible things to him that day we got talking an... (98 words)

I like him but he says he is "off women", what more can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - There is a guy at school that I really like and have for a while now and I feel like its becoming more, but probably just for me. I have gone out with him and few times and we have kissed and stuff but it hasn't gone too far. He always talked about other girls and because we ... (261 words)

My married boss suggested no strings sex, should I take his offer?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi,for the last one year i have been attracted towards my Boss. I am unmarried 28 Y female and he is 35 Y married male. He is also attracted towards me. He has asked me for sexual relations with him without any emotional involvement.He never forces me. He said if i am okay with ... (112 words)

Husband vs the other guy...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, I need some help! I have been with my husband for 9 1/2 years, married 4 1/2. We have a 3 year old son together. Things had been fine up until about the summer when I decided that I was bored, and told my husband that I wanted to move out for a while. ... (396 words)

What can I say to ask her out before this other person does???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - Hey Guys at Dear Cupid. I'm in love with this girl at school, and I mean LOVE, If something happened to her I'd just die! She knows that I like her but not as much as that. I really am just going crazy, I've never asked some-one out before I've asked friends for help and just ... (109 words)

Am I being greedy and asking too much here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, I really need help with my b/f of 19 months. I'm seperated and waiting on divorce nearly 5 years now, my ex is holding things up constantly, so it stresses me out cos I can't state what I want as I feel I have no right to ask. I love my b/f to bits and know that he ... (524 words)

We had sex for the first time today, is it likely that I would get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi people, please help me asap, I'm really worried and don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time today and when we had finished and he pulled back the condom fell off and was left inside of me. This was the third time he had cummed in a couple of ... (104 words)

I feel horrible that I broke up with her, what am I supposed to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I've just broke up with my girlfriend after over a year of going out. I said that i wasn't ready for a serious relationship and that my feelings had changed for her. I knew it was going to be hard but i feel really bad and i know she's really upset. She's texted me be... (104 words)

His ex says my boyfriend is obsessed about sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - About two weeks ago I started dating a really nice guy. Him and his girlfriend had broken up the day before (bad idea I know). He has become very distant lately and whenever we're together his hands wonder directly to a certain part of my body. My sister told me that he ... (130 words)

My girlfriend doesn't prefer clit stimulation and has trouble achieving an orgasm, any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 354 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, My girlfriend has trouble achieving an orgasm. She is 24 and has never had one so far although she has had quite a few partners.. I've also had a number of partners and after learning what they like have been able to make them orgasm every time through some f... (309 words)

If she has low sex drive, then why does she masturbate so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 355 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am a 30 y/o good looking physically fit male, I have been married to my wife for 3 months but have been together for 11 years, I have a normal sex drive which is about 2-3 times a week. My partner is 27 and very attractive she has a few problems mentally about her weigh... (295 words)

Why didn't he respond to my text?? Talk about rude!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please please please could someone offer me an explanation for this? I am particularly interested in hearing a male perspective. Please. Why would a 40 year old man that I have just met, tell his best friend (also a good friend of mine) that he really likes me, was “up for ... (261 words)

Am I doomed to be lonely or will I find my Mr. Right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Why am i still single at 25 i a m a 25 year old college graduate. i have dated several guys for only short period of time not because i find them either below my standards in terms of education, or their appearances dont quite appeal to me. I have never really met someo... (144 words)

How bad is what I did, what can I do to regain my self-respect...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 356 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - We work in the same building, I won't talk about the break up too much, let's just say it was really prolonged and really really nasty, both of us going back and forth. She finally ended it for good about 2 months ago in a really nasty way - I hadn't even asked for it, I had ... (578 words)

Can sex or sperm make someone fat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

3 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone, at there my question is this. Can Sex or Sperm make someone fat? Or can it make someone increase in hips. Because i argue this with my friends. please help ... (35 words)

I have a huge crush on my boss!! Is he flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

3 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Help! I have a huge crush on my boss! I am a 19, bisexual male and he is 23 and I cant tell what he is... The problem is I dont know if he is in to me. I know that he was married but no one knows why he got divorced. He flirts with me and I can tell it is flirting so I know I ... (119 words)

Parents caught us having sex, now we can't see each other.

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - my mom and dad just caught me and my bf having sex. we are both 18. we are very much in love and we been going out for a year. we were doing it but really quiet but they both walked in and saw us naked and i was on top of my bf. Both are pissed off. Now i cant see him for a ... (93 words)

Am I wrong for dating an old friends ex boyfriend?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I've been dealing with this in my head for a long time. I had a friend in high school, we were cool started hanging out in the 10th grade graduated class of 2000. I would go to her house after school on the weekends etc. At the time she was dating this guy and she ... (360 words)

Do all girls get pleasured the same way or is everyone different?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Do all girls get "pleasured" in the same way, or is everyone different...? I'm just wondering because I'm a very curious person. Anything would help me.... (26 words)

I'm afraid I'll lose his friendship if I break up with him.

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, My boyfriend and I dated for four years but we have been having some problems. I have been going through a rough time in my life, and I've suddenly found myself seeing him in a different light. I care about him greatly but I've lost the feeling that he is amazing...and I'... (193 words)

My sister's husband is so perverted around me when she's not around!!

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3 December 2008 (?) age 18-21 - My sister's husband really perverted around me when its just me and him. I'm only 17 and he's 24. They haven't been married long (about a mouth) but he's been "in the family" for a long time. I don't want my sister to know and I don't want to make a huge issue out of this. He's ... (66 words)

How can I be open without feeling weird?

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3 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I lived with my mother for about 10yrs before I knew my brother and my sister. They were in the cities. I got used to my sister and we talked about anything. My brother who’s about 30 yrs and I am 21, I am uncomfortable around him, I don’t make or never made eye contact with ... (446 words)

Is "queefing" during sex a turn off?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - is it a turn off when a girl "qweefs" (air being pushed out of the vagina making a farting noise) during sex? or what do they think about it??... (29 words)

How can I make her first time not hurt so badly??

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3 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - im not a virgin but my girlfriend is. weve tried but it hurt her too badly. i heard that using lube or having her take a hot bath prior can help reduce pain. do these things work and is there anything else i can do to make it easier? ... (49 words)

What should I do with my married doctor who I'm in love with?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I am an unmarried girl. 3 years back i went to a doctor. He became a good friend of mine. I never had any intention to get physical with him as he was married. He asked me to kiss once, i could not stop. One day after kissing, he touched my whole body. I never allowed him to ... (224 words)

Why do my girlfriends nipples taste bad?

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3 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - do nipples or breasts give off hormones during sex? Recently, when i lick my girlfriends nipple during sex she hasnt been tasting good, but she is clean. everywhere else she tastes good. but here nipples taste so bad that after i'm done she tells me I have bad breath. What i... (59 words)

Is it against religion to masturbate?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hey I've just started going back to chruch and I'm really trying to do it right. I'm a Christian. and I was wondering is it against my religion to masturbate. or any ones religions... please let me know if you know anything about this. thanks :D ... (52 words)

Why has my boyfriend lost interest in sex over the past few months?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend of 3 years has lost interest in sex over the past few months. We used to have sex all the time, seeing each other 2 or 3 times a week, and having sex each time, sometimes 2 or 3 times. But, I don’t get to see him that often now, as he is in Indiana for his job and ... (425 words)

How can I get my girl interested in strap-ons?

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3 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - It's been a fantasy of mine for a while to be done anally by my girlfriend with a strap-on. She has stuck things in me before but with hesitation, I can't imagine it being very fun for her just sitting behind me while I'm moaning in pleasure and her doing all the work, so... (206 words)

Am I a commitment phobe or just a worry wort?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in need of some advise. I am confused and dont know whether i am just a worry wort or a commitment phobic? My boyf and I were together 4 years before i broke it off for one year. I didn't feel our relationship was going anywhere, and felt we needed a break. We got b... (310 words)

Is it right to date your best friends brother?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Amy and holly were best mates, Amy was 16. Holly brought her best mate Amy to her Brother Greg’s 18th birthday. Amy and Greg got on well was chatting the whole night and shared a kiss... They talked online for many hours every day for about 2months. Holly told Amy to block Greg ... (297 words)

First time sex, I couldn't get all the way in! Is this normal?

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3 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - We had sex for the first time with my GF and i found that i could not insert deeply my penis to her "thing". what must be the problem? is it that my penis is too big or her thing is too small. my penis is normal size. please advice. because we will soon have another sex.... (57 words)

I don't want to lend money to my sister and her loser boyfriend!

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - My sister in law is with a loser guy. To give some examples: he has a violent terrible temper and is unkind to her, they have a 1yr old baby, he has never changed a nappy or helped with the baby. He has never held him for more than 5mins or even play with him. If the baby is ... (754 words)

My periods out of whack and the HPT test is unclear!

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ladies I need your help! I had a short light period for 2 days when the normal would be 4-5 days ranging from medium to light towards the end. I spotted, then it went to brown now it's totally gone? I have a headache and feel sick to my stomach, have not been able to eat ... (99 words)

Can we cousins be together without the complications of our families?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - My cousin and I like each other. We want to be together but we can't; we live 70 miles away, he is 4 years older etc. He and I have done nothing physical, my parents would be none to happy neither would his. He also doesn't want to overstep his boundaries with me. I'm adopted ... (91 words)

Is it okay to lick the vaginal fluids?

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3 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - hie i love licking the vagina but, is it okay to lick both with the vagina fluids and stuff ?... (23 words)

Why doesn't he want me living with him full time?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend said he didnt want anyone to live with him full time right now. but for some odd reason we are living together right now what gives?... (28 words)

How can I find out if I'm allowed to have a girlfriend?

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3 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - hello this is mostly for teens or parents i really like this girl and we want to go out but i dont know if i am aloud or not can someone please tell me how i can find out if im aloud to have a girl friend without straight out asking if i am aloud to have a ... (113 words)

Any opinions or advice on how to proceed with this enigma of a man?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I fancy the pants off of this guy that I met online (last January) but he lives in Scotland and I am stuck here. I came out and told him that I liked him. Later on he admitted that he liked me too but wishes that I wasn't here. I've decided to study abroad in Scotland, at ... (226 words)

How can I be more open in my relationships?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - hi. this is my question- I'm a very strong person (as emotional content)in a relationship. When i first begin a new relationship seems that im very distant on the outside, but really im going crazy on the inside. I do not like to show that i'm vulnerable until we been together ... (148 words)

How can I get past the teasing of me, a 17 y/o dating a 14 y/o boy?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, Why does it seem to be okay for a 19-year-old guy to date a 16-year-old-girl...but a newly-17-year-old girl cannot peacefully date an almost-14-year-old guy? I've been with my boyfriend (we're in the second situation)for a little over a month, and I couldn't be ha... (354 words)

Why did she promise that things would never change and then shut me out?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, About nine months ago, my best friend of almost three years moved away. She is now living in a town that is about an hour away from mine. When she first learned that she was moving, she was completely devastated, as I was. We spent pretty much every day togeth... (373 words)

My boyfriend's friends...

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, hmm where do I begin... Well my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We were engaged, and he broke up with me because of one of his friends who is is a girl. I was devastated. I almost had a nervous breakdown. I lost hope and faith in myself and the world I ... (180 words)

Is there any way to get him off my mind and actually enjoy myself?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I have been away from my b/f for 4 months now and have 4 more months before I get to see him, the holidays really have me down. Is there any way to get him off my mind and actually enjoy myself? ... (44 words)

To chase or let go?

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3 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - For those who like someone: If I like a girl how do I tell the difference between she enjoying the chase and her simply not interested in me? 1) If she likes the chase would it be safe to say that if she is talking to me when she wants in her time that. She may be intere... (101 words)

Are we having illegal underage sex?

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3 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey guys Im 18 and my gf is 15, We are dating 15 months now and we have been doing it for about 6-7 months. My question is this, Since Im not like 45 or something would I be penalized for this? I love this girl to bits, We were together about 12 weeks before we even kis... (93 words)

What are the options for a girl with a man whose penis is almost 5''?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What are all the options for a girl with a man whose penis is almost 5 inches? I secretly cry in my pillow after sex because my body is so sexually pent up. I am 33 but I do kegol exercises everyday and I've had no children and my ex boyfriends were not much bigger. I'm so ... (203 words)

Poll: What has been your most pleasurable, or most erotic sexual experience and why?

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3 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Poll: What has been your most pleasurable, or most erotic sexual experience and why? Details and explanation are encouraged. My hope is that the answers will benefit those looking for ideas in their own respective sex lives. ... (37 words)

Am I stupid for trying to fix our marriage... can I ever trust him again?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My husband and I have been together for 16 years, married for 11 years. This is the second time around for both of us. Our ages are him 45 myself 47. A little more than two years ago my husband stop making love to me so often. To be exact 8 times in the last 30 mon... (627 words)

How should I respond to his negative behavior?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I work with this guy who is very attractive but married. I'm married also and have never cheated on my spouse. My co-worker is 59 years old and I'm 25 years old. I can't help the attraction and have never responded to his seductive offers. Here is the problem, he asked me ... (213 words)

Why doesn't she orgasm as much as she used to?

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3 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Been with girlfriend 2 years she used to have 2 or 3 orgasms every time. Now once every few times. Is she cheating or not into me anymore? ... (30 words)

Will he talk to me again or now ignore me?

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Im not sure what to do! Theres this guy Ive been hanging out with for a while. He had a thing for me and we fooled around last year but ended up sleeping with/talking to 2 other girls at the same time. Over summer, he liked one girl, then jumped to another in which he started... (197 words)

What can I do? I'm stuck and depressed.

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3 December 2008 (F)

- my life so far has been the epitome of continuous unrequited love. now i like someone, am clueless how he feels, and am petrified. i dont like liking people cos I always get hurt. I need to know what to do cos Im stuck and depressed.... (48 words)

My ex's new girlfriend looks just like me!! Is this weird or am I crazy?!

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - hi. Okay so my questions is this- Up on til two days ago my ex-boyfriend has been telling my best friends that he loves me and cant get over me. Then yesterday he calls my best-friend and tell her that he met a girl at one of his friends houses and they began to make out. This ... (111 words)

I'm completely in love with her and need your advice...

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3 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi! Well this isn't my first time to write on here, but I've never got to the bottom of my problem. I'm in my twenties, and I'm in total love with another woman in her thirties. Please don't question if this love, because I couldn't describe it, but believe me - I ... (232 words)