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*ecca24
writes:Alright me and my ex boyfriend who broke up 2 yrs ago,we are still in contact.I am still sleeping with him,and Have been for 4 months now.He has told me he still loves me and wants me back.But the had a baby with his exgirlfriend 2 weeks ago.I am so afraid of getting hurt.I am not sure if I am getting used.Everytime we see each other we are all over each other.The big part is he is living with his ex.He is 29,and she is 22...what is going on?.I need some advice...Please Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): I've been in a similar position and found out was being used. he wanted his cake and to eat it as well get shut of him
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (6 December 2008):
 He sounds like a right catch hun
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): Have a bit of dignity for yourself. This guy is having his cake and eat it. Stop sleeping with him as from now and give him chance to sort out what he wants. Is is the kind of guy you want in your life, someone who cheats, especially at a time when he should be taking his responsibilities seriously??? If he can do it to his girlfriend he can do it to you. He is childish and irresponsible. If you both really do love each other then stop this now, give him time to sort out what he wants, and if he wants you he will come to you, not have both of you on the go at the same time. So long as he takes fatherhood seriously . At the moment you're looking like a mug... show him the door and find someone who is free all for your lovely self!xx
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reader, petina1 +, writes (6 December 2008):
 To be blunt, he is using you and probably for sex. If his girlfriend has been pregnant recently she may not have felt like sex so he's turned to you. He is having his cake and eating it. You must tell him not to come around unless he has finished with his girlfriend. To be honest he needs to be looking after his new child and supporting the mother now. He is a player and you need to wake up to this as you will get hurt. Both of you women are getting used, the only thing is , you can do something about it and she doesnt know so she can't. hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): Sounds like just a sexual attraction to me! You say you are afraid of getting hurt, but what about his girlfriend and their new-born????
It may not be the easiest thing to do, but tell him to go back to his family and make that work! She just gave birth after being pregnant for 9 months. And now there's an infant to care for. I'm sure sex isn't at the top of her priority list. And you say four months this is been going on??? That sounds about right...just about the time a pregnant woman stops having sex! Yes, I would say he is using you for his sexual needs, and he probably is having second thoughts about all the new responsibility on him! Is that the kind of guy you are looking for? I strongly believe that if a guy will cheat With You, He WILL Cheat On YOU!
I urge you to look passed the "amazing sex" and take a look at the repricussions of the situation...and above all this innocent little baby!
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