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I'm so nervous he won't like my christmas gift !

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - So it's christmas eve everyone. For my boyfriend I bouqht him this qold and silver watch [by the way I'm fifteen and so is he]. I think it's cute but I'm nervous and scared because I don't know if he will. I mean, this is my first christmas with a serious boyfriend and I want ... (98 words

Is this long distance friendship becoming a relationship?

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24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Well, I've been having a long distance friendship with this guy I met 2 years ago in a delivery I made at his office (US airbase). He happened to left shortly after that, so I decided to contacted him and since then emails have been sent. First once a month, polite stuff not... (253 words

How important is it if a guy has no friends. Not a party animal and doesn't drink?

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24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - He's 26! How important is it if a guy has no friends. Not a party animal.. doesn't drink. And his last relationship was (2) years. ago. Is that a warning sign that he can't be in a long-term relationship with someone? Great guy but I have my doubts about starting a relationship ... (61 words

I just don't seem to get as much out of sex unless it's anal. Am I a freak?

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24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Sometimes I wonder if I'm normal. Hi I'm 25 and Having a bit of a problem. It's just that during sex I actually find it more pleasurable when something is being done anally to me. Even masturbating I go back there as it feels amazing. It's been like this my whole life, when ... (139 words

One of my cats died and the other is missing it terribly...

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24 December 2008 (F - This is not a romance question but hoping that there might be some cat lovers and/or owners out there who can help. My eighteen year old cat was put to sleep today because of complications with kidney disease. My other seventeen year old who I have also had for about sixteen ... (77 words

I feel like he loves his ex more than he loves me.

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, i've been with my boyfriend for a year i love him so much and even though he loves me back i still think he feels more strongly for his ex then me and it kills me ... He still talks about her and still keeps a memory box of things they did together and photo's. She chea... (146 words

Her friend is in town and now she's blowing me off - how do I make her miss me?

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24 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - Well I have been dating a someone special to me nearly 2 months now, but recently within the last 3 weeks we have been more intimate.(sexually and emotionally) But recently her friend came in town to visit for the holidays and I been feeling like she has pushed me to the side. ... (442 words

If I don't know how to kiss, my HS Senior won't go out with me!

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok here the thing I am a sophmore and there is this guy that I like but he is senior. So with that being said next fall he is going to college."( In my eyes he tried to get with my sister because he called me and instead he spoke to her on the phone for 3 hours on my ce... (192 words

My wife has hacked into some of my web pages and done very juvenile things. Are there any repercussions for this?

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24 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - My wife (In the middle of a divorce) has hacked into some of my web pages and done very juvenile things. Are there any repercussions for this? How can I get her back without breaking the law? I have the evidence, but I don't know if what she did was against the law. She has ... (78 words

I'm not attracted to guys of my own race. Would black guys mind going out with a British-Indian?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a tendency to go for the black guys. Okay so I'm only 16 and I've only dated one 16 year old guy and yes he was black. But I am a British born indian, and my friends always tell me that I find black guys attractive, there's nothing wrong with that but Indian guys just ... (209 words

I need help on how to stop watching porn movies!

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24 December 2008 (? age 30-35 - I have a a best friend that recently started to act strange and I asked him what's the matter with him being so quiet all the time recently and he told me that "I watched a porn with some other friends and since then he can't stop watching it and when he watches any porn movie, ... (98 words

What kind of relationship do you think this is?

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24 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - I am with this man, we get into fights he has hit me a few times, enough now when he gets to yelling I am in fear of being hit again. I tell him to leave but then find myself missing him and calling him. He does come back this last time he came back, he doesn't want to ever ... (116 words

Are there mixed signals here?

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24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice. I've been friends with a guy for a little over two months. From the moment I met this guy, I felt attracted even thought he isn't at all what I've wanted in a guy. We began hanging out as friends in a group with my other friends and I thought maybe he ... (920 words

He stares at me nonstop, but says he doesn't like me??

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24 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Sorry for length in advance.... There is this guy who i have liked for about 3 years and he is a year older than me ( im 14 he is 15) and he is really confusing me... On this trip last year (which was a week long) he couldn't stop staring at me and 3 of my friends kept t... (305 words

How can I stop myself from obsessing over the girl who almost ruined our relationship??

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a female and I need serious help about this guy... We dated for nearly 2 years when everything went bad. Another girl interfered, they dated for a month or so, then broke up because he wanted to be with me. Yet, we still had problems because the girl kept talking to... (205 words

... climaxing during actual intercourse?!!

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Rightio. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year, and we've been having sex for half of that. But it's only really just dawned on me that I've never actually orgasmed over actual intercourse.. (purely by stimulation of my clit') ... it's never really crossed my mind ... (91 words

I'm incredibly confused about my sexuality...

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24 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - I'm so confused at the moment and I have no where else to turn. I'm 17 and in a great relationship with this girl but I can't stop thinking about other guys. Just the other week my girlfriend told me one of her gay m8s saw a picture of me and thought I was really fit and asked ... (116 words

My brother is addicted to porn and I don't know what to do.

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24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - my brother(33yaers old) is always looking up porn sites which are very disturbing. like teenage girls having old enough to be there great grand father its sick. this 25 sites a day there is no talking to him. escort web sites about 20 sites again, teenage girls as young as 16 ... (172 words

Why do I always need to pee when I take a bath??

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi All, i have a strange problem! every time i take a bath i have to pee and the urge is so strong that i dont have time to get out so i pee in the bath! I always go toilet before i have a bath and i get the urge to pee about 5 mins after i been in the water. I dont get... (117 words

I'm pregnant and need advice on how to deal with the babies father!

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm 20 weeks pregnant; the father has been around for the most part, throughout the pregnancy. But we had a falling out shortly before finding out that I was expecting and he began dating another women, this turned into one of those drama driven relationships, she was still ... (159 words

I need some pointers on how to make my marriage strong again.

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24 December 2008 (M age 51-59 - I have quite a long story to tell here and I hope it's not too long. I am a happily married man of 37 (wife is 36). We have been together since high school. We always got along great! We also have an 11 year old daughter together. About 3 years ago my brother died and I went t... (654 words

I just want my gay friend back!!!

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - My friend is gay. I am not but we have been friends for a while now, well since we were 4 years old. He gets bullied a lot at school for being gay and I don't think that's right. He is changing himself to be straight but I know he is not straight. He has got himself a ... (110 words

I got an abortion, should I tell my ex?

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - This October I got drunk and had sex with my ex and I ended up going to the hosptial for an absess on thanksgiving, I found out at the hospital that I was pregnant.. to make a long story short when I got out the hospital the day after thanksgiving I called my ex and told him I ... (209 words

Regifting... Mamas boy? Does he even like me?

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24 December 2008 (F age - I etched a portrait of my boyfriend for him. He framed it, however, before hanging it on his wall, he started entertaining the idea of giving it to his mother for Christmas, or, may be, for Mother's Day. Can someone tell me if this is a sign of being a mamma's boy or is it a ... (64 words

Confused about my family life--Mess!

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok so i am completely confused at the moment... me and my younger sister who is 15 want to run away from home because we are having to deal with verbal abuse everyday and we dont know what to do.. and then theres my bf who i love hes 21 im 18 and were both of different religi... (109 words

Why does my co-worker act so weird outside of work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I've been at my current job for 10 months now and the people i work with are lovely. Recently on a night out 1 of the girls-who at work is 1 of the most helpful and nicest people you could meet turned in to a really rude person! We went out for a meal-the whole t... (204 words

I'd like to do oral sex but my g/f has bad smell

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24 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - i've been with my partner a while now, we are very close and have a great relationship. however i have been wanting to perform oral sex on her for a long time but have always been put off from the smell. i understand it's natural and i would probably have to just get used to... (189 words

Alone forever--not by choice

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24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - How am I to not want a boyfriend? How will i be able to live without one. Anyone have any advice? ... (22 words

Mother in law from hell

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24 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - Can anyone give advise? My mother-in-law has been nasty, spiteful and spread rumors about me since before my husband and I were even married. The last argument has spiraled out of control and I am now painted as the family-splitter. This is because I am the only person I know w... (199 words

Me vs the vibrator

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24 December 2008 (M age 51-59 - How do I compete with the battery-driven, portable (handy! ha!), sex toys? We started a relationship about 6 months ago after knowing each other for years. She's great in bed: very vocal, very definitive, very responsive. Not what my (very) limited experience has covered ... (352 words

Bad gag reflex but my b/f wants oral sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - So I'm really new at this dating thing, never really had an official boyfriend until now. I am 20 and he is 19. He was surprised when I told him I am a virgin, and that I've never been kissed. Well he says I can kiss pretty good now, but kissing is not the problem. The l... (219 words

Would it be wrong to leave my wife and pursue relationship with an old friend?

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24 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - Ok i am at a lost and wanted to get an outside opinion of my situation...I don't know if I can save my marriage with my wife or if I even want to anymore, nor do I know how to tell her that though I love her dearly as she was my first love and is the mother of my child I am not ... (1365 words

I am in love with my husband's cousin brother.

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24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I am 33 year old. Married with a 7 year old girl child. Since last 3 years I am in love with my husband's cousin brother. This is serious. I have got caught. Facing problem with husband,still can't do without my lover. I don't know but I do not regret the affair either. My ... (208 words

Is an affair ever justified

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24 December 2008 (M age 51-59 - A christmas cracker: Is it ever 'right' to break your marriage vows? I still love my wife, but I don't fully understand why I feel these feelings for my mistress. I know it's wrong, but why does it feel so right? My lover paid me so much attention, so much passion. I want my ... (254 words

Confused about what is going on!

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok so here goes I just got out of a four relationship about five months ago. It was one of those break up everyday type of relationship where we had a lot of serious issues. I have to honestly say that I am a better woman without him. So I have been dating this guy at my jo... (321 words

Oral sex on a girl?

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24 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - how do you perform oral sex on a girl?... (9 words

Thinking of going down should I really do it? Do girls REALLY enjoy it?

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24 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - Thinking of going down should I really do it? Do girls REALLY enjoy it? Need advice... (16 words

Is it possible for me not to be able to let go of him because... he's my first?

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24 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - Hey I really haven't written a question in a while, coz I wanted to see what would've happened between me and HIM..... so I really don't know know what's up any more. my question is... is it possible for me not to be able to let go of him because..... he's my first? I mean I ... (118 words

Boys just look at me and compliment me but they pass without wanting to be my friend.

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24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a big problem... I am(as people say) beautiful, attractive and cute, I am well educated and have a very good job but it seems that nobody can see me... boys just look at me and compliment me but they pass without wanting to be my friend.. Is that because I am old? I am ... (58 words

Specific instructions on shaving "down there"

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - i need specific instructions on how to shave "down there"(with a razor). please... (14 words

How do you finger yourself?

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - how do girls finger themselves? i want to try it but i always get too scared and end up not doing it. does fingering yourself feel the same as intercourse? how do you do it?... (35 words

What do you do your first time...?

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and I have these urges to finally have sex with him. (We haven't had sex) he's been really patient and I want him to be my first. I know about the protection that has to be used but what I want to know is what to do. I'm nervous ... (118 words

Don't want to jack-off! Need advice!

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24 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - What can I do when I get realllly hard? I don't want to jackoff! I need advice!... (17 words

I want her to give me one more chance!

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24 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - Can anyone give me advice on how to get my ex girlfriend back? We were together for 6 months and in May she broke up with me because we would fight a lot and I would not give her space, I would make big deals when she would want to go places with her friends! We are still good ... (99 words

15 year old niece is causing problems

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24 December 2008 (? age 41-50 - My 15 year old niece lives with me and my daughters (they're only 8 and 5 of age) due to discipline problems. She smoke cigarettes and came home drunk at 2:00am. My sister (her mother) had it with her and throw her out. My niece is now starting to do to me what she did to her ... (146 words

She's married I can't have her but I love her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

24 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - I've fallen in love with a colleague after very recently splitting with my wife. She wasnt the cause of our breakup but we did intially start seeing each other the same week I walked out - it was really just the little push I needed! Anyway, we have seen each other on or off ... (439 words

I wished him a merry christmas and he never responded!

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24 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - So I wished my ex a "Merry Christmas" and got... ABSOLUTLY NOTHING...no response whatsoever. WTF? A little background: we dated for about 3 months, decided we would be better off as friends (ok, actually, I made that decision and told him I'd rather just be friends). He'... (414 words

Should I help his soon to be ex? I have texts, photos!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm just feeling so ashamed and confused and I'm hoping someone can help me know whether or not I could have legal rights when it comes to a certain situation: Approximately 1 month ago, on Facebook, I heard from a guy whom I had dated nearly 11 years ago. He and I had lived ... (743 words

Have a fiance but I'm falling for another guy

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for 6 years, but about 4 months ago I met a guy at work who I've fallen head over heels for. He says he cares about me and wants me to be happy. I really don't know what to do. I really like him possibly even love him but i'm afraid and don't know ... (79 words

Lost my baby--looking for support

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24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello Everyone... I'm looking for some support. I posted in here on November 23 about spotting during first trimester pregnancy. A few days later I had a sonogram and saw the little peanut with its heart beating and everything was fine. The spotting stopped for a couple wee... (225 words

Confused! What am I doing wrong?

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24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok I'm kind of new at this and haven't ever really asked anyones opinion before, but I'm just at a loss... I have been single for sometime now and I meet these guys that seem to be so great and start out good but then after about a week or two it turns to NOTHING. There is ... (147 words

After everything we've been through, shes leaving me forsomeone else

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24 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - my girlfriend of almost 2 and a half years just told me that shes leaving me for someone else. She says that she wants to love me more than him but she cant. We have so much history though. We were engaged, i got her pregnant and she had a miscarriage but we both wanted the ... (105 words

In love with brothers, and stuck in a mess!!

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey I met a guy 6 months ago, our feelings grew quickly towards each other and we fell in love although we couldn't be together due to us being long distance. We keep in touch and plan to be together next year as intense as this sounds i really had believed i found a soul ... (394 words

Can a man so involved with my child really walk out for good?

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - My ex left me five months ago, he said it just might not work out. We have been together three years and he did this exact same thing a year ago, only he came crawling back four months after he left. I am a single parent (childs biological father is not involved at all) to a ... (186 words

How do I flirt with him and let him know I like him?

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - ADVICE GIVER, Advice giver i have a problem there is this guy at my church hes 14 and im 14 we are in the same youth group .. well for christmas he bought me a JOURNEY NECKLACE FROM KAY JEWELERS!!!!!!! for CHRISTMAS and he is always flirting with me and he told me he liked... (171 words

Our relationship is fine, but I still really want to get out!!

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24 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - Help!! I feel like i am in a perfect relationship, yet kicking and screaming inside!! I feel that everything is great, he treats me well, respects me, we have a good time together, and we are living together. Yet despite all this, i am constantly trying to convince myself ... (132 words

Should I call him back or have a friend relay the message?

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok so same guy even more confusing. ok so I was relayed a message from my future boo to call him and when I did he wasn't there and I was so nervous that I forgot to ask his mom (no cellphone) to tell him to call me be back or even tell him I called! so should I call him back ... (73 words

I'm going on top and I have no clue what to do up there!

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - going on top and not sure what to do!! i have had 6 sexual partners but majority have been one night stands. only two have been with a regular partner. i have never been confident in bed however when it comes to one night stands i am far more confident than with partners. ... (199 words

In a very complicated situation with a friend, his girlfriend and a crush!

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, well i really need some advice to a complicated situation! Well theres this guy who i met last year. Me and him became really close and we became bestfriends. In the beginning i liked him but he had a girlfriend. After awhile i just kind of stopped liking him so it was ... (222 words

How can I ask forgiveness and make him trust me again?

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - ive been together with my boyfriend for 8 years we have two kids together. and a year ago when i got pregnant with my second baby i cheated on him with someone else. i didnt now if the kid was his or the others so i told him 2months after the baby was born he was very ... (165 words

Found wife's e-mails... bad news, or harmless?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

24 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - O.K. here's the situation..... I've been married to my wife for 7 years and we've been together for 10. I've always been able to trust her, that's one of the qualities that I always loved about her. Myself, I would like to think I am a good man. I've never laid a hand o... (682 words

My ex-wife is pregnant from another man, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

24 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi everybody I am involved in a situation and it is getting more and more complicated for me every day.... I was living with my ex-wife for four years and we had a discussion and she left the house and was staying at the place she was working and she spent 3 months w... (120 words

My wife can't stand me, I think she's cheating, what do I do?

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24 December 2008 (M age 51-59 - Hey All, I am in a relationship where my wife cant stand me. She says we are not friends, finds me repulsive and would prefer not to talk to me, much less anything else. We have 3 children and i have always been the bread winner. I am an alcoholic. She says that is the prob... (135 words

Questions about cumming...

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - how much does a guy usually cum? what will make him cum more? how many times can he cum while messing around? how long does oral sex take so that he cums? (confused)... (34 words

Problems and pain, trying to get pregnant, any suggestions?

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - why cant i get pregnant? me and my partner have been trying for a while, and it just doesnt seem to be working ........ but the strange thing is , when we used protection, when my period came, it was ok , a bit achey ,but not that bad, but after we stopped using condoms, w... (133 words

How do you have sex for the first time, without it being painful?

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24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - how u have sex for the first time without it hurting?... (11 words

How can we fix his problem with condoms?

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Maybe someone can give me some good advice. I'm not on the pill and use condoms for b/c. The problem is my new bf can't seem to cum with one on. After a while I get dry and have to finish him off with my mouth. It's very frustrating for him and me. I know the condoms are the ... (115 words

How do you please his "willie" without sex?

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - how do you give a hand job? what other ways can you please his "willie" without intercourse or oral/anal sex?... (20 words

Love my boyfriend but hate his sister!!!

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok people keep in mind that im a teenager alright.....so ive been with my man for almost two years right, and i love him alot and everything. thats not the problem, my problem is that i really dont like his sister. shes a year younger then me. she has been with her boyfriend ... (184 words

Talk to me about good grammar?

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - i am trying to edit my myspace profile. i wrote down alot of information about myself but i need help putting it in good grammar. right now, it just looks like a huge paragraph! any advice?... (36 words

Another girl: she lives far away so should I be concerned?

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend just recently went on a cruise with his family. while he was on the cruise he met a girl that he was interested in and spent some time with while he was there. she gave him her phone number and e-mail and i found out about it when he got back. he told me that he ... (124 words

I was molested as a child, how can I confront that person?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Dear every1, First of all happy holidays : -) ... when I was younger "my cousin"( this boy my brother and I grew up with that lived in our building.. I'm 18 and he's been my "cousin" for like 13 years now) when I was like 7 I remember him touching me in a very sexual w... (266 words

I'm all alone in an unfamiliar city with no friends!

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - It's taken me awhile but I am totally lonely. My friends all have boyfriends that they moved in with and I feel like the black sheep because my relationship went sour. Everyone's was going in a direction but mine and right when we were supposed to move in we broke up but all of ... (185 words

Should I be getting married if I have thoughts like this about another person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

24 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - hi i'm really confussed and don't know what to do, i'm 27 and have been with my partner now for 10 years and have 2 lovely girls and we are getting married next year. everything between us is perfect i love him and our life together is good, but recently i have been getting ... (173 words

Thought of her cheating crop up in her mind. How do I get over this paranoia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

24 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi guys looking for some advice. I am 25 and have been in a relationship for 8 years with my girlfriend, we have a son and Everything has been great in our relationship but for a few years now I have suffered with really intense thoughts that she is cheating on me. This hasnt ... (146 words

I'm freaking out about being pregnant! Is there a chance?

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I'm his girlfriend, not his mother!

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello again! I'm still having a little trouble with my boyfriend. If you havent read my other post, "My boyfriend loves sleep more than me!" Then here's a breif summary, basically I have to do everything. He used to not help with the house at all and I had to clean it. He has ... (564 words

Should I leave him alone and make him miss me more?

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - For some months ago I met a boy. I didn't show so much intrest in him, and I didn't ecpect much intrest from him either. But he took my number from a friend without me knoing it, and asked me if he should write his to me. OK, i thougt. We sent more and more messages to each... (183 words

Am I taking advantage of him?

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for going on 4 years....I love him very much ......we broke up for about a year and he moved to fl we kept in touch and i missed him so much while he was gone.....then we decided to meet up after a year in 2 months and i had gotten in a fight with my ... (310 words

At a stand still with this girl- is she leading me on?

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24 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - hi, im a 20 year old male, been outta the dating scene for over a year and a half. i met this girl and have been seeing each other for about 4 months. nothing has been made official as for the relationship status, but i feel like we're at a Stand still. i ask her what she fee... (126 words

Should I go to a gay bar to get things out of my system?

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - ok, so in the past , iv always had a bit of a thing for girls aswel as guys. when i was 19 , i had a breif relationship with a girl , but it didnt really go anywhere as we never had any alone time, iv made out with a few girls when iv been out in town drunk or at a party, b... (241 words

Am I crazy to still miss my ex this much?

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24 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi. I'm struggling with something I cant get out of my head. My ex. He wasnt the best thing for me, and the guy I'm with now is amazing, and I love him so much, but my ex is still in my mind constantly. Not in any sexual or relationshippy way though. For some reason, in my ... (372 words

How do I tell my husband to leave? The psychic said I have good energy with this other guy.

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24 December 2008 (F age - I am 45, in my second marriage and I want my husband to leave me. We have been married for 5 years. We lived together for 4 years. I pay all the bills. He pays for the grocery bill. Financially I am so strapped. Of course, he says if I need money for a bill I just need to ... (337 words

Can someone help me figure out what I'm doing wrong?

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24 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year now. We have had our issues, and obviously have usually been able to work things out. All I have ever wanted in our relationship is to make him happy and show him that I truly do love him. But somehow, even when I don't ... (240 words

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