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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I help my love realize that I'm all she needs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Hello. I'm new here and very desperate for my relationship to work. I have a girl and she's in college. We have been together for 4 years. Our relationship is a serious one as well. We even planned our future out together. I love her so much and she loves me the same. Rece... (125 words)

Love Sick Don't Know What To Do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi! I don't know what to do,I am so torn apart. I broke up with someone i love very much about 8 months ago and it has been hell since then. We are currently in contact, am not sure if he is still interested in me because I am crazy about him. Do i tell him how i feel or do i ... (97 words)

I'm too thin and flat chested. How can I make myself bigger?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey I'm a 17 year old girl and i have a great slim body pear shaped heaps of people tell me is beautiful and that they envy in most clothes in New Zealand sizes I'm a 6-8 and sometimes 10 I'm about 160cm tall and i weigh around 45 kg I'm naturally like this my pare... (343 words)

Flirting boyfriend tired of me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and 3 months. i feel like were falling apart. WE hardly text or talk anymore. He acts different towards me at times and is always flirting with this one girl. he says there just really good friends. i think hes getting tired of ... (75 words)

Fiance won't leave home to move in with me but will move in with his friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hiya, I have been with my Fiance for over 3 years now. We are very happy together and are planning an overseas wedding for 2010. We live in different cities and see each other every other week or so, and we have done since we were together. I am 18, and he is 27. He still lives ... (716 words)

I just don't know if being with my babys father is the right thing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i love the father of my child and i care bout him alot but we argue all the time and he rarely keeps his promises to me we break up and get back together all the time i sometimes think he cheats on me but i dont know for sure. i really really love him but i think the best thing ... (125 words)

Tired of hiding that I'm in love! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey everyone I am just wanting to know if any one can help me here I am bi but I am in love with my best m8s gf he knows this and he is cool with this and he know she liked me too. Me and her are seeing each other at the moment but the thing is we cant tell any one not are ... (273 words)

"Fiancee" troubles...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my fiencee have been together for 15 months. I call him he never answer phone most of the time. We use to spend alot of time together. I havnt seen him for 3 weeks i miss him and love him so much. It seems all he wants is sex. I no thats not all he want considering he ... (95 words)

What is locker room talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What is locker room talk, and why do guys say what say?... (12 words)

Should I worry about my friends new online fiancé?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Im a little worried about my friend. He's 16, met a 21y.o. girl on the internet....3weeks or so he asked her to marry him...she had said yes. Im worried cuz i dont want him getting hurt, y'know. Im happy hes happy, he always told me he'd never date...he found a special ... (70 words)

The boyfriend or my first love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hey, i have a boyfriend and we have been together for a month and a weekish. hes smitten with me, and ever since my first love that left my life is coming back gradually and im feeling for my first love because you do really feelings that never change and i still have a few ... (87 words)

Just found out my girlfriend had a child and put it up for adoption - now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I have been dating a girl in a long distance relationship for three months now. She just sent me a letter that told me how she got pregnant a couple of years ago with a jerk ex-boyfriend. She had the kid and gave it away in an open adoption. She still has contact with the ... (100 words)

My BF wants to have sex, but I'm scared that it will hurt too much!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - lately my bf (of almost a year) and i have been joking around about sex we usually do foreplay and we both orgasm. were both virgins and i think he wants to take the next step so do i but im afraid its gonna hurt to muchh!! he says he'll be gentle but... i heard it will still ... (102 words)

Seeing my wife with another man (3some) was hard enough, imagining her with another man solo is killing me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok my wife and I have been married for 13 years, we have had lots of trouble in the past, for the past two years she has hinted about wanting to sleep with another man. Now I have had my fair shares of adultry in our marriage but in all honesty I know this sounds stupid but she ... (424 words)

How do I make my boyfriend cum and moan more during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 302 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - me and my bf were virgins had sex it was amazing! but he didnt cum like at all and hardly made any noise apart from talking and moaning a bit while i did alot he said he thought he didnt cum because the condom was in the way and he was less sensitive with it but that he di... (151 words)

How can I give up on my dream of marriage and a family, and find happiness and fulfillment in singledom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) age 18-21 - Hello, this may seem as a strange question, but I'm giving up on relationships. Forever. The problem is I always had this fantasy of getting married and having children, but I think it'd be too difficult for me to mantain relationships. I'll just never be enough and that ... (416 words)

What does a DNA test have to do with having hepatitis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I went for hepatitis test about two months ago and was found positive. My doctor said another test will be carried on along with DNA test. I wonder what DNA has to do with this. Secondly my husband is proving difficult to go for the test this has scared me and for a two months ... (81 words)

Fiancee trouble!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My fiancee has been ignoring me and not calling me. I love him so much and want to be with him. I haven't seen him for 3 weeks. I don't know what to do I want to be with him. When I do se him it's like all he wants is sex and I want more than that. I want a relationship not ... (65 words)

Do you think I should give him another chance or do you think he'll just hurt me again???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my baby daddy for a year. We recently broke up. After a week of us breaking up he got new gf. They dated for a week and he broke up with her cuz he said he couldn't stop thinking about me. I love him and I want to be with him but I don't know if it's the ... (113 words)

He mentioned also that he's not ready for committment is this an impulse decision or he just didn't love me enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up twice already second break up just happen a week ago, theres a lot of things happen I got pregnant he was so happy and excited but then I lost the baby, he was still taking care of me he said he loves me but then later after my D and C he just changed. I ... (157 words)

Sister in law fantasy.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

9 December 2008 (M) age 26-29 - I fanitasize about making love to my sister in law. She is two years younger than me and she is also married. During sex with my wife, she is all I think about. I have seen her naked before, and I cannot erase that picture out of my mind. I flirt with her every time I see ... (249 words)

He is pushing me to see if I will reconcile with him because he might have cancer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My husband of two years and I are seperated and currently living in two different countries (he is military) He thought he was having a midlife crisis and no longer wanted to be married, so I finally left and came back to the States after enduring months of abusive and cruel ... (165 words)

Sexy christmas gift ideas needed for my wife for Christmas.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Help, I need a gift Idea for my wife for Christmas, any sexy ideas? ... (16 words)

He confessed he likes me but has a girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND/LIVE IN PARTNER! I met someone about 5 months ago now, I am 28 and he is 40. We have been working together for a while and we really get along, always laughing and on the same wave length. The problem is he is very flirty towards me, always touching ... (367 words)

He lead me on, and now 1 year later, is doing it to my innocent friend.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok well, 2 years ago, i met this boy (lets call him bill) at a rockclimbng camping trip and as soon as i saw him, i fell in love with him! i would always look at him and think of him allday, for the whole 4 days we were on the trip. i thought he liked me to, so i started to ... (427 words)

I've caught my wife secretly wearing my clothing.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've caught my wife secretly wearing my clothing. At first she denied she had been doing it. When I pressed her and told her I saw her through the crack in the door of the bedroom she spat in my face. Now she openly wears my clothes around the house. I've asked her to stop it ... (65 words)

I wanted to ask her out but it was too awkward with her friends around.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - Ok, I've liked this girl for a while now, and I always kinda knew she liked me, but I wasn't sure. So today I found out for sure that she likes me. Today I went on a field trip and one of her friends wanted me to make a move. I usually don't make a move on a girl until I get to ... (180 words)

I think it's wierd that he still lives at home at the age of 27

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

What is the secret that guys have of making girls fall in love with them???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I was just wondering could a male reader tell me? The guys I like or fancy boast about there so called girlfreinds to me all the time. I don't know why, it's like I want to know because I don't so why do they do it to me it's so annoying and talking to me as if I was a ma... (385 words)

Is our sex illegal and considered rape? Also, could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we didnt use any kind of protection. We are in a bit of a rut because he is 21 and I am 17. He left the decision to me about if we should or not, so can the law still call it a form of rape? It was consensual. Plus, I have ... (133 words)

How do I talk dirty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - He wants me to talk dirty ? but how and what do i say ? ive read many articles on this to say what you feel but i dont know if thats the right thing to say !!! so how do i talk dirty ? xxx... (50 words)

How can I give this girl a Christmas card without seeming creepy?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - There's this extremely shy, beautiful and smart girl (we'll call her Pamela) that I've adored for some time now. Since it's almost Christmas time, I have thought of giving her a simple card, but I get a bad feeling that she may not like me back, and if I were to give her the ... (143 words)

Does he want to get caught so that he can get out of this marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married for 12 years. In the last year my husband and I have been going through hard times. I told him in Feb after a trainful of resentment and frustration over his lack of communication and lies that I wanted to seperate. That was very hard for me, I told him I ... (523 words)

I felt really uncomfortable naked and I don't know if it was the right thing to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I has sex with my boyfriend the other day and well i undressed for him but i didnt feel exactly comfortable with myself ... i am happy with my body its just not my private areas ive undressed down to my underwear many times but it felt completely wrong stark naked. It wasnt my... (81 words)

What do I do about my friend who's butting in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, Im vicky, i'm 15 and just got out of a relationship with this guy james. I was with him fro 2 years and i was extremely in love. We split up over him cheating. He came round to get his stuff a week ago, i gave him a christmas card and he ripped it up and chucked it at me. I ... (199 words)

Am I alone or lonely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - For years I've pondered what the differences between the two really are. And I cant seem to figure out which one I fall under here. So far being lonely means, to me (or Ive researched) being sad that your alone. Not having confidence in yourself, basically you have no frie... (277 words)

What can I do to make him stop this? It's freaking me out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi i was wondering if you can help me, I'm in a relationship have been for seven months, and I have this ex (it was a very young relationship) and he is still "in love with me" after 5 years (strange to me but anyway), is it normal for a person to text 70 times in a day and a ... (94 words)

Does anyone else get this emotional over animals?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Evening, i want know if any one else gets this emotional. I am an animal lover and have pets and love them to pieces and they are look after and loved. What upsets me is when i see things on tv where animals have been treated badly and abandoned. For example this summ... (167 words)

Do I want a relationship or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (F) - I'm 17 and in the past year I've had five very big chances to be in a relationship, however I've taken none of them. Only recently I've been attracted to a boy who's flirted with me back and it's been fun - however when I found out that he actually liked me, that completely put ... (152 words)

I have ulcers and sores in my mouth after cheating on my husband. Is this an STD?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can anyone help me I am worried sick, I have cheated on husband for a few months now, I have only given the other man oral, he is married too and says he has never had an affair before, but over the last number of weeks I have started getting ulcers and sores in around my ... (171 words)

Why do guys boast to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i was just woundering could male reader tell me why guys boost about there so called girlfreinds to me all the time.i don,t know why ,its like i want to know because i don,t so why do they do it to me its so annoying,and talking to me as if i was a male freind they DON,T s... (109 words)

How can I change things when I don't feel wanted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 348 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Ive been with my bf for nearly 3 years. We broke up for 5 months about 3 months ago and he slept with another girl. I thought things would get better becuase he started to treat me better and tried to make up for what he did. Well I think I was proven wrong. Recently I... (405 words)

How can I convince myself he's not cheating or should I just end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - help sum1 plz i dont know what to do i wrote to you the other day about my partner cheating on me with who was ment to be his ex but wasnt and theyve been together for 7 years never broke up yet he was seeing me at the same time and living together it feels so right like were ... (221 words)

Is there any way you can get pregnate after unprotected sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - is there anyway you can get pregnate after you have unpretected sex, when you get your period 2 days later? Because a nurse told me that anything that would have went inside me would comeout with the flow of my period. and when you get your period that means your not, rig... (59 words)

I love someone who hates me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - i love someone who hates me. i met her six months back. ironically she is one of the best friends of my best friend. she was in a relationship at that point of time. but she was not happy with the way her realtion was going. she would tell me that she loves the guy but and ... (299 words)

Is 12 sexual partners considered slutty?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 170 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I've just starting going out with a great girl, we are both 22, but recently found out that she has had 12 sexual partners, I didn't take the news well, she has only had 1 one night stand in her past but I am still concerned that she sounds slutty or is it me being a silly?... (57 words)

Is my boyfriend hooked on his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my dream guy that i've loved for 5 years for 8 monthes now. he has an ex of 2 and a half years and it seems like he's still hooked on her. she sent him through the court system and now she's trying to wreck us. he always tells me he loves me and not her, and i ... (234 words)

Non shallow guy...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I know this sounds like a stupid question - would you fancy an ugly looking girl with a weight problem? It's just a question. Any male readers could give me an idea because I am a shallow person. Is there such a thing as a non-shallow guy? Is that just fairytale .... (56 words)

I've been crying my eyes out because I can't think of any other way to get him out of my head. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - So basically.. my boyfriend (now my ex) and I broke up a couple weeks ago. We both decided it would be best for us to let things go, and accept the fact that we shouldn't be together. We were together for about 3 years, and during the middle of our 2nd year, things just went ... (617 words)

I feel like he's cheating or possibly does not want a relationship any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 22 years old and I have recently started a new relationship with a 25 year old guy. We have been dating for five months now, and the relationship is starting to change to the point where I am starting to question staying with him. I vowed that I would never again date a ... (192 words)

The big question - Do I still love my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey. Just needed some advice as I'm going through a break with my bf (which I initiated). I suggesetd this as I need some space from him (he has been abit smothering lately) and also because Im having doubts about whether i still love him anymore. Surely if I did i wouldnt be ... (151 words)

Thick, pasty discharge and swollen vagina - I'm doing a pap smear, should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't know what's wrong with my genitals! I have an extremely thick, pasty discharge, also my vagina is incredibly swollen! I have had swabs done many times, everytimes they come back clear except for BV and thursh and everytime I get treated for them, but it doesn't... (148 words)

My girlfriend acts snobbishly since she got the leading role in the school play!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (?) age 13-15 - My girlfriend (of a year) got in the school play and got the lead. Don't get wrong me I'm really happy for her and she did work really hard for it. But she's acting like a total snob (thats just a nice way to put it) ever since she got the part. She been bossing me aroun... (98 words)

What to get my 22-year-old girlfriend for Christmas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - christmas is coming, and i can't think of what to get my girlfriend. we have been dating for fifteen months, we are 22 years old, and we live together. i have done a great job with gifts in the past, for last christmas, valentine's day, her birthday, our one year anniversary... (127 words)

Define flirting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - What is flirting? I am 16 and have a 15 year old gf. She spends most of her waking hours calling me on the phone and at school devotes as much time to being with me as possible. But there are some things that bother me. For instance about two weeks after we started going out ... (222 words)

I doubt whether I still love my boyfriend or not, which hurts...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey. Just needed some advice as Im going through a break with my bf (which I initiated). I suggesetd this as I need some space from him (he has been abit smothering lately) and also because Im having doubts about whether i still love him anymore. Surely if I did i wouldnt be ... (151 words)

Fiance comes as a package! Not sure I want it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I (35y) and my boyfriend (45) are together for 3 years (2 y we live together). He got divorced 6 years ago and has six children with his ex. The marriage took place about 20years ago. She (ex) threw him out of the flat (all of a sudden) and wanted the divorce. After that, he ... (335 words)

Does he want a threesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 349 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my fiance asked if i had a helper foe sex. does that mean he wants a threesome?... (17 words)

Do women like swallowing? My girl says I don't taste good!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Was chatting to my fairly new partner today, and got onto the topic of oral sex. Our sex life is good, with lots of oral sex as part of it. Ive always assumed she enjoys giving almost as much as receiving, when we see each other (fri to sunday as its a distance relatio... (204 words)

I had unprotected sex and now I'm freaked out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - This weekend my bf and I were fooling around and I got real horny so I let him put it in me without a condom but just for a minute or so. Then he pulled out and I gave him oral until he came. I know nothing got in me and it was only for a short time, but I'm still kinda ... (127 words)

Distant lover says I'm crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a relationship for 6 years and don't feel like he loves me anymore. He's very distant and never pays any attention to me. He sleeps with me only when he wants to and says I'm losing my head, when i tell him i feel used! I don't know what to do anymore. Is he losing i... (68 words)

I'm married to a swinging liar!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Last year i found out that my partner of 6 years had been cheating on me with swingers all through our relationship, he started meeting these people a few months after we got together. When I found out he denied it, he even swore on his young sons life that he'd never cheated ... (259 words)

How will I know if I'm pregnant using injection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hey all.. im 19, with my boyfriend on 15 months and i am on the contraceptive injection. I've been on it about 8 months now. Recently i have been thinking. I know it's only like a 3% chance you can, but how do you know if you fall pregnant while on this injection, as y... (98 words)

Do I try to get back after she cheated because she makes me happy or walk away and be unhappy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi Everybody, I am in a mess and some advice would hopefully be a massive help. I started seeing a girl at work 7 months ago, this girl is without doubt the love of my life, she is funny, beautiful and i love spending all of my time with her, things got off on the wrong foo... (338 words)

How do I get over him after he said he will wait for me but dated another girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - hello, im sorry but this will be long and hard to understand. im having trouble getting over this boy. we didnt actually date we just had a few hot moments but only ever had foreplay, when i told him i wouldn't have sex untill i was over 16 he said he would wait and i felt he ... (129 words)

What should I do if I feel my life is worth nothing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I feel i dont want or have anything in life no more and i just want out. Sorry this may be long. Well at 6 years i was druged and raped nothing was done about it at 8 years my mum threatened to beat me if i mentioned her cheating on my dad and on several occasions did beat up ... (173 words)

Moody boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and recently he has been getting really stressy with me even when I don't do anything, is he going off me? ... (30 words)

He goes quiet when we argue. Should I just leave him alone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 338 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have an extremely stubborn boyfriend, if we argue he will simply go quiet on me and im the one who has to build bridges, he says sorry very rarely and frankly it is starting to get to me. He once said to me that he will walk away from an argument and the best thing to do... (229 words)

I'm still kicking myself about missing work due to sick kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 350 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Not a relationship probelm I know, but I'm so annoyed with myself right now. I rang work yetserday to say I wont be in as the kids have this virus going about. She said thats fine and the office didn't need to know cuz I can make the day up this week (i only work 3 days a week ... (322 words)

Why are men so confusing???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 351 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok yesterdsay, i recevied the long arriving laptop which was for my bf( now ex bf) but i still gave it to him, as he didnt no how to set it up he asked me round after we had finished setting it up i said do u want me to go and he said no, anyway we are still really good mates ... (271 words)

Have I scared her off for good having disclosed my feelings to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 351 days ago

9 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I was just wondering whether, after initially rejecting a guy's advances, a woman has then gone on to see him in a 'new light' and then decided to eventually take him up on his offer. So basically my question is, if a man asks a woman out and is then rejected, if he then ... (293 words)

Periods back 5 weeks after having baby - normal?!?!?!

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Heya, well I had my baby 5 weeks ago (through cersearian, I'm breast feeding him - I was told that when breast feeding it takes *at least* a few months for your periods to come back... usuaully takes around 6 months... But this morning I got up and I'd come on... it is ... (69 words)

Need legal advice!

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a felony for cashing fraud checks. It's my first and only offense. I've been sentenced to 5 years of probation. I have only 5 months left. I was told that I can get it expunged. How would I be able to go about that? Also... the main thing they wanted me to do is pay ... (87 words)

What does he really want?

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've had this Friend with benefits thing with a guy for almost 4 months and I'm confused by what he really wants. I'm a single, never married 29 yr old mother to one 4 yr old. He's 33 yr old recently divorced father of 3 young kids (ages 1, 4 and 7). We met while both b... (265 words)

I love him but...........

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend was just sitting at home one night. He was texting his friend and asked him to send him a picture of a naked girl that he had already glanced at because his friend was talking to her. He sent it to him and he saved it to his phone! My boyfriend doesn't understa... (159 words)

Is there a way for me to show her that I am in real love with her?

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - I'm 14 years old, and there's this girl I've known since kindergarten. Everyone found out I had a crush on her in the 3rd grade including her. My 8th grade year was my first school year without her, so I tried to shake my crush. However, after a few dreams that seemed simple ... (170 words)

Can you take zanax while pregnant or muscle relaxers?

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you take zanax while pregnant or muscle relaxers? I haven't talked to my doctor and can't until my next appointment on Friday January 4th and I have them from before I was pregnant, I've had some spells with being around too many people and need my zanax but didn't take it ... (116 words)

Soul mates... or being played?

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I met my boyfriend online about a month ago. We are so into each other we are already talking about getting married! There is a problem though, my boyfriend is the ex roomate of my ex boyfriend he says it was just a coinsidence but I had my doubts at first and it still... (77 words)

Is he gay... or just lying?

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - So I have this friend who I'm really close with, but every now and then we hook up when we're really drunk, like REALLY drunk. and most of the time it's just me doing everything, and sometimes he even pushes me off, but i can't help myself so i keep going, and we have talked ... (175 words)

Am I a hopeless loser?

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9 December 2008 (?) age 16-17 - I have a disability that makes me have trouble reading and talking clearly. I have issues reading to the class like have problems saying a super easy word that my classmates can get. Usually the teacher has to correct me and everyone will be laughing at me which will make me ... (114 words)

We only have alone time at school, when our friends butt in. Any ideas?

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - My best friend has a massive chrush on my boyfriend, at first we all had a chrush on him, but he chose me. My mum is strict about dating so the only oppurtunity for us to have alone time is at school. But when we try to be alone she's always there butting in. And I tell her to ... (73 words)

Instead of masturbation, what are other ways I can pleasure myself sexually?

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Instead of masturbation, what are other ways I can pleasure myself sexually?... (12 words)

She wants me then she doesn't! Why does she keep doing this?

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9 December 2008 (?) age 13-15 - I'm 14 and I have a girlfriend, we've been going out for a long time and we were at the movies so we made out. But whenever we started making out, within seconds she would push me off and turn away like she didn't want to any more. Then a couple minutes later she would pull me ... (86 words)

How can I express myself without freaking her out?

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I have always been able to play "the game." I know how to talk to girls, and succeed to get the second date leading to the kiss. I've gotten cocky through the years due to my lack of failure with women. Not too long ago did I meet a young lady in my ROTC (reserved officers... (265 words)

Does she still want to be with me or is it pretty much over?

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my wife have been married for 2 and a half years and due to the fact that I had alcohol problems in the past (been sober for 2 years) got 3 owis and currently dont have a license and am busy paying for fines. Financially times are hard and we are living with my parents. ... (227 words)

As a 9th grader do you think that I should be nervous to reveal myself or I should feel normal.

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi, I'm 14, and in a serious relationship that I think may become sexual with this girl. However my penis is only 5 inches and I am not very hairy there yet? As a 9th grader do you think that I should be nervous to reveal myself or I should feel normal. Thanks!... (56 words)

Did it bother her that I spoke to her boyfriend and not her?

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was dating this girl from work and I fell in love with her... I realized later that she had used me as a rebound guy.... I completely stopped talking to her and I've noticed that it bothered her.. at this point I still can't seem to talk to her... as much as she attempted to ... (158 words)

I want to marry her after college!

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi I am 24. I am studying professional course. One year back I was a computer lecturer. During that time, one girl age 17, started to love me sincerely... I like her also..We understand each other... And asked her "Will you marry me? after you finish college?". She said "Ok... (210 words)

The girlfriend complains a lot about her friend yet they still go out together, should the boyfriend have a say in this?

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - What do you think? A girlfriend (lets call her Tracy) tells her boyfriend (lets call him Mike) about her old friend (lets call her Cat) on how Cat hasn't treated her right many times. There have been occasions where Cat asked Tracy for her help at events and borrowing som... (536 words)

I always do chores in his stead while he lazes around, could you help me?

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My fiancee and I are so in love but it seems like i'm always gotta tell him what to do, for an example: change his son's diaper, fix him breakfast, take him a shower, all that stuff and then he even asks what do he do to get our son to sit down and eat or to get away from the ... (405 words)

My rational side tells me to run away from my married boss, but my emotions say something else!

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i am 18 years old and i am absolutly head over heels in love with my 30 year old boss, and yes, the feeling is mutual. the problem is he is married with two young children. now, the rational side of me is telling me to run away from this as fast as i can. but my emotio... (103 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to believe in god?

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i have an amazing bf weve been together for like 8 months were both 17 im christian and hes not he knows i want to try and get him to believe in god like me we had a argument recently about believing in god and not believing in god to him it was just a silly argum... (198 words)

I need help to decipher this Tarot card!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - By no means do I blindly put my faith into anything. So when I was introduced to Tarot cards for the 1st time I was hesitant. Over the summer I went to stay with my uncle in the states. After a day @ the beach my uncle decided to surprise me by taking me to this almost fortunet... (449 words)

Is there any way to get him to like her?

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - okay so heres the thing my best guy friend who i have known sence first grade likes me a lot like tells me he loves me every chance he gets which is okay but one of my besties likes him too but sence i got the last guy that liked us both she wants this one.... which is fine by ... (96 words)

He's a closed book in the bedroom!

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - my husband is a closed book when it comes to the bedroom. i try to get him to open up and he doesnt. our sex life is becoming so repetitive that i am getting bored. he also doesnt last long and i have been finding myself needing more. he is also not romantic and doesnt care ... (71 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to be more keen on me??

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - have a awesome bf of about 10 months and am so keen on him but.. he doesnt seem to be as into me as i am into him and i want him to be i want him to give me more attention like the attention i give him! i want him to try and impress me the way i try impress him! ... (95 words)

My wife is an automechanic and it's embarrassing!

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9 December 2008 (?) age 18-21 - My wife is an auto mechanic and she also fixes everything around the house. It's kind of embarrassing because my friends always tease me about it. Like once we when on a rode trip with our friends and the car broke down. My wife repair it on 30 minutes or so. My friends fun... (84 words)

What are the chances this relationship will turn into marriage??

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My friend is 14 and her boyfriend is 19. what are the chances that they will continue dating/have feelings for each other long enough to get married (at the earliest when she turns 18)? They have been dating about a year if that matters. ... (44 words)

My BF checks out other girls and I think that he's into my friend. Help!

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i have a great gorgeous bf who says he loves me and tells me im beautiful all the time and has never ever insulted me and weve been together for like a year but one thing i dont like about him is that when we go out and thats not that often he checks out other girls.. ... (362 words)

In love with my best friend and a long distance older guy...

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok so this guy i have been talking to is wonderful. But he lives an hour away!!! He is so sweet, no joke. He is great at soccer, and school. He is still a virgin (very good) and he is a Junior. but i am a freshman! which means my dad wont approve. but i also cant get over my ... (80 words)

How tall will I be and will my feet match my height??

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9 December 2008 (?) age 13-15 - well ok im 14 going to be 15 in 2 months, im 5'7 i wear a size 13 (u.s.a) shoe!!! I always had kinda large feet but they fit me well. now they look like water ski's, because my feet have grown five-six sizes in the 3 years. but i have grown 3 1/2 inches in the past 16 months. ... (98 words)

Long distances relationships, can they really work?

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So do they really work? I mean think about it. To have a good relationship where you might see each other once a week, or maybe once a month, can it work? Depends on how faithful each of the people are. But if you have two people leading separate lives about 300 miles ... (69 words)

Why are white men always falling for white women and not me, the Puerto Rican?

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello dear cupiders, I am puerto rican. shoulder length cruley brown hair/ very tan skin/ reg. brown eyes/ short/ I believe I'm attractive I give myself a 7 1/2 out of 10. I am attracted primary to 'white' men. (Not that I'm racist or anything! Its just what I'm attracted ... (262 words)

Am I just the other person standing in the way?

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend are opposite ends of the spectrum. He's outgoing, loves to socialize, has tons of friends, loves sports and is generally a very happy, energetic and fun person. I, on the other hand, have the typical introverted personality type. I dread going to social ... (450 words)

What does he mean by "I need a break for now"?

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I am the nicest girl, you will ever meet. But I have a weakness for the men that hurt me the most. There is a guy that I have been talking to, and I like him. He hasn't called me for a week and he texted me to tell me he needs a break, but he didn't give me a reason, and I do... (136 words)

Am I cheating a young girl? Should I look for an older woman?

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 48 and I fall in love with an 18 year old. I dont know how, but I cant live without her. Am I cheating a young girl? Should I look for a older woman only to get out of my deep emptiness in my life. But I dont find or I dont like any of the older women so far. What is my ... (88 words)

Should I/how do I break up with a guy I'm just not compatible with?

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I just started going out with my first boyfriend. He's nice enough but on the third date I realized 1)I don't find him attractive 2)we don't have important interests, life views, or goals, in common. He's completely different from me in terms of intellect and focus and... (153 words)

Is it bad that my girl orgasms a little too fast?

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Everytime but once if me and my girl have sex, she orgasms before I do. I know this is something to be happy about but her area I'm guessing, gets too sensitive to continue and like a guys does, needs a break. Could take her a few short minutes to orgasm, about 8 minutes maybe ... (168 words)

I love my girlfriend but I think I love her sister too.

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over two years. We are madly in love and I care for her deeply. She has a younger sister that is very close to her. By close, I mean, very close. They slept in the same bed for twenty years and call each other all the time. I've ... (244 words)

How do I stop my crazy ex-girlfriend?

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - So I have been dating my current girlfriend now for almost 10 months, and i really think i love her, but my crazy ex girlfriend who just likes to mess with guys and stuff keeps making up these awful rumors about me, and she tells them to my girlfriend. I've tried everything to ... (67 words)

Do you still bleed after sex even if you've used tampons?

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - Do you still bleed the first time you have sex even though you have used tampons before?... (17 words)

How can I learn how to dance?

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9 December 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I really want to learn how to dance, like to techno and stuff, I love techno music and i've been watching videos on youtube and stuff trying to figure it out and i can't seem to grasp it......any suggestions?... (39 words)

I'm having an affair but I don't want to hurt anybody or ruin anything. Help!

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been having an affair with one of my collegues for over a year now. He has since proceeded with his divorce and it will be final at the end of the month. I have not even filed. My husband and i were only married 4 mos before i began this affair. i know its wrong, very ... (152 words)

My fiance is putting me down!! Suggestions, please!

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I have a problem with my fiance. Lately we have been fighting, ALL THE TIME. I know it start fights sometimes, but it is because I have so much stress with college, work, family, etc. I know it is not right to take it out on him, however, he takes it overboard and can ... (174 words)

How do I get over this obsession?

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9 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - well, i was reading another question like this and i noticed another answerer has the same problem as me, although probably not quite as bad. well anyways, i am OBSESSED with Elwood Blues. i think hes just, well.. perfect! and i cant get over it. i spend all my time wishin... (90 words)