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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel so paranoid in public places

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I feel so paranoid in public places. I feel everybody staring at me on the wrong way. I went to see psychologist if I have social phobia, but I didn't have any of the mayor symptoms. So , I know I look k, because most people says I'm good looking. I also feel, I'm nice loo... (174 words)

Which sex toy is the best for a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Which sex toy is the best for a guy?... (9 words)

My exboyfriend/best friend hasn't spoken to me in 6 months and I miss him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4503 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and I have not spoken in 6 months. We broke up about 2 years ago, but remained friends. we had been best friends for about 3 years before we got together, and then after we broke up we stayed friends still. i spoke to him virtually every day for hours, and we ... (399 words)

Love triangle with two long distance relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I am in a middle of a love triangle with two long distanced relationships. I am a 22 year old virgin and have never been kissed. I never let the chance to a guy to get to close to me. I had 5 serious relationships so far and in most of them, I have never been too c... (418 words)

I crave chocolate when I'm upset, is that nomal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello I'm a 13 year old girl... I get very frusterated very quickly. When im P---ed off, I crave chocolate or i want to play gears of war2 and blow things up. Mostly chocolate though. Why is it that i crave it soo much when im upset is that normal...are there others like this?... (54 words)

Middle School Drama ! UGH !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well So dont you hate how theres always junior high friend battles . Theres the "cool crew" and the "not so cools" well what about when your involed in them . So i'll just make up some names .. So me ( Kate ) , Alexandra and Jessika are most of the time in fights with ... (226 words)

Wife... cheating with another soldier!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a soldier currently deployed to Iraq and have been away from home for 5 months now. 2 1/2 months into my deployment my wife admitted to having sex five times with another soldier from my company who was home on medical leave. By the way I beleive my wife more than I ... (177 words)

What did she mean by, "You live like Cinderella"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ali (friend) called me yesterday and asked if I wanted to hang out, I told her I couldn't because I was busy cleaning the house for the holidays. Then she replied... "Alice every time I call you you're cleaning. You live like Cinderella" I asked what she ment, but she said ... (75 words)

I've been having some trouble with my boyfriend in the bedroom.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm Chloe and I've been having some trouble with my boyfriend in the bedroom. We've tried to have sex twice and on both occasions it was too painful (for me) for his penis to go in to my vagina. Is this normal? What can I do? I'm also wondering about how to reach an orgasm ... (88 words)

Chlamydia testing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I have been sent a chlamydia testing kit free by our local NHS (they are sending out free testing kits nationwide to 18-24 year olds). I am 19, and had protected sex (condom) with a partner when I was about 15. I got with my recent partner when I was 16 and have been ... (199 words)

I'd like advice about losing my virginity

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I want to lose my virginity with my boyfriend.We are both virgins,and both the same age.Anyone have any tips on how the first time should be ?.So far,i have been on top of him while we were both wearing our underwear.I was just wearing my knickers ( or panties,if there are ... (589 words)

We never have sex and he doesn't want to talk about it...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice, I posted a question about a month ago or so when I was very upset after having found out my boyfriend had been watching porn behind my back throughout our entire relationship. He denied it for a while and finally admitted it and I was very upset. Since ... (460 words)

Curious about anal!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm curious about anal but me and my girlfriend have joked about how weird it is before. Btw i am talking about her touching me there. How should i bring this up if at all? Thanks for the help :)... (40 words)

Should I stay married even though I feel that some of the things that I need from marriage are not met?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I suppose my internal conflict can be swayed with more encouragement. I met my ex online in a chat rooms 6 years ago. I eventually met him in person after a year, by which time we both hated to admit but were already in love. We distinctly met 3 times before i told him my fathe... (377 words)

14, pregnant and terrified!!!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm 15 and I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. I am sooo upset, I have found out that I am pregnant and I don't want my mum knowing because I am afraid she will think I am a slag. Please help what should I do ?... (53 words)

Does he like this girl more than he says?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - All right well I have a boyfriend who I really really like. He's cute, funny, smart and just amazing we have been dating for 3 Months and 21 days I love him so much. But there's this girl who likes him and she's really pretty and I'm not sure if he likes her... he always tells ... (80 words)

Confused: receiving mixed signals, and don't know how to proceed...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a confusing situation. I like a girl. She's wonderful: so many levels in one person is hard not to like. Sensitive, strong-willed, smart, happy, and at times all-out hyper, to name but a few. I've asked her out. Twice. On the first occasion, she had recently... (464 words)

Love, Friendship or nothing at all?!?!?!?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I think a lot of us have been in the same situation, I'm in love with a girl I work with but she sees me as a friend. She told me that it is all that is going to be between us... My problem it feels like I’m being tortured each and every day must I say no and walk out of the ... (87 words)

Unprotected sex but don't get pregnant? What's wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a bit worried here. Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for almost a year now and we have un-protected sex regualary... but my periods still come on time and each time I don't seem to get pregnant (when I don't take the morning after pill) Do you think I ... (72 words)

I just can't add it all up and put my finger on it.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age - I have been seeing a man in his fifties for a few months. He is not your stereotypical 50-something. Quite young at heart and in his way of being and outlook - a bit artistic-looking in some ways too and a sensitive, creative type, especially with language - we both like books ... (995 words)

Help with 6 pack of abs please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, I am a 17 year old male. I haven't really done much exercise but I am NOT overweight. I have good strength etc but I can't seem to get a 6 Cbs? Can somebody who has done an exercise and diet or are on 1 which is working please let me in on the details please? tha... (70 words)

Saving my marrage, with a wife that says she still loves me but doesn't want to be with me.

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I'm looking for advice on saving our 8 year marriage. I'll admit it, we got married young, personally I have no regrets as I still love her unquestionably, however I'm sure some will point to the age issue as the reason for this problem - we got married at (me ... (649 words)

Do you think my wife is seeing someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age - Hi my wife has been away with work on several occation in the past few months. our sex life had been ok but since she as been away she seem to be differant in areas of what she does. over the weekend she offered oral sex which i have always had to ask for, and been a bit m... (100 words)

Need help with the same old situation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay heres the deal, my problem is the typical I love her she sees me as a friend you know but I have been in this situation many times now, but I feel more strongly for this certain girl than any other. I have known her for roughly 2-3 years and I already feel closer to her ... (131 words)

Did I go into this new relationship on the rebound?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, the story is I was with a guy for a while (coming up to two years) but then we started to not get on as well and we argued and in the end there wasn't much of a relatioship going on so we broke up. I was obviously upset for a while but after a fair few months I started to ... (179 words)

I don't feel the same way about him as I used to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about seven months, it's all been good, he told me he didn't want me talking to my ex and when we got in a fight I called him and we talked.. 2 months of us going out and then I told my boyfriend. He was okay with it but now this happened a ... (192 words)

Should I even meet her when she's messing me about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here's my situation: I've got to know this girl through a friend and we've mostly just been speaking on msn but we have seen each other around and about town. Anyway she recently split up wth her bf and we kinda both told each uther we like each other but obviously th... (182 words)

I want him, not his kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend keeps trying to push his children on me. I do not like children and have chosen not to have any of my own. He contacted me through a personal ad on the internet that stated how I feel about kids, so there was no surprises, he knew before he even met me. On our ... (376 words)

What did she mean by this strange behaviour in the offce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. All very odd. There's an attractive woman at work who has been around for a good few years now. I've said 'hello' a few times when passing in the corridor - but just kept going (thinking nothing more). The other day she called after me down the corridor I turned around and ... (142 words)

What should I do with this? How do I handle it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so my girlfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago. The main reason for her ending it was because she said it felt too weird because we were too good friends before hand. I was ok with this, and was able to get over her and move on, and I am currently involved with ... (267 words)

I like this guy but I am afraid that WE have severally screwed this up AGAIN. Opinions needed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this man when he was married about nine years ago. Without any thought he and I began a passionate extra-marital affair that continued off and on for about a year or so. He got divorced and began seeing someone else. I was crushed because I fell in love and he didn't. ... (1038 words)

What are we supposed to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months, and the other night I made it clear to him that I want to give my virginity to him, no doubt about it. He is a virgin too, so I'm nervous for what we are supposed to do. I mean both him and I are experienced with other ... (90 words)

Is this normal or the start of abuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy when I was 17 years old and he and I have been sleeping together and been "Together" on and off for three years. I am almost twenty one now. The relationship has become unhealthy and we are more addictied to each other. I cant get him to meet my friends or hang ... (240 words)

He wanted to cum in my eye!!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was having sex with a guy I've been seeing for a while the other night, when he said he wanted to do something. He didn't want to say what but I made him tell me and he said he wanted to come in my eye! I thought it was a joke at first so I laughed and then realised he was ... (98 words)

Do I wait a week then ask her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I like this girl and was unsure whether she liked me or not. We had kissed on a couple of occasions, but it didn't necessarily mean she liked me as we were both drunk and as most will know these things happen. Anyway, I was at a party and she was there, I tried talking to her ... (386 words)

I feel like the ugly one next to my best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been single for over two years now, and Ive rarely dated or anything like that. I always go out at the weekends with my best friend, and she is gorgeous and her personality is attractive too. Im not saying Im not attractive or that I have a bad personality beca... (313 words)

Why has he not called me...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi! - I'm starting to worry! - I have been seeing this guy for a few dates! - Nothing serious - just a drink and a goodnight kiss!! Anyway - he usually texts to see how I am after - but last time he didn't! - He's not the world's most reliable guy when it comes to phoning ... (93 words)

I'm 15 and ready for sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Heyy :)x What it is, I'm 15 and I feel I'm ready to have sex .. but I'm really quite scared I dunno what to do :( I really like the boy I'm with and I feel I wanna lose it. A lot of boys have asked me for sex before but I didn't feel ready, I am now but I'm scared it's gonn... (119 words)

He's always staring in my direction, is it because he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me back. I always catch him staring at me and looking in my direction and when I look towards him he is always smiling. Does he like me?... (39 words)

He has been hurt badly in the past, do you think I have a chance with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age - I live with someone whom I love very much, he says he loves me in his own way, he has been hurt very badly in the past by 3 other girlfriends, do you think I have a chance with him or should I go?... (44 words)

How can I pick my spirits back up and be a happy wife, mother, and person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 years old with 3 children 2 of them are by my husbands. Me and my husband been married going on 3 years and been dating for 5 years. My problem is I don't want to be married any more and I know I don't want to be married. I love the family life and my kids but I am ... (236 words)

How can I finally let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - It's been 5 months and I still haven't let go. I feel totally pathetic that I have barely progressed in getting over my 2 year relationship. Granted after 3 months he started to woo me and get me to want to be with him again. And then at the 4 month break up mark when I was ... (171 words)

How else can I pleasure myself besides masturbation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - what are other ways i can pleasure myself besides masturbation?... (10 words)

She wants me to find the answer through God to see if we can make it work.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - We have known each other for 3 or so years (a little more). We have strong feelings for each other and we are having a really difficult time. We know alot of things about each other and well technically its getting to the point where i want to know how others have made it ... (793 words)

He went off at me for trying to help him... are apologies needed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My bestfriend and i got in an argument last night.... He was mad because he couldnt take a girl to the dance. So I told him he should make it up to her, he asked how...and i wasnt sure what to say but i did my best to help. I suggested he ask the cupids here=) Then he g... (163 words)

I allowed myself to get manipulated into a quick marriage so now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married to a man I hardly knew two year s ago after coming out of an abusive relationship. The attention from this man made me feel reassured and I feel that I allowed myself to be manipulated into a quick marriage also due to social pressures (from my church). However my ... (205 words)

Does she love me and what does the picture mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl who is a close friend of mine,she looks me in the eye,allows me to hold her hand,smiles at me,comes to visit me. I told her i liked her and wanted her to be my gf but she said she was not ready for a relationship. I asked her to give me her picture but she ... (85 words)

Does he feel guilty about the way he treated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

- I was with my ex for 2 months before he split with me for someone else back in august. I was in love with him so this was heartbreaking for me. 2 weeks later I find that Im pregnant by him. He didnt want to know and so I had an abortion as Im too young to have a child by myself ... (496 words)

What else can I do to try and get the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

7 December 2008 (F) age 51-59 - My man stopped looking at me, hugging me, stroking me, or wanting to do anything with me . I noticed he turns away when I'm naked. He seem to feel ashamed. I look good , well, good shape for and over my age.. I asked him why , he says , he doesn't know... Well I'm losin... (171 words)

I'm annoyed that she teases me in front of her husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi again,I am back.. in the last recent days;I have been dating my neighbour aunt,we had sex too..I manged to delete the picture from the phone.. now we have become close,but two days back her husband returned from a business tour.. now she avoids me,ignores me..what do I do?... (68 words)

How do I approach the subject of having an open relationship with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a guy in my early 30's and I've been with my boy friend for over 2 years, he is quite younger than me (24) I love him very much, I care for him and push him in his studies so all going well. The only thing is before meeting him I had a very active sex life, unlike som... (257 words)

Did he go to the club because he knew his ex would be there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been seeing a guy for about a month and a half now. but i had random concerns that he wasnt over his ex..they came from nowhere really but it just bothered me. i saw her out last night and text the guy saying id just seen her, then he turned up at the club. firstly, i dont ... (314 words)

She gave me a reward for rescuing her dog, but I feel so bad for taking it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. i rescued a lost dog the other day, and the woman gave me £9 for it, but i feel soooo bad for taking it now. its not alot to me but to some people its an awful lot, especially around the christmas period what do you all think i should do? give it to a charity or somet... (66 words)

A girlfriend would be too much!! How can I pleasure myself without one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - right now im doing 40hours a week at work, going to high school, and going to fire department and if i get a girlfriend i would be taking on too much so is there any other ways i can pleasure myself... (41 words)

Goodness he is my soul mate!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i know for a fact that i am completely in love with my best friend. He is so perfect for me its not even funny. but a few months ago he was dating my ex-best friend. i am not friends with her at all anymore, but i still would feel bad. plus my dad completely hates him!!! ... (107 words)

My mind is flooded by irrational thoughts and negativity, how can I ENJOY life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so i have been struck by panic attacks for quite a long time. i am 22. i cant control my thoughts and my mind is flooded by irrational thoughts and negativity. i got scared of life and fear has been ruling me every second followed by mood changes. sometimes my mood is good, ... (203 words)

After a drunk dial last night, I'm wondering if I should be worried.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so I'm wondering if I should be nervous about this or not. I've been going out with this girl for a bit over a month, and we're getting along ridiculously well. Anyways, yesterday she drunk dialed me and told me she had a couple things that were bothering her. ... (238 words)

I like B but feel guilty and start thinking about A, maybe because I haven't seen A lately? Who should I pick?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay Ladies and gentlemen i am in a bit of a predicament...I am 22 turning 23 female trying to settle in to a serious long-term relationship... I have been seeing this guys who is about my age and truly amazing and would love to spend the rest of my life with him. He has ever... (368 words)

Does my cyber friend has feelings for me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - We're 13 hours time difference apart on the Earth! 3 months ago I met a white man, (I am an Asian girl) thru internet - this is the 1st white man cyber friend I ever had. He was quickly attracted to my picture I posted on the net and we became friend. The reason he looked f... (349 words)

Wishing away the next 6 months until my ex gets back! HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling quite low at the moment as I am constantly thinking about my ex-boyfriend who has gone travelling for 6 months. Just before he went we started talking again after the split and actually got it on again. He has invited me to go and see him if I want to early next ... (304 words)

When I like a guy, I eventually get bored and irritated when he gets attached, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

7 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Okay i have a major prob, i don't quite see the prospect of dating anyone with the way am functioning. The prob is as follows : For eg. i like a guy..like him for max a month or something...then he starts to crush back..then wehave a good time, and then when he starts gettin... (124 words)

I'm soon to be married to a she-devil.

This question has 97 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I'm a 28 year old man from India. I'm an investment banker and about to be married to a lawyer in about 60 days time. In the last 150 days of our engagement, we have gottent to know each other a little, even confessed love. But at some level there are doubts i... (571 words)

How to break that wall he has against me since we broke up? I want to date him again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so I broke up with my boyfriend for about a month and 2 weeks ago (we'd been together for 20 months and most of the time we've been really happy). We go to the same school, so we see each other practically every day. I didn't really wanted to break up with him like i did, ... (776 words)

Ex dumped me for the mother of his child, we still have sex, does he want me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I need help over my ex bf he dumped me for his ex the mother of his child, anyway we are still having sex once or twice a week,talk on the phone everyday,i see him most days aswell, anyway for the past week hes invited my for a drink and friday we went for a very lon... (234 words)

The Ex Boyfriend is a stalker???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i need help. well a few years back i "whent out" with this guy, [i'll call him #6] we only whent out for like 2 months. well he broke up with me. over the phone. on a voicemail. that was 12 seconds long. i was so upset, he was the first guy to say i love you and he was ... (317 words)

Terrified of losing my virginity!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am a 13 year old girl and I'm terrified of losing my virginity. I know that losing your virginity is a big thing, and that it should all be out of love, but after reading something that can happen during it (pain, bleeding, etc) I realized that I was just terrified. ... (77 words)

Used for sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - During my holiday from England, I met this gay boy on the gay beach with his friends. He chatted me up and constantly complimented me on my appearance and made it quite obvious he wanted to have some fun with me. I wasn't too keen at first but fell for his charms and by the ... (394 words)

How can a beautiful girl become sexy, hot and appealing for guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys say "What a sexy and Hot girl" to some girls. My friends say that I am beautiful, have a good figure but I don't look sexy and hot. I have also seen, guys find my friend appealing who is not beautiful. I get a lot less attention. How can a beautiful girl become sexy, hot... (62 words)

Any weight loss suggestions would be appreciated... I'm desparate!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (?) age - I was going to send this annonymously, but thought about it and decided that I have nothing to be ashamed of. I also want people to be aware that I'm not a Know-it-all, and there are things I need help with too! I am in an LDR, I first met him in June, when I flew up to his a... (481 words)

Freaking out because of late period.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I may be freaking out over nothing here, but my period is about 4 days late and I'd really like some advice. Me and my boyfriend have had sex twice in the past month, both times we used a condom and they didnt appear to have split. A week or two ago we were also messing ... (135 words)

How to be/look hot? (As if that was possible...)

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but I'd like that the "beholder" liked me... it's a girl of the same age as I, we both have a lot in common despite she likes dark chocolate while my favourite is the white one. Anyway, we are friends, not since that much time, ... (174 words)

Anyone know any sexy one liners?

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone...:) My girlfriend and I of 9 months are quite happy and everything is a-ok. We like flirting alot, and its fun. Just wondering if anyone knows any reaaaally good one-liners or so to see if I can get her aroused or not, and no we don't want to have sex yet, lo... (82 words)

My girlfriend doesn't want to talk to me any more!

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I love my girlfriend too much, some time ago she also loved me but now she told me that she don't like me. Now she told me that she wants to live her own life, when I say ok she starts calling her old ex boyfrnd and she talks every day when I'm arguing that thing then ... (85 words)

I ejaculated inside, is there a chance of pregnancy if she takes the pill?

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Help! Me and my girlfriend always have sex without a condom but i pull out and although i know that isnt completely effective we both feel better that i do. but last night we both got caught up in sex that i ended up cuming inside her. She takes the pill the same time eve... (88 words)

Worried for my friend...

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya everyone I'm really posting this about my friend as I'm really worried about her (sorry this is long) Anyway basically she has the opertunity to go bk out with the father of her daughter he split with his gf to get bk with her, and everyone she nows loves him, he does eve... (420 words)

Is it too soon to get engaged at 17?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just wanted some advice on whether getting engaged at this age is too soon? As me and my BF have only been together 7 months but he is thinking of proposing to me! I want to say yes as I love him and want to be with him for the rest of my life. We are not going to get married ... (85 words)

I'm worried her affair is tit for tat, what can I do except for hoping she returns to me?

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7 December 2008 (M)

age - I had an affair last year told my wife and she gave me space to work it out, after two months the affair ended. Recently she told me she'd been having an affair after mine ended and is still seeing the man. She wants to sell our house and buy two so we can live apart. We have ... (259 words)

I'm increasingly resenting his cross-dressing, like he steals my femininity!

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, and have known from several weeks into our relationship that he liked to cross-dress. In the beginning this was something I totally accepted - I was honored that he trusted me, it was something we experimented with together, and ... (292 words)

Plans have been cancelled, and now he's mad at what my friend said!

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm hoping I can get some answers to this question considering this guy would be my first ever boyfriend. My boyfriend and I had been planning for a week and a half about him coming over to spend the weekend with me at my parent's house. (He lives three hours away.) I k... (453 words)

Should I leave her as I don't feel she wants to commit to me? (She has a boyfriend already)

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this girl for almost 2 years. We eventually fell in love and gotten personal but only in private because she still has a boyfriend. I wanna know if she truly loves me because she can't seem to leave her boyfriend in fear that I may leave her because I left a ... (177 words)

I haven't heard from her since her son deployed to Iraq, we're in a LDR, your advice?

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7 December 2008 (M)

age - Hi, I was recently reunited with a high school classmate of mine. She found out that I was pending divorce and contacted me. She was very direct and we have started a long-distance relationship (I'm working in Germany). We have made lots of plans. I just got done spending a ... (181 words)

I'm afraid to open up and love, fearing I'll end up hurt. How to change this?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm afraid to love someone, because I think they'll end up hurting me . And because I always think about what the bad things are about them. I really really really want to fall in love and open myself for other people. But everytime I close myself and I don't know how ... (172 words)

I cannot concentrate any more...need to get myself through this but I really don't know how to!

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I've got a really big problem. Things haven't really been going right for me the past few years. I went through a tough period of cutting myself, crying every day and becoming bulimic. I've kind of over that stuff now, although I do have relapses every so often. I hate the ... (297 words)

How can I even tell a guy that I've never done anything but kissing?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Haay, I'm nineteen and I've never been in love before. I have only kissed with a couple of guys before, but nothing more. But I really want to. Any tips for how to grow into this stuff. Cause I don't want to be clumsy when it all happens for the first time. Like giving a ha... (83 words)

Do I tell my boyfriend that I'm not a virgin anymore?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Do I tell my new boyfriend im not a virgin anymore? I told him that I am but I want us to be honest to each other. So what do I do now? Do I tell him i'm not a virgin or do I let him think that I still am? Im 17. He is 21. Im not planning on having sex with him. Just want ... (68 words)

Nothing will ever help... nothing!

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I see so many girls my age and younger then me with boyfreinds and i missed out all along the way because i was getting rejected by guys who had girlfreinds in the past and know how to get girlfreinds and kow how to kiss and know how to get what they want. Next year will ... (481 words)

Do people believe in Soul Mates?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I was wondering how many people believe in soul mates? I really think I've found mine... Here's why: - We seem to say exactly the same things at the same time and it could be something really random compared to what we were just talking about. The other week we both ... (245 words)

Have I already blown my chance with her?

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone,Im a guy of 23 and got chatting to a really great girl who is 18 via a dating site and we hit it off straight away. To keep this as short as possible. We met up and went on a couple of really fantastic dates and i felt we really hit it off. She admitted to me... (636 words)

How to prove I will never lie or cheat again as I found real love with her?

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hello, im having a problem with my girlfriend and its all my fault, since a year now that we started this relationship,i ve cheated on her and lied without knowing the reason why i did all this to her, though i lied because i dont want to lose her, now she has found out all ... (132 words)

I have no sex life with my husband because he's always tired, what to do?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Im feeling really down in my marriage. I have no sex life with my husband because he's always tired and i have lost the intimacy that i used to have with him, how do i get that back? i dont know if i still love him? I want to feel the way i did about him years ago....we have 3 ... (100 words)

Should I go on the pill? I don't know whether it is right for me...

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7 December 2008 (F)

- Me and my boyfriends have currently been going out for 6 months, we first had sex about 2 months ago (both virgins) and i really do love him. I made the mistake of telling my mum that we'd had sex and she said that condoms werent safe and i'd need other precautions. I've b... (180 words)

Why is she annoyed that I went out with a female friend? She does the same to me.

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been together just over 2 years. over thosses 2 years she has gone out with many male friends some has bothered me some hasnt. the other day i went out with a female friend and told her about it all. i went out with the same female friend a few days ... (88 words)

What do I do in case he has feelings left for the ex?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my boyfriend might leave me. I thought everything was ok between us, but I'm not sure if he's still in love with his ex. He says he loves me but why does he care so much about what happens to her. If he cares that much, then why isn't he with her? Me and him are so ... (84 words)

Got my period late, then missed it the next month, I'm worried!

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so ive been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, we were pregnant once before but lost it. so now i think i may be pregnant again because i feel the exact same way i did when i was first pregnant, but a little confused because i think i conceived sometime in late september ... (120 words)

My parents hate her, my friends hate her, but I love her... what do I do??

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok... here is the situation i have... I am completely in love with this girl i go to school with but i have dated her 6 times before in the past each one lasted about 5 months. Well we have been really good friends since we broke up about a year ago. But my Family and Friends ... (112 words)

It's so hard to get over her! What can I do?

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Broke up 3 months ago. It was my first real relationship, and it lasted a 1 1/2 years. I really loved her, did everything for her, and I found out for a few months prior to our breakup that she had 'fallen in love with someone else'. This was over the summer, we lived 20 miles ... (967 words)

My daughter is ill and I am afraid I will lose my new job if I take care of her! What do I do?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - There's a very strong possibilty my 11 yr old daughter is going to be too ill to go to school on monday, might have to take her to the docs, we have been up since 3am, i think she has this chest infection, temperature, fluey type thing going round. I managed to go in yesterday ... (338 words)

It is a true love with my student?

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi.. I am 24,working as computer lecturer in an institute. I am fallen in love with my student, age 17.. as well as she started to like me at initial stage.. she likes to have friendship with me. She and I talk over the phone and sends text messages... she felt me as a goo... (148 words)

I don't want to try group sex, why doesn't he take no for an answer??

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My man of 1 year has recently found a sudden interest in trying group sex. He says we would not join another couple physically, but rather, have sex in the same room as another couple (very close friends). I asked him why, and he responded "it would be hot to watch and be ... (72 words)

Is it terribly wrong to plan to vanish from my family?

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7 December 2008 (F) age - Is it terribly wrong to plan to vanish from my family? I can't see anything getting better with my husband, I don't know what is wrong, but he is depressed, he is not wanting any intimacy, he became a totally miserable asshole. He is like that long time ago now, and nothing... (208 words)

I met this man I love 25 years ago and I have had an ON and OFF relationship! Am I right for starting to end it?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age - Hi Im Frangi. I met the man i love 25 years ago. Recently we broke up again for the 50,000th time. He can be very difficult and closed about his emotions. I am open and like to communicate especially about our relationship. He says he's happy and never sees the 'problem... (240 words)

I'm afraid my past will bit me in the butt with this girl I like. She is best friends with one of my friends.

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've had a very bad relationship life. For many guys they tend to think I'm crazy because I've dated so many women. Reason I've done this is because after a break up I had with someone I cared for dearly, I searched comfort in dating and having sex with them. I got the ... (181 words)

Is he just hanging on to me as a possible insurance policy?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All. I have been friends with this guy for over 2 years now(he's 7 yrs older if that matters). we had a "mini relationship" for the first year then broke up because he doesn't want a relationship and i felt i was getting too attached emotionally to continue things without ... (332 words)

A best friend and I went from cuddling to carressing our naked bodies. Was that wrong?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so the other day i went to one of my best friends house. we were just hanging out, watching a movie in his room. his parents werent home though. we were just cuddling at first but then he started to caress me, and i didnt stop him. he started touching me all over, and i the ... (193 words)

I'm in a great relationship, but I have gone out with friends and ended up kissing a random guy! How do I stop myself?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi- So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years now and we have an amazing relationship. We get along great, we live together, we dont fight and he is everything I want in a man. However, two times during our relationship I have gone out with friends when ... (139 words)

Is Mountain Dew ACTUALLY killing my sperm count?!?

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Soo.. I've heard from alot of people that Mountain Dew may lower sperm count. I don't even know how the sperm count things works really. I been drinking Moutain Dew ever since it came out in production. I do want to be a father someday and I want to know if my over obsessive ... (164 words)

My girfriend hates her body, but I am ok with it and tell her what I feel about it. What can I do?

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7 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is sorta a heavy set lady. I don't have a problem with this at all, I love her with all my heart. But recently she has been saying how she hates her body and that she always has hated her body and nothing will change that. I have said everything I can think of ... (124 words)

According to the Zodiac, I'm a sex-crazed being that is bad in relationships and I am thinking it's true.

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is for all those people who like zodiac signs and their meannings. Okay i'm a sag-cap this is because i was born on the cusp so i'm both signs. When you read about people born on this day, It says were great at work, and what ever we set our minds to etc......but what ... (144 words)

I became a teacher out of desperation but now I found my calling in life. Is it too late for me?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - In my late teens, and throughout my twenties, I struggled to find my calling, or what I wanted to do with my life. I want so much more than just to have a job that I put up with. I want to be SOMEBODY, and to have hopes, and dreams... a place. I'm so scared that it's too late... (468 words)

Was engaged, he backed out, got another girl pregnant and know he wants back...What do I do?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay big question.....I love him I know I do that's not the question. We were engaged a year ago, He got Major cold feet, left, got another chick pregnant, now he wants back in. Says he made a huge mistake by leaving. Says that we are meant to be togther, that no one could ever ... (104 words)

How do I explain my attraction to him if they are only going to make fun of me?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this kid he is in seventh grade. I am in 8th. All my friends think he is ugly and way to short for me. I hate it. I met him at are local skating place. He was soo sweet ans i thought he was really cute!!! We couple skated and i thought we were really cute ... (133 words)

Is there a movie that portrays a much older man dating a younger woman?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there a movie that portrays a much older man dating a younger woman? With that Heather Locklear TV-movie "Flirting with 40" on tonight, I was curous if there is a movie that portrays the opposite of "40"; showing a much older man dating a younger woman.... (47 words)

Oh, shut up and kiss me!

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so here's the deal, me and this guy flirt ALOT, and people allways comment on that, and how they think somethings going on between us. But yea, I've really grown to have feelings for this guy, and I know he feels the same way, I've been out with hi before, but me b... (176 words)

He's below average in the looks department....

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bestfriend have been friends for many years. Over these years, he's always loved me in a way more than friends and has asked me on several occasions to be together with him. Over the years, he's really grown and matured and I find myself getting attracted to many of ... (197 words)

I'm jealous of his celebrity crushes!

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7 December 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I have a stupid problem. It's my own personal stupid problem, but it affects my relationship. I'm jealous of my boyfriend's celebrity crushes/porn. They're all these sexy women with gorgeous faces and bodies I'll never have. Like Monica Bellucci. God, is that woman gorgeous..... (283 words)

Should I be patient or should I leave him?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was hoping to get some advice on a very personal issue For the last year and a half I have been with my current boyfriend (K). Even though we started as good friends he initiated his interest and I completely fell for him. At the time I was with my ex (who I was with ... (436 words)

Will I regret losing my virginity to him?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin, but I have been fingered by my ex-boyfriend before and used toys. Anyway, I'm going to stay with a friend next weekend (who I really like) but he lives quite far away.. I'd be really tempted to have sex with him, I think I'd find it difficult not to, especial... (252 words)

Is this being strong or being stupid?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so recently I was dating a guy who I have been with off and off for a little over a year and we didnt talk over the whole thanksgiving break so I finally talked to him once I found out he got accepted into army/bootcamp sorta deal. After that things got a little rocky. He ... (271 words)

Any fans of Harry Potter?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - One of the questions that I answered on Dear Cupid just sparked my curiousity. I was wondering if any of the other aunts and uncles are fans of the Harry Potter series? Not everyone is a fan of course, but please humor me, because I'm curious. I am nearly finished with the... (159 words)

Should he attend his ex fiance's wedding?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend was invited to his ex-fiance's wedding should he attend? We both know she has feelings for him still.... (20 words)

Any ideas on what to get him for Christmas?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I get my boyfriend of 3 months for christmas?? Im about to be 15 and he just turned 16.. He loves sports but not jus any specific team I dont want to buy him the wrong thing.. What should I do??... (45 words)

Do you think I should experiment?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24, straight and I think i have a slight crush on another female colleague who is about my age and also straight. We work very closely together and we get along great, often having lunch together, sometimes just the two of us. I've found myself thinking about her more and ... (91 words)

Am I being self centered?

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7 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - On November 1st of last month it was my 19th birthday, and coincidentally, the day that my first, and current bf and I started dating. Now of course it's my first time doing all this lovey-dovey stuff and whatnot, and it seemed like I could be with him forever and ever ... (370 words)