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Am I a fool if I let him come to my place?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi, thank you in advance for reading this. I met my boyfriend two years ago, he lives 1 hours drive from me. After the first 9 months I found out he was seeing another woman, he told me that he would never see her again, and i believed him and gave him a second chance. t... (304 words

Is it better to masturbate or to get a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2132 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 18-21 - Hi ladies an Gents If you could help me with this, it'd be helpful. I'm 15, 16 in February, I keep thinking of sex a lot more nowadays, I masturbate a lot more too. I just want to do it! I'm still a virgin but I've had a couple of chances, I wasn't quite sure then, and now I'... (107 words

I am torn between two men...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1388 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I am torn between two men. The back stories are so incredibly deep that I will give just the basics. First guy: The man I'm currently with. We've been off and on for 8 years, but currently living together. We have been getting along great. He is my best friend. We share... (596 words

Was my conversation with this married friend wrong? It felt weird!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2118 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I called my long distance friend yesterday for christmas, we talked about what we did and well we are friends but he's married to someone I don't know if knows about me communicating with him. It's that sometimes he makes me feel like he wants to say something but I just play ... (208 words

He says if I totally quit drinking, he would totally quite watching porn.

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27 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been married just about 3 months. We have been together about 2.5 years, during this time we had many mini (few days to couple of months) breakups. Some of the reasons for those breakups were financial, him being nagative toward life(I am quite an optimist, which he ... (341 words

I wish I could know how to get out of this complicated relationship. Help!

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27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Ten months ago, I started dating this guy. I barely saw him b/c he lived in another town. After two months he found out he was leaving to another city so he started acting different: he called me really late at night or didnt call at all, i almost didnt see him at all for ... (340 words

Should I say something and ruin our friendship or are we beyond that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2009 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am a 40 year old single man that has fallen in love with a married woman. She is in a very troubled relationship and has often confided in me. We share our innermost feelings but have had no physical realtionship. I feel we have something special but have never confessed ... (69 words

Worried that my boyfriend will go off with my best friend if he has a 3some with me and her!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2130 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am 15 and me and my boyfriend are having sex reguly,we've been dating for 3 mounths now but the sex is getting boring and my boyfriend asked if we could have a treesome with my best friend, I am ok with having a treesome but I'm worried that he will have sex with my best ... (108 words

What shall I do to prepare myself for him giving oral to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2132 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - I have to put a bit of story behind the question or else it won't make much sense. I'm with a guy who's older than me by four years (he's 20) and we've been together for around 6 months. i met him through a friend as he is the best friend of her boyfriend. we're really close ... (256 words

My parents don't like the guy that I like

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27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Ok so theres this guy and he's 20 years old and I met him over this summer we played soccer together every week like 3 times and we fell for each other. I want to get to know him more and have my parents meet him. He's mexican and so cute. My parents told me to not to talk to ... (173 words

I like "pause" in my life, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a single woman living with family because of economic hardship. I'm a person who enjoys others company and talking a lot. I could talk for hours over the phone too. The thing is I've always been like this: I can go out and be with family one day and the next day with ... (154 words

Did he just want sex and is leading me on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F - I fancied this man for ages and I think he liked me too. We always flirted when we saw each other out and sometimes kissed. But last week I got so drunk and stupidly went home with him and we had sex. In the morning he gave me his number, I didnt ask for it. A couple of days ... (286 words

Where can I get a vibrator?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - So, yeah. How do you shave around your vagina? does it hurt..how do you do it? And doesnt it grow back..and wont it become itchy? PLEASE help. Thanks a bunch, ..i dont think its normal to have hair down below. + What about masturbating with a carrrot, hair brush, etc. Wh... (100 words

I have many sex questions!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2132 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Ok. First off. Im really horny right now, is there anything in a house that i could hump to stimulate me? Like, something that i could use in the house, just to feel like its a guys penis? or anything of that sort, cause i lovee to hump. And im extremly Horny! Second... (249 words

Want to get rid of my by and feelings for my bf's cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - My son's father and I have been together for four years, and he is really starting to fall off; he's not working, taking care of himself and is becoming a miserable and angry person. However, I have been faithful for the length of our relationship and would never hurt him. I ... (236 words

Do girls think its weird if guys shave their pubic area

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2123 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - Do straight guys shave there pubic hairs? If they do, do girls think its weird?... (17 words

Wanting to explore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Okay, so this is a strange problem. or maybe it isnt, i dont know. im 19 and in a serious relationship with a guy i know i want to spend my life with, and have been with him for over 3 years. but recently i felt this push from inside, something urging me to break free and just ... (192 words

I want a relationship with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - What do i do.? There is this boy that i really like and i love no matter what he has done, he used to really like me and we went away together with the school and it brought us closer together and i was sooo happy just been able to spend time with him and tell him anything. ... (180 words

Dream about sex..does it mean I'm subconsciously wanting to cheat

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27 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - I'm 16. I've with someone, I've been with her for about 6 weeks. Not long but still, we're pretty close :). Last night I had a long dream and it was like one big fantasy. It certainly wasn't a wet dream but.. I did start having sex with this girl (made up with my ... (76 words

I don't understand what he means

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2131 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hey aunts. Ok so me and this guy have known each other for 4 yrs and we really good friends. At first we liked each other but due to certain things and people it ended. He knows that i still like him. Not long ago i stopped talking to him coz he lied. Afterwards we talked again ... (111 words

I want to move to glamour city!

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27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - hey i am 19 years old n hail from a small city in india..i want to move to mumbai..its a city where the dreams come true,a centre for the glamour world..but i have no experience and knowlegde but yeah i am determined to be a part of this glamour industry no matter what it ... (85 words

How to deal with rejection if I see him so often? He really hurt me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2131 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - how do i deal with rejection. the story is i liked this guy doing the sport as me and then one he rejected he didn,t seen with me in the nighclub,and rotten to me.actual the guy is jerk, but he found him self gilfreind a girl who has learn for her self what he really lik... (362 words

Should I start dating also and just move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2130 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - My (ex) girlfriend told me she needed some space. Her reasoning was to figure out her own happiness and get away from the stress of a relationship. Later it seems that she wants to date other people but she says that its just "something to do." We have been apart for about 2 ... (84 words

Need help to get over him, I don't want my daughter to witness us always fighting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I desperately need help trying to get over someone I love dearly. I oftentimes question myself as to why I even still love him after all the hurt and pain that he has caused me. I have been with him for 4 years. We have a beautiful daughter who is 1 years old. I have always ... (174 words

In love with my former teacher...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2102 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - A few years ago I fell in love with my science teacher. He is about thirteen years older than me and I'm so lost without him. I was only fourteen but then when I left for high school I grew depressed. I remember crying because I thought I'd never see him again. I miss him, a ... (183 words

My mother doesn't want to see me with hickeys!

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27 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi, My boyfriend n I want to do lovebites but when I asked my mum if she would mind me having a love bite she was throwing a hissy fit saying tht she would hate it if I came home with a lovebite. Any Ideas ?... (52 words

Do I tell my fiance about my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - I posted before about contemplating a possible involvement with an engaged coworker or to stay with my fiance. Luckily, I did not act on the crush as she did not feel the same and put a halt to it, although you can say it came pretty close and many feelings developed, too many ... (181 words

Do you think he respects me? Should I send the topless photo?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2131 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend said that if i dont send him a braless picture from ma neck to waist he wont go on o2 unlimited on his mobile so he can text me as many times as he wants. I said no and he said so everything you said you will do with me i.e. pleasure n sex was a lie n i said no i ... (91 words

I just found out that her husband left her, and I like her. How do I go on from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 51-59 - i met a woman at a dance class who became my regular dance partner. it was obvious from the start that there was a very powerful chemistry between us,but she was married and apart from a bit of flirting and a few long hugs,nothing went on between us.i was single when we met ... (238 words

Would you marry her?

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27 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - I would like your opinion on something. Would anyone marry someone who has had an abortion, had an affair with a married man, cannot tell you exactly when the affair eded, lied to you about many different things, flirts aimlessly with other guys even in your presence, kisses ... (114 words

How can I have a pleasant personality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2126 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - hello well everyone says i have turned to be really pretty and that im gunna be a stunner and all this i get it from all my family my friends everyone. but i dont think i am and then when i meet boys i am shy and i act weird. if its true and i am pretty well i want to ha... (148 words

Its limp!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello again I have a question is it normal that when you are with a guy that if you keep having sex for awhile and he doesn't cum that his penis will go down? Does that mean he does not want you or attracted anymore. Or does that mean he could be tired or stressed with ot... (121 words

How do I deal with my daughter who is afraid of small spaces?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (? age 30-35 - My daughter (who's 4) is scared of small spaces. She wont even go in an elevator unless (we live in apartment) I hold her the whole time. My son (he's 8) thinks its funny to lock her the closet (you cant open from the inside). It takes like an hour to calm her down if not more. ... (116 words

Horney all the time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - HELLO its Phat and Sweet I have a problem as you know I have been a mistress. And I am to the point that I stay horney all the time. My fiend lives out of town. And being that I am the mistress I have to wait until the time is righ to see him. What I am asking is when I... (212 words

How to kill the love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2128 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - "Press the button!" I hear you all shout. Press the button and She'll disappear? Oh, if only it were that easy. I want to finish with my mistress. Okay, I'm not gonna murder Her. I'm only trying to murder the 'love' that I thought I had for Her. How to murder your love? And ... (616 words

How can we mentally and physically put her at ease during sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i attempted sex for the first time with each other last night. We were both quite nervous and but when i tried to penetrate i couldn't get fully in and i was hurting her so we had to stop. She was quite upset and explained that it happend with her previous ... (147 words

It seems to me that women don't really like men that much and they could be better off by themselves.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hi, I'd say I'm fairly young at my age, and I've had very little contact with the opposite sex as I'm quite shy. My question has more to do with curiosity and confusion. It seems to me that women don't seem to like men all that as much, and that they could be better off by th... (141 words

Did I sound like a girl confessing my feelings to him? What's happening here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I called my long distance crush yesterday for christmas, we talked about what we did and well we are friends but I have feelings for him only that sometimes he makes me feel like he does too, and others like he wants to play it cool. At the end of the conversation he ... (136 words

I don't want my family to be torn apart, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Im a 16 year old girl and i live with my two brothers, my mom, and my stepdad. My parents got divorced when i was younger, i dont really mind it except for the fact that my dad has never been there for me. My mom got remmaried when i was 7. I honestly love my stepdad, hes a ... (278 words

Do you think she's really already moved on??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - My gf broke up with me a month ago saying she doesn't love me anymore and she wants to concentrate on her career. I was devastated. I cudnt sleep or eat for days I begged her to come back to me but she said no she doesn't feel the same. She said we will b friends n that she ... (210 words

Is it true that women prefer men who shave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2127 days ago

27 December 2008 (? age 18-21 - is it true women like guys who shave better than guys who gotta bush????... (14 words

Was my dream just in my head or a premonition of things to come?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - I had a dream two nights ago and since then, it's bothered me all Christmas Day; it still does. I was in a dream where my crush, myself, and a couple of friends were all at this University I was not familiar with, like we had all transferred there by concidence or so... (236 words

Is it ok to consider sex with a woman 15 years older than me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2123 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - Ladies reply… I have been seeing a woman who I like a lot who is 15 years older than I am. Is it ok to consider sex with her? I would like to very much. If we do it I am considering how to please her. Any advice to pleasing an older woman? I want her to enjoy the sex? Wha... (79 words

Are guys happier on their own?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi agony aunts and uncles. The past couple months I have been trying to understand the confusing male psyche and this forum has always been helpful, but there's still alot more that I don't get. My main question is this: a guy says he doesn't want to be with anyone because h... (275 words

Why is he giving me such mixed messages??

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27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - I'm really confused atm. Me and this guy i met at a college party went on a date last week and had a really good time. we kissed and cuddled loads and just generally acted like a couple i.e. holding hands. The thing is he hasnt actully asked me out and acts slightly off with me ... (82 words

He's leaving on an internship. Should I trust him living with another girl?

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27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Alright, so my guy and I have been dating for almost 2 years and this summer he is going away for an internship for two and a half months. Last summer he had to go away for a week for an orientation for this internship, while there he made a lot of friends (both males and ... (451 words

Broke up with ex because of my lack of experience, now he wants me back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2129 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - ok me and my ex broke up I dumped him cause I'm scared to move forward I'm not talking about sex or anything like that but like making out and actually acting like were in a relationship. I have never made out with a guy and I suck with relationships. so now my ex wants to ... (107 words

Ex trying to make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - My ex bf, has just meet this girl on a dating website, and started dating she seems really up for him same for him, she also seems really rude when saying things she would do to him and he loves it, anyway the other day he said 2 me that she wants his body and only has eyes for ... (129 words

Big age difference! End it?

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27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Im dating someone whos 19 years older then me...and i dont know if i should finish it because of the age gap. Help? ... (23 words

Boyfriend? or new guy?

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27 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I need some advice!!! I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, and we have been living together for 3 years! We had our ups and down during the 5 years together! But recently, I met someone new and although at the beginning I thought it was just a phase it has turned o... (225 words

Why doesn't he contact me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - What have i done wrong, my ex bf and i talk on the phone everyday, i saw him yesterday and he said ill speak to u later which we did last ntie, anyway this morning i texted him asking for him 2 prank me when he could this was at 10.30 and ive still not heard from him, and hes ... (137 words

Have to see someone every day, want to get over them!

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27 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - what is the best way to get over someone wen your forced to see them everyday? wen i say get over i mean stop fancing/loving them! i really need to...its tearing me apart...any suggestions? the thing is i dont really know them as a person, like there personality (i know it ... (82 words

Didn't call, didn't show up! Mind games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2101 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - i've known this guy as a friend for years but we never really got to know each other well but i do kinda like him (our group of friends know each other though). Recently he sent a text asking me to meet him away from our group of friends and i like a fool without carefully ... (135 words

Should I hope Mr Wonderful gets back with me or just forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2132 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I went through four years of self healing after a very manipulative relationship.I have two children and i found it very hard to get back on the dating scene itried several times but just wasn't bothered.I then out of the blue met the most wonderful man who felt very much like ... (176 words

In a relationship but now interested in another..what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2129 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - I'm attached in a year long relationship with my bf. But we have always been fighting and patching and i'm always dissatisfied with him cos he doesnt communicate with me at all. Even when we fight he just remains quiet while i do all the talking. But still we managed to stay ... (548 words

Confused... am I doing something wrong?

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27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Ok well im gay girl who is 23 but for the last two months ive been talking to two girls. So when it came to meet up they stopped txtin they stopped calling and i know that one of the girls is openly gay. And if im honest im not ugly im just very girlie girl and if that is what... (79 words

Can swallowing sperm harm one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2131 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - I gave my boyfriend a blow job last night and swallowed when he came, this won't effect me in anyway will it?... (22 words

I don't know what to do so that the whole family stays together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - hello everyone! i need ur help on this. Wednesday is new year's eve and im in a tough situation: a very long story short, my father is cheating on my mother, we all know that, she even know it and decided to stay for me and my sister. where i live even kids 18 yrs should a... (413 words

My boyfriend wants love bites on his neck!

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27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - hey everyone my bf always asks me for lovebites on his neck but i dont know how to take lovebites :( can anyone help me with this please.... (28 words

He said I have made him mad with my message, what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have this male friend that i have been meeting up with quite abit any spare time he has for himself we have been meeting up. Last Sunday he cooked for me, we had a few drinks i got abit sick due to too much drinks. The next day i sent him a email saying im so embrass... (233 words

I'm not sure if I like Sophie or not, I'm confused, any help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - hello everyone, im scott, and sorry if this takes long, but ive made one big mistake, I have a 3 yr old with my ex we where together for 5 years, well we split in jan this year, i then started going out with this really nice girl sophie my whole family love her, but i didnt i ... (391 words

Why do people sleep with each other after they have split up?

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27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - why do people sleep with eachother after they have split up,? Thats what me and my ex have been doing for the past 3 months, and i dont think there is any chance of getting back together as hes in a long distance relationship and has never meet her, but where still sleeping... (92 words

What can I do? Should I stop being his best friend so maybe I have a chance to be his girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Well, I have my bestfriend who's a boy. Now the thing is that I fancy him and he knows it. Once he told me that he thinks that i;m beautiful but he doesn't want to go out with me coz he is afraid that he doesn't imagine us more than just friends and coz he's not ready for a ... (167 words

Do I have any hope as we still both get on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - I really want my bf bk, we split nearly 3 months ago, but still are friends, we talk on the phone everyday,and see each other ome days as well, we gave eachother xmas presents and everything, we also still have sex, They only problam is he now has a gf, but she lives outside ... (122 words

Is my imagination playing tricks on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2131 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a crush on a guy, and recently found out he feels the same, however i am currently seeing someone. He knows i am seeing someone, and is leaving me to sort out what i want. Thing is, i have been with my guy for over a year, and still can not imagine having his child... (112 words

Which girl would you ask out?

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27 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - what types of girl do guys mostlt for: A)heavy girl with class and sophication,sort of pretty just about B)blonde or red head or brunnette c)easy girl with no class ,dresses trashy ,goodlooking, D)girl of class, sophication,eduaction and who is bad dresser but nice ... (95 words

Should I let some time pass or end this LDR because I'm so confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - I'm writing this mostly as therapy and introspection for myself but it will be intertersting to get an outside opinion looking in on my situation. I am 20 years old and have been dating my beautiful girlfriend for a year and a half long-distance but problems have been ... (501 words

How do I accept the fact my husband and I will never have sex again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - How do I get over the fact my husband and I will never have sex again? It's been over a year now. To try and cut a long story short over a year ago I really hurt my husband's feelings. I was very rude and hurtful towards him. This wasn't the 1st time. I guess I took him for ... (254 words

View on having mistress/kept man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2131 days ago

27 December 2008 (M - I love my uncle. He has been a terrific role model all my life but there is one aspect of this life which differs notably from mine. He often talks to me about his mistresses. When I'm amongst his circle of friends they talk about their different mistresses much like they w... (253 words

What do these terms actually mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Just, can someone give me the definitions to these terms. been felt up/ been fingered: given handjob, blowjob, eaten out. oral sex, cybersex, any other types of sex besides the "regular" Im pretttyy sure i know what the first one is, but just need them cleared u... (78 words

Having trouble with erections

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2128 days ago

27 December 2008 (? age 30-35 - hi, im 25yrs old boy,from the age of 18 yrs i used to press my penis r testis for ejaction of sperm,but one day my penis loose erection power.now when ever i watch sex scene my penis will not erect what is my problem it is Erectile dysfunction r any sexual disorder. plz help ... (74 words

Boyfriend pushing me away because of family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2132 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, we were such a great couple, but he always had alot of family problems..his dad kicked him out of the house about a month ago..and now his parents have spent his college money..after this he's pushing me away telling me we can ... (101 words

Playing games? Or reconciliation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I've been broken up with my bf of 2.5 years for over a month now. Were both 21. He initiated the breakup. We then saw each other a week after the break up we had a wonderful day and he said he wanted to make it work, he missed me and loved me (the reason we broke up is ... (252 words

Helping to find it in the dark?!

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27 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - My wife has a rather small clitoris and lately,I have found difficulty locating it with my finger. This occasionally annoys her as we have been married 21 years and this started only about 3 months ago. We always make love in the dark.(Her idea). Is there someway I can fi... (66 words

Names for the baby?? Need help!

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27 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - alright, i know i ask WAY to many questions, but im like sooo scared right now. i am 7 months pregnant and it is a boy. i was trying to think of names and i can only think of one but its kind of girlie. anyone have any boy names they wanna share?? my last name is diamond.... (108 words

I think I love my cousin

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27 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hi there I think I'm in love with my cousin, and I need some to talk to... in advance...I'm a long talker...so sorry... For a while, parts of my family did not see each other due to some animosity between stubborn heads of the families. Only recently I started to see... (465 words

Aids after kissing ex-girlfriend?

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27 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - i am 21 years old. i am kind of very deeply thinking guy. i posted my question on this website some 2 days back and i was not convinced with the answers i got. the problem that still persists is, i am very tensed of getting AIDS after i have smootched my ex-gf.all the readers ... (189 words

Condom leaked..preggers?

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27 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend and i had protected sex but i think the condom might have leaked, my period came 2 weeks earlier and it only lasted 3 days. We had sex a week ago... Does this mean i'm pregnant or is it to early to tell... (45 words

How to ask out girl you've known for 5-6 years?

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27 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - How do you ask out a person that you've known for 5 or 6 years? If she says no, will the friendship end? Will she hate me?... (27 words

Easier for guys to move on??

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27 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - My b/f and I broke up after 7 years. we are 20 difference in age, I'm in my later 20's and he's in his later 40's. We love each other very much, he's a very nice guy and treats me with respect. He always tell me that I'm the love of his life. About 2 1/2 months ago, I broke ... (374 words

My cousin and me--does she have feelings for me?

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27 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - Ok so me and and my cousin made out with each other 'bout a year ago. we made out on several occasions lol we havent in a while...i want to know if she still has feelings 4 me whenever our families get together we sleep in da same bed and we hug,cuddle, hold hands but i don... (92 words

Hatred for my husband!

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27 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have so much hatred for my husband. We have been married for 9 yrs and we have a 6yr old. He can never keep a job. He is always moving from one industry to the other. I have made more than him almost the entire time we've been married. He never initiates anything! not even ... (93 words

Why can't I get a guy?

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27 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am 27, I have never had a boyfriend. I have never kissed a guy, much less had sex. I am fat and ugly, I know that. I am shy but really sweet. I have seen so many fat/ugly chicks with hot guys....I am just wondering, why I can't get a bf. I want a boyfriend, I feel I am ... (119 words

Bi friend/having sex with her?

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27 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - ok i have this friend she is bi, and i think she likes me! i have caught her looking at my boobs. the thing that scares me is that she tells me her parents are going to a hotel some where and leaving her home by herself and she asks me to stay the night. what should i do? and... (83 words

On & off relationship

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27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Well ok here is the dilema..I've been on and off with this one person 4 about almost 3 years and im soooo in love with him , ii don't want to be with anybody else but the problem is ii don't know if he feels the same way !seein as how it's about to be a new year ii want to have ... (120 words

Her boyfriend is planning on cheating and I want to tell my daughter

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27 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - I just found out that my 21 year old daughter's boyfriend is planning to cheat on her, only the way I found out was dishonest on my part. When he came to pick her up tonight he left his cell phone at our house. We immediately called her and they turned around to get it. In the ... (143 words

He hasn't contacted me in 2 days

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27 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Maybe I'm trippen but me and my boyfriend have been datinq for three months and talked on the fone EVERY SINGLE DAY. we may not talk all day but he always calls me at niqht maybe 9 or 10. but he hasn't called me in two days. I mean- idk if I'm trippen but- to qo from ... (142 words

He's playing hard to get what do I do?

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27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - SO ive been in love with this kid right we went out and really fell in love then i broke up with him for no reason and he got a girlfriend and like we text each once in a while but he is so serious..i am going to hang out with him maybe monday,..but he trying to act hard to ... (89 words

Problems with birth control?? Pregnancy?

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27 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Good afternoon. I'm going to just get to the point of my dilemma. I've had irregular periods for as long as I can remember, I've had about 5 injections of the depo provera and everytime at my third month mark I'd have my period; been sexually active unprotected with my mate for ... (143 words

We broke up but still sleep together does that ruin our changes for the future?

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27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Me and my sons father has been broken up for 2 years now. And before that we were together for 3 years. We split up because we just had a baby, and honestly I had too much going on in my life to focus on a relationship. But I still love him and I'm sure he loves me too. Even ... (121 words

Do we just not have that magical connection?

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27 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Lately, i have been feeling bored with my relationship. We have been together on and off for 5 years. I am worried, as we are great friends, however things between us are just rather boring at the moment, and i find myself thinking about other men. I have gone off sex, an... (197 words

I've lied about having orgasm

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27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - hi. i know this is of my own making but ive lied to every boyfriend ive ever had (2) about orgasming. i make noises and they thik im having a great time. i do this really because it makes the experience more sexy for me, but i know its totally misleading. i masturbate mainly to ... (192 words

Friends don't like my guy

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27 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - This isn't an omg question maybe not even a question but i really need some advice. I have an incredible boyfriend. He's sweet,nice,and he cares so much about me. We've been dating for 3 months. Don't worry it's not a sex question haha. It's just i really like him but my ... (107 words

How do I break the news of a divorce to my kids?

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27 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - How do I tell my kids ages 8 and 3 that I am divorcing their father?... (16 words

Am I doing the right thing?

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27 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for almost 10 years. We have 2 kids. We met, one month later we moved in together, on month after that I was pregnant. It all happened so fast. I tried doing the right thing and learn to love him as a husband so we got married. Through the years I have tried ... (168 words

Sometimes I want to be single even though the relationship is good!

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27 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Help!! I feel like i am in a perfect relationship, yet kicking and screaming inside!! I feel that everything is great, he treats me well, respects me, we have a good time together, and we are living together. Yet despite all this, i am constantly trying to convince myself ... (127 words

How does a geek make friends?

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27 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - Hi all I have a simple problem, the problem is that I have no idea how to make friends. I had a hard childhood and when I moved to my dads I got a PC then basically got hooked. Im not what you would call a stereotypical geek, im actually a very sociable person and no on... (292 words

Bach flower remedies?

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27 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - I was wondering if anybody has any good experience with bach flower remedies? And if it works for you , how do you feel the change? is it just placebo , or is it really working. I have bad depression, and trying to find natural treatments. Do you know what else works, before ... (54 words

After my son was born 2 years ago, I get sick after intercourse!

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27 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - As strange as this may sounds after intercourse i often feel sick. Now this started after my son was born and i thought that it might go away but however it didnt. What i am wondering is what can be done about this if anything just keep in mind i am not pregnant and my son is ... (60 words

Why does he degrade me so much when we once had a life and family together?

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27 December 2008 (? age 30-35 - Why is he treating me like this? My ex hates me. We have three young children together who he sees every fortnight. He has asked to see them every weekend but I said no as my he had this option in the past and decided that it was too much for him as he 'did not have a social ... (573 words

How do I cope with my little sister?

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27 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hi im 15 and my sister who is 11, is very hard to handle. My little sister always gives my parents,older brother, and especially me, a very hard time each day. She is very rude, always mentions rude topics or words. If we tell her to do something she whines and complains about ... (342 words

I told my BF that I want to lose my virginity but now I'm scared!

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27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - hello... ok well im 16 and my bf is 18.... im a virgin.. we have been so close to doin it but i stop him..he always says hes ''sorry'' that he just gets so carried away... n dat we wont do anything i dnt want to do... so yesterday we were tlkin bout it n well i kinda tol... (106 words

Don't know who to choose, my boyfriend or his cousin.

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27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hey my name is Christina and i been going crazy the last few days because i have a good boyfriend nd im not really sure if i love him because he alwasy worry about his band..it use to not bother me but now it do and his cuzin is in his band nd he not worry about that band like ... (133 words

Should I ask him back or wait for him to do it

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27 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - My ex got in contact with me after 5 months and now I am confused. He has never been one to talk about feelings and admits it himself, he says he has trust issues. We met up for a drink and he was treating me very well like we were together again, calling me all the old pet ... (216 words

Worried about falling for my best friend and I love my boyfriend

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27 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - OK So I am going to keep this as short as I can. I have been hanging out with my first love, we will call him Alan he is one of my closest friends, and my boyfriend hates it. I told him to deal with it because Alan was here first. He got a little mad and it seemed to die off. ... (394 words

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