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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why didn't he call back? He seemed so excited to hear from me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - A guy I worked with all summer was different around me. He was more outgoing. He was very quiet around others. He would always ask if I wanted a drink. He began dating a different girl, late in the summer so I backed off. They broke up about a month later. A few weeks ago I ... (176 words)

My friend keeps getting erections around me. Is it something I'm doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, my best friend, who's male, is always getting erections around me and it makes me feel a little awkward. We're past that point where we're freshmen in high school, or in middle school, etc. and it would be happening all the time, but it still makes him blush heavily. ... (163 words)

Midlife crisis or the end of a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to love someone but be repulsed by them sexually and continually dream of a life without them? Could this just be a midlife crisis or does it signify the end of a relationship? ... (40 words)

Can women and men just be friends?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - does anyone think men and women can just be friends?... (10 words)

Any advice on this guy that just broke up with his girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy i like just finished with his gf last night iv liked him for ages and hes always seemed to flirt with me last night he told my pal about his break up then how he liked me she told him to tell me cos i like him to but he said he didnt think a liked him so neithe... (107 words)

If he likes me then why are we not back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya guys, One question about my ex bf, weve been split for about 3 months,we talk eveyday and see each other most days, but when i do see him he flirts with other girls and talks as in what he wants to do to them ( he nows these girls and so do i), but aparently when im not t... (230 words)

My friends are so mean to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya i dont no if you can help me with this but i have a problem. Me and this girl had a fight and people started getting involved and it turned out that i have no friends any more. I didn't understand coz the friends I thought Ii had were always mean to this girl and I wa... (183 words)

Engaged to an alcoholic- how do I leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 years, engaged for 1 year. I've always known he had a dependancy for booze, but recently it's hit ludicrous levels - depression, won't take medication, won't go to work, out drinking for 12 hour sessions. We've been here before but I ... (115 words)

Should I be sad he didn't invite me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - its a tough situation but guys and gals i really need ur help!! im desperate :(...ive been with my bf for 4months now.but we know eacher other 4over a year now and we both liked each other long beofre we officially got together. i mustsay that we are of different religions, but ... (377 words)

Anal sex: How do you make it pain-free?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have had sex once before but she doesn't want to risk getting pregnant since we know condoms don't always work. Do to circumstance we are unable to obtain any other kind of birth control. So she asked me if I'd be willing to have anal sex instead until we ... (126 words)

Does acne make me too ugly to get a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I got two questions. One,wot are da qualities that girls look for in a guy? I am 19 . Still single. So pls,help me out. Two,i had lots of acne.so i have some spots on my face,not that much visible .but is it way too much ugly to have spots on face?... (53 words)

Are there any support groups for females like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i are thinking about including another female in our relationship. is there anyone that this has worked for? every thing i have ever heard or read the husband leaves the wife for the new female. also are there any support groups for people like me?... (48 words)

Boyfriend is becoming more sarcastic and causing problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, ive been with my boyf for nearly 16 months, were both 16. Were always talking about our future, had all our "firsts" together and my family adore him. Lately, in front of my mum, hes becoming more sarcastic to everything i say, arguing over silly points and giving me littl... (128 words)

Feeling paranoid, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey i have been going out with my new girlfriend for nearly 3 weeks now but I'm feeling incredibly paranoid. I always think she is messing around behind my back. My ex girlfriend cheated on me once and i was with her for 2 years and i keep thinking to myself that my new ... (68 words)

He's flirty with other girls but could it be me that he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a boy for some months now. I really like him. I think i he likes me too, but I don't know if it is more than friends. When we see each other in group with our friends, the other girls are flirting with him and he laughs much with them. He do much activities on ... (169 words)

Will someone help me to clear up this confusion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so theres this boy named ed. and were both juniors. im 18 hes 16. 2 years ago we both met in art class the first period the first day of hs ever. im not lieing when i say this but i fell sooo inlove with him. theres so much stuff thats happend. and i hate that i cant read his ... (1183 words)

Rejection phobia? Is there a name for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys (: I've got this psychology project to do over the holidays and was wondering if anyone knew what the name for a phobia of rejection was? Thanks in advance... (35 words)

How can I advice my friend? I fear this girl is playing with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a friend who got involved with the ex girlfriend of the guy that stole his girlfriend.as complicated as this is.i think he loves this girl.but now that other guy wants her back because they have child together. instead of this girl telling the father of her baby to back... (101 words)

Diamond in the midst of trouble?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok before anyone reads my plea for help.bear in mind that everything happens for a reason and that u might find a rough diamond hidden in the mist of trouble.please dont reply if u are not going to look at the picture.ok. a few weeks ago i reconected with an old ... (196 words)

My wife's ex wants to talk to her to get closure. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I need advice. Background 1st, My wife and I are married for 1 1/2 years, dated for 1 1/2 years before that, total 3 years together. We love each other very much, are very good friends to each other, and want to spend the rest of our lives together. 2nd, She dated (and w... (483 words)

What should I do if she says no again? Why would she refuse my proposal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I've lived with my partner for 6 years. We have a daughter 4 years old. Last Christmas I proposed marriage to her and she said no. It's been a long year for me as i've not got my head around it. This year i'm thinking of proposing again. What should i do if she says ... (69 words)

In love with a man I can't have... help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A few years ago I was going through a divorce and I had a good male friend helping me out. He is practically married but he isn't. They neither one want to get married. They stay together because of their children and they have been together since they were very very young and ... (231 words)

What do I do when my boyfriend's 21 and I'm only 13?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I met my boyfriend online, and had no intention of ever getting together with him. But we talked, and found we had a lot in common... and eventually it got to the point where he told me he was attracted to me; I reciprocated the feelings. However, what I didn't k... (312 words)

I don't understand what he means by me being "too attached" after 3 years! Well of course I am!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He never really talks about our future together, and he always say things that make me question how he views our future, but I never questioned him openly until last night. For example, the other night I told him how I was looking at ... (438 words)

I need to go, but does he really need to know?! And how will I do it, if sex with him is so good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 19 and i've been sleeping with a 29 y/o for the past 6 months and well in all honesty..have no intention on stopping .. however, i'm also in a relationship with boy i've been dating for the past 2 years(comming up jan1)/who's acctually aware ive cheated on him..with ... (258 words)

What are these spots on my penis? I had to break up with my girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have spots on my penis and i broke up with my girlfreind because i have them and i didnt want her to find out and tell the whole school that i go to. what should i do now as i dont want to be a virgin for the rest of my life. ... (54 words)

My best friend told me she had a fling with my husband 30 years ago!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age - My school friend from the 50,s has just come back from Canada for a holiday in the U.K.Last week we went out for a few drinks and she got quite drunk .She told me she had a fling with my husband on one of her visits back here 30years ago but never had any contact with him since ... (273 words)

How can you explain that I have feelings for a female friend, being that I am a gay male?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a gay male, but recently I have noticed that I kind of have feelings for one of my best friends who is a female. I'm not sure how true these feelings are, or if this is something that happens to some (gay) men who are very emotionally close with a female friend.... (54 words)

Should I tell my dad I'm dating? He won't let me out...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. i love him alot and i know he loves me too. the problem is that my dad doesnt know about us. i wasnt allowed to date until i turned 16 and i already did so im allowed to have one by his set of rules. well my boyfriend wants me ... (217 words)

How can I know if he likes me?? How can I tell him I've already haad sex??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiya. Im 15 yrs old and Ive got a good friend whos a year older than me. We've been talking a lot to each lately and hanging around with each other and I think Im starting to really like him but I dont know if he likes me and what I should do to kinda of make a move . I think I ... (104 words)

Should I forgive him after he kissed another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for two years nw. But six months into our relationship. He was at a party. Some girl kissed him, he did nt react straight away. He did tell me the next day. I was devastated., he told me that he pulled away after a few seconds. But he said he did move his ... (104 words)

I want to break up because I'm afraid I'm too ugly for him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing someone for two weeks now..im not sure whther we are officially in a relationship though. the problem that i have is that i feel extremely insecure. i have acne so im very self conscious about the way i look and i feel i'll never be attractive to him. i usua... (114 words)

What should my friend do in case she wants revenge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - heyx my best mate lost her virginity to a boy about half a year ago. She barely knew him but after they started goin out with eachother. A few days ago though he cheated on her, having sex with anouther girl. He didnt even tell er, she had to find out froma mate. When she conf... (124 words)

Turning on my partner...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, hopefully this will be a fun question :) I remember reading an article in a magazine a while ago about turning on your partner. Under the 'dirty talk' bullet point, it suggested whispering something sexy/naughty to them unexpectedly, eg whilst out shopping. Now, I think ... (73 words)

How can I get him to open his heart and really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with this guy for 3 months it is like we have known each other in a past life. He told me he loves me but how do I know he means it from his heart? He was with this person for 9 years, she passed away about 9 months ago.. before me there was another girl that he was ... (101 words)

My boyfriend's bes friend just committed suicide, how can I comfort him?

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a girlfriend to an autistic guy and his best friend just commited suicide. What can I do to help him? He's pulling away from everybody and is worrying his parents and I.... (33 words)

Going out with my step cousin...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and I am currently going out with my step cousin who is 15. We have known each other all my life. But about a week and a half ago I was at her house and we ended up holding hands. So on the 17th I asked her out, she said yes but the same night I ended up playing with ... (120 words)

How not to lose your mistress?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - "...that must be very difficult..," the woman from Samaritans kept on saying. I knew things were difficult, I didn't need her to only remind me! I'm not suicidal, but my last panic attack over living without my mistress was crippling me! How not to lose your mistress? Boy, I... (303 words)

Squirting!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I need help!! I'm 18 and just started having sex. And recently while having sex with my boyfriend I have found in one particular position I always seem to squirt.. this is new to me and I thought I had urinated, I sort of felt embarrassed until I found out it was something ... (120 words)

My low self esteem won't let me and my new guy be happy together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this new guy in my life that I love very much, But I have this problem... my self confidence is not where it needs to be. Therefore in the past I have been known to sabotage any potiential realtionships because of my fear of the person not liking something about me or ... (190 words)

Newly pregnant, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just found out I'm pregnant and it's pretty early on in the first trimester. What are the consequences of me not taking care of myself during pregnancy? I would love it if you could state the really bad and even the small bad things that could occur. thank you (:... (58 words)

I'm pregnant with my brother and need to tell my family.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My brother is really cute and I have been havng sex with him. One time, we had too much to drink and we kinda forgot the condom. Now I am pregnant and my brother and family don't know. I am really scared and don't know how I'm gonna tell my family I am having this relationship ... (61 words)

WHY doesn't he want to have sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Soooo I got this boyfriend who last year went to Arizona for three weeks. When he left we had no idea of how long he would be gone. Here's the kicker we DID NOT have sex before he left and we had super quick morning sex the morning after he got back. And this year he went to ... (145 words)

Need help with what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my name Dan and I've made a big mess of everything, on Sat 12:00pm 20th December I went and saw my sister for the last time before she went to adoption, anyway I was expecting to be with my gf coz she knew I was going to be upset but later that day she said I couldn't go ... (165 words)

Can an alcholic be someone who just goes out at weekends like my husband? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my husband for 13 years and we have a 12 year old and a 6 year old. He has been drinking for years, he goes out at weekends saying he is just going for 1 pint and ends up coming home at all hours calling me names and recently has been pushing me around ... (223 words)

Is there another way of self pleasure without fingering myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old female and still a virgin but recently I've been masturbating. Is there another way of self pleasure without fingering myself?... (26 words)

I would like things to move more quickly, but I don't want to push and ruin everything.

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - It's a classic situation of pursuit and retreat... this man and I have shared an attraction for about a year but haven't talked about it openly. We had to be apart for a time and I was pleased to find out that when we came back together he was still interested in me. Since ... (245 words)

Break-up: Before or After Christmas?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Yes, this is incredibly bad timing. I have been in a relationship for 4 years and have known for a long time that something wasn't right. I wasn't ready to admit to myself that I no longer wanted to be in the relationship - until yesterday. My feelings became crystal clear ... (192 words)

I am sooooooo frustrated by him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - First, I live with my boyfriend. Last night we were cooking after I got out of the shower...so with a towel on my head. I got done finely chopping the ingredients and went and half dried my hair, so it was a mess. I walked out to get a cup of apple juice and he looked at me ... (223 words)

My hubby is great now but I can't forget that he cheated a year ago, help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - I'm really confused - I love my husband but don't think I am in love with him any more. A year ago he had an affair. We broke up, were almost at the point of divorce, when he begged me to try again. He moved back in 2 months ago. We get on fine, day to day, but the inti... (151 words)

I want to make my family proud by marrying one of my kind, but my boyfriend is black!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been going out with someone for the past 8 months and i have no complaints because i know he loves me and everyone says he adores me, however before me and him got together i was seeing another guy who is my own race but ended it because he was being long about whether he ... (233 words)

I need a better job, any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Goodmorning my fellow earlybirds : ). My problem is related to finance and my relationship. I'm 18 and my bf is 21 and he makes like 3.5 times as much as i do. I work at starbucks and I've been working there for like 8 months now, and its my 1st job. Within my second month I ... (288 words)

How can I see if he wants to try again and should I give it time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

- on sunday my bf dumped me saying that he doesnt love me but we only been together 6 months so love is not important at this stage in the relationship. he had a few problems before with his nan having a stroke and his brother breaking up with his fiancee and coming back home. he ... (152 words)

So I don't know am I being selfish of should I go crazy at him????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, as you know its nearly christmas. Christmas for me is about spending time with the family and friends, AS you all know I've been engaged for a year now. Anyway, my fiaence is dropping off my presents on the 23rd December for me and I won't be able to see him on xmas eve ... (206 words)

She broke my heart, I moved on... but not completely.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says that I was brave enough and he is proud of me for dumping my girlfriend... but somehow it feels wrong to do it... I am happy with him but deep down inside I know she's not right for me cuz she broke my heart once and I let her in my life again but I really ... (110 words)

Apart for 12 years, still a great relationship but now he has baggage, do I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I need help determining what I should do about this man. We were together about 12 years ago when we were both in our teens. The relationship then was fun, passionate, spontaneous, and all other things that kept a smile on my face. Its the same now. I was young then ... (322 words)

I'm in love with my girlfriend for reasons that are not physical.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with my girlfriend for reasons that are not physical. I care about her deeply, but strangely, I do not feel a need for sex. While it is nice, I never crave it. I am physically attracted to her, but I just don't see sex as a necessity. Is there something wrong?... (54 words)

How can I get over him without distancing myself from him, or changing our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my best friend, but he just doesn't feel the same. I don't want to harm our relationship because of it. How can I get over him without distancing myself from him, or changing our friendship?... (39 words)

I've given her space around the office... what more can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. I've had a bit of a thing for this woman at work for a good few years now (unbeknownst to her). Recently she became divorced and so I made my move... rejected... she was already seeing someone else from the office! I don't know how long she has been seeing this other guy ... (451 words)

Do you think it's possible to get someone to fall in love with you again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 2 years recently broke up with me citing she wasn't 'in love' any more. I've been disappointed and depressed ever since. We are still talking and being friendly like good friends, but I still want her back. My question is do you think it's possible to get ... (78 words)

I love my ex but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, I'm crazy in love with my ex, but he has a girl friend. His new girl friend is his best friend's ex and his best friend is still crazy about his ex. I love my ex and I do still want to be friends with him but I want it to be more then that. Shall I back off for a while ... (103 words)

She thinks of our relationship as more of a friendship, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been with my girlfiend for 18 months now and i love her so much. latly everything has changed and i dont know what to do. she said that she feels as though our relationship is more of a friendship. i dont know what happened. i buy her gifts soemtimes and take her out to ... (82 words)

Why has my friend's behaviour changed? Are we cheating on our partners?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - well, i have a strange problem..i am in love with a boy who appears to be my best friend for past seven years.. although we first made love(that too just kissing and body play) only six months back..it was only after we had both got our respective girlfriends!we know we are ... (180 words)

My question is, why won't my FWB commit?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my best friend and i started to become friends with benefits about 4 months ago. earlier this year i went through a hard time with my ex and he always helped me through it. for the past few months, my friend has begun to act like my boyfriend: always complimenting ... (398 words)

I want to leave him or should I give him some leeway as he is so young?

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i am a 24year old mum to a 2year old boy and am 5months pregnant with my second son.i have been with the father of both boys for 3years and we break up get back together all the time but i have caught him out lying about his whereabouts, he comes home at early hours of the ... (102 words)

Will he get restless and leave me if we don't have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. i love him alot but we havent had sex or anything. do you think its time or should we wait longer and if i do, will he get restless and decide to leave me? please answer... (47 words)

I've fallen hard for him but it's long distance...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok im in a long distance relationship, but I think I want a non available, not really that long distance guy. This is all based from a chat site by the way, anyway, I met this guy for the first time the other day. I've told him before that I really like him, but he's in a ... (153 words)

Is it wrong for me to not like Christmas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a Catholic but I do not like Christmas. Christmas for me is way too stressful. I hate shopping espeically during the holidays but I still have to buy presents for people. Parking, the crowds and everthing else. Than there is the cooking on Christmas Day, which can't... (130 words)

How would you treat someone with a lot of pride?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - If you knew someone who was very proud of themselves and their achievements, and gets jealous when others outperform them, would it be okay to keep your own achievements to yourself around them to prevent bruising their ego? Keep in mind that you are not lying to them. I... (134 words)

Is he doing all this just to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

23 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my ex boyfriend, I still like him. aloot. I'm only 13 and I don't use the word love. so I reeally like him still. and were close friends and talk a lot. but for some reason, we haven't talked in a while. and its been killing me inside but I'm getting through it. he doesn't hate ... (200 words)

I feel like he has a secret life and fantasies!

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - em i crazy been with a guy 10 years he thinks i want and need sex all the time with him and he thinks i have other parnter he always has but he says he loves me he recently wanted me to exlpore and tell him about it after words so i tryd we meet people online and hooked up it ... (149 words)

Does she find it hard to show how she feels about me?

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23 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i went out with a girl a few months ago, we broke up a few weeks after due to certain things. and then on my birthday on the 6th December she told me that she still has strong feelings for me and she finished with her boyfriend over the next couple of days for me (i assume). we ... (270 words)

I found the perfect girl but will I be missing out?

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23 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, i have met the perfect girl and i want to spend the rest of my life with her... but... im so shure that we will be together forever im afraid i will lose the chance of being with other women. Its not that i want to cheat or anything and trust me i would´nt dump her for ... (222 words)

Will my sister get over what happened at her wedding?

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23 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I went to my sister’s (who’s very controlling and stubborn) wedding and my girlfriend join me as well. Even though my sister and gf don’t get along that well. Everyone kept saying my gf is going up stage the bride and her dress left a little imagination. When we got to her ... (102 words)

Is it reasonable for me to feel insecure?

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23 December 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Hello, I have been dating my girlfriend for over a month now, about to be 2 months. We don't see each other alot, the most is 3 times a week and the least would be 1. She has alot of guy friends, like alot. She hangs out with them everynow and then, but what i realize is that 2 ... (238 words)

Am I stupid for being with him still?

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23 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - okay, here i am again with my problems. I jus got into it with my fiancee again, n this time i dont even kno where I stand anymore..I am tired of him thinkin that, what im trying to do for my son, he thinks im doin it for myself.. I asked him to walk with me to the stor... (298 words)

I'm needy for my boyfriend because I don't have anyone else! What can I do?

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I am living a situation that have reached its breaking point, I am in United States, but I am not from here, I leave my country of origin 9 years ago, and lived in other country 8 years, during those 8 years I study in the university and now I have a master degree ... (315 words)

How is it cheating if we're not 'official'?

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am talking to this new guy, we are not official nor are we really exclusive, he still talks to she friend girls as I do my guy friends...however we spend most of our time talking to each other, we love each other, but in october I had sex with my ex and got pregnant...i had ... (167 words)

How do I end it with her? She's bipolar.

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23 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now. I still love her to death but she has become someone I am not in love with. For starters, she is bi-polar. She has drastic mood swings and constantly argues. I am a very laid back guy and can easily let things go. I'll admit, we ... (365 words)

Will I just be his 'token' black girl?

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a new guy I am talking to, he makes me so happy, he claims to love me and I know that I love him also. The only problem with him is that he is sort of racist...prior to me he has always been into spanish women or women of mixed race..he cliams to be only interested in ... (169 words)

Why can I only masturbate once?

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23 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, why i can masturbate only one time?once i masturbate, i just don't feel like doing second time even after 2 hours. it's kinda hurt little bit and i don't enjoy. Also it just takes me 2 minutes to cum? should it take more time? please help me.... (55 words)

Is he making it clear we are just going out as friends? He calls me 'buddy'.

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm falling head over heels for this guy. I recently broke up with my ex..and he was there to offer his support. He had mentioned us going out even while I was in a relationship..I never took him seriously. But now we've gone out a few times and we get along just great and have ... (149 words)

How can I block her from calling me?

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23 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok. my dads X-girlfriend is texting and phone calling me and giving me abuse. is there a way i can get her number completely blocked from phoning and texting me other than going to the police as this is to much hastle and i dont have time really.? my phone is Sony Ericsso... (80 words)

Can someone help me with my family problems?

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I'm 14 years old and I have a problem, although strictly speaking, it isn't about a relationship...like a boyfriend or anything. It's about my family. I have a brother that's two years older than me. Lets just say he's named Connor. Well my Mom always takes his side over ... (229 words)

Why would my fiance say this to me?

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Before we got engaged, my fiance told me he "is not obligated to do anything for me". What does he mean by this? Why would he even say this to me ?... (32 words)

Do I need to see a shrink?

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23 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Two problems really; one is rather embarrassing and shamefull, and I am sure that people will think I am a freak after reading the other one..... Problem 1: I am aged 29, and still a virgin. You heard that correctly! I have never had any girlfriends or sexual relation... (303 words)

I like a guy that ignores me! What should I do?

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres this guy i really like and when my sisters friend is around us (because his also his friend) he doesnt act the same he harldy says anything to me he ignores me. i have tried to speak him to it but then he just ignores me and asks me if i want him to talk at the moment i ... (136 words)

Is it okay to try weed?

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants me to smoke weed with him but I won't because I'm allergic to cigarette smoke. do they contain mutual elements? or would it be fine if I tried it?... (33 words)

His sex drive has gone down drastically!

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so my husband and i have been married since october and have been together for a lil over a year and our sex life has always been really really amazing but for the past 3 or 4 weeks maybe 5 weeks, he has not really been wanting to have sex.. it could be because he drinks A LOT, ... (209 words)

How do I get him to spend the night at my place?

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a situation with my boyfriend, he is very good guy and he does everything for me and everything that I talk to him about some aspect of the relationship that I don't like, he tries to fix it, the problem I have with him is that, it is dificult for him to spend the ... (275 words)

Help! I want to leave my husband.

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23 December 2008 (F)

age - I have been married to my husband for 5 years. For the past 2 years he has blamed me for everything that goes wrong in our relationship. He constantly moans so much so that it has eventually made me feel down and depressed. I work in the day and he works nights. I usualy have a ... (207 words)

How do I deal with Crohn's disease?

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23 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a rare disease called orofacial granulomatosis also known as crohn's disease. i have been bullied for over 4 years now because of this actually i think its longer and i havent had a proper real boyfriend because no body wants me some people say its because they dont ... (99 words)

Should I go to the police or settle it myself?

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23 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hello aunty again;I have still been sleeping with my neighbour..when her husband came,she ignored me and used to tease me in front of him..guess to so her husband could not find anything out..2 days ago her husband left for the airport,as he goes not regular business trips..so ... (165 words)